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You want an actual answer... here it is, at least based on my own experience/understanding:
Beastmode and hitting up lots of sets = best way to get laid on a particular night (and also the best way to get laid QUICKLY)
Patient Persistence = best way to get laid on ONE PARTICULAR SET
SO... it really depends what you are after. And if you can screen well... which ALEX CAN... he can be patiently persistent once he finds a set that has a high probability. Until then he's being social and sifting through sets to find what he wants.
Whoa. Good fucking answer. Beastmode and hitting up lots of sets = best way to get laid on a particular night (and also the best way to get laid QUICKLY)
Patient Persistence = best way to get laid on ONE PARTICULAR SET
SO... it really depends what you are after. And if you can screen well... which ALEX CAN... he can be patiently persistent once he finds a set that has a high probability. Until then he's being social and sifting through sets to find what he wants.
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I'm not here to defend Alex, but I met some of his alumni and they kick ass. Alex's approach may seem as if it will take longer to make the pull, but I've seem fast pulls from that style considering that you can get 2 or even 3 girls in the same night in a place like Vegas.
What he is trying to do is to make you understand a deeper mindset, the non-neediness.
If you are going to the club with the idea that you want to pull really fast, it is more common than not that you will develop hardcore outcome dependence, and may not even pull at all; while if you go with the idea that you are not in a hurry and that you can actually enjoy time without needing validation from girls, then it's more likely that you will get laid FASTER because that's the sort of guy girls want, a guy that is not there just to suck value from them because he has value already, which is shown through his internal state (truly chill and relaxed, aka with high self-esteem).
Either way, what Alex talks about is more internal than external, you can do all the crazy stuff you want while still maintaing that inner self of being enough and not wanting anything from the girl. You can even take your dick out in the first 45 seconds of the interaction and it will be fine (field tested in XS), but is going to come from a place highly calibrated as opposed of just insulting tasteless vulgar behaviour. Keep in mind that if you are relative NEW to this stuff, DO NOT even think of trying shit like that, instead just focus in actually learning to have a normal conversation with a girl.
Nevertheless beastmode rocks, that's how I got master pro results myself while still being a complete newbie, plus it's a good eye opener and a preview for your brain to see what is possible to accomplish in a more consistent way if you keep doing this stuff for a while.
What he is trying to do is to make you understand a deeper mindset, the non-neediness.
If you are going to the club with the idea that you want to pull really fast, it is more common than not that you will develop hardcore outcome dependence, and may not even pull at all; while if you go with the idea that you are not in a hurry and that you can actually enjoy time without needing validation from girls, then it's more likely that you will get laid FASTER because that's the sort of guy girls want, a guy that is not there just to suck value from them because he has value already, which is shown through his internal state (truly chill and relaxed, aka with high self-esteem).
Either way, what Alex talks about is more internal than external, you can do all the crazy stuff you want while still maintaing that inner self of being enough and not wanting anything from the girl. You can even take your dick out in the first 45 seconds of the interaction and it will be fine (field tested in XS), but is going to come from a place highly calibrated as opposed of just insulting tasteless vulgar behaviour. Keep in mind that if you are relative NEW to this stuff, DO NOT even think of trying shit like that, instead just focus in actually learning to have a normal conversation with a girl.
Nevertheless beastmode rocks, that's how I got master pro results myself while still being a complete newbie, plus it's a good eye opener and a preview for your brain to see what is possible to accomplish in a more consistent way if you keep doing this stuff for a while.
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I don't think Alex says wait super long. He just says don't be afraid of it.

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Beastmode and hitting up lots of sets = best way to get laid on a particular night (and also the best way to get laid QUICKLY)
Patient Persistence = best way to get laid on ONE PARTICULAR SET
SO... it really depends what you are after. And if you can screen well... which ALEX CAN... he can be patiently persistent once he finds a set that has a high probability. Until then he's being social and sifting through sets to find what he wants.
Force yourself to do what's right. You'll thank yourself in the morning.
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