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Only happy when partying, Hate everyday life, Love mental masturbation hahaha
your pain comes from your "should" from your resistance to what is. Of course doing the dishes and stuff aren't as highly stimulating as paryting. Enjoy your partying. So you're not perfectly happy 100% of time everyday. You're not always gonna have a blast doing househould chores.... Just start small; try find an additional 1% enjoyment out of one chore. That is, just feel 1% happier while you do it. That's it. Try that. Happiness comes in waves. Don't get too down on yourself for not being perfect! Try what RSD Tim does; improve your vocabulary---come up with names for stuff--like the _____ of Excellence and the _______ of Glory. Realize that your dirty dishes are really the dishes that hold the food that feeds a pimp. Brad has an article out, one of his most recent articles, about how everything does, he does with purpose and executes it with excellence. Accept where you're at and know that it's only gonna get better from here. Realize that you can laugh for no reason whatsoever while doing your tasks. You enjoy things more when you kick ass at them, by the way.
So you've gotten good at partying and feeling good when you go out. You have built a method of consistently feeling positive anticipation for your nights out...... you're right - what a great reason to feel bad. Do you see what your mind has created? It is trying to find reasons for you to feel bad. You have accomplished social mastery, to some degree--and now BOOM your mind comes up with a new way to feel bad. lol
take it easy!
So you've gotten good at partying and feeling good when you go out. You have built a method of consistently feeling positive anticipation for your nights out...... you're right - what a great reason to feel bad. Do you see what your mind has created? It is trying to find reasons for you to feel bad. You have accomplished social mastery, to some degree--and now BOOM your mind comes up with a new way to feel bad. lol
take it easy!
"Realize that your dirty dishes are really the dishes that hold the food that feeds a pimp"
lmao, I love this.
You're right, my mind is thinking of new ways to feel bad. Need more awareness of my thoughts, ill be working on it, cheers.
lmao, I love this.
You're right, my mind is thinking of new ways to feel bad. Need more awareness of my thoughts, ill be working on it, cheers.
Jmate
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Join Date: 04/13/2012 | Posts: 64
So basically I'm at the point where I'm perfectly happy with how I am in social situations. I wouldn't say I have game, it's more like, don't think and be the party. Works for me.
Next week I'm heading to Thailand for about a month, when I get back I do plan on going more in-depth into this game stuff but for now I have other things to deal with.
I HAVE A FUCKING PARTY ADDICTION
I fucking love to party.
It's not the drinking alcohol, I barely drink anymore, it's the environment that is FUN and STIMULATING. I love going out, I love being social. I'm only really happy and content when I'm in a social situation.
I fucking HATE alone time. I hate doing those mundane, every day tasks like washing the dishes, doing the laundry, looking for work. They SUCK, fuck that man, I just want to go out.
My mindset has to change here, I don't know what's holding me back from enjoying myself ALL THE TIME, but I need to search within and find answers. Something is wrong. It's like I'm a depressed little boy when I'm at home but I'm a happy as hell alpha brah when I'm in the club.
I've started meditating again. I've started excercising again. I've started eating well again. I've started reading again. But I have to really FORCE myself to do these things which I should be ENJOYING.
Has anyone ever been in this situation or is anyone going through the same thing?
I'd love to stay up on this forum all night, mentally masturbating and listening to house music, since it's the closest thing I can get to going out, but I'm going to force myself to sleep and wake up to another day of shitty mundane tasks. Until next time, Adios.