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Is giving a girl any sort of validation a bad idea or does the frame you come from completely over ride that??
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Posted June 24th, 2012 at 7:41 AM

BigBalls

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Join Date: 03/10/2012 | Posts: 149

So bascially, from about Wednesday when Tyler put up a video and he said something about whatever I do now.. I just make sure that I'm 100% entitled. Which is cool, I have been doing this and vibing really well with girls, like really well. Better than ever before.

I also heard stuff like, don't give a girl validation. So if I'm texting or calling a girl to meet up like two days in a row, is that giving her too much validation? I'm actually coming from the frame of I'm 100% entitled but when I take a step back, I think she may be getting some validation there. I'd prefer seem feedback from the instructors actually but feel free guys to share thoughts..... Thanks.
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Posted June 24th, 2012 at 10:04 AM
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sudgeandfudge

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Join Date: 04/22/2012 | Posts: 22

Never give a woman a straight answer unless its No
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Posted June 24th, 2012 at 10:33 AM
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BigBalls

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Thanks Deangelo.
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Posted June 24th, 2012 at 10:37 AM
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tpt

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Join Date: 04/05/2011 | Posts: 75

What tyler means by dont validate her is dont NEED her. You can compliment a girl, tell her how pretty she is, or  even how you love her, it doesnt matter. What matters is whether you NEED her. You should WANT her but dont NEED her. And compliments sound ALOT more genuine when they NOT coming from a place of neediness. Its expressing yourself whether she will like it or not.

skip to 30mins on the video, thats where he talks about it

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G1LQs7NbTOs&feature=player_embedded
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