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May 19th, 2013
Why the hell does this stuff work?
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Nerdsaver

Nerdsaver

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Join Date: 10/15/2011 | Posts: 141

 My games exploded lately and I have no idea why. My game litterally consists of doing nothing nowdays. All I do is speak my mind and talk about random shit, including how much I like to game girls. I'll say pretty fucked up shit to girls sometimes and just bask in the shitstorm that follows. I usually just talk litteral nonsense. For example: 

Me: Blegashif
Girl: Huh?
Me: You're really cool you know that?
Girl: I'm so confused.
Me: Why are you a retard or something? Look how cute the little retarded girl is.. cuuute!
Girl: Shut up thats not funny.
Me: Yeah I agree with you, hey lets go fuck with strangers.
Girl: blah blah.
Me: *drives to my house or forest.* I know I'm rapisty but just roll with it.
Girl: I knew it. You're a creep.
Me: Yeah but you love me girl.. why do you love me so much? <--- I do this too where I create my own little shit tests and pass them. Not on purpose, just happens.
Girl: Do I though? I don't really think so.. you could never get anywhere with me you know.
Me: Uh.. yup. *starts escalating.*

There's just a little example of how a typical day two or even initial interaction would go for me nowadays. I honestly don't even understand how this is working for me because I'm not consiously thinking about GAME or WHAT TO DO for the first time in my life. Another example of something I do that creates a shit ton of instant attraction is this:

Me: This hat makes me look so fucking sexy.
Girl: It does?
Me: Yeah thanks for noticing! I was worried no one would noticed but you just made me feel so much better about myself.
Girl:... *eyes get big* 

^Why does that work? I know this stuff is probably elementary to a lot of you but my results are fucking golden lately and I don't know what I'm doing to make it so. All I do is hang out with girls and talk to them. That's all. Every once in a while I'll touch them and I escalate super fucking smoothly and slowl. The other day I got on a girl who had just told me that her best friend liked me and how I had no chance with her. She said I was ugly, slow, unnatractive, and at the end she ended up stealing my favorite hat so I'd have to see her again...

What changed? Why does me 'doing nothing' yeild such better results than when I always had 'game' running through my head 24/7?
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Surion

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Join Date: 06/25/2011 | Posts: 129

I believe you already know the answer, you just want to hear it again.
It works because you don't give a fuck. You don't try to impress girls and stay smooth wether they respond positive or negative. Bitches love that!
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Rotundum

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You've started to act through your own intentions = super sexy in a girls eye
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UtopiaFive

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Cool.  Sounds like you're relaxed brah.  
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Nerdsaver

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Surion wrote:
I believe you already know the answer, you just want to hear it again.
It works because you don't give a fuck. You don't try to impress girls and stay smooth wether they respond positive or negative. Bitches love that!
You're probably right, but I wouldn't say wanting to hear what you're doing right as much as possible is really a bad thing. Just trying to get it down to where when I'm in a downturn I can look at what's worked for me in the past and reignite that shit.. 
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AnythingGoes

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Nerdsaver wrote:
 


Me: Blegashif
Girl: Huh?
Me: You're really cool you know that?
Girl: I'm so confused.
Me: Why are you a retard or something? Look how cute the little retarded girl is.. cuuute!




Hahaha! 
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thespice

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Yeah, it's weird but it's like they don't even listen to what you say.  They just get confused and then aroused, and confused why they're aroused.  What's really spooky is that I wonder if even the girl herself knows why she's attracted.  Sometimes I wonder if they over there looking at the guy with anime eyes, aka RETARD vacant eyes that don't know what the fuck is going on.  All she knows is she likes you.  It must be confusing to be a girl.
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Nerdsaver

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Hahah for sure. I litterally do nothing interesting lately except for read, sleep, and look for girlies. I'm not an interesting person but these girls love me so much. I almost feel like it might just be that I'm so authentic. I'm laying down "game" but its always coming from where I am emotionally at any given time... but I've always sort of done that so I don't know exactly what's changed. Less action should not equal more results... should it? 
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Thorzen

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 Read my signature. 
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Authenticity / Congruency is attraction.

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WireySpindell

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Nice Dude, after reading your convo I kinda wanted to fuck you

But yeah- you don't care about the outcome. Therefore, she wants you.
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BKW

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Join Date: 02/21/2012 | Posts: 558

I'm starting to notice the same thing with me.  I convervse more for my own entertainment than for the girls.  I also tell them exactly why i approach and it works great
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