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May 22nd, 2013
My girl is pregnant. I'm in shock. Advice needed.
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#41

broseph stalin

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Join Date: 03/02/2012 | Posts: 211

Sadly the law doesn't give a shit about being able to give support. Cough up the dough or go to jail.
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Ultimately it is her decision if she wants to keep the baby. Tell her that with your aspirations of med school that it will be impossible for you to give her adequate support at this point in time. Fuckin huge lifelesson about strapping up, don't play Russian roulette with your cock
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#42
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Try for the abortion, but if all else fails, bring up the adoption talk?
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#44

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Man that would really suck. I'm pretty amoral on this topic, if I was a woman I'd get that thing out of me without hesitation. Why ruin your whole life for that.

I'd also question whether this girl got pregnant intentionally. Sounds like she doesn't even want to entertain the idea of an abortion because she wanted it in the first place, and is using "her feelings" as justification
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#46
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You got what you deserved. Live with it. 

Hope she doesn't abort.
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#47

G Bizz

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dont really know what to say. good luck I guess
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#49

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Join Date: 10/23/2007 | Posts: 21

 If you get to be a father, good for you, congrats regardless of if you wanted it or not. 

However, this is what I did in a similar situation.

I'd just been on vacation in Hong-Kong and got a message from one of the girls I had met there telling me she was pregnant and was going to keep it.  I'd already been told I was going to be a father once when I was 17, where I took it like a responsible gentleman (luckily I got away easy), however, I had decided I was not going to be as gentle if it happened again. 

Pretty much what I did was relentlessly pushing for the abortion with all tools available. Framing her as a bad and selfish person, and that an abortion is the best thing to do. I also started to contact her friends trying to get them to convince her to get rid if it, and making it really emotionally hard and awkward for her. I decided I was going to do what it takes to not get a kid, and I did it. She ended up takin a chemical abortion and went on vacation feeling all dead inside. This is sort of hard material I guess, but it is really hard to talk girls out of this stuff. 


This is a chat-log from msn:
CM= China-mom
Mental = Me
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Mental
What the fuck??
Maaaan...

"CM"
wazzz up?

Mental
Whats up?? You just told me you want to ruin my life, and you ask me whats up??
Are you emotionally retarded or something?
I think I have to talk to your friends...
Make them stop you.

"-CM"
wat m ruining yr life no
i just don bother you
you dont've to talk with my fren

Mental
What?? You think having a child wont bother me?? Are you retarded?
Because they will agree with me!


"CM"
why u keep pressing me

Mental
Stop being stupid!
WHY??

"CM"
m thinking m emotionally feel bad doing abortion

Mental
You are out of your mind! Thats why!

"CM"
you are

Mental
Of course you do!

"CM"
wat

Mental
Feel bad!

"CM"
me too

Mental
That is you being a human, nothing wrong with that... in fact it means you are healthy
But your emotions are not making you do the right thing allway.
s
Most people would agree with me.

"CM"
no nothings all abt bt i just feel love with baby inside me.

Mental
Including your friends and those who know you and care for you.

"CM"
that's natural

Mental
YES! IT IS!
But this is not about you! This is about doing the right thing!
Let go of that feeling.
It is not easy, but this is not the right thing to do
Does anyone know about this?

"CM"
nobody

Mental
Anyone who loves you and care for you
no
Ok, maybe, for the best for YOU, for the best for ME, for the best for the kid

"CM"
i talk with my sis,she ask me to do abortion

Mental
OF COURSE!!
YOU KNOW IT IS STUPID!
EVERYONE KNOWS THAT!
You will have this feeling again, but the next time you will know it is right, and you will be happy to tell everyone.
I hope I am not too tough with you, but you have to get this.
Life can be hard.
Not allways easy to do the right thing, but still you have to.

"CM"
i cant gave you a answer, sorry.
i'mnot on me now

Mental
One year from now, when you meet the man of your dreams, you will be so grateful for me putting this preasure on you
Mental
Well, I will have to talk to "Girl x", and "Girl Y", and everyone at PJ's. (the bar she was working at)

"CM"
noo u cant do this too me.

Mental
People who care for you
YOU CANT DO THIS TO ME OR THE KID!
Or your friends who will have t babysit because you have to work even more than you do now.

"CM"
you want too kill the kid dont say anythings abt kid

Mental
It is not living, it is an egg with splitting cells
I know this is hard, but you give me no choise.
Mental
Everyone who loves you agrees with me... I am doing something good for you.

"CM"
i've to go, let me get a courrage to do abortion.
tcre bye

Mental

Take care!
"CM" has disconnected.
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#50
EventH

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Fuck this is why I strap up.

FUCK this shit
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