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December 12th, 2017
Very proud of myself tonight...
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Tyler

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So I woke up late on 4 hours sleep as I stayed up working until 11AM the night before.

Then rushed through my daily tasks and got the call from my promoter buddy that he's taking a limo full of girls to the best club in Hollywood, which is a really epic spot loaded with 9's and a few 10's (girls who do modelling, blah blah...)

Anyway I hadn't eaten breakfast yet and was wiped out on the low sleep, and the club had a NO RE-ENTRY policy so I couldn't go outside to eat anything.

I got in there and was all alone, no wingman, exhausted, and hungry out of my mind, and basically walked back and forth through the club for about 45 minutes.  Basically just thinking "I can't do this tonight, this is a bad night to do this, in fact I'm probably just lowering my confidence walking around on low sleep and no food all alone like this, because no NORMAL person would be out doing this shit and it's just dumb..."

But I decided to stick it out, wound up tearing the place apart, making out with many of the hot women in there, and grabbing some quality numbers.  By the end I bumped into a few friends which helped, and had a blast of a night.

The main lesson is something that was hammered into me for years by Julien which is "If there was a GUN TO YOUR HEAD you could do it... Everything is a limiting belief, just SHUT THE FUCK UP AND GET IT DONE..."  It was very forced but trust me once your tongue is down a girls' throat and she's rubbing your cock, you lose the hunger and need to sleep and start having fun.

(Plus burn a few calories while being food fasted!)

By the end I was pretty wiped and stumbling around by the close, so decided against pushing on the pull (many of the girls I met were off to an afterparty my buddy was running, but whatev...) and went to go eat a great meal.  I also was messing around with a cutie in the restaurant while my buddy talked shit to the whole restaurant staff (hilarious...) and then finally came home and typed up this post.

Anyway it's funny but this type of night is a lot more satisfying to me than a night that I pull of some sort of massive success, like fuck a new girl or whatever. Just because when the game is easy, it's REALLY EASY, and when it's hard, it's often REALLY HARD.  Tonight was really really really hard but I made the best of it and despite a bit of sloppiness and lack of the typical insane persistence in set, you wouldn't have known where I was at.

I think the trick is just to think of the Michael Jordan "Flu game" and think about the epic possibilities of pulling off some crazy act of willpower, and how good you will feel when you accomplish it.  When you're fucked up this is actually a COOL CHANCE to prove to yourself that you're capable of anything.  It sounds absurd when you're reading it from home, but when you're out there alone in wild club of stunners and stuck in your head, it takes that type of mental push to make shit happen.



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 Amazing that a CEO of a pick up company can have nights like this. Where limiting believes enter your head and you have to pull yourself to get into action. 
This must be a great motivation for others to read.
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 I think that's awesome, but is that really the same as doing something when you have no promoter buddies, when you're just going in completely blind, or going out completely solo? Most people don't know someone bring a limo full of hot girls into a club their going to in the city. Of course that shit makes it easier IMO.

Love 'yea though Owen. I might just be bitter I dropped the ball on two twins tonight in a 3 way in my solo adventures :) Don't mind me.
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You asshole!
I am at home ith a temperature, sore throat, aching bones and blocked nose.
Now I feel like I have to go out tonight...this is unfair...Isnt there something to be said for resting up for another day...I've been out 6 nights a week for the past 6 weeks, Im fucked.
You are a dick.
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Yeah in this case it was actually worse, here's why.

The promoter buddies are cool with you INSOFAR as you offer good energy.  The second they see you having a bad night it's fucking up their profession (I fully understand this as well and don't blame them...) so they don't want that shit around their group.  And you can't hit on the girls the promoter came with unsuccessfully, because if they talk shit it gets back to him as well.

So it's a big insane danceclub called "Lure" in Los Angeles, and I leave the area where they're all at and do my own thing.  I'd actually PREFER not to see them because I'm feeling shit and don't need them vibing that out, but then again needed them to get into the big club.

I've done many nights out just alone, like most Wednesday's I get into a new city before the Thursday Free Tour and go out alone, and find it a lot easier than what I did tonight.  I was basically in the other end of the venue the entire time, until I switched on in which case it was business as usual.

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 I think that's awesome, but is that really the same as doing something when you have no promoter buddies, when you're just going in completely blind, or going out completely solo? Most people don't know someone bring a limo full of hot girls into a club their going to in the city. Of course that shit makes it easier IMO.

Love 'yea though Owen. I might just be bitter I dropped the ball on two twins tonight in a 3 way in my solo adventures :) Don't mind me.
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Great experience man. Most nights that start bad only end bad if you quit earlier. It's one of the most re-lived lessons in game. Just know it will be OK at the end. I think even Julien mentioned that too. It's one of those lessons you get more often than not, but even when you get it a lot, you'll find yourself needing that reminder just as often.
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That feeling from not doing something for 45 minutes and then stepping it up and going against your thoughts, instincts and feelings and doing it anyway, does that feeling ever become less epic and exhilarating as you become more advanced over time? I'm still a newbie and when I do that I feel on top of the fucking world.
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I struggle with the game as much as anybody, it's not like your genetics change after you learn the principles of game.  If you're in a bad mood it's a lot harder to have sex with a gorgeous girl you just met, who has the option to meet a million other better looking guys who are in a GREAT mood.   All people get into bad moods at times, thereore all people struggle with the game at times, and nobody is cut from a different cloth.

Imagine you're in this environment without having eaten yet and a headache from no sleep, gonna approach a model hot girl and dominate her so convincingly she wants to fuck you?


But bottom line is you CAN do it and it IS physically possible.  So you shut the fuck up.....and fucken do it! :)

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imBOOM wrote:
 Amazing that a CEO of a pick up company can have nights like this. Where limiting believes enter your head and you have to pull yourself to get into action. 
This must be a great motivation for others to read.

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No I live for it.  It's my fav part of the entire game.  I love struggling with it.

Remember I was also mentally ill (aka -- ex "hard case newbie") so this shit is even harder for me.  If I fall off my shit the insane thoughts come back, so I'm constantly having to stay on top of it.

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Cleavage wrote:
That feeling from not doing something for 45 minutes and then stepping it up and going against your thoughts, instincts and feelings and doing it anyway, does that feeling ever become less epic and exhilarating as you become more advanced over time? I'm still a newbie and when I do that I feel on top of the fucking world.
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Thanks Tyler.

‘Nobody is cut from a different cloth’ is a hugely valuable lesson. I’m glad the RSD instructors aren’t afraid to show they are only human too – I think it’s pretty rare in the community.

Going to Julien’s Hot Seat and watching him in FULL BEAST MODE for 10-20 mind blowing minutes then having him show sets where he hesitates and ‘chodes out’ really cemented this for me. He could have easily not shown us his failures, looked like a total pimp 24/7 and nobody would be the wiser.

Because Julien’s failed sets looked JUST like my own it makes his successes achievable in my mind.
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