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Great post man. I remember myself falling into this trap quite often, it's kids mentallity.
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*Technically* a narcissist is in love with his reflection. You seem to be in love with yourself which is the opposite of narcissism ;)
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Boners not kino man. My entire crew is basically composed of retards and sex addicts. There's not a whole lot of "thought" going on per se. Just beastmode and dong. Why do we fuck these girls? Because they get our dick hard and it is also a great form of exercise. DURR
Never ask. Never narrate. Mumble gibberish and take your dick out.
Some girl looked at you this one time at Starbucks HURRAY
Never ask. Never narrate. Mumble gibberish and take your dick out.
Some girl looked at you this one time at Starbucks HURRAY
*Technically* a narcissist is in love with his reflection. You seem to be in love with yourself which is the opposite of narcissism ;)
Dammit Gandi why are you so smart? 
Werd, I like this a lot. So tru
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I’m at the point where pretty much everything I do is to make my game better. Is this sad? heh probably, but I don’t give a shit, this is what I love more than anything else.
I workout because it boosts my entitlement and attraction when girls feel my solid body. I play guitar every day so I can go out to my favorite karaoke bar and jam with my buddy…resulting in lots of sex. I go out every night I can to work on this stuff.
Ultimately though, I love the game because it is so much damn fun. It is like a sport for me. I feel like a star player that never chokes on the game winning shot. I don’t care either way if I make it or miss it, but I have to try. There is no worse feeling than NOT approaching a really cute girl or NOT sacking up and going for the pull.
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good, inspirational, stuff
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Ya this is badass, I find I have differnet personalities infield, one of them is "this isnt a sport, no need to stress out, chill and approach when you want" and the other is "Im fucking Kobe on the court baby, gimme the ball", and everything I do feeds one of those personalities. I can go for a jog to enjoy jogging on a nice day or becuase Im getting myself in the zone to go beast on stunners in the mall. Its really cool seeing the play between those two and how they effect me, I find the important thing is not to resist either and let them play out how they will, while being honest with myself about whether what Im doing is coming from a place of fear/compulsion (the compulsion to approach too much also being bad) or whether Im doing what I think and feel is best.
I think this is kickass that you have that frame down though bro, it must be FUN as fuck.
I think this is kickass that you have that frame down though bro, it must be FUN as fuck.
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Nice post. Exactly what I needed to read tonight. I headed out and started approaching much too late, only the hottest girls, got no momentum and didn't pull.
When guys go out to pick up girls, they shift into a different identity. They behave as if every girl they talk to is a potential fuck. The issue with this mindset is the obvious dissonance in your thoughts, words, and actions.
How are you possibly going to build momentum if you only talk to the hottest girls? You’ll just rationalize not approaching all night until you see a hottie, but you will be stuck inside your head and fuck it up.
Be proactive, build up momentum throughout the night and cut down your reaction time. Or as Brad would say…grease the claw.
I’m selfish. When I approach a girl, my sole purpose for talking to her is to build momentum and cut my reaction time down so when I do see a stunner, I’ll instinctively grab her and likely take her home and fuck her.
I don’t care if a girl is fat, ugly, skinny, cute, whatever… I’m going to talk to a bunch of girls when I go out. The common pattern is the first night of the week I go out, I’ll hit up quite a few girls before I find the hottie I want. By Saturday, I may only do 2-3 approaches and get a really cute girl. By making it a requirement to build up momentum each night, I get handsomely rewarded on the 2nd – 3rd night.
Seeing Brad out in field has reinforced this…
“Dude that approach was so smooth…” -- after Brad has the sloppiest approach I’ve ever seen all night haha
“Man, I love when the lights come on at the end of the night, cause then girls see how good I look even better.”
Developing this narcissistic attitude has worked wonders for me. I do everything with conviction and fully assume a good response. When I don’t get it, I literally get confused. It doesn’t mesh with my reality…it is like trying to mash a square through a round hole.
Do you see how being narcissistic ties in with being selfish and how it influences your success with women?
When guys go out to pick up girls, they shift into a different identity. They behave as if every girl they talk to is a potential fuck. The issue with this mindset is the obvious dissonance in your thoughts, words, and actions.
How are you possibly going to build momentum if you only talk to the hottest girls? You’ll just rationalize not approaching all night until you see a hottie, but you will be stuck inside your head and fuck it up.
Be proactive, build up momentum throughout the night and cut down your reaction time. Or as Brad would say…grease the claw.
I’m selfish. When I approach a girl, my sole purpose for talking to her is to build momentum and cut my reaction time down so when I do see a stunner, I’ll instinctively grab her and likely take her home and fuck her.
I don’t care if a girl is fat, ugly, skinny, cute, whatever… I’m going to talk to a bunch of girls when I go out. The common pattern is the first night of the week I go out, I’ll hit up quite a few girls before I find the hottie I want. By Saturday, I may only do 2-3 approaches and get a really cute girl. By making it a requirement to build up momentum each night, I get handsomely rewarded on the 2nd – 3rd night.
Seeing Brad out in field has reinforced this…
“Dude that approach was so smooth…” -- after Brad has the sloppiest approach I’ve ever seen all night haha
“Man, I love when the lights come on at the end of the night, cause then girls see how good I look even better.”
Developing this narcissistic attitude has worked wonders for me. I do everything with conviction and fully assume a good response. When I don’t get it, I literally get confused. It doesn’t mesh with my reality…it is like trying to mash a square through a round hole.
Do you see how being narcissistic ties in with being selfish and how it influences your success with women?
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Yup!
That said, we use the word "narcissist" as a JOKE as the real definition of it includes being sociopathic. So we say it jokingly.
Tyler
That said, we use the word "narcissist" as a JOKE as the real definition of it includes being sociopathic. So we say it jokingly.
Tyler
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yeah, gotta be careful though about this kind of thing. You don't want to be this guy who just has zero concept of how to interact and read obvious signs when people don't like him, and he still thinks he's the king of everything http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kBq8B7uwR-Y
But I guess if you're getting laid and it works for you, you won't care anyway.
But I guess if you're getting laid and it works for you, you won't care anyway.
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“I don’t fucking care, approach her.”
When guys go out to pick up girls, they shift into a different identity. They behave as if every girl they talk to is a potential fuck. The issue with this mindset is the obvious dissonance in your thoughts, words, and actions.
How are you possibly going to build momentum if you only talk to the hottest girls? You’ll just rationalize not approaching all night until you see a hottie, but you will be stuck inside your head and fuck it up.
Be proactive, build up momentum throughout the night and cut down your reaction time. Or as Brad would say…grease the claw.
I’m selfish. When I approach a girl, my sole purpose for talking to her is to build momentum and cut my reaction time down so when I do see a stunner, I’ll instinctively grab her and likely take her home and fuck her.
I don’t care if a girl is fat, ugly, skinny, cute, whatever… I’m going to talk to a bunch of girls when I go out. The common pattern is the first night of the week I go out, I’ll hit up quite a few girls before I find the hottie I want. By Saturday, I may only do 2-3 approaches and get a really cute girl. By making it a requirement to build up momentum each night, I get handsomely rewarded on the 2nd – 3rd night.
I really believe that eventually I’ll develop so much entitlement that I will just see a girl I want, point to her, and tell her I’m going to fuck her later…then naturally handle all the shit tests and end up with her at the end of the night.
Until then, I’m going to be a selfish bastard and use girls to boost my state.
Why I Am A Narcissistic Asshole
Over the years of going out and working on my personal development, I’ve embraced a narcissistic mindset. Every girl I talk to is lucky to be talking to a guy as cool as me. If she blows me out, my initial thought is “is this girl retarded?”
My entitlement is through the roof from literally brainwashing myself. I’ve embraced the concept of self-love and apply it every day. It has become an unconscious thought process where I literally positively reframe EVERYTHING.
Seeing Brad out in field has reinforced this…
“Dude that approach was so smooth…” -- after Brad has the sloppiest approach I’ve ever seen all night haha
“Man, I love when the lights come on at the end of the night, cause then girls see how good I look even better.”
Developing this narcissistic attitude has worked wonders for me. I do everything with conviction and fully assume a good response. When I don’t get it, I literally get confused. It doesn’t mesh with my reality…it is like trying to mash a square through a round hole.
Do you see how being narcissistic ties in with being selfish and how it influences your success with women?
I’m at the point where pretty much everything I do is to make my game better. Is this sad? heh probably, but I don’t give a shit, this is what I love more than anything else.
I workout because it boosts my entitlement and attraction when girls feel my solid body. I play guitar every day so I can go out to my favorite karaoke bar and jam with my buddy…resulting in lots of sex. I go out every night I can to work on this stuff.
Ultimately though, I love the game because it is so much damn fun. It is like a sport for me. I feel like a star player that never chokes on the game winning shot. I don’t care either way if I make it or miss it, but I have to try. There is no worse feeling than NOT approaching a really cute girl or NOT sacking up and going for the pull.
This is what’s on my mind right now. I plan to post more since I’ve been going out a lot and obsessing over this shit for a long while now. I’m pretty damn busy and it is hard to find the time to write plus everything else I do, but they say if you want something done, ask a busy man to do it.