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Ya dude. Gonna beast retardedly hard in Thailand.  

Sidenote:  When trying to practice my French I stumbled upon this:



Awesome video and the song's catchy as fuck.

Lessons, Goals and shit...

So I'm home.  Actually I have no home right now.  Crashing at my parents' rural place right now then gonna go visit some friends in the city.  I'm off to work in the middle of nowhere for about two months (although there might be a break somewhere in between there) then I'm travelling more and this time for longer.  I aim to have awesome experiences and improve the quality and quantity of girls I hook up with.  Would love to see a hotseat (would love a bootcamp too, but I would rather spend that money on travel) but it doesn't work with my schedule.  I'm hoping Alexander does a hotseat in SE Asia when I'm there.

Game and Social Circle

I wanna get good.  Instructor level good.  This trip showed me how much I can improve mostly on my own.  I got decent faster than I thought I would.  However, if I want to really level up my game, I need to make friends that I have more in common with.  Average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.   I don't need to be hanging out with huge pimps or anything, just cool people who have their shit somewhat together.  Gonna be moving to Montreal in the future, so I'll basically be starting from scratch there.  I was originally going to move Quebec right away after I was done work, but I decided more travel is the right call for me.  Get this life experience while I have disposable income and no real monetary ties.  Also I'll be gaining tons of reference experiences with hot girls in Thailand.  Doing a Hotseat and/or Bootcamp would help a lot I'm sure so I'll be at least doing a hotseat in the future.  Also I owe RSD a ton, so going to hotseat is really the least I could do.

Besides just getting better with girls, this trip helped me get better with people.  But not exactly how I expected.  I became more polarizing and also more weird.  It has been common for people to just straight up forget or barely remember me after meeting them multiple times.  I now know this won't be the case for long.  Some people didn't like me, a few straight up hated me, but I became good friends and great friends with awesome people who I wouldn't have really related to before.  And for being weird, I think that a lot people are naturally pretty weird and when becoming more authentic it becomes more obvious.  Think Jeffy, Tyler, even Alexander.  Also intentionally making girls feel somewhat uncomfortable was how I started some good sets and how I would often turn the night around for me because it put me in irrerevance mode.

Work

I don't know exactly what I want to do in the future (Although I've got two ideas I've thought about for a while) so I'm developing my skill set synergistically with my natural strengths and interests.  Becoming a well-read, bi-lingual (French), awesome communicator both written and verbally.  Pickup develops most of this skillset, with the bonus of appeasing my tyrannosaur sex drive.  I haven't practiced writing very much, but I know it's something I want to cultivate.  Even writing this thread is an example of allocating my time and efforts towards skills I want to develop.  Pickup and writing are two of my top priorities right now (pickup/doing cool shit is easily at the forefront).  This is one of the reasons why I will keep up my FRs for the forseeable future.  Actually there will be a hiatus before I go to Asia because I'm going to be away working, but I will be making it a part of my schedule when I'm doing long term travel.  Also I'm practicing my french more. I will read more in french and listen to Montreal talk radio in the background when I'm doing random shit.  Might try to work at a hostel short term in France towards the end of my trip depending how my funds are doing.

Travel

Next up is SE Asia with a focus on hitting it up.  Gonna do a lot of cool shit too though.  Going to hit up all of the biggest party spots although I won't shy away from cool stuff even if it means I won't be macking on bishes for a while.  My next big trip I want to do is Turkey through the Balkans, including a cruise through the Croatian islands.  I don't know when I'll do that, but it will happen.

This thread

I will keep on updating this thread with a few stories from before Budapest.  I don't know how in depth I'll get, but I've got a bit more I want to write about.
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 My First Cold Approach Lay of the Trip...Thanks Julien

Some RSD videos are very good, some are meh and some I REALLY resonate with.  During the day I had watched this great Julien/Tyler video.  Largely because of this video I quickly incorporated being a persistent motherfucker into my game.  



I'm in Krakow at Greg and Tom's.  Awesome hostel, I'd been going out with them every night for the last few nights.  Got really close with a cute Asian girl living in Montreal.  Pulled her from a bar, away from her friends.  She wanted to fuck but the only real option was the bathroom.  Tryed to fuck her in the downstairs couch, but she wasn't fully down due to it being too public.  Then her friends all came to find her and one by came down to see us, giggle then walk away.  Buying temp destroyed.

A night or two after that I went out as I did everynight in Krakow.  En route to the club with a cockfarm of dudes, a group of three kiwi girls joins our group.  A 7, a fatty and a really fucking cute one with a tight body.  I talk to the 7 because she is closest to me.  She's a pretty cool girl.  We get along pretty well.  She's 28, when I later say I'm 25 she starts making fun of me for being young.  I'm amused as fuck because I'm actually 20.  I keep talking to her then just as the energy is on the downswing, I eject for a drink.  I'm social, do Belvedere shots because they're laughably cheap here.  I see her talking to an Aussie friend of mine.  He is pretty good looking, about 6'4, very funny and high energy.  They're all over each other.  I feel a bit butthurt, which is retarded.  So I decide to fuck off for the time being.  I hit on random girls and they go basically no where.  For a few of the sets I was getting physical with girls.  Even if it wasn't ideal, they were somewhat receptive.  

I see the 7 with her really cute friend.  I start talking to the 7.  She says "You can't do that."  "What?"  "You can't just go around with other girls and then do that with me."  I almost respond logically about her getting physical with that other guy but I catch myself.  I say some bullshit, then change the subject.  She wants me.  I keep talking and start talking to her about random shit, as well as getting to know each other stuff.  She starts screening for relationship questions, saying that she has sworn off one night stands.  I assure that if we have really good chemistry, we could absolutely have a relationship which is complete and utter B.S.  The fatty friend has ditched, thank god.  I start being a bit more physical.  She is throwing me tons of shit tests through the whole interaction, saying she won't have sex with me, saying I'm too young and a lot of shit like that.  I pass all of these tests by just being persistent, knowing she wants me.  She actually repeatedly comments on how persistent I am.  She starts asking the hotter friend for approval, they take two steps away from me, thinking I wouldn't here them.  She obviously wants me, but she has her "rules".  I start talking to a Polish girl beside me while I listen to their conversation.  I hear the hot one say "Well he is really hot."  I quickly figure out that she wants me to fuck her friend.  After this talk, the hotter friend leaves to give us some space.  

I change locations in the club to lead and further isolate.  I talk to her and start really escalating.  I tease her while pulling her closer.  We're holding each other, body rocking.  I pull her head in really slowly, then get to the point where our lips are grazing eachother's while we talk.  I hold it for a few seconds, building the tension, then makeout.  We talk and makeout intermittently, and once I see her friend, I say we should go.  They say want alcohol, like a bottle of vodka or something.  I say I know where to go, I just need to go back to my hostel for money.  I get logistics, have fun with the girls.  They are staying in an ensuite 4 bed hostel room with a couch in the living room.  The whole time I'm leading them to the liquor store, they are giving me shit about me not knowing where I'm going. I have never been there before and there was still a fraction of nervousness when leading around two cute girls.   We go buy beers, which they barely drink.  Then they say they want food.  I ask if there's anything in their hostel.  The hot one gets really excited and says she'll make us sandwiches.  This woman makes an awesome wingman haha.  We eat sandwiches.  She then says something to her friend about me being younger.  The hotter one says "Well he's 25. It's not like he's 20."  lol Then the subject of me speaking french comes up.  My girl gets really excited, then I start whispering French nonsense into her ear, speaking all slow and sexy like.  She gets really horny.  She asks me what I said.  "I'm telling you what I'm gonna do to you later."  We bang on the couch.  Fin.
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#23
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I didn't document a lot of my trip, mostly because I started late and didn't wanna write too much in pure retrospect.  My SE Asia journal will be more regularly updated.

Cities I went and how much I liked them

These ratings are pretty damn subjective, but that comes with the territory.   Ratings are mostly about nightlife, but being an awesome city otherwise bumps it up a notch i.e. Dubrovnik

*Bolded are the places with retardedly hot girls

Wroclaw, Poland ****1/2 - Not very touristy. Nice city, cool vibe. Oh and HOT girls. Holy shit it's ridiculous. I need to go back to Poland. Would be best if you had an apartment here. One problem I ran into a lot is girls in Eastern Europe is not having their own place. Really liked Cafe Manana and the student drinking island just above old town for pre-gaming.

Krakow, Poland ***** - The best city for pickup I've ever been to. Hot girls, way more tourists than Wroclaw. Bars and clubs are everywhere. Good places with no cover. Greg and Toms was fucking fun. Met some cool people there.

Prague, Czech Republic ***1/2 - Fucking cool sight seeing, but super touristy. The Venues I went to had bad ratios for the most part. You go out and you meet people from everywhere which is kinda cool. Really worth seeing and a lot of different scenes. I liked Harley's and Roxxy. I imagine the high end clubs are awesome.



Lviv, Ukraine **** - Cute city, sexy girls. It had my personal favorite club of the trip - Metro. Really big, lots of different sections, really tough to run out of girls. It's kind of the lower end place but that works for me cuz I had no dress stuff. Kind of touristy, but not like Prague. It's moreso people from other places in Ukraine, Belarus, Poland, Russia etc... I stayed in Old City hostel which was decent and had discounted entry for Metro. Big language barriers, but you can get by that with physicality, really simple speech and lots of hand gestures.

Kiev, Ukraine **** - Very cool city. I loved the vibe. But bring nice clothing cuz I couldn't get into some clubs. Me and my friends got shot down at Shooters even though we had dinner reservations lol. Also the clubs were hit and miss (mostly miss for me haha) Sorry Babushka was awful, went there twice and it was dead both times, one of the times was a Thursday lol. Also payed like 17 dollar cover for Arena Club and there was like 20 people in there, mostly couples lol. My favorite bar was Palata 6 (Doctors bar) which was awesome. Five dollar steak meals, one dollar big ass vodka shots. The caliber of girls in Kiev is amazing. Sexy model types everywhere. Amazing place to do day game. I hadn't really done much before, but it was pretty easy here. They really love foreigners and sets usually hooked once they found out I was Canadian lol. I was pretty bad at this and still got some decent numbers. Would have gone on a few more dates had I not gotten sick here from a donair. Honed the art of haggling with cabbies trying to rip me off here haha.  Almost forgot: Vodka Bar is SICK.  I only went there on my last night when I had to catch a 4:00 AM train.  It was on a Friday and it was bumping.  Best club I went to.  Cool set up and a ridiculous amount of hot girls when I was there.

Chisinau, Moldova *** - It seems like there are no tourists here. Mostly just travellers passing through. The girls are very hot and speak decent English.  Also wine is really good and cheap. I wanted to go on a winery tour, but it was too pricey. Night life was good. Only went to a club called Lava which was awesome on Saturday and ok on Sunday. Worth a stop for a day or two.

Cluj Napoca, Romania ***1/2 - Student town. It was pretty busy on the Wed, Thurs, Fri I was there. Girls are decent, but it doesn't hold a candle to Ukraine or Poland or even Moldova. This is weird because I actually like the darker haired girls more, but it took me a whole day to see a legitimately hot girl. I might have just been a bit unlucky though. I really like Janis club, was super fun.

Budapest, Hungary ****1/2 - If you've read this thread, you know I liked Budapest haha. The city has a great vibe, it's a cool city to just walk around in and there's awesome bars in Pest. I highly recommend staying in one of Carpe Noctem, Carpe Noctem: Vitae, Retox or Grandio. Eat at the Pizza place in Pest. Super cheap, very good. These hostels probably boosted my love for Budapest. The local girls are pretty hot. Usually darker haired and I noticed they had really big tits on average. Not sure if that's truly the case, just my personal experience.

Split, Croatia ** - Cool town, not the best night spot though. It would likely be better on weekends. There is no such thing as street game.  More wander around alone watch out for gyspies game lol Still worth a check and though if you're in Croatia.

Hvar, Croatia ***1/2 - Very cool spot, extremely beautiful. Super touristy party town, very condensed strip of bars and clubs. Would rate it higher but it's pretty limited. Great spot to stay for two or three days though.

Dubrovnik, Croatia *** - Nightlife isn't the best from what I saw, seems kinda limited. I only went out one night I was there though. The reason I have it rated so high is because it's the most beautiful place I went. A walk along the old town walls was my favorite touristy thing of the trip. Gorgeous. I also found out that they filmed game of thrones here, which totally makes sense.  Fresh Sheets hostel had a shitload of girls, the most skewed ratio I saw lol.

Berlin, Germany ***1/2 - Didn't really go out here because I was staying with a girl. Other than a couple really low key bars in Kreuzberg. I did stay at a hostel for two nights though cuz her roomate didn't like hearing us fuck lol. Which was stupid because I still fucked her at night, I would just have to leave at like 12. I stayed at Kreuzberg Backpackers or something like that. It was decent but it was the one hostel I stayed at that really hit all of the hostel stereotypes I'd heard before. A lot of ugly girls, especially bunk Aussie chicks haha. About half of the staff was super weird. My room smelt awful (this is the first and only time I really noticed this on my trip), like I left one of my clean shirts out for the two days and it smelled disgusting just from absorbing the room's air lol. I met a few really cool guys though including a few guys who obviously kill it with girls but are super nice. Would've definitely gone out with them but I was not in a pickup mindset and decided to hold off on drinking for a couple nights. Just chilled in the common room for the two nights. It was still fun. I obviously can't say much about the nightlife, but it SEEMED like it's really good, albeit a bit spread out. There were a lot of hot German girls, but there's also way more fat girls than I was used to. Good museums which I didn't really do a ton of on my trip. Jewish Museum, Technical Museum and Pergamon were all very good IMO.

EDIT: Added a good venue for Kiev
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#24

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Black Tooth Grin wrote:
 


I didn't document a lot of my trip, mostly because I started late and didn't wanna write too much in pure retrospect.  My SE Asia journal will be more regularly updated.

Cities I went and how much I liked them

These ratings are pretty damn subjective, but that comes with the territory.   Ratings are mostly about nightlife, but being an awesome city otherwise bumps it up a notch i.e. Dubrovnik

*Bolded are the places with retardedly hot girls

Wroclaw, Poland ****1/2 - Not very touristy. Nice city, cool vibe. Oh and HOT girls. Holy shit it's ridiculous. I need to go back to Poland. Would be best if you had an apartment here. One problem I ran into a lot is girls in Eastern Europe is not having their own place. Really liked Cafe Manana and the student drinking island just above old town for pre-gaming.

Krakow, Poland ***** - The best city for pickup I've ever been to. Hot girls, way more tourists than Wroclaw. Bars and clubs are everywhere. Good places with no cover. Greg and Toms was fucking fun. Met some cool people there.

Prague, Czech Republic ***1/2 - Fucking cool sight seeing, but super touristy. The Venues I went to had bad ratios for the most part. You go out and you meet people from everywhere which is kinda cool. Really worth seeing and a lot of different scenes. I liked Harley's and Roxxy. I imagine the high end clubs are awesome.



Lviv, Ukraine **** - Cute city, sexy girls. It had my personal favorite club of the trip - Metro. Really big, lots of different sections, really tough to run out of girls. It's kind of the lower end place but that works for me cuz I had no dress stuff. Kind of touristy, but not like Prague. It's moreso people from other places in Ukraine, Belarus, Poland, Russia etc... I stayed in Old City hostel which was decent and had discounted entry for Metro. Big language barriers, but you can get by that with physicality, really simple speech and lots of hand gestures.

Kiev, Ukraine **** - Very cool city. I loved the vibe. But bring nice clothing cuz I couldn't get into some clubs. Me and my friends got shot down at Shooters even though we had dinner reservations lol. Also the clubs were hit and miss (mostly miss for me haha) Sorry Babushka was awful, went there twice and it was dead both times, one of the times was a Thursday lol. Also payed like 17 dollar cover for Arena Club and there was like 20 people in there, mostly couples lol. My favorite bar was Palata 6 (Doctors bar) which was awesome. Five dollar steak meals, one dollar big ass vodka shots. The caliber of girls in Kiev is amazing. Sexy model types everywhere. Amazing place to do day game. I hadn't really done much before, but it was pretty easy here. They really love foreigners and sets usually hooked once they found out I was Canadian lol. I was pretty bad at this and still got some decent numbers. Would have gone on a few more dates had I not gotten sick here from a donair. Honed the art of haggling with cabbies trying to rip me off here haha

Chisinau, Moldova *** - It seems like there are no tourists here. Mostly just travellers passing through. The girls are very hot and speak decent English.  Also wine is really good and cheap. I wanted to go on a winery tour, but it was too pricey. Night life was good. Only went to a club called Lava which was awesome on Saturday and ok on Sunday. Worth a stop for a day or two.

Cluj Napoca, Romania ***1/2 - Student town. It was pretty busy on the Wed, Thurs, Fri I was there. Girls are decent, but it doesn't hold a candle to Ukraine or Poland or even Moldova. This is weird because I actually like the darker haired girls more, but it took me a whole day to see a legitimately hot girl. I might have just been a bit unlucky though. I really like Janis club, was super fun.

Budapest, Hungary ****1/2 - If you've read this thread, you know I liked Budapest haha. The city has a great vibe, it's a cool city to just walk around in and there's awesome bars in Pest. I highly recommend staying in one of Carpe Noctem, Carpe Noctem: Vitae, Retox or Grandio. Eat at the Pizza place in Pest. Super cheap, very good. These hostels probably boosted my love for Budapest. The local girls are pretty hot. Usually darker haired and I noticed they had really big tits on average. Not sure if that's truly the case, just my personal experience.

Split, Croatia ** - Cool town, not the best night spot though. It would likely be better on weekends. There is no such thing as street game.  More wander around alone watch out for gyspies game lol Still worth a check and though if you're in Croatia.

Hvar, Croatia ***1/2 - Very cool spot, extremely beautiful. Super touristy party town, very condensed strip of bars and clubs. Would rate it higher but it's pretty limited. Great spot to stay for two or three days though.

Dubrovnik, Croatia *** - Nightlife isn't the best from what I saw, seems kinda limited. I only went out one night I was there though. The reason I have it rated so high is because it's the most beautiful place I went. A walk along the old town walls was my favorite touristy thing of the trip. Gorgeous. I also found out that they filmed game of thrones here, which totally makes sense.  Fresh Sheets hostel had a shitload of girls, the most skewed ratio I saw lol.

Berlin, Germany ***1/2 - Didn't really go out here because I was staying with a girl. Other than a couple really low key bars in Kreuzberg. I did stay at a hostel for two nights though cuz her roomate didn't like hearing us fuck lol. Which was stupid because I still fucked her at night, I would just have to leave at like 12. I stayed at Kreuzberg Backpackers or something like that. It was decent but it was the one hostel I stayed at that really hit all of the hostel stereotypes I'd heard before. A lot of ugly girls, especially bunk Aussie chicks haha. About half of the staff was super weird. My room smelt awful (this is the first and only time I really noticed this on my trip), like I left one of my clean shirts out for the two days and it smelled disgusting just from absorbing the room's air lol. I met a few really cool guys though including a few guys who obviously kill it with girls but are super nice. Would've definitely gone out with them but I was not in a pickup mindset and decided to hold off on drinking for a couple nights. Just chilled in the common room for the two nights. It was still fun. I obviously can't say much about the nightlife, but it SEEMED like it's really good, albeit a bit spread out. There were a lot of hot German girls, but there's also way more fat girls than I was used to. Good museums which I didn't really do a ton of on my trip. Jewish Museum, Technical Museum and Pergamon were all very good IMO.
thanks man, this is very helpful. i'm krakow now and it's great :)
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 Yo Black Tooth, sick thread man. I had no idea. Sounds like Eastern Europe is even easier than Vancouver...blows my mind.

I like your personal development goals. I've been trying to learn French as well, after studying German for years and never having anyone to talk to. You should check out Rosetta Stone (free on www.thepiratebay.com), also there is a really cool french movie I saw recently - a 6 hour film about Napoleon. Here's a cool clip http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AAHHkF7VbCY

Lots of people just let the years fly by without making any effort to improve themselves. Don't be that guy. There is a quote from Tyler or Jeffy or something, I forget. "People overestimate what they can accomplish in 1 year, but underestimate what they can accomplish in 5 years". Very true.
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 Ya dude that's an awesome quote, consistent action and implementation of habits is what I'm aiming for right now.  Thanks for the feedback :)  Just doing the little things everyday.  Like if I don't read during the day, read for 20-30 mis mins before I go to sleep.  Been doing great with eating well, reading, meditating recently.  Just getting these habits engrained right now, then it'll be easier to maintain them.  Also going out sober by default.  I have no problem drinking sometimes, but it's pretty satisfying not having to rely on it.

That Napoleon movie looks cool, will check it out for sure.  Ya I just downloaded some French movies: Delicatessen, A Prophet, La Haine.  Haven't watched any yet, but they all look pretty good.  Another good French movie is Amelie.

See ya next week or so mang
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 Felt compelled to write a bit more on here for some reason.

Kiev was the turning point of my trip.  Started getting better results and having more fun/being more comfortable afterwards.  About 5 weeks into my trip, I'd been going out a lot.  Before the FRs in this thread.  I had gotten laid a couple times, made out with a lot of girls, pulled a 6 foot catwalk model (she wasn't THAT hot, but she had a total model body) but couldn't quite close due to cockblocking friend + not being able to solve the logistical puzzle. Also went through some LOWS.  At one point I was missing my ex that I broke up with like 4 months ago, going solo & sober and only managing to do one approach, some other shit that.

The girls were stunning here, dressed to impress.  SMOKESHOWS.  When I was out at the bar with the hostel, I met Fingerman who just happened to be staying at the same one.  Didn't know who he was for a while haha.  Super random.  I'd never met any RSD guys, let alone any really good ones so it was pretty cool seeing legit game that wasn't just some random drunk Aussie guy.  It really hammered in the idea of "you are enough" for me.  What I saw was super simple game.  He wasn't "gaming", he was simply being normal and chill.

Went out with Fingerman a fair bit, did daygame for the first time.  Shit is so easy in Ukraine, it's difficult to get really blown out.

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Went out to Palata.  Awesome bar, hang out there for a bit, do some sets, chill out, etc...  After a while me and fingerman decide to go back to Kreshatik St.  Check out some bars, do approaches here and there.  Go to a good streetgame spot. A square by a supermarket where people always hang out and drink.  Kinda hit and miss but tonight was good.  It's also about a five minute walk to the apartment I'm staying at.  A couple hot girls recognize Fingerman from a week or two or so and start talking to him.  We just chill and talk to a few different groups of people.  Random people keep coming up to us and always get really excited when they find out we're Canadian.  

A group of three girls are a few feet away from us, politely waiting for us to come talk to them.  I approach them.  A pretty hot brunette, a pretty cute blonde and a chubby red head.  I talk to them.  The blonde and red head love me.  Fingerman mostly talks to the brunette IIRC.  The blonde speaks barely any English.  It's better when I speak to her and the red head at the same time, so she doesn't need to talk too much.

I talk to the blonde one on one.  It goes really well, but she gets all insecure because she can't speak English.  I have to go full retard to converse with her.   I actually enjoy this though, she's pretty sweet.  She sporadicly gets help with translation from her girlfriends.  I seed the pull by pointing towards my apartment and saying it's two minutes away.  I cuddle with her, keep talking.  She's super turned on by me.  Then this guy in their group keeps on hovering over us, trying to be a translator.  Totally fine for 5 minutes then it gets really annoying.  If I stop talking for a couple seconds, he's like "Come on.  Keep talking."  I wanted to tell him to fuck off, but I didn't know how it would affect the group's dynamic.

When I get isolation, I get a bit more physical with her and kiss her neck.  Her whole body quivers.  After a while, Fingerman leaves because it's late and pretty boring.  I stick in there.

The sun rises and after a while they start leaving.  I start walking behind them with my girl very slowly.  I lead her off to the side, stop and makeout with her really intensely.  She bites really hard when she kisses.  WTF.  After a long makeout session, I stop her (have to physically restrain her haha) and ask her if she wants to go there with me.  Yes.  I tell her to go tell her friends who're just across the street waiting for her.  They speak in Russian, then inform me that she wants to go with me.  I say bye to the friends.

I found out she has to meet her mother at the train later.  On the walk to the apartment she says her 3rd or 4th proper English sentence:  "I won't tell my mother about this"  Nice girl other than the biting haha
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 @tastycurry ya it was totally random.  We were just chilling at a bar, talking about random shit, girls etc then he was like "wanna go out and hit on bitches tomorrow?"  (something like that)  and then we hit on chicks at the bar and met up the next day for daygame.

Chode night -->Fun night -->Epic Blueballs in Cluj Napoca

I go out with a cool Brazilian guy I'd travelled with for a bit.  He's a natural (in his 30s, has fucked over 200 girls) but he's super moody because he's on a dry spell.  Three hostel guys tag along.  One of them is a short Asian guy who's probably a community guy, talks about girls constantly and goes out to do daygame.  He talks a lot, has a weird vibe, is really abrasive and is just generally super unempathetic.  We go to a bar that's totally dead.  Grab a beer.  I try to just chill out, but the Asian guy is annoying and his borderline social retardation is irritating me.  This should not bother me as much as it did but oh well.

Go to another bar that's playing live Balkan music.  I talk to a couple girls at the bar.  Pretty bad everything in that approach.  There's a mixed set that has two really cute girls separated from the rest of the group.  Dark haired petite girls.  One has glasses and she is TOTALLY my type, just the cutest little thing.  I procastinate approaching and rationalizations pile on top of eachother.  I don't approach.  Hurrpafuckingdurrp

Go to another bar and it's a weird scene.  A strange sense of unexplained nostalgia washes over me.  It takes me about thirty seconds to realize what's going.  These bitches are all like 15 at most.  It looks like those shitty middle school dances I went to, only with alcohol.  It's even playing Blink 182, Backstreet Boys and shit like that.  I talk to one girl and she immediately starts complaining about how young everybody is here.  And she's 18 lol.  Brazillian dude is more than twice these girls age haha.  I'm about to go approach the only hot girl I've seen, but then I notice that all of her friends look 12.  Shoulda approached anyways, but oh well.  I say let's go to Janis Club.  The Asian guy says he doesn't go to clubs cause you can't get laid there.  Cool story bro.

I don't know really know where it is, so we're kinda wandering in it's general direction.  I see group of 9ish girls.  I roll up to front of the group and ask them where they're going.  They're going to Janis as well.  I keep talking to a blonde one who's kinda chubby with a cute face and a brunnette, probably the hottest in the group.  The rest of my group is talking to other girls (the Brazillian guy ended up banging one of them the next day.  Awesome)  I'm not really in pickup mode, I just feel like talking to people.  It's a birthday party apparently, but I didn't talk to the birthday girl till later.  They're both giving me anime eyes, the blonde one is giving me compliments.  One of the hostel dudes walks up and starts talking to the hot one.  I figure I'll just let him blow himself out. 

We get in the club and go to the dancefloor.  I like talking to the blonde one, but I don't wanna lead her on.  So I don't dance with her.  Hostel chode, the hot girl and the chubby girl are dancing.  Some slow song is on and I'm not dancing, just standing there, feeling chill and good in my body.  The hot one asks why I'm not dancing.  Claw her in, tell her this song is better to dance to with another person.  Grind with her slowly, look into her eyes and makeout.  I tell her that she's really beautiful.  Dance, makeout more.  Tell her I want to talk to her, pull her over to a table, put her on my lap.  Talk to her more.  Lead her around more, go get a drink with her.  Some chodey looking guy says a few sentences to her (in Romanian).  She says she's got to go say hi to him, I tell her to go ahead.  I talk to a cute girl sitting beside me for a bit.  She's been gone for 5 or 10 minutes and I go to grab her.  Still talking to that guy and his friend.  I introduce myself and pull her away after a bit.  She tells me it was her ex-boyfriend. I say I'm much better looking.  She laughs and agrees.

After a while the rest of her friends (some I've met, some I haven't) come and say it's time to go.  They try to brush me off, but I just continue to hang out with them.  Go for food with them.  Me and my girl are being all couply.  She says she really wants to spend more time with me, but it's girl's night.  It's me and my girl + 3 other girls, one of whom is the birthday girl.  I talk to them a bit.  I make two of them laugh and they like me, but the birthday girl keeps on trying to cockblock me.  I get in a cab with all of them, I say I like their friend and wanna walk her home.  Take a cab 20 minutes outside the city center into some shitty looking communist era building.  I walk in with them, the birthday girl says to say goodbye to her.  I say just two minutes.  They open the door and all four beds are in the same room.  Fuck.

I talk to her in the hall way, dirty talk, kiss her neck lick her tits, play with clit, she rubs my dick.  I tell her I wanna fuck her, she says she wants to get fucked by me.  My instincts were to take her to bathroom (big public bathroom in this apartment building) and fuck her there, but I didn't wanna make her look like a with her friends and honestly I was worried about fucking up the interaction.  So instead I did more sexual shit/dirty talk, then said I want to see her tomorrow.  She's says do you promise you'll see me.  I say I really want meetup with you tomorrow and make loose plans.  Her friend opens up the door, looks kinda pissed then closes it.  I say I'll see you tomorrow, kiss her goodbye.  She ignores my facebook messages/friend request.  I guess she felt ashamed for looking slutty in front of her friends or whatever.  She also had a bit of a problem that I wouldn't be able to get into a relationship with her.

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Not sure what I could have done better.  Maybe seed the day two harder.  Add more details and why I wanna see her again  I COULD have just gotten the contact info and continue at the club, but the interaction wasn't super solid at that point.  Also something that was mentioned at hotseat was empathise with her situation more.  i.e. I know your friends don't like me very much.  or whatever so that it's less of a shock to her when she gets objections.

Sidenote:  I remember that girl with the glasses that I didn't approach just as well as the girl I almost banged.  I wouldn't have remembered her if I walked up and she rejected me.  I hate that feeling of "What if?"  Gotta step up :)
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