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Well no fap ain't gonna help you fuck chicks -- do you talk to them?
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RSD Misinterpreted: A Series of Posts on Popular RSD Ideas and How I Used to Misunderstand Them
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
i mean occasionally , but its usally just basic conversation and thats never going to go anywhere.
Im more of the quiet guy when i'm at school , mainly because iv'e been like that for the past 5 years at the school and its not easy to break out of it , with the same people.
Im more of the quiet guy when i'm at school , mainly because iv'e been like that for the past 5 years at the school and its not easy to break out of it , with the same people.
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Yo, bro - CONGRATZ on being into this! I started as a 16 year old boy as well. Well i fucked a girl 1-2 months after really starting with the action in pick-up (don't remember if it was in June or July...). When i closed her - that was the SECOND time i've been to disco. I was day-gamer because my city lacks proper night-life.
What i can tell you from my experience is that a very helpful belief to install in yourself would be - trust you are the cause for success. Not some "no-fapping method", not some "Tolle shit", not some fancy method out there. These can be all good components, nice additions and helpful guidelines. But they're not the base - they're NOT the ONE responsible for the amount of fucking you do. You are. And don't get too deep into that as to be all in your head researching "Who da fuck am i? Durr - am I what Tolle's preaching, or what this ambicious buisness man is telling me... durrr?". The details don't matter so much in this case.
Get to work and don't forget to have FUN while you're at school - those are PRECIOUS times you gotta value and use wisely (like playing pranks on your teachers
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Heh... as Tyler says - it's all good
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What i can tell you from my experience is that a very helpful belief to install in yourself would be - trust you are the cause for success. Not some "no-fapping method", not some "Tolle shit", not some fancy method out there. These can be all good components, nice additions and helpful guidelines. But they're not the base - they're NOT the ONE responsible for the amount of fucking you do. You are. And don't get too deep into that as to be all in your head researching "Who da fuck am i? Durr - am I what Tolle's preaching, or what this ambicious buisness man is telling me... durrr?". The details don't matter so much in this case.
Get to work and don't forget to have FUN while you're at school - those are PRECIOUS times you gotta value and use wisely (like playing pranks on your teachers
) .Heh... as Tyler says - it's all good
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Honestly nobody ever has good responses for high school kids and just say shit like "Go approach a ton of girls cold-approach like at the mall etc" but IMO that's retarded.
My question to you is --- what kinds of things (besides fapping) do you do alone that make you feel good? Like do you run, or listen to certain kinds of music, etc., shit like this? Do you really like reading or learning about certain kinds of stuff? I remember when I was yougner, like 8-10 I read about magic and pets like gerbils and snakes all the time. I never "did" that shit though, and I "kind of" asked my parents for these things but never pushed on it. Later, in high school I was interested in "robotics" but I again never built robots just read about it and wrote about it in college admissions essays, etc. Personally, if I looked back to my 8-16 year old self, I wouldn't be all "Bitch go finger that girl in the corner!" I'd tell myself to DO these things I was into. Also I was like interested in joining the school band but never did. Of course, you can see how this 'holding back' would also translate into 'not talking to girls' later in life.
I would switch my focus more from "I just want to fuck" to "I just want to feel good about myself, my life, and have a higher quality of emotions/life."
It sounds bullshitty/weird but that shit is more where to focus your energy. Go do things in life you're actually INTERESTED in doing. Even if you feel a bit silly asking your parents to buy you a pet gerbil or to buy you gay wrestling spandex so you can join the wrestling team, etc.
This shit sounds so "Oh that's not a big deal" but that's where I wasn't EXPRESSING MYSELF in terms of doing the things I wanted to do even if those around me (family, friends) didn't agree.
So...that sound good? Anything you're not "stepping up in" like the examples above, that you could or should be? Some small thing you can do like that?
My question to you is --- what kinds of things (besides fapping) do you do alone that make you feel good? Like do you run, or listen to certain kinds of music, etc., shit like this? Do you really like reading or learning about certain kinds of stuff? I remember when I was yougner, like 8-10 I read about magic and pets like gerbils and snakes all the time. I never "did" that shit though, and I "kind of" asked my parents for these things but never pushed on it. Later, in high school I was interested in "robotics" but I again never built robots just read about it and wrote about it in college admissions essays, etc. Personally, if I looked back to my 8-16 year old self, I wouldn't be all "Bitch go finger that girl in the corner!" I'd tell myself to DO these things I was into. Also I was like interested in joining the school band but never did. Of course, you can see how this 'holding back' would also translate into 'not talking to girls' later in life.
I would switch my focus more from "I just want to fuck" to "I just want to feel good about myself, my life, and have a higher quality of emotions/life."
It sounds bullshitty/weird but that shit is more where to focus your energy. Go do things in life you're actually INTERESTED in doing. Even if you feel a bit silly asking your parents to buy you a pet gerbil or to buy you gay wrestling spandex so you can join the wrestling team, etc.
This shit sounds so "Oh that's not a big deal" but that's where I wasn't EXPRESSING MYSELF in terms of doing the things I wanted to do even if those around me (family, friends) didn't agree.
So...that sound good? Anything you're not "stepping up in" like the examples above, that you could or should be? Some small thing you can do like that?
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RSD Misinterpreted: A Series of Posts on Popular RSD Ideas and How I Used to Misunderstand Them
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
Despite your idea being good - i can't see how "having fun" and doing retarded shit in class for the same purpose is bad advice. IMHO - those are one of the opportunities to ENJOY life at it's fullest! Man... all of my older gaming friends envy me and say shit like: "If i was there i would've had so much fun and romance with the girls and play basketball 'till i collapse... use your time, yo!".
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Just give the awesomeness! :)
It's all about social value in school. What are you bringing to the table?
In order to bang girls...
You need to create situations in where banging can happen.
I would say dont worry about banging. Worry about creating situations where its just you and the girl hanging out alone.
Then start fooling around with her.
Then get a boner, and make her touch it.
Then just get both naked.
Then win.
You need to create situations in where banging can happen.
I would say dont worry about banging. Worry about creating situations where its just you and the girl hanging out alone.
Then start fooling around with her.
Then get a boner, and make her touch it.
Then just get both naked.
Then win.
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I just want to enjoy amazing girls. Crazy what sort of journey ive embarked on pursuing this quest.
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
Go back to fapping and listen to U5, spend your time well. Pick up is meant for when you have access to bars and clubs.
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critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the
best day in the year. No man has learned anything rightly, until he
knows that every day is Doomsday"
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
FR's detailing my progression
critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the
best day in the year. No man has learned anything rightly, until he
knows that every day is Doomsday"
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
FR's detailing my progression
Go to highschool parties and get drunk and makeout with girls and fuck. That's how it's done in highschool. Cold approach is for later in life. Getting laid in highschool is so easy, as you see everyday.
Socialize with people, meet new people, bring something to the table, be the funny guy, or the interesting guy, or the music guy. Draw attention to yourself, act like a clown in front of girls, run around screaming how you're a virgin. Seriously, make girls laugh and guys will invite you to parties.
Socialize with people, meet new people, bring something to the table, be the funny guy, or the interesting guy, or the music guy. Draw attention to yourself, act like a clown in front of girls, run around screaming how you're a virgin. Seriously, make girls laugh and guys will invite you to parties.
Decent advice but the funny guy and the music guy don't get laid in school. Get access to a car, beer and weapons and you're golden.
Philboy92
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Join Date: 01/26/2012 | Posts: 46
Im still in highschool so there is soo many young slutty girls and guys with 0 game at all , and they're fucking these chicks all the time.
How should I go about getting a quick fuck ?