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I think dave's point is very important for you. There's been several times now where you've "stalled" with a girl and pulled me in to game her instead. You need to plow through that shit instead. If she's not leaving or asking you to leave, then you're still in it.
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7/5/12 Thursday
Best set of the night was a beautiful slim HB9 Thai girl on the dance floor. She's with her girlfriend, and on my approach, she initially waves me away. I stand my ground and speak, she turns around saying "what?". She asks where I'm from, I say Bangkok, we laugh at the obvious lie. After a little bit of rapport/chode chat, I make a serious face and ask her if she's a ladyboy, to which she flips out angrily. I smile and maintain my eye contact, and she eventually bursts out laughing, sweet, passed a shit test. Pull her in while she's laughing, and hug her. Some big dude comes in and splits us apart; apparently guy's been buying her drinks all night. I respectfully step away a bit, and HB9 and her friend widen up their dance circle to include me. Things feel hella awkward with the guy fuming at me, I eject after a minute.
Had a couple of street sets hook as well.
Final random conversation of the night:
Girl: Please tell me what cologne you're wearing, it's so addicting.
Me: Oh, it's just the BO of my friend's dog, he eats a lot of pineapples or something.
Girl: Seriously. At least tell me the name, so I could buy it and masturbate with it
Me: And you'll be masturbating while thinking about some random Korean dude that smells like dog.
End the night with bomb ass oyster fish n chips, yum.
Lessons learned:
1. When interaction starts to stale or get too logical, strong push works wonders (ladyboy).
2. It's better to f*** around with your responses to questions rather than answering logically/truthfully.
7/6/12 Friday
Past week I've had so much energy going out, building momentum, and beasting. Tonight, however, was an off-night. Headed out around 11:00 and soon winged a random set. My interaction with the girl was long, boring, and logical. After ejecting, I realize my state's completely crashed, and I'm really really exhausted. Head back home around 12:00, to take a nap. Along the way back home, I see two girls having late night coffee on an outside coffee table; I open them, sit down, and have a fun chat with them for a while. I love how these type of social interactions is effortless now. Home, take a 30 minute power nap, and bounce back out fresher.
Recharged, I open a bachelorrete girl. Hug her, and she's happy to have me in the group. Adjunkie drops in to play. I tell bachelorette adjunkie was a stripper, and strip tease follows. It's hilarious, group has fun taking flash pics of Adjunkie lapdancing and carrying bachelorette away. Entire club is observing what's going on.
Move onto the street, and approach till the bitter end. Head home around 3.
Lessons learned:
1. Sticking in a boring set (being too logical and not being self amusing) kills state as much as being in a chode circle. I get more fun out of moving on with another fresh approach.
2. When I'm exhausted with a state crash, I can't even laugh. Naps work wonders for me.
7/5/12 Thursday
Best set of the night was a beautiful slim HB9 Thai girl on the dance floor. She's with her girlfriend, and on my approach, she initially waves me away. I stand my ground and speak, she turns around saying "what?". She asks where I'm from, I say Bangkok, we laugh at the obvious lie. After a little bit of rapport/chode chat, I make a serious face and ask her if she's a ladyboy, to which she flips out angrily. I smile and maintain my eye contact, and she eventually bursts out laughing, sweet, passed a shit test. Pull her in while she's laughing, and hug her. Some big dude comes in and splits us apart; apparently guy's been buying her drinks all night. I respectfully step away a bit, and HB9 and her friend widen up their dance circle to include me. Things feel hella awkward with the guy fuming at me, I eject after a minute.
Had a couple of street sets hook as well.
Final random conversation of the night:
Girl: Please tell me what cologne you're wearing, it's so addicting.
Me: Oh, it's just the BO of my friend's dog, he eats a lot of pineapples or something.
Girl: Seriously. At least tell me the name, so I could buy it and masturbate with it
Me: And you'll be masturbating while thinking about some random Korean dude that smells like dog.
End the night with bomb ass oyster fish n chips, yum.
Lessons learned:
1. When interaction starts to stale or get too logical, strong push works wonders (ladyboy).
2. It's better to f*** around with your responses to questions rather than answering logically/truthfully.
7/6/12 Friday
Past week I've had so much energy going out, building momentum, and beasting. Tonight, however, was an off-night. Headed out around 11:00 and soon winged a random set. My interaction with the girl was long, boring, and logical. After ejecting, I realize my state's completely crashed, and I'm really really exhausted. Head back home around 12:00, to take a nap. Along the way back home, I see two girls having late night coffee on an outside coffee table; I open them, sit down, and have a fun chat with them for a while. I love how these type of social interactions is effortless now. Home, take a 30 minute power nap, and bounce back out fresher.
Recharged, I open a bachelorrete girl. Hug her, and she's happy to have me in the group. Adjunkie drops in to play. I tell bachelorette adjunkie was a stripper, and strip tease follows. It's hilarious, group has fun taking flash pics of Adjunkie lapdancing and carrying bachelorette away. Entire club is observing what's going on.
Move onto the street, and approach till the bitter end. Head home around 3.
Lessons learned:
1. Sticking in a boring set (being too logical and not being self amusing) kills state as much as being in a chode circle. I get more fun out of moving on with another fresh approach.
2. When I'm exhausted with a state crash, I can't even laugh. Naps work wonders for me.
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7/7/12 Saturday
Obliteration night. Good mood throughout the entire night. I do a solid 20+ sets over a period of 4 hours - nothing hooks. Half the sets I stay in till it stalls out and the girls leave. I get 2 weak numbers, zero hooks, zero makeouts. This is starting to feel like madness, I'm putting in hard work and effort, with no change in results.
Obliteration night. Good mood throughout the entire night. I do a solid 20+ sets over a period of 4 hours - nothing hooks. Half the sets I stay in till it stalls out and the girls leave. I get 2 weak numbers, zero hooks, zero makeouts. This is starting to feel like madness, I'm putting in hard work and effort, with no change in results.
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don't get discouraged. it's a marathon, not a sprint. you're killing it lately. KEEP GOING.
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Dude I have obliteration nights all the time. You're doing way better than you were a month or two ago, which is really all that matters. You'll get there.
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You're getting there. It's just a matter of time if you keep going. Inevitablely, one of these numbers wil come good. You also hang out with some dedicated RSDN forumists, which is a good crew to have around you.
I had an obligeration night last night too man. How ,long have you been putting in 80-90% effort, willing to SHATTER YOUR HEART, SOUL, AND EGO EVERY NIGHT YOUVE BEEN OUT?
Not that long. You will learn to love the obligeration nights.
The exact words I used with my homie during debrief were: "It was a good bad night, I learned a lot".
This is part of the game man. So it's good you're feeling it now.
Did you follow the gameplan? Good, then you're winning. And YOU WILL GET THERE.
Don't expect to be making jump shots 2 months after you pick up the ball.
-Cat
Not that long. You will learn to love the obligeration nights.
The exact words I used with my homie during debrief were: "It was a good bad night, I learned a lot".
This is part of the game man. So it's good you're feeling it now.
Did you follow the gameplan? Good, then you're winning. And YOU WILL GET THERE.
Don't expect to be making jump shots 2 months after you pick up the ball.
-Cat
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Thanks for the support guys. Time to beast on strong this week.
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I feel like that old man that says stuff like, "I had to walk to school 5 miles uphill each way, 7 days a week, blinding snow every day, even during summer, blah, blah.".
Dude, you don't even realize how fortunate and lucky it is that you hang out with all these cool, dedicated guys in Seattle right now. When I started pickup more than 4 years ago, most of the guys on the lair were extreme keyboard jockeys. The few guys that did go out were mostly weird and creepy in various combinations and they went out sporadically. And, when these guys were out, it was mainly to be a spectator, just to look at what other guys were doing and criticize these guys that were actually approaching girls. It was so bad that Jeffy and Tyler used to warn bootcamp students not to hang out with lair guys in Seattle.
I'd say Seattle is the most active RSD scene right now. Which is kind of an anomoly for a city this size. Few years ago, it was Las Vegas. Then it was New York. Then it was San Francisco. Now, it's Seattle. Just see how many guys are looking for "wings" in LA, New York, Vegas, etc. in the main forum.
Who knows what's going to happen in the future. So, be happy and grateful that you roll with a cool group of guys. Go out and learn to enjoy the process. Focus on the process and the joy of taking action.
Dude, you don't even realize how fortunate and lucky it is that you hang out with all these cool, dedicated guys in Seattle right now. When I started pickup more than 4 years ago, most of the guys on the lair were extreme keyboard jockeys. The few guys that did go out were mostly weird and creepy in various combinations and they went out sporadically. And, when these guys were out, it was mainly to be a spectator, just to look at what other guys were doing and criticize these guys that were actually approaching girls. It was so bad that Jeffy and Tyler used to warn bootcamp students not to hang out with lair guys in Seattle.
I'd say Seattle is the most active RSD scene right now. Which is kind of an anomoly for a city this size. Few years ago, it was Las Vegas. Then it was New York. Then it was San Francisco. Now, it's Seattle. Just see how many guys are looking for "wings" in LA, New York, Vegas, etc. in the main forum.
Who knows what's going to happen in the future. So, be happy and grateful that you roll with a cool group of guys. Go out and learn to enjoy the process. Focus on the process and the joy of taking action.
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" also focus on the STEPS, all this talk about "i feel this way" and "i FEEL that way" who gives a shit how you fucking FEEL. Focus on EXECUTION"--jlaix
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" also focus on the STEPS, all this talk about "i feel this way" and "i FEEL that way" who gives a shit how you fucking FEEL. Focus on EXECUTION"--jlaix
"Self improvement is masturbation, now self destruction ..." - Tyler Durden (Fight Club)
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