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July 24th, 2017
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#51
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Hey sorry about not doing that vid. I did a few takes but they all sucked so I'd rather not put them out.

You're second one is better. You're more relaxed. I'll add on more later as I have work to do right now.
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Lol when you said later in the week I thought you meant Friday or something.
About being more relaxed I agree, but I wonder if it is because this particular girl is more friendly.
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 I haven't really been able to record new vids lately of me talking to chicks at the gym because I've been having issues with my camera.  It only works when it wants to.

Today, I missed the first set.  I noticed a girl who kept giving me eye contact.  I thought I'd just be chill and not, "pounce on that shit" so to speak and just take my time.  She walked around even right near me a couple times.  It was like she was mentally saying, "Approach me! Approach me!"  But I lost my chance about 3 or four times and before I knew it she was gone.

After walking around for a bit, I noticed another girl upstairs using a crossramp.  She looked older, but she was hot enough and her tits must've been at least size 36 DD.  I choded around, continued my workout, walked around etc. I even went upstairs and walked by her then went back downstairs to continue my workout.  Then I finally decided to go up there and talk to her.  I got up onto the treadmill right next to her and tapped her on the shoulder.  She looked over at me and smiled then I noticed that she was talking on the phone.

Me: Hi I just wanted to come talk to you because I think you're hot.
Her: (Laughing) Oh thanks, but I'm married

I almost didn't know what to say.

Me: ok that's cool.
Her: But thank you!
Me: You're welcome. 
 She tries to talk on the phone again, but I said something else that I can't remember.
Her: Hey can I call you back.  (Hangs up)

Then we start talking about nutrition, working out and how often we work out.  She was even laughing at my lame jokes and seemed to enjoy my presence as she was being really nice or she was just being nice.  Then I felt like the conversation was going no where then decide to eject.

I continued my workout still on the lookout for new chicks.  Another hot chick walked past to another side of the room.  I noticed her peak at me.  She SEEMED to be very focused on her workout.  I walked over to that side of the room where I happened to need to go to do my pullups.  She walks right passed me and I stop her.

Me: Hey how's it goin?
She quickly takes her earphones out and sounds suddenly excited to be talking to me.
Her: I'm good how are you!
Me: I'm Vince, who are you?
Her: (With a big smile) I'm Payte (Strange name, but oh well)
Me: Cool. Yea I just wanted to come talk to you because I think you're cute.
Her: HAHAHAHA.  Thank you! So what are you doing?
Me: I'm doing pullups
Her: hahahaha
Me: What's so funny
Her: Just the way you said it.
Me: oh ok
Her: so do you come here everyday?
Me: No
Her: well like how many days per week?
Me: 0. Yea,  I usually go to the Bally Sport in Aurora.  I come to the gym three days a week.
Her: oh Is that where you live or what?
Me: No I live in Green Valley Ranch
Her: oooohh.  Well it was nice meeting you
Me: Are you trying to get rid of me or what?
Her: What?
Me: nothing
Her: No, what did you say?
Me: Nothing nevermind.
Her: OK I'll probably see you around.
Me: Well actually would you wanna meet up sometime? 
Her: I'm sorry I have a boyfriend.
Me: Fuck your boyfriend
Her: (lol) No, It's been a long time.


I left and continued my workout.  after a few minutes, it seemed like she had left already.  I think I'm being too much of a nice guy to these girls.  I also realized that some of these girls WANT to be approached.  They just want the guy to be able to break through all the bullshit "barriers" that hold them back.  I think if I continue to just do more approaches, I will get this shit down.  It's also been suggested that I do more game at bars and nightclubs and I do sometimes.  I may start a seperate thread on that in the near future.
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Amazing1985 wrote:


This is a perfect example of a typical conversation I may have with a woman at the gym.  I don't always game the girls in order to maintain a balance and not be so creepy, language barrier, lack of chemistry, because I have gamed them before, just to be social if I'm not really attracted to the girl etc.  For example I may not actively creep on the yoga instructors for certain reasons, but I WILL socialize with them.  In this video, I'm just trying to be cool, social and friendly with a girl I tried to game a while back.  She either doesn't remember or pretended not to remember me which would be completely understandable because I look soooo much more different than I did about a year ago.  Eventhough I may not have been actively gaming this girl I thought this was still relevant to the types of interactions I may have plus recording myself was a great way to monitor my tonality.  I also noticed this day that thinking too much makes me look weird.


I just walked up to her saying, "Hola, buen gusto!" and just go from there.  I even took my camera out and started fiddling with it thinking she'd ask me about it, but she didn't think much of it at all.  Then I just pressed record.  I didn't have the camera right on her because I didn't want to make it too obvious.
I can't really give you feedback other than that this girl is ghetto and she speaks bad english and I don't know spanish lol.

The whole conversation wasn't fun or flirty.  It was about Age, Kids, And Marriage.   You need to transition out of that shit into something more fun.    Talk about what a great workout you're having.   Talk about how you are going to have a big protein dinner after.   Ask her if she can cook a mean enchiladas and then tell her you are going to invite yourself over so you can get big and buff.  Tell her you love Mexican girls because they all know how to dance and they have curves.

Banter!   Anything "why this why that, I dunno why I don't have kids".  Just be like, hey girl, I'm busy getting my career on.  Anyways.... I am working on my legs... blah blah.  Its crazy how Latinas all have curves... its in their blood.  If you did squats, you would make Jennifer Lopez jealous.  See how I transition out of that shit?
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#56

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Amazing1985 wrote:
This fueled me to talk to more girls.
I opened another girl using an eliptical loudly saying "i'm trying to be cool and friendly." she was not very attractive nor could she speak english so i just walked away.
LOL. i have no clue why i found this hilarious but im breaking down in laughter. you seem a bit too logical. like staying on one topic until it dies or she initiates something else for you to jump onto.  try transitioning shit like squattin said just as if you have adhd
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#57
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Lol I laughed about the ghetto girl comment. I usually don't notice shit like that.I guess I do run out of shit to say. My gym consists of mostly Hispanics. I only know a little bit of Spanish to get me by. Thanks for the feedback, guys.
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#58

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Re:running out of stuff to say - this is a common sticking point, I get the same issue too, so I decided to do some stuff bout it:
I have a drill where unless the girl tells me to fuck off I have to stay in there no matter how awkward, kind of to train my brain what to say. I agree with the othe guy on banter with the girl, but its got to be calibrated. Like saying you will marry the girl is good but only kind of in the the right context. I would say his example is good because its like you're seeing what she says and vibing with it. Guessing their age will always keep the conversation going but only for lke 20 seconds, so maybe you want to talk about how if she's older you could be her toyboy, or how you feel vulnerable being chatted up and she wants to make you her toyboy, like reframe it so she is hitting on you
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#59

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 I never run out of things to say.  You know why?  Because I never leave the set until she 

1. walks away
2. or tells me to leave

It kind of trains your brain to man up rather than leaving to avoid the awkwardness.   This is why I plow the bitchiest girl and not give a damn a nd soon they get mind fucked at my persistence.
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I posted a while back about a girl I met who plays World of Warcraft.  She plays like 20 hours a day and admits that she's a huge geek, but I'd still fuck her.  She started coming back to the gym again and we hung out and talked for a long time and now she wants to do cardio with me.  Eh we'll see.  So we exchanged numbers again.  She says she's not interested and wants to be friends, but always sends me random cute pics of herself.

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