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May 26th, 2017
I approach at the gym
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Amazing1985

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This fueled me to talk to more girls.
I opened another girl using an eliptical loudly saying "i'm trying to be cool and friendly." she was not very attractive nor could she speak english so i just walked away.
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I was wanting to post this yesterday,but my phone was acting up.

There was another hottie using a stair stepper.   She got off and started walking in my direction.  She was so focused listtening to her music.  When I tried to talk to her, she tried to walk around me, but I got in front of her, put my hand out and said stop.  She took her ear phones out.

Me: Hi I'm Vince I just wanted to talk to you cause I think you're cute.
Her: Thank you, I'm married.
Me: It's cool, just cheat on him.
Her: (Laughing) we only have two months so no.  (Walks past me to a treadmill.)


I had left my towel near a machine I was using.  There just happened to be a hot ass woman using the leg press right next to it.  I picked up my towel and walked right up to her.  Then kneeled down next to her.

Me: Hi I just wanted to come talk to cause I think you're cute.
Her: (Smiling) Sorry I don't speak English.
Me: (Hesitating) Estas Linda
Her: (Laughing) Oh thank you
Me: I'm Vince.  (we shake hands)  Como te llamas?
Her: Yessica

She really could not speak much English which made it really hard.

Me: Do you always come by yourself?
Her: No, sometimes I come with my boyfriend.
Me: Oh I have a girlfriend.  Tengo una novia.
She laughs
Her: Mi novio esta celoso.  (She's saying that her boyfriend is jealous.)
Me: No capisco
Her (Laughing then gets up to use the machine I was using earlier)
Me: you mean he's jealous?
Her: yes!
Me: You like that? Te gustas?
Her: No
Me: Well give me your phone number and we can talk later.  Que estas tu numero de telefono?
Her: (Laughing) No puedo.

I continue to try and game her for a while, but her English was just too horrible so I just walk away.
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Went to one of the gyms today. There were two girls i could have talked to, but didn't.
It was fucking retarded.
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SoSly

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Good stuff man , takes balls to approach in the gym..

I dont think I have any interest in it myself.. your workouts seem like they take forever :P
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I take out two birds with one stone.  haha


SoSly wrote:
Good stuff man , takes balls to approach in the gym..

I dont think I have any interest in it myself.. your workouts seem like they take forever :P
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OK  So I started bringing a digital camera to the gym so I can record myself doing squats in order to monitor my form and it has really helped!  Then I got the idea to record myself talking to girls.  I thought it'd be more efficient and helpful than trying to describe everything.  Small warning: my game sucks.

As I finished my squats, I saw this girl using a crossramp on the other side of the gym.  She MIGHT have been cute, but I figured I'd go see her up close.  I set the camera down and set it up facing the girl.  Then covered it up using a small microfiber towel.  A few guys that were working out around me were watching what I was doing so there was no real point in doing this.  I played it off as going to that part of the gym so I can foam roll.  I turned around and started walking back.  When I saw her, I didn't think she was that hot, but OK looking and I figured that since I had the camera on me and everything, I'd talk to her anyway. Btw, she was wearing earphones.  I got in front of her so she can see me.


Me: "Hey, what's,  I just wanted to come talk to you cause I think you're cue---fuckin hot" (or something like that.  I don't remember.  Shows just how important the opener is. I stumbled on the words and found it difficult to hold eye contact.  I also think this might have been creepy, but she didn't seem to be paying attention to that.)
Me: "I'm Vince.  Who are you?" we shake hands.  "how's it goin?"
Her: smiling, "I'm good how are you?"
Me: "I'm not inturrupting your workout or anything am I?"
Her: She hesitates looking at me for a few moments with a look that said, "no"
Me: I break eye contact again and look at the magazine she was reading subcommunicating that I am seeking value.
Her: "Uhhh yea, a little bit."  (I reckon if I had been offering more value, she would have said no.)
Me: "But it's all good right?"
Her: "yea."
Me: "I came over here to foam roll.  Do you foam roll?"
Her: Looking at me like, "wtf are talking about"  She says, "No."
Me: "That's cool.  I dig yoga, but there aren't very many classes here."

At this point I couldn't stop stumbling/ breaking eye contact and the conversation goes fucking no where and I just give up and leave and say, "Alright I'll let you get back to your workout."  I walk back, grab the camera where all the dudes are watching me again and then walk back so I can start foam rolling.
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 LOL at first i thought that the title was just a troll title for shits and giggles......... then i read the field reports
i cant stop laughing
you sire are my hero 
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#48
Shadowz

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Way to smash a common limiting belief.  Love it! 

Cheers,

Shadowz
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I'll record a vid for you later in the week and demonstrate what you're doing wrong. You seem to be fairly cognizant of your sticking points regardless but I'll fill in what I know as well.
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This is a perfect example of a typical conversation I may have with a woman at the gym.  I don't always game the girls in order to maintain a balance and not be so creepy, language barrier, lack of chemistry, because I have gamed them before, just to be social if I'm not really attracted to the girl etc.  For example I may not actively creep on the yoga instructors for certain reasons, but I WILL socialize with them.  In this video, I'm just trying to be cool, social and friendly with a girl I tried to game a while back.  She either doesn't remember or pretended not to remember me which would be completely understandable because I look soooo much more different than I did about a year ago.  Eventhough I may not have been actively gaming this girl I thought this was still relevant to the types of interactions I may have plus recording myself was a great way to monitor my tonality.  I also noticed this day that thinking too much makes me look weird.


I just walked up to her saying, "Hola, buen gusto!" and just go from there.  I even took my camera out and started fiddling with it thinking she'd ask me about it, but she didn't think much of it at all.  Then I just pressed record.  I didn't have the camera right on her because I didn't want to make it too obvious.
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