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December 13th, 2017
I approach at the gym
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#11

JohnnyCanada

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Good shit man. Theres a huge limiting belief that gyms are bad places to meet chicks. Even in mainstream magazines like Cosmo, The Gym is always at the bottom of the list of where chicks prefer to meet guys. Plus there is the competetion with bigger, better looking dudes.

I got a couple numbers from the Gym before but no lays yet. I fucken hate the fact that every chick there is wearing head phones but I shouldn't use that as an excuse
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I don't think it's difficult to talk to GROUPS of girls. I'm buddies with the zumba instructor.  One time she was talking with a bunch of girls from her class and I just walked up and joined the conversation. I've also opened two sets, three sets and mixed sets.  Don't be afraid. I usually I'll only run a set for a few minutes at a time if I'm working out. Otherwise if I'm done and am about to leave or am about to start , it'll be a little longer.  Don't worry about being sweaty and shit.

Not sure about the hugging thing, but I'd be willing to try it just to see what happens.

I'll usually talk about what type of workout they are doing and offer to show them a few things when lifting weights and show them good form and shit like that.  I may even ask them if they come by themselves or if they're with a friend etc.  If their girlfiend(s) show up, I'll chat it up with them as well.

And yes, I'll ask them for the number so we can talk or hangout some time. 
Brune wrote:
Brune wrote:
Cool man, i'm going to try this out. Having problem in the daygame to do this and hook up convo's. If there was a fitness as in nightgame i'd rock the place.
Isn't it hard to talk to them because most of the times girls go in pairs. How long do the convo's usually take. And if i work out i'm most of the time sweaty.

Also would it be weird to go up to them say high and just instantly hug them and say something like, clearly you aren't training hard enough. otherwise I wouldn't hug you if u were all sweaty.
Are you working out alone? she says something.
And then go like: You need some more motivation, cause clearly i'm disturbing you from your work-out and you need more persistence. I'm accepting offers as me being your personal trainer so I can get you sweatin, what about you give me your number so we can hook up some time. 

Thoughts?
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Amazing1985

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One thing that annoys me about the gym sometimes is that there's not ENOUGH cute girls to talk to.  I might leave annoyed sometimes because I didn't get any solid numbers, but then I realized that I needed to be happy working out alone.


jenlawillgetyou wrote:
cool. you're gym must be bigger than a football field
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I personally believe that the girls are just an extra incentive to GO to the gym.  I find them to be so hot and most attractive for some reason.


dcampo3 wrote:
dude.. this is freaking awesome.. i usually take the gym as an off season time.. but there are always some girls which sometimes i feel like approaching.
I think im about to break that reality soon and start approaching girls at the gym... just to learn gym game.
Keep it up bro.
Brune: Dude.. cocky and funny works.. but friendly and cool thats where the thing is at. Ask questions and make fun of their answers.. as if you were interviewing somebody.. and dont forget to kino.
Peace
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Some girls think they are "Sweaty and gross" when they workout and those big buff dudes don't approach.  A lot of guys check out the girls as if they've never seen a girl before.  I smaller guy like me with balls to do so stands out.

I've gotten MANY numbers from girls I've met at the gym. Playin the numbers.  just talk to them they'll remove the headphones. I don't wear them personally.






JohnnyCanada wrote:
Good shit man. Theres a huge limiting belief that gyms are bad places to meet chicks. Even in mainstream magazines like Cosmo, The Gym is always at the bottom of the list of where chicks prefer to meet guys. Plus there is the competetion with bigger, better looking dudes.

I got a couple numbers from the Gym before but no lays yet. I fucken hate the fact that every chick there is wearing head phones but I shouldn't use that as an excuse
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I was hoping to post this last night, but my computer time at the library was up.

Every once in a while I'll travel to a different location in order to change environments/meet the different girls there.  I also saw it as a reason to go in harder than usual.  Last night I only opened two sets.

There was a guy working out with a girl.  I walked up sayin "how's it goin guys?"  There were friendly right back.  I was smiling trying to engage both of them in conversation trying to gage what their relationship was. I talked about how I just coming to this gym, what type of workouts we were doing and shit like like that. I made eye contact with both of them while I was running the set.  The girl seemed to have an expression of, "why is this guy talking to us."  Dude politely says, "Alright man well I've gotta do this set real quick."  We exchange nice meeting yous and I leave to continue my workout.

I went to go walk around real quick in order to see who else was around.  There was another girl working out by herself.  I didn't open up on her until the next time I saw her.  I can't remember what machine she was using.  She was wearing earphones. 

I walked up to her smiling and said, "Hey what's up I'm Vince"
she smiles, takes the earphones out and says, "what?"
Me: "I'm Vince" and shake her hand.  "I just wanted to come talk to you because I think you're cute."

The guy and girl that I was talking to earlier were at a machine right next to hers. They looked over as I was talking to her, but I'm not sure if they heard me.

Her: "Oh well I have a boyfriend though."
Me: stuck a thumb up and said, "cool"
Her: "But we can hang out as friends."

I try to guess her ocupation saying, "Nurse? Paralegal?" She laughs and says she works for ticket master.  I jokingly ask if she could hook it up.  She says no so I tell her I was just kidding. we talk about working out or something for a little bit and I say gotta get back to my workout and I'll see/talk to her later.

I bump into the other dude and ask how he and the girl know eachother.  He says they know eachother from work.  He was being friendly until he had to rush off to his workout real quick.  Before I could re engage either of the two girls they were already gone.  The second girl who was alone waves at me as she leaves the club.
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Did some sets in the gym w my friends, do you have some feedback?  

I'm the guy who went 3rd.  

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Offer to spot her and place your nuts on her forehead.  She will tell you if she likes it or not.  If she doesn't, move on.

NO PECS NO SEX.  NO CURLS NO GIRLS.  Look into getting penis enlargement, bro.


UtopiaFive wrote:
Did some sets in the gym w my friends, do you have some feedback?  

I'm the guy who went 3rd.  

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It could have been complacency, anxiety or both, but I did not flirt with any girls today.  Instead I just had friendly conversation with some of the girls.  I got to yoga this morning about 10 minutes early.  A girl showed up with her yoga card.  I went to get one myself.  When I got back I immediately introduced myself, "Hey what's up I'm Vince.  What's your name?"  We shake hands and she tells me.  We have normal conversation about how long we've been doing yoga and coming to the gym.  She decides to go in as the class is about to start.  After the class, we exchange goodbyes and she leaves.

As I was sitting down, putting my shoes back on, another girl comes and sits next to me to do the same.  I spark up a conversation saying, "Hey what's up!"  I had seen her before, but we've never really talked.  Though she is cute and everything, I wouldn't normally see myself fucking a girl like her because she is so DIFFERENT from the types of girls I usually hookup with.  She was white, looked older and seemed like a bit of an introvert.  Anyways we talked about how she moved here alone for school from Virginia, what college she goes to, where she used to do yoga etc. until she had to go.  We exchanged names and goodbyes and that was it.

During my workout, about 5 or so Hispanic girls came in. I found one to be particularly HOT. Some were cute the others not so much or looked old. I wanted to go up and talk to two of them. It was perfect timing, but I decided to be "Normal" and mind my own business. I was in the locker room thinking about it and thought I'd go up there and go ahead and go for it, but they were gone.

Another girl I talked to works at the front desk on weekends.  We used to talk until my car broke down and I was unable to go to the gym for about two months.  We kind of flirted a little bit and I can tell she was attracted to me by the way she used to look at me.  I finally saw her again today for the first time in three months.  I had met her sister about a week or two ago and she explained that her sister works the front desk on weekends and not during the week anymore.  I told her, "If your sister is who I think shes is, I think she's kinda cute."  (Knowing that she will tell her sister.)  She explained that her and her sister both have boyfriends.  Me: "Oh well she's not cute anymore."  Her: "What?"  Me: lol "I'm just kidding."  So the girl at the front desk know what I think about her. (If she can figure out it's me lol)

When we saw eachother, she smiled at me and said hi.  It was very subtle. Me: "What's up!" Her: "So how's your workout going?"  Me: "I'm just getting started.  I had to do yoga first."  As she leaves, She tells me to have a good workout.  I didn't hear her so I said, "WHAT'S up?"  She laughs, turns back around and says, "Have a nice workout."  Me: "oh ok yea."  She laughs and keeps goin.  I was on my way to say hello to another girl.  I say hello and make idle chit chat for a few seconds before leaving.  I only saw the front desk girl one more time.  We had a quick conversation during my workout and that was it. I thought I'd talk to her again as I was leaving, but she was gone.

As I was filling up my water bottle, another girl came up to get some water.  I said, "Hey what's up!"  Her: "good how are you?"  Me: "pretty good.  Did you just come from this class right here?"  Her: "No, I'm actually teaching a class here."  lol  Me: "oh yea what class?"  Her: "Power kick"  We start talking about it and it's difference from kick boxing until she has to go.

I feel like I could add some comedy to these interactions.
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So I traveled to a different gym again with a whole new agenda:  be friendly and social. Since I had forgotten my shoes, I had to do my squats without shoes.  I was walking around like that.  I had opened up about 7 different girls.  It was nice and crowded when I went.  I basically walked up to them saying, "Hey what's up, I'm Vincent Rodriguez!" "Hey what's up guys, I'm Vincent Rodriguez!" "Hey what's up, I'm Vincent Rodriguez!" "Hey how's it goin, I'm Vincent Rodriguez!" "Hey what's up, I'm Vincent Rodriguez!"  I thought it was such a funny opener that I couldn't help, but smile and have fun the whole time talking to them.  We talked about normal shit.  I told them that I normally go to a different gym. Some girls like to ask "where you from?" and shit like that. As I walked away, I said something to the effect of, "Alright I gotta get back to my workout.  Nice meeting you!" And they'd say something like, "ok nice meeting you too.  See you around."

One of them was an older Hispanic lady with big tits who didn't speak English very well.  I told her my name and she couldn't understand.  She thought I kept sayin "BENZ". I asked what days she workd and she told me, Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday.  She asked if I was coming back to that gym anytime time soon to which I said, "Maybe" and that my next workout day is on Wednesday.  She's all, "I won't be here on Wednesday." We left it at that, exchanged goodbyes and I left.

After I had gotten home, I realized that I fucked up on my workout and had to quickly go to the gym near my house.  It was so dead, but there was ONE hot girl there.  As I was doing my workout, I saw her backside as she was using a ham-glute machine.  I decided to wait until I saw her face before approaching.  She moved to another machine and I was able to see the side of her face.  She was hot.  I decided to make my move.  She was doing lat pulldowns and was wearing headphones listening to music. 

I got up in front of her WHILE she was doing a rep and introduced myself saying "Hey what's up, I'm vincent rodriguez!"  She immediately stops what she was doing, smiles, takes out her earphones and says, "What?"  I introduce myself again and she says, "oh! ok I'm Jessica.  Nice to meet you."

Me: Pausing and looking at her for a moment "Tas muy bonita"
Her: lol "thank you! You speak Spanish?"
Me: "Si. Hablo Paquito Espanol y hablas Espanol."
Me: "we should hang out sometime."
Her: "oh I don't know. We'll see."
Me: "Alright that's cool. So do you always come this late?"
Her: "Yea because I like to be able to use the machines when it's not so crowded.  I'd do the classes, but they don't have them this late."
Me: "Yea, that's cool. So do you come by yourself or what?"
Her: "Yea"
Me: "Yea me too. Let me guess, you're a nurse right?"
Her: "yea!"
Me: "Really??"
Her: "Yea!!"
Me: lol "I can't belive I got that right! How old are you?"
Her: "23"
Me: "Really??"  (I thought she was older)
Her: "Yea""Wait what was your name again?"
Me: LMAO!! "I'm vincent Rodriguez. And you're Jessica right?"
Her: " yea"
Me: "You should come help spot my on the weight bench."
Her: She changes the subject and we start talking about going out in general and she tells me of all the clubs she goes to.
Me: "That's cool.  I go to those places sometimes, but I haven't gone lately.  I like raves better, I think they're more fun.  Lately I've been coming to yoga in the mornings."
Her: "Joga?!"
Me: "Yea yoga, do you do yoga?"
Her: "No I don't like it."
Me: "why not?"
Her: "Because. I don't know."
It was seriously getting late and I was thinking about finishing up and leaving.
Me: "So hey I gotta finish my workout, I'll talk to you later."
Her "OK!!"
Me: I got my phone out "so what's your number?"
Her: she gets out her phone and her hands start shaking. I think it was because she had pictures of a kid on there. I had also been ignoring the ring on her left hand on that one finger. 
Me: "you know what? I think this is love at first sight, babe."
we both laugh for a moment.
She had to go into her phone and get her number so she starts reading it to me.
Me: "ok yea sorry I wasn't sure what you were doing" lol "You don't know your own phone number?"
Her: "No." (Cause it's a new phone or some shit doesn't matter.)
So I start putting it in my phone and she tells me to call her so she can save my number.
Me: "Go ahead and answer it."
Her: She rejects the call and gives a slight spazzy scream.
Me: "Oh no she didn't answer"
we both laugh for a moment.
As I was saving her number I asked if I was distracting was distracting her from her workout.  She says yes and laughs tapping me on the arm playfully as if she were just kidding. (Even though she had gotten busy talking to me while she was in the middle of her workout.
Me: "You're distracting me from my workout."
She doesn't react much. She asked for my name again and I told her.  She tries to save it as "BENZ" so I try to correct her and she just gives me the phone so I can save it.  (That was the second girl that thought my name was "Benz".  I actually kinda like that name, "Benz")
Me: "Oh my god you're such a dork!"
Her: lol
I said somewhere in here, "I feel like making out with you right now." She didn't say anything, but I got some sort of yet receptive vibe from her.
Me: Smiling, "Alright so yea I'll probably text you or call you or whatever."
Her: "ok"
Me: "I'll see you later."
Her: "ok"
So then I leave to finish my workout.  Again English is her second language.  If I could speak Spanish, I would.  I think that I could've tried to hold her hand or lead her to the yoga room and made out with her or something.

I said later to one of the personal trainers as I was leaving for the locker room. He comments that I didn't workout very much.  As I tried to explain what happened, he also comments that I'm always talking to girls, that I need to focus and stop talking to girls.  I laugh and say fuck that. I honestly don't think that'll happen.

This happened yesterday.  I texted her today saying, "Hey fea meet me at the gym tomorrow so we can workout together ;P"  No response. *shrug*

I learned later on today that I still have feelings of neediness and people can see that.  THIS is something I need to work on.  Other than that, I think these intereactions had gone pretty well.
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