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whats your opinions about asking girls how many guys are they seeing/sleeping with or dating?
The fact that you even care suggests a number of things thatwould indicate poor inner game. I don't care about this information at all. At the same time, I don't want to hear about it at all, but otherwise.... yeah no I have too much shit going on in my life to waste mental/emotional processor space on hand wringing over whether or not some fuck buddy of mine is having mans peepee placed in her hooha. To me it's about the same as asking her "did you do the laundry this week? What kind of detergent dId you use?" It's not useful to my life in any way and i simply do not care.
Having said all of that, I ask you... what are the underlying reasons that make you care about this?
Having said all of that, I ask you... what are the underlying reasons that make you care about this?
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I genuinely don't care either at this point in my life, regardless of learning pickup. But I remember when I was younger I used to obsess over this. It was possessiveness & severe insecurity with perhaps a pinch of emotionally abusive control. The thought of her with another guy IN THE PAST was obviously so threatening that I would flip the fuck out and feel like I needed to beat the memory of that guy. Stupid shit and usually ended up causing problems for both the girl and myself with no gain. Came from seeing the girl as a priceless object I didn't deserve and only by her thinking sex was lovey dovey and the previous guys were all nothing compared to me because look at what a NICE guy in comparison. Ugh I'm embarrassed just thinking about it.
Edit: shit yeah I just remembered. I would often ask early on too because then I would use it to figure out how to manipulate her into being into me by trying to duplicate whatever she liked. This was before any of the game existed, when I was a little fucker.
Edit: shit yeah I just remembered. I would often ask early on too because then I would use it to figure out how to manipulate her into being into me by trying to duplicate whatever she liked. This was before any of the game existed, when I was a little fucker.
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Seems like a really strange thing to want to ask her man.
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Authenticity / Congruency is attraction.
Value does not exist. There is no such thing as high or low status behavior.
Value does not exist. There is no such thing as high or low status behavior.
i can identify with this mate, If shes hot you probably want the exclusivity with that hot "high" valued chick :J
If you care enough to ask the question you won't be able to handle the answer.
Simple trick:
Tell girl you expect exclusivity if shes fucking around with you, and that you will only fuck around with her also. Then bang other girls.
wat?
Tell girl you expect exclusivity if shes fucking around with you, and that you will only fuck around with her also. Then bang other girls.
wat?
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My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
The fact that you even care suggests a number of things thatwould indicate poor inner game. I don't care about this information at all. At the same time, I don't want to hear about it at all
I agree. Hell I just pretty much assume that every chick I talk to is single unless she either announces she has a bf/husband or if said bf/husband/white knight gay friend (more often than not its probably that last one) threatens to kick my ass if I don't stop mackin on his chick. I've gotten approached by so many of these psychotically jealous faggets in disguise lately, I'm starting to get sick of it.
I agree. Hell I just pretty much assume that every chick I talk to is single unless she either announces she has a bf/husband or if said bf/husband/white knight gay friend (more often than not its probably that last one) threatens to kick my ass if I don't stop mackin on his chick. I've gotten approached by so many of these psychotically jealous faggets in disguise lately, I'm starting to get sick of it.
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People are either objects, tolerable objects, or subjects depending on how they treat you.
Stop trying to impress chicks. Stop trying to impress guys. Impress yourself for a change.
Be Greedy, not Needy.
Make it a win for both you and her.
I, Hardcase: Advice and analysis for anyone who considers themself a Hardcase Newbie:
Part 1 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/291325/forum
Part 2 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/292242/forum
Part 3 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/293113/forum
Even though they all say that they're real I know that most aren't. -Eminem
Lament not your vanquished fantasy; its only destiny. -Bad Religion
People are either objects, tolerable objects, or subjects depending on how they treat you.
Stop trying to impress chicks. Stop trying to impress guys. Impress yourself for a change.
Be Greedy, not Needy.
Make it a win for both you and her.
I, Hardcase: Advice and analysis for anyone who considers themself a Hardcase Newbie:
Part 1 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/291325/forum
Part 2 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/292242/forum
Part 3 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/293113/forum
Thanks alot. This shit really got me in the mindset i was lookong for. Honestly, I guess theres still something in me that wants to to feel validated. Like i feel like the shit and im looking for proof to keep telling me that. Thats just me being completely honest. I guess id make me feel "better" to know that im the ONLY one. Which i know i shouldnt depend on external happiness but theres still something in me that needs validation. Haha. But i also get what you say because i have always had a mindset that every girl cheats. Thanks alot for your help. Ima work on that!!!
The fact that you even care suggests a number of things thatwould indicate poor inner game. I don't care about this information at all. At the same time, I don't want to hear about it at all, but otherwise.... yeah no I have too much shit going on in my life to waste mental/emotional processor space on hand wringing over whether or not some fuck buddy of mine is having mans peepee placed in her hooha. To me it's about the same as asking her "did you do the laundry this week? What kind of detergent dId you use?" It's not useful to my life in any way and i simply do not care.
Having said all of that, I ask you... what are the underlying reasons that make you care about this?
Having said all of that, I ask you... what are the underlying reasons that make you care about this?
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Maybe he has the hot wifing syndrome.
He finds it hot and masochistic
LOL
Having said all of that, I ask you... what are the underlying reasons that make you care about this?
He finds it hot and masochistic
LOL
Having said all of that, I ask you... what are the underlying reasons that make you care about this?
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