THE FORUMS
relax and take action
and juliens drama thing works a bit too well its kind of distrubing
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I don't have dreams i have goals
aka take action and everything will fall into place
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resistance
are you talking about YOURS?
or from the girl?
somewhat irrelevant, it flows either way, just giving you room to clarify what you're talking about
are you talking about YOURS?
or from the girl?
somewhat irrelevant, it flows either way, just giving you room to clarify what you're talking about
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►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
What made you reach the point where you just got disgustingly good?
What was the mental/cognitive switch that made you realize how good you are? How do you eliminate the doubt that the girl just isn't gonna be into you?
I guess I mean how do you create extraordinary circumstances where you get threesomes, fuck one - two different girls in 24 hours, get the "HB10" in the bar/club; how do you create an ecosystem where you're constantly going out to nightclubs?
What was the mental/cognitive switch that made you realize how good you are? How do you eliminate the doubt that the girl just isn't gonna be into you?
I guess I mean how do you create extraordinary circumstances where you get threesomes, fuck one - two different girls in 24 hours, get the "HB10" in the bar/club; how do you create an ecosystem where you're constantly going out to nightclubs?
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resistance
are you talking about YOURS?
or from the girl?
somewhat irrelevant, it flows either way, just giving you room to clarify what you're talking about
yh didnt write this very well at all last night....there are still a couple of things i want to test are you talking about YOURS?
or from the girl?
somewhat irrelevant, it flows either way, just giving you room to clarify what you're talking about
yh i mean yours not from the girl...the girls reactions are generally irrelevant.....what im going on about here is a new level of emotional control i feel ive reached.
Like yesterday i felt like i was miles away from where i felt like i could be in this and i was still stopping girls and making out with them without any verbals and one chick without any physicality or verbaals AND she had a boyfriend
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.read later.
Congruence+Momentum=State
People always forget about the first part of the equation, because it just isn't mentioned that often. But congruence is SO FUCKING KEY. Momentum without congruence is absolutely useless, and only produces a very intense and unstable emotional state thats bound to crash later in the night.
Be honest with yourself when you approach the first girl of the night. Go into your body, and genuinly express how you internaly feel. If you've been inside the house all day, you're probably going to be feeling a little awkward and introspective. EXPRESS THAT. Yes, you can even verbalize it to the girl like: "Hey whats up, I just got in here and I feel kinda weird. Anyways, hows your night?" The important part is that you didn't resist how you felt in the moment, and this non resistance will allow the emotional wave aka "State" to come.
Of course, congruence without momentum is just not very effective, but when you combine the two, your results will get fucking scary. Go up congruent just like I explained above, but also minimize time in between sets. This sounds intense, but its actually very relaxing and theraputic. Its not like "HIT, HIT, HIT, HIT" its more like floating around from set to set. Because you're not resisting how you internaly feel, you will be extremely relaxed.
By incorporating this, you will hit state like never before. It will NOT BE intense, energetic, or crazy. Instead, you will be RELAXED, EXTREMELY ENTITLED, and GENERATE ATTRACTION EFFORTLESSLY. What I mean by effortlessly is you will reach a point where you feel NO NEED to convey value, and your game will naturally become minimalistic. You will naturally speak slower, feel comfortable in silence, and put all the tension on her to qualify herself. This will all happen automaticaly; none of your behavior will be contrived; it will be a pure manifestation of your internal state and level of entitlement.
People always forget about the first part of the equation, because it just isn't mentioned that often. But congruence is SO FUCKING KEY. Momentum without congruence is absolutely useless, and only produces a very intense and unstable emotional state thats bound to crash later in the night.
Be honest with yourself when you approach the first girl of the night. Go into your body, and genuinly express how you internaly feel. If you've been inside the house all day, you're probably going to be feeling a little awkward and introspective. EXPRESS THAT. Yes, you can even verbalize it to the girl like: "Hey whats up, I just got in here and I feel kinda weird. Anyways, hows your night?" The important part is that you didn't resist how you felt in the moment, and this non resistance will allow the emotional wave aka "State" to come.
Of course, congruence without momentum is just not very effective, but when you combine the two, your results will get fucking scary. Go up congruent just like I explained above, but also minimize time in between sets. This sounds intense, but its actually very relaxing and theraputic. Its not like "HIT, HIT, HIT, HIT" its more like floating around from set to set. Because you're not resisting how you internaly feel, you will be extremely relaxed.
By incorporating this, you will hit state like never before. It will NOT BE intense, energetic, or crazy. Instead, you will be RELAXED, EXTREMELY ENTITLED, and GENERATE ATTRACTION EFFORTLESSLY. What I mean by effortlessly is you will reach a point where you feel NO NEED to convey value, and your game will naturally become minimalistic. You will naturally speak slower, feel comfortable in silence, and put all the tension on her to qualify herself. This will all happen automaticaly; none of your behavior will be contrived; it will be a pure manifestation of your internal state and level of entitlement.
pringles
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Yh went out tonight hottest girls all up on my dick to the point where the hottest girl got sooooo pissed at me for not paying her attentin she left the club
Got with the girl i thought was the hottesdt then was like meeeh i want to dance with my mates she keeps dancing with guys infront of me to make me jealous..im thinking 'chiil girl i'll come back in a second' she ends up dancing with a friend in front of me to try make me jealous....me *no reaction....so she makes out with him then looks at me....me *no reaction....her insecurities turned me off and so i makeout with another girl...she happens to be around gets upset and leaves ha
anyway how did i get here tonight? Ive been playing around with the structure of my night
It comes down to 3 things
1 having a clear direction of wheere you want to end up,,,,,i KNOW if im behaving in congruence with my natural personality aka presence (no thinking) positive dominant and taking action (acting on impulse) I CAN'T NOT BE ATTRACTIVE...thats the goal i aim to be as congruent with that as possible on any given night
2 i know there is the possibility of resistance.......the key here is to accept the ressitance FULLY and have the mindset thay 'yh i know there is resistance to where i want to go but i'll try until i die so i'm fine living with this resistance forever' and you continue with part 3
3 knowing there will be resistance but sticking to your game plan anyway i.e i know what im aiming for....oh there are obstacles? I-FUCKING-RELEVANT and going towards ure goal anyway
I.E u want to be present but there is chatter in your head my thoughts go like this 'ohhh my mind won't shut up thats cool will keep on going towards the goal regardless' then u get that effect of state washing over you and you just 'arrrive' in the zone not really knowing how you got there,....this is sooooooo key if you dont get what im saying ask and i will elaborate when im slightly less in pimp mode.
Another tip is ure night ALWAYS gives you opportunities to go where you want so if you want to be funny that night....go in and be normal....opportunities from your environment will present themselves to you to say somethign you find funny (note this is only for when you are really out of it like i was tonight
this probably dosent make sense.....so ask questions