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May 25th, 2013
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marked9

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 Where is that piece that Tyler talks about inner strength and feeling powerful inside? Wasnt that in blueprint? Are there any other videos on this? 

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Umm almost all his videos are about inner strength and feeling powerful inside.

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 That is right, all pieces put together makes that strength. I was looking for something that very deep in one's mind. That changes even those small things, right from stronger handhake, stronger voice, just feeling completely powerful deep inside.  all actions are driven by that power. I had it, I lost it, can't seem to find it again. Donno which piece starts first. donno where is the root. 
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 Thanks Finisher. 
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 I'm going to write a post about it soon, but basically, it comes from accepting what you think, feel and want to do at the moment. It comes from accepting what you feel and being authentic about it. We have the wrongful notion that you have to be confident to pull, you don't. You can pull while nervous, depressed, angry, sad, scared, any emotion. Authenticity, or congruence, is what draws people to you. When your thoughts, emotions and actions are in alignment, you stop thinking, and your inner core shines through. When you accept what you think, feel and do, no matter how pathetic or low status behavior you think it is, you access your inner core, your soul shines through, you enter the moment, you get into state, relaxed arousal, or whichever word you choose to put on it.

It can be accessed from any emotional state, any thoughts, anything. It's strange that people have never wondered why being a nice guy gets you laid, but being an asshole also gets you laid, being upbeat gets you laid, but being relaxed also gets you laid, being happy gets you laid, but being really depressed and deep also gets you laid. Your emotional state means nothing, but when you are congruent to what you feel, which means instead of fighting it, you simply are it, allow it to be, you become authentic. It's almost like your thoughts, emotions and actions are gatekeepers, and once you allow them to be and they come into alignment, a little crack opens, where your soul shines through. That little spark of "realness" is what people live and die for. 

That's the memory of the first love, the only real sweetness in life, that's when you can feel who you are, without needing to think about it. But if you fight yourself, you will destroy it. Forget about bodylanguage, or confidence, or positive thoughts and emotions or anything. People do not care about any of that, it's smoke and mirrors. People want authenticity, they feed off of it, when you bring it, they feel it inside themselves, it turns them on, draws them to you. But that means that no matter what you think, "i'm a loser, she's too good for me" etc, and no matter how you feel "fear, nervousness, anger, shame, guilt" and no matter what actions you want to take "shake, look down, have bad bodylanguage, say something stupid" you have to allow it to be there, you have to act it out, let it be there, be it. That's authentic living. 

That's why broken man game works.

That's why ass hole game works, and nice guy game, party guy game, and chill guy game, hipster game, emo game, hippie game and so on. 

The only thing that decides how much a person gets laid, is how many emotions he feels okay about expressing, he feels okay about feeling and acting out. Your range of acceptance decides the range of emotions in which you can be authentic, which decides how attractive you are. 

You can forget all about high status behavior, low status behavior, body language, looks, everything. Be authentic, that's all. In all emotions, in all situations, all thoughts. It does not mean be honest in what you say, it means be okay with what you feel, or rather, feel what you feel, allow what you think. You think you're a loser? No problem, it only becomes a problem if you fight against it, then it kills your state, then you communicate through your head, become inauthentic, become a thought process, your light disappears. 

Once thoughts, emotions and actions are aligned, it creates a straight path through which the light of your inner core shines through. 

Then you instantly start feeling better, and any emotions you have become positive versions of themselves. Anger turns to power, sadness turns to nostalgia, fear turns to excitement, living authentically in acceptance of what you feel turns you into King Midas, everything you feel becomes gold. 

There exists nothing such as a negative thought or negative emotion, there exists only the pain of fighting against yourself and judging what you think and feel as wrong. 
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Spot on.

Ha, dogs wear their exact state of feeling on their face...chicks have no choice but to touch them.

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Thorzen wrote:
 I'm going to write a post about it soon, but basically, it comes from accepting what you think, feel and want to do at the moment. It comes from accepting what you feel and being authentic about it. We have the wrongful notion that you have to be confident to pull, you don't. You can pull while nervous, depressed, angry, sad, scared, any emotion. Authenticity, or congruence, is what draws people to you. When your thoughts, emotions and actions are in alignment, you stop thinking, and your inner core shines through. When you accept what you think, feel and do, no matter how pathetic or low status behavior you think it is, you access your inner core, your soul shines through, you enter the moment, you get into state, relaxed arousal, or whichever word you choose to put on it.

It can be accessed from any emotional state, any thoughts, anything. It's strange that people have never wondered why being a nice guy gets you laid, but being an asshole also gets you laid, being upbeat gets you laid, but being relaxed also gets you laid, being happy gets you laid, but being really depressed and deep also gets you laid. Your emotional state means nothing, but when you are congruent to what you feel, which means instead of fighting it, you simply are it, allow it to be, you become authentic. It's almost like your thoughts, emotions and actions are gatekeepers, and once you allow them to be and they come into alignment, a little crack opens, where your soul shines through. That little spark of "realness" is what people live and die for. 

That's the memory of the first love, the only real sweetness in life, that's when you can feel who you are, without needing to think about it. But if you fight yourself, you will destroy it. Forget about bodylanguage, or confidence, or positive thoughts and emotions or anything. People do not care about any of that, it's smoke and mirrors. People want authenticity, they feed off of it, when you bring it, they feel it inside themselves, it turns them on, draws them to you. But that means that no matter what you think, "i'm a loser, she's too good for me" etc, and no matter how you feel "fear, nervousness, anger, shame, guilt" and no matter what actions you want to take "shake, look down, have bad bodylanguage, say something stupid" you have to allow it to be there, you have to act it out, let it be there, be it. That's authentic living. 

That's why broken man game works.

That's why ass hole game works, and nice guy game, party guy game, and chill guy game, hipster game, emo game, hippie game and so on. 

The only thing that decides how much a person gets laid, is how many emotions he feels okay about expressing, he feels okay about feeling and acting out. Your range of acceptance decides the range of emotions in which you can be authentic, which decides how attractive you are. 

You can forget all about high status behavior, low status behavior, body language, looks, everything. Be authentic, that's all. In all emotions, in all situations, all thoughts. It does not mean be honest in what you say, it means be okay with what you feel, or rather, feel what you feel, allow what you think. You think you're a loser? No problem, it only becomes a problem if you fight against it, then it kills your state, then you communicate through your head, become inauthentic, become a thought process, your light disappears. 

Once thoughts, emotions and actions are aligned, it creates a straight path through which the light of your inner core shines through. 

Then you instantly start feeling better, and any emotions you have become positive versions of themselves. Anger turns to power, sadness turns to nostalgia, fear turns to excitement, living authentically in acceptance of what you feel turns you into King Midas, everything you feel becomes gold. 

There exists nothing such as a negative thought or negative emotion, there exists only the pain of fighting against yourself and judging what you think and feel as wrong. 

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Sure
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 Thanks Finisher. 
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Thorzen wrote:
 I'm going to write a post about it soon, but basically, it comes from accepting what you think, feel and want to do at the moment. It comes from accepting what you feel and being authentic about it. We have the wrongful notion that you have to be confident to pull, you don't. You can pull while nervous, depressed, angry, sad, scared, any emotion. Authenticity, or congruence, is what draws people to you. When your thoughts, emotions and actions are in alignment, you stop thinking, and your inner core shines through. When you accept what you think, feel and do, no matter how pathetic or low status behavior you think it is, you access your inner core, your soul shines through, you enter the moment, you get into state, relaxed arousal, or whichever word you choose to put on it.

It can be accessed from any emotional state, any thoughts, anything. It's strange that people have never wondered why being a nice guy gets you laid, but being an asshole also gets you laid, being upbeat gets you laid, but being relaxed also gets you laid, being happy gets you laid, but being really depressed and deep also gets you laid. Your emotional state means nothing, but when you are congruent to what you feel, which means instead of fighting it, you simply are it, allow it to be, you become authentic. It's almost like your thoughts, emotions and actions are gatekeepers, and once you allow them to be and they come into alignment, a little crack opens, where your soul shines through. That little spark of "realness" is what people live and die for. 

That's the memory of the first love, the only real sweetness in life, that's when you can feel who you are, without needing to think about it. But if you fight yourself, you will destroy it. Forget about bodylanguage, or confidence, or positive thoughts and emotions or anything. People do not care about any of that, it's smoke and mirrors. People want authenticity, they feed off of it, when you bring it, they feel it inside themselves, it turns them on, draws them to you. But that means that no matter what you think, "i'm a loser, she's too good for me" etc, and no matter how you feel "fear, nervousness, anger, shame, guilt" and no matter what actions you want to take "shake, look down, have bad bodylanguage, say something stupid" you have to allow it to be there, you have to act it out, let it be there, be it. That's authentic living. 

That's why broken man game works.

That's why ass hole game works, and nice guy game, party guy game, and chill guy game, hipster game, emo game, hippie game and so on. 

The only thing that decides how much a person gets laid, is how many emotions he feels okay about expressing, he feels okay about feeling and acting out. Your range of acceptance decides the range of emotions in which you can be authentic, which decides how attractive you are. 

You can forget all about high status behavior, low status behavior, body language, looks, everything. Be authentic, that's all. In all emotions, in all situations, all thoughts. It does not mean be honest in what you say, it means be okay with what you feel, or rather, feel what you feel, allow what you think. You think you're a loser? No problem, it only becomes a problem if you fight against it, then it kills your state, then you communicate through your head, become inauthentic, become a thought process, your light disappears. 

Once thoughts, emotions and actions are aligned, it creates a straight path through which the light of your inner core shines through. 

Then you instantly start feeling better, and any emotions you have become positive versions of themselves. Anger turns to power, sadness turns to nostalgia, fear turns to excitement, living authentically in acceptance of what you feel turns you into King Midas, everything you feel becomes gold. 

There exists nothing such as a negative thought or negative emotion, there exists only the pain of fighting against yourself and judging what you think and feel as wrong. 


10/10.


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Thorzen wrote:
 I'm going to write a post about it soon, but basically, it comes from accepting what you think, feel and want to do at the moment. It comes from accepting what you feel and being authentic about it. We have the wrongful notion that you have to be confident to pull, you don't. You can pull while nervous, depressed, angry, sad, scared, any emotion. Authenticity, or congruence, is what draws people to you. When your thoughts, emotions and actions are in alignment, you stop thinking, and your inner core shines through. When you accept what you think, feel and do, no matter how pathetic or low status behavior you think it is, you access your inner core, your soul shines through, you enter the moment, you get into state, relaxed arousal, or whichever word you choose to put on it.

It can be accessed from any emotional state, any thoughts, anything. It's strange that people have never wondered why being a nice guy gets you laid, but being an asshole also gets you laid, being upbeat gets you laid, but being relaxed also gets you laid, being happy gets you laid, but being really depressed and deep also gets you laid. Your emotional state means nothing, but when you are congruent to what you feel, which means instead of fighting it, you simply are it, allow it to be, you become authentic. It's almost like your thoughts, emotions and actions are gatekeepers, and once you allow them to be and they come into alignment, a little crack opens, where your soul shines through. That little spark of "realness" is what people live and die for. 

That's the memory of the first love, the only real sweetness in life, that's when you can feel who you are, without needing to think about it. But if you fight yourself, you will destroy it. Forget about bodylanguage, or confidence, or positive thoughts and emotions or anything. People do not care about any of that, it's smoke and mirrors. People want authenticity, they feed off of it, when you bring it, they feel it inside themselves, it turns them on, draws them to you. But that means that no matter what you think, "i'm a loser, she's too good for me" etc, and no matter how you feel "fear, nervousness, anger, shame, guilt" and no matter what actions you want to take "shake, look down, have bad bodylanguage, say something stupid" you have to allow it to be there, you have to act it out, let it be there, be it. That's authentic living. 

That's why broken man game works.

That's why ass hole game works, and nice guy game, party guy game, and chill guy game, hipster game, emo game, hippie game and so on. 

The only thing that decides how much a person gets laid, is how many emotions he feels okay about expressing, he feels okay about feeling and acting out. Your range of acceptance decides the range of emotions in which you can be authentic, which decides how attractive you are. 

You can forget all about high status behavior, low status behavior, body language, looks, everything. Be authentic, that's all. In all emotions, in all situations, all thoughts. It does not mean be honest in what you say, it means be okay with what you feel, or rather, feel what you feel, allow what you think. You think you're a loser? No problem, it only becomes a problem if you fight against it, then it kills your state, then you communicate through your head, become inauthentic, become a thought process, your light disappears. 

Once thoughts, emotions and actions are aligned, it creates a straight path through which the light of your inner core shines through. 

Then you instantly start feeling better, and any emotions you have become positive versions of themselves. Anger turns to power, sadness turns to nostalgia, fear turns to excitement, living authentically in acceptance of what you feel turns you into King Midas, everything you feel becomes gold. 

There exists nothing such as a negative thought or negative emotion, there exists only the pain of fighting against yourself and judging what you think and feel as wrong. 

I must say... i kinda misjudged you. You seem legit, although a bit too serious. Nevertheless - finish the article, bro - post it - and may the Force be with you! :)
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@Mitizaro - wow, maybe now I can sleep at night. 
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