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Which is a good thing then? If really good looks helps screen out LSE girls...
Too much of a good thing eh? You can definitely be too good looking, too cool, too smooth in the eyes of a woman, especially if she's low self esteem. She'll assume you have something to hide.
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My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
LSE+Daddy Issues, that's my kind of girl.
I look like those dudes on the magazines AND I´m crazy.
Tyler is right.
I get some gimmies and that´s great for building confidence.
Looks help you because you have more entitlement naturally because of retarded social conditioning.
But they don´t matter AT ALL once you cracked the matrix and are into RSD stuff.
But if you want to compete with me, you still have to catch up the entitlement that I have solely because of my looks or that extra spark of attention that I get from it.
Tyler is right.
I get some gimmies and that´s great for building confidence.
Looks help you because you have more entitlement naturally because of retarded social conditioning.
But they don´t matter AT ALL once you cracked the matrix and are into RSD stuff.
But if you want to compete with me, you still have to catch up the entitlement that I have solely because of my looks or that extra spark of attention that I get from it.
Fact is looks matter until you start talking to the girl, that's it. Everyone who actually goes out knows that.
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Authenticity / Congruency is attraction.
Value does not exist. There is no such thing as high or low status behavior.
Value does not exist. There is no such thing as high or low status behavior.
I disagree slightly Thorzen.
If you have great vibe, bodylanguage, let everybody know you are the party, you beat the shy good-looking dude a million times.
If you have great vibe, bodylanguage, let everybody know you are the party, you beat the shy good-looking dude a million times.
I honestly think chicks have different expectations for good looking guys, like they will expect a good looking guy to also have good social skills and good core confidence. But they will expect a average or bad looking guy to have bad social skills and low core confidence.
But in the end they are not the end all be all of attractiveness...its one of those things that can only help not hurt. Good social skills and being congruent is the end all be all of attractiveness IMO
But in the end they are not the end all be all of attractiveness...its one of those things that can only help not hurt. Good social skills and being congruent is the end all be all of attractiveness IMO
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Even though they all say that they're real I know that most aren't. -Eminem
Lament not your vanquished fantasy; its only destiny. -Bad Religion
People are either objects, tolerable objects, or subjects depending on how they treat you.
Stop trying to impress chicks. Stop trying to impress guys. Impress yourself for a change.
Be Greedy, not Needy.
Make it a win for both you and her.
I, Hardcase: Advice and analysis for anyone who considers themself a Hardcase Newbie:
Part 1 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/291325/forum
Part 2 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/292242/forum
Part 3 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/293113/forum
Even though they all say that they're real I know that most aren't. -Eminem
Lament not your vanquished fantasy; its only destiny. -Bad Religion
People are either objects, tolerable objects, or subjects depending on how they treat you.
Stop trying to impress chicks. Stop trying to impress guys. Impress yourself for a change.
Be Greedy, not Needy.
Make it a win for both you and her.
I, Hardcase: Advice and analysis for anyone who considers themself a Hardcase Newbie:
Part 1 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/291325/forum
Part 2 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/292242/forum
Part 3 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/293113/forum
yeah true, the thing is that sometimes I can build an ego around looks and actually EXPECT women to come approach me and when it doesnt happens, it fucks with me.....getting completely over looks has been my biggest sticking point because I relied on them for sooooo long even tho I've actually put myself through a "ugly" phase where I intentionally experimented with looking like SHIT and thats actually when I did the BEST because I didnt have a big ego about it
Fact is looks matter until you start talking to the girl, that's it. Everyone who actually goes out knows that.
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Yeah, I'd like to see the instructors make themslves as ugly as they can and see some video of their pulling success...just for a goof...
yeah true, the thing is that sometimes I can build an ego around looks and actually EXPECT women to come approach me and when it doesnt happens, it fucks with me.....getting completely over looks has been my biggest sticking point because I relied on them for sooooo long even tho I've actually put myself through a "ugly" phase where I intentionally experimented with looking like SHIT and thats actually when I did the BEST because I didnt have a big ego about it
Fact is looks matter until you start talking to the girl, that's it. Everyone who actually goes out knows that.
Being good looking is like having a good build in sports, it will give you an edge in the amateurs but wont help you with the pros
For a girl it is roughly
80% behavior, both yours and how others behave towards you
10% looks in the form of grooming etc (which you can easily control)
10% genetics, stuff you cant control.
In a world with majority of chodes those 10% will give you and edge and thus other chodes will think that looks equals success.
Looks doesn’t build businesses, looks doesn’t kill dangerous animals, looks doesn’t win wars. If you have nothing else to go on then sure looks at least have some value, that’s also the reason why girls need more time to build attraction for the simple reason that looks are not nearly enough.
From every logical standpoint it is stupid to worry about looks for attracting girls, its like working on your looks to be an CEO for a big company, Its not what they are looking for and a stupid strategy to have.
Just as you dress in a certain way in business you should pay attention to your grooming and the stuff you can control, its stupid to make it harder then it has to be if you can easily control those 10% and give yourself a good start.
For a girl it is roughly
80% behavior, both yours and how others behave towards you
10% looks in the form of grooming etc (which you can easily control)
10% genetics, stuff you cant control.
In a world with majority of chodes those 10% will give you and edge and thus other chodes will think that looks equals success.
Looks doesn’t build businesses, looks doesn’t kill dangerous animals, looks doesn’t win wars. If you have nothing else to go on then sure looks at least have some value, that’s also the reason why girls need more time to build attraction for the simple reason that looks are not nearly enough.
From every logical standpoint it is stupid to worry about looks for attracting girls, its like working on your looks to be an CEO for a big company, Its not what they are looking for and a stupid strategy to have.
Just as you dress in a certain way in business you should pay attention to your grooming and the stuff you can control, its stupid to make it harder then it has to be if you can easily control those 10% and give yourself a good start.
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