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Dr Feelgood

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I recently got myself two FBs, never had that before. So any advice on that subject is welcome.

For example: After how many meetings do you think it will be "solid" (= easy to meet her again)? When (if ever) can I stop gaming her?

How is it with talking about other girls? Neither of my FBs has brought up that topic so far on their own, and I didn't do it either. I plan to just keep it that way.

What would be your No. 1 advice about FBs?

Only people with real life experience on this, please!
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alienantfarm

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If you have an FB it is solid. What do you mean...
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sucker4love

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Dr Feelgood wrote:


For example: After how many meetings do you think it will be "solid" (= easy to meet her again)? When (if ever) can I stop gaming her?
After the second fuck you should be good to go. First fuck = ONS, second = FB
You can never stop gaming a girl. You need to game a FB, a LTR and even a wife. Sorta different types of game but same fundamentals in all situations.


How is it with talking about other girls? Neither of my FBs has brought up that topic so far on their own, and I didn't do it either. I plan to just keep it that way.
Do not talk about other girls. Keep it on the back burner and just have fun with her. I'm sure she expects you to be fuckin other girls and you can be sure she is fucking other guys but talking about it is usually tacky.
What would be your No. 1 advice about FBs?
Keep it casual and avoid dates. Straight to her place or yours for a bang is ideal. Most importantly, fuck them good. If your relationship is only based on sex, you better pound that ass or she will give more priority to other fuck buddies.
Only people with real life experience on this, please!
Lots of experience here, had fuck buddies basically all my life and only one 2 LTR's. Best thing to know is to keep it casual and avoid any serious talk.
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Dr Feelgood

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Thanks, sucker! Sounds like good advice.


sucker4love wrote:



Dr Feelgood wrote:


You can never stop gaming a girl. You need to game a FB, a LTR and even a wife. Sorta different types of game but same fundamentals in all situations.

Of course. Could you expand on the difference between girl-whom-you-havent-fucked-game and FB-game though?

Also, you say don't date her, but I like to hang out with them from time to time. So going to the theatre for an evening or whatever won't make it more complicated, will it? No "romantic dates" though, I'm clear about that.
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Dr Feelgood wrote:
Thanks, sucker! Sounds like good advice.




sucker4love wrote:





Dr Feelgood wrote:


You can never stop gaming a girl. You need to game a FB, a LTR and even a wife. Sorta different types of game but same fundamentals in all situations.

Of course. Could you expand on the difference between girl-whom-you-havent-fucked-game and FB-game though?

Also, you say don't date her, but I like to hang out with them from time to time. So going to the theatre for an evening or whatever won't make it more complicated, will it? No "romantic dates" though, I'm clear about that.
docs still a beast
this is were it gets fucked up,if you start dating her and chilling with her on the reg she will start seeing you as her potential bf or bf. then say she invites you some place with her friends and you dont go she will come to the conclusion that your using her for sex. Then what happens is when you holla at her it will look see through and... poof shes gone.
just fuck her for as long as you want then discard it dont matter just get another one? 

the difference is that you have fucked her so you are a sex worthy man. Just be you. you shouldnt have to game because she fucked you! not the 'game'
you and the game our the same thing 'i'.
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Dr Feelgood

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William-h-bonney wrote:





Dr Feelgood wrote:
Thanks, sucker! Sounds like good advice.






sucker4love wrote:







Dr Feelgood wrote:


You can never stop gaming a girl. You need to game a FB, a LTR and even a wife. Sorta different types of game but same fundamentals in all situations.

Of course. Could you expand on the difference between girl-whom-you-havent-fucked-game and FB-game though?

Also, you say don't date her, but I like to hang out with them from time to time. So going to the theatre for an evening or whatever won't make it more complicated, will it? No "romantic dates" though, I'm clear about that.
docs still a beast
this is were it gets fucked up,if you start dating her and chilling with her on the reg she will start seeing you as her potential bf or bf. then say she invites you some place with her friends and you dont go she will come to the conclusion that your using her for sex. Then what happens is when you holla at her it will look see through and... poof shes gone.
just fuck her for as long as you want then discard it dont matter just get another one? 

the difference is that you have fucked her so you are a sex worthy man. Just be you. you shouldnt have to game because she fucked you! not the 'game'
you and the game our the same thing 'i'.
Ha ha, Will! Good to hear from you!

First paragraph: This is where it gets interresting! if her friends are cool, I don't mind hanging with them from time to time (in one case, I met some of them the night I met her, seemed cool enough to me). I really don't think she wants to press me into that BF thing, it just doesn't feel that way and she has never mentioned anything like this.

Phrase in bold: Don't understand. Maybe typos?

How have you been doing lately, did you bring joy to the ladies?
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Interesting thread! idea
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 OH SWEET.

Feelgood you pimpity pimp pimp.
Hard work paying off.

Watch juliens latest video on relationship dramas.
Good stuff for FB management.
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Fuckbuddies are my speciality. The most important rule is to not see her more than once a week (you can break all rules but not this one, never ever). Preferentially after sex don't sleep at her place or let her sleep at your place. It seems as if you only distinguish between FB and girlfriend. If you want to go to the theatre with her and/or meet her friends and/or have an emotional connection and still fuck other girls, make her your MLTR.
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HalfEmpty

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 Agree with the sleeping with her, IME that's always the clincher... she'll at least become a primary after that.

Have gotten a way with more than once a week.

The whole "solid" thing is a fuild concept".

Some girls are just using you to hold their over until they find a boyfriend. Some are looking to turn you into a boyfriend. Some don't want anything but casual sex.
Depending on this is how solid they are, not the number of times.

Talking with other girls... girls get jealous, just a fact.  I prefer to be honest with girls, but not rub it in their faces... this minimizes any drama.

Number one advice.... Use them to really hone your sexual skills and explore your limits.
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FrancoPUA

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HalfEmpty wrote:
 
Have gotten a way with more than once a week.



It can work and you can get away with it. However, if your objective is to avoid drama and to continue the FB-status for as long as possible without her developing expectations and demanding an upgrade i would strongly advice against it.
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