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"Don't worry about being unreactive just be proactive." -Jeffy
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Philosophia biou kybernētēs
Philosophia biou kybernētēs
It means you keep your shit together.
What if she is acting like a crazy bitch towards you or ur friend? (like calling you a pussy or saying you never get laid or screaming that ur a loser to everyone). Cuz in that case i think i would enjoy putting her in her place . I mean if it wer a dude i wld def react. And im not gna give her any special treatment just for having a vagina.
In my opinion u can react but dont get all butthurt about it. But thats just me...more experienced guys may have better advice.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OhyhzlL-hh8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WmMMg8BiqDE
In my opinion u can react but dont get all butthurt about it. But thats just me...more experienced guys may have better advice.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OhyhzlL-hh8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WmMMg8BiqDE
I think I got confused with this. I have thought that when a girl is being a bitch to you that nonreacting means "not saying anything" and go into "zombie mode". But is nonreacting more like you keep your good emotional state unaffected, so when a girl is being a bitch you just kinda smile and laugh?
Ambiguity posted about this back in 2010 I believe. I think he is still banned. You can ask instructors or get someone to reiterate. Its bascially just not compromising your expectations. The problem with Eckhart Tolle in his opinion is based upon the misconceptions of what people think he means. It leads to misunderstandings and the assumption that nonreaction means being a Buddha statue. I don't think he sees the value in Eckhart but, I can and do. I actualy am into traditional martial arts (not random mma schools with no culture or history) and a huge fan of meditation. It helps keep you stable in times of trouble. There tends to be a ripple effect in state. Your either up or down. I am just out of a relationship so, I am trying to ground myself back into the game. You don't need to lose your mind on girls but, you don't want to be her punching bag either. __________________
Whenever you meet a beautiful woman, just remember somewhere there's a man who's sick of shagging her.
By 'not reacting to her shit' or being 'unreactive' you are still reacting to the girl.
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By 'not reacting to her shit' or being 'unreactive' you are still reacting to the girl.
Very true but, you could take a martial artist, and apply the same wisdom here. In a situation of violence or confrontation, the martial artist (traditional martial artist not random mma schools) may choose to engage or walk away. Maybe even run. Run being the best option. Why? Well, if he engages, maybe he puts the man in a wheel chair or kills him over a disagreement or his bad mood? I think this is a great example of the similar circumstances with a female. She could be moody, she is wanting attention, and validation. She gets none, is upset about being cheated on or circumstances, and is acting up. If you engage, she wins since, she got what she wanted as the guy who picks a fight. There still is another variable. What if the man is not just confrontational but, he then attacks? Its upon his discretion to engage or not. The way I have it, I would do everything in my power, and ability to disengage but, the point of attack or in mid attack, it would happen quickly, and be over in a blink of an eye. The same should be with a female once she gets to that point. It just takes time to be the guy who knows when that is. __________________
Whenever you meet a beautiful woman, just remember somewhere there's a man who's sick of shagging her.
You can put a bitch in her place, as long as you are not doing it from an emotional reaction. If you get a surge of anger and you feel your identity threatened, then you are reacting. If you are above this shit, and feel in power, you can tell her to chill the fuck out.
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Authenticity / Congruency is attraction.
Value does not exist. There is no such thing as high or low status behavior.
Value does not exist. There is no such thing as high or low status behavior.
How do you act around people you have known all your life or 5 year olds. You don't react to them. You are 100% yourself. That is what not reacting is.
When I go home and my parents are there, I'm not in my head, not thinking a second ahead. Im just being me. Not reacting. I'm just like Hey!
I have been guilty of reacting lately, though.
When I go home and my parents are there, I'm not in my head, not thinking a second ahead. Im just being me. Not reacting. I'm just like Hey!
I have been guilty of reacting lately, though.
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http://www.rsdnation.com/node/187340/forum?page=9 - My Journal - When I had the click (sort of). Report 95 +
have you ever actually SEEN it?
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The only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved, desirous of everything
at the same time, the ones who never yawn
or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
like spiders ac r o s s the stars.
-Kerouac
The only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved, desirous of everything
at the same time, the ones who never yawn
or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
like spiders ac r o s s the stars.
-Kerouac
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Fuck this unreactive shit.
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