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May 22nd, 2013
Ploughing through til close: Experiences and opinions?
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CharlieT

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I was having a beer with a friend of mine who's been doing cold approach for about 3-4 years. He's pretty decent, has a few girls on the go at the moment and he's good at ploughing through initial resistence when he's in field in terms of getting a girl to stop being bitchy and open up, maybe even get them out on a date or something.

But he made an interesting observation. He went through every girl he's actually closed the deal with (about 15) and he noticed that every single one of them was positive or even excited from the very open. Obviously some tests in between but always a positive start. Anyone here relate to this? Had the opposite experience? Discuss! 
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CharlieT

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 Bump....Does my thread really suck that bad guys?
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AndyB

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Interested to hear some opinions on this one
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CharlieT

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 Well as least two people care. One more bump and then I'll just let it die if no one has any perspective on this. 
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Amazing1985

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I think this is very trivial and you should do more apporaches. Usually if the girl responds well at first, it is smooth sailing. Though it's not necessarly because she's a slut or just coincidentally happened to be craving some cock, it's cause you are money.

I've experienced a lot of ends of the spectrum though not enough. Ie: girl wants me then loses interest or she wasn't into me at first then started feeling attraction then lost it etc.

I think I just realized something. It can work out in waves. At the beginning, she can be completely interested or not at all. If you plough through, the attraction can either go up or down. In different amounts depending on the situation or where you are at in your game.

I tend to try to just assume she's into me until she gets unbearably annoying/retarded.
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If a girl is a bitch to you at first, don't talk to her! She doesn't deserve your time, you are the screener. You only need to plow, if she may show signs of shyness at the beginning. Then the only persistence you should use is getting her to a place where you can close the deal.
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Colt

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here's my take

you plow 3 times if she's still a bitch and.negative you walk.away.
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Turok

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no certainly not true.  If you only bang girls who initially open very well you probably are shooting yourself in the foot by not persisting properly and letting them figure out you are attractive.  It can take some time they don't just "know"
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Foxx

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You have to be persistent to an extent. Being persistent is congruent with the frame "I really want this girl right now." A lot of the time when you're really persisting and the girl is repeatedly (but while laughing, smiling, tugging at your shirt) keeping you at bay 9 times out of 10 SHE'S going to be more dissapointed than YOU if you don't close the deal!
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Foxx

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Colt wrote:
here's my take

you plow 3 times if she's still a bitch and.negative you walk.away.

Number four and you woulda had it, bro.
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