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A good text to send to girl I laid who doesn't respond?
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Dr Feelgood

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So I fucked this black/ mixed race chick, 26 years, working in some media agency, an HB8-HB9. I got her number in daygame, had immedeate attraction, we got along really well. I took her out to play billiard, then to a bar, KC, took her home for hot times. In my place she gave me a shitton of verbal resistance and was really obnoxious, she didn't give me any physical resistance though. She didn't consider herself pretty and I guess she had some self esteem issues from the racism she had to go through.

I guess I didn't fuck her well, because she is exactly my type and I was a bit intimidated by her beauty (no rough treatment, etc). So I called her a week or so later and we had a short, rather dry convo.  She said she didn't know if she had time for a date a couple of days later, she would have to get out of bed to grab her calendar and would text me back. Of course, this never happened.

I guess this is pretty much over, but I will send another text (better than calling) - which one would you suggest? Would love to fuck her again!

I thought about the old school stuff "I just saw your twin!" - something like "Ha ha, that's hillarious! I just saw a girl looking exactly like you - on [shopping street where we got to know each other]!"

What do you think about that one? I'm gonna send the text from this threat that sounds most convincing!

EDIT: That phone call was on May 9th already, I wanted to keep her waiting for at least 2 weeks (which turned into more time, as I haven't made time to put up this thread before).
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sucker4love

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I'd hold off about a week from texting her. She obviously is either having her own problems right now and being bitchy to you about it or you did something to turn her off last time. Either way give it a week and don't seem needy then send her a non-chalant text like "I'm in the neighborhood, lets grab a drink."
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Dr Feelgood

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Thanks for response!

I forget the phone call was on May 9th, I wanted to keep her waiting for 2 weeks (which turned into 3 weeks). And no, this text is definitely not gonna cut it anymore, she has gone too cold for stuff like that already!
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The Third Wheel

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 Send her something among the lines of her playing with you and that you feel played with. Take the victim role.
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sucker4love

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trololol
The Third Wheel wrote:
 Send her something among the lines of her playing with you and that you feel played with. Take the victim role.
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Dr Feelgood

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sucker4love wrote:
trololol


The Third Wheel wrote:
 Send her something among the lines of her playing with you and that you feel played with. Take the victim role.

Lol, taking into account the amount of your posts, I thought you were just a clueless newbie, Third Wheel! But trolling this thread is not a very nice move of you, young man, ha ha!
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 I think it isn't about waiting 1-3 weeks as a way to demonstrate non-neediness is effective. It's just like routines, gimmicky.

Was there any neediness after? If yes, that's probably the reason why she's not soo keen with meeting up again. I shit the bed a lot of times because of the neediness...

Also don't try those gamey quirky texts...Do something that suits your personality. Ask yourself...What would Dr. Feelgood who has abundance with women do? And then do it.

I think you should call, just normal fun convo and then try to ask her out again.

Best of luck and hopefully see you soon. I cannot leave the country for the next 30 days. Feels like back in the communist days :D :D

EDIT: I thought his idea is hilarious...Like calling her, crying over the phone, being all butthurt, saying "you just used me for sex, i feel worthless, i feel used..."

"How could you do this to me?" "I am just a fragile nice and young boy" "you just used me like a piece of meat"

"Like a condom, used and thrown out"

Self amusement chinaboi style
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Don't judge a book by it's cover. ;) But it can work if it suits your personality, I didn't have a strong frame when I started and back then such gimmicks did work for me as it suited me.
Another thing to note is that the alpha way RSD advocates isn't the only way to go about this. If you look at the naturals the alpha guys aren't the only ones. Ever looked at artists that are naturals? The do this stuff a whole different way yet it works for them because it suits their personality.
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sucker4love wrote:
trololol


The Third Wheel wrote:
 Send her something among the lines of her playing with you and that you feel played with. Take the victim role.

Lol, taking into account the amount of your posts, I thought you were just a clueless newbie, Third Wheel! But trolling this thread is not a very nice move of you, young man, ha ha!
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Paris Boum Boum

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"I am pregnant"

Don't know if it can work, haven't tried, but it seems fun. 
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Firewater

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 I think you need to be a little more forward.  You already fucked her, you should be on a more personal level.  
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Most of them just look like silly retards having a fun time -- which strangely, is ultimately what girls are attracted to.

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Manwhore

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 The issue here is you didn't fuck her like a boss. It's kind of like.. well I've already completely seen what this guy is made of and it's some nonsense. NO REASON to meet up with you again. 
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