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Chode Campos 3.0 "LTR Campos"
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TropicalMan

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What do you mean by qualifying yourself? Too much without game I think I am forgetting haha.

so?
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dcampo3

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like saying: "Yea.. I am an engineer". Kind of trying to impress them. I guess its not thaaaaaaat bad.. but its not so good
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Van wilder

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Hey dude,

what is your typical verbal part of your game in daygame ? i mean do you go always direct you follow with a cold read or something?

I am like alex in verbal asking direction,sitation or something then showing some intent..sometimes this work sometimes wont.

Thanks
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dcampo3

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@Van Wilder: Hey bro. I go direct. I try not to have a canned line or routine because i know that eventually fucks me up.. when i get all robotic. So i try to go as blank as possible and then open with a direct line, try to make it very funny.. and then proceed to ask stuff about her. If it is cold approach in the street gotta make sure you keep her calmed or normal, because sometimes its just really hard to believe for them that someone just freaking came out of nowhere to talk to them. Well that at least here.

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Chode Campos 2.1: Day 4 (October 4th, 2013)
Location: Miraflores, Lima


"Keep the knife and sharp, and be ready to slice the meat"


Keeping the knife sharp. Well today.. i didnt approach much. My mom came from Costa Rica to visit me and my brother, and we were going to have an awesome dinner. So yea.. didnt want to stay much time approaching. However i did do 2 approaches, and got a facebook close from one of them. Well.. had one because i forgot the name damn it lol..... You might ask why i asked her for the fb.. the thing is that she had a boyfriend and whenever i get the boyfriend thing i usually dont ask for a number because i dont know.. maybe she will be like "NO MAN.: CANT GIVE YOU MY NUMBER MAN". .. so yea i try to avoid it.

I liked today. Great chance to take some mothafucking action. I wish i could have done more game today, but today was more than enough.

I also had some texting with the girl i met yesterday. She didnt seem quite receptive but i was able to make her open up. Cool. Well see how this goes in the future. Tomorrow im going to another city and i dont really know if ill be able to approach or anything

Approaching:
Approached 2 sets.
Daygame:
Saw a cute girl, side stop, go direct, shes laughing, she tells me shes 17.. we talk, after some minutes shes like wtf.. and says shes getting scared and just leaves kind of like nervous. I believe this was because i was saying lots of shit and not really paying attention to how she was feeling. I believe she was kind of retarded for just leaving like that but still.. i should have shown more empathy and more social awareness.

Cool.. so next approach.
Saw a girl, kind of cute, nice lower body. Shes walking slowly, side stop, and then i see her, shes laughing, and i tell her i think i know her (i dont know why i did this). She just said "no no hehe" and left. Cool... however, in my mind im like: "FUCK IT.. I MUST RETURN". So again, i went to her, got her attention, shes smiling, and tell her that the reason why i came the first time was because i confused her with a high school friend, but now im there because i thought she was quite cute. The girl was just laughing, she tells me her name, we talk, and after asking questions i realize shes waiting for her boyfriend. DAMN IT.. she tells me the guy is coming like right now. I am like "Girl.. you must tell him im your high school friend". She agrees, i take her facebook (which i fucking lost......).. and i grab a small leave from the floor, give it to her and tell her that that leave represents the beginning of our awesome friendship lol. Weird ass shit. Anyways, right after that the boyfriend came, and we said bye.

Damn i cant believe i lost the facebook and dont remember her name (it kind of pisses me off...). I almost feel like i wasted my day lol.. but not really, i believe it was a great experience.

Quitting the game gets you rusty in some areas, but the growth potential is greater

Ok.. now that ive been approaching for 4 days in a row.. i can feel that yea i have felt rusty in some areas of the game.
-A bit on self qualification.
-Also on social calibration. I am forgetting that girls may be feeling weird sometimes.
- A bit too direct on my closing. Maybe i have to be a bit more reserved.

I feel like i may be acting too much through my own intentions.. but i feel like i somehow need to get more socially calibrated. I know its about time. Maybe by half of this challenge.


I must say.. for having restarted, having closed girls with contact info 3 days out of 4, thats fucking good. I mean.. the numbers may not be super solid .. but its something.
Well see what the future brings

Peace out!
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dcampo3

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Chode Campos 2.1: Day 5 (October 6th, 2013)
Location: Miraflores, Lima


"Hmm... First weeks dont count"


Hehe i say this because.. it is very clear that this week im kind of like  recovering from the whole rest time i had in pick up. I thought at the first it hadnt really affected my game but it has. Anyways.. the positive side is that I do feel a lot more free in my interactions, but still some rustiness. The girls I have closed this week basically were flaky numbers, or really fucked numbers lol. Even my insta date today was kind of weird lol.

So YEA!! Today was the first day i sarged with Tropicalman after many weeks. At first, we were there walking around, and we couldnt approach for shit. We figured out that it was because we didnt want to see each other getting rejected or approaching girls we didnt like. SO! We set up an approaching game where basically, whenever i would see an approachable girl, i would send my brother, and he would do the same for me. ""THE EGO CRUSHER GAME".  It went pretty good!. I met a nice woman. ill read more of it in the approaching section.

Approaching:
Approached 2 girls.
Daygame at night:
So.. it was sunday night.. and time to approach. We see some girls, we dont approach them because we are being gay, so we set up the game.

First girl my brother sends me to is kind of like in her 30s.. but was cute. I usually dont approach girls this old but fuck it. I follow her into a shopping store, and i go to my brother "For the all times man"
I approach her, she kind of gets embarassed and i had to catch her attention like 3 times, but she just smiled and left. Oh well... i did it.

Next approach, cute girl waiting outside a mcdonalds. I go there, my approach is like: "Hi.. yea i was doing kind of like a challenge.. I had to tell you that you are pretty.. but its not really a challenge.. i really think you are pretty". We talk, shes laughing, says she waiting for a guy. She says hes just a friend. In my experience, that has to a date.
So cool.. she talks on the cellphone.. apparently the guy is going to take a while. Tropicalman comes .. i introduce him.. i ask him what hes gotta do. He says nothing. I ask the girl if she wants to go for a coffee. She agrees. We go for a coffee.. then Tropicalman leaves saying he has to study. Cool. I sit with the girl.. and we talk a lot. I did no physicality.. i dont know why. I was being kind of like a pussy. Playing conservative as hell. I felt like i was doing lots of errors. Maybe cus i havent had a date in a while. Well. she seemed to like the date.. and then she gave me her facebook. Sadly.. i just checked and there is no add option... so i had to fucking pay money to send her a message. I FUCKING USED MONEY TO PAY FOR A MESSAGE TO A GIRL I JUST MET...
Oh well... i dont know. I guess its better doing that than not doing it. For some reason.. i am very insecure lol.. and i think she wont add me.
Anyways.. we were having the coffee.. she had given me her facebook.. we were talking.. and the guy came. First thing the guy does is: "WHO IS GUY? YOUR FRIEND?". I am like: "Hi.. yea we are friends". he doesnt even look at me. The girl just laughs.. tells me bye.. kiss on the chick.. I tell her bye.. say bye to the guy try to shake hands. He doesnt want to but kind forced it lol. She left.

I smell lots of potential success

Yea.
I smell a looooooooot of potential success. Like this week.. even while being a bit rusty and shit.. dude somehow im managing to get some girls. Like today i think i got a good lead.. and im also talking with the girl with boyfriend i met 2 days ago. Lol.. that girl likes me a lot but also likes that guy. Gonna have to be patient with that one.
I see lots of great things coming in the next months :D heck yea

You know whats gonna be cool? Whenever i go back to the US on december, and i meet up with my college friends to party. Hehe.. the guys are going to see a complete different Diego from the ones
Man.. i miss my old friends so much. Best time of my fucking life.

The week is not over yet.. but im loving it :)

Peace out!
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dcampo3

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Chode Campos 2.1: Day 6 (October 7th, 2013)
Location: Miraflores, Lima


"Life goes a full circle over and over again"

Yea.
Have you ever had one of those moments when something to you happens.. and it hadnt happened to you in a while? Almost like you said: "THERE IS NO WAY THAT CAN HAPPEN TO ME AGAIN.. IT WAS WHEN I USED TO BE LIKE THIS".
Well.. the girl from yesterday with whom i had the insta date.. she flaked on me. Why? I dont know. I hadnt had a girl flake on me after having a long ass date in a whileeeee. I remember last time that shit happened to me i was hurt man. I was fucking hurt.
I was thinking about it and maybe it was because i was kind of gay.. playing not to lose.. not playing to win.. and also because i lacked physicality.. and was a bit flat on emotions to her. Maybe the fact that i hadnt had dates in a while and that i was a bit nervous. Maybe.
Maybe it wasnt me.. Maybe it was just her too. Maybe the guy that came was her boyfriend. Maybe.

Truth is that... things that you thought they wouldnt happen again.. they might happen again to you from time to time. Maybe this is not the last time i get flaked like this. Maybe this means I have to realize that I need t man up more the next time im in front of a girl that i really like. Oh well..

Today.. i really wanted to sarge more. I feel im still not at a 100%.. but im there at 80-85%. Getting there boy. Getting there.
Sadly.. i could only go to sarge for like an hour.. and i just saw one approachable girl. Damn it. Ive also been texting a lot with the girl that has a boyfriend that i met like 3 4 days ago. Shes really cute.. and seems very into me.. but at the same time.. i dont know if shes willing to cheat on the guy. Apparently the guy is super angry at her for having met me. Crazy shit

ANYWAYS!!
Tomorrow its holidays here.. so i will try to sarge for some hours.
At least approach 5 different girls or get an insta date which is also fucking good.
OH! I also set up a date for tomorrow with a girl I met months ago and i had never dated her.

Approaching:
1 girl.
Daygame:
A thick girl, kind of cute.. fuck it!. must approach something because i was not going to have another chance for the day. Approach from behind, she gets surprised. I tell her find it really pretty. Shes like: "Yea.. haha thanks but im not that pretty for you to come and stop me". Yea. i told her to not be so low self steem.. lol. Apparently she was about to see her boyfriend and was on a hurry.. to be honest.. she was a bit fat.. so i didnt care. just told her bye.

Tomorrow hitting it hard to compensate for today.

Getting back in momentum

Yea im getting back in momentum
I feel like whenever i leave the gym for a while and my first week im just going there to kind of get my muscles used to the activity. Feel the same thing
Curiously.. even when i have only been trying to get used to it.. shit has happened lol. Some numbers.. insta date. . I wasnt expecting that to be honest lol.
But yea.. i have to say that it feels good to be back.

Tomorrow ill finally complete my first week doing pick up after the rest :P

Peace out!
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What does all this really mean? What is the actionable takeaway? That's the problem with "advice" like this. It somehow seems to say "oh actually you don't need to do anything to get girls." When in reality, the guys that actually became really really good took massive amounts of action and it was really hard....especially the part about staying in the game long-term, and sticking with it over and over and over and over. 

I also don't like how posts like this aren't inspiring or motivating. 
savant wrote:
You don't need game to get laid. The reason you were "chode" is not because you didn't have game so even if you get game you'll still be a chode, a chode with game. Game is a catalyst or a vector to open your eyes so that you can feel free to be you, game doesn't give you what you already have, when a guy makes a transition from routine to just being free to say what's on his mind we don't say he is version 2.0 or he has acquired game now, he is just being himself now you might say who I am is a chode and that's ok, due to conditioning and environment that's how much self worth you feel, that you are not more so what needs to be done are things that build character mainly fears or whatever, to a point game takes you there but anything in excess creates an imbalance, in gym you can train to extreme levels and achieve fast results only for a certain period before diminishing returns kick in where those same actions actually make you worse, same with game, once your past a certain point perhaps you can approach, talk and lead comfortably there is diminishing returns, in your words, what gets you to 2.0 won't get you to 10.0 but I don't see the process as adding it is more like revealing more of you, letting go if the conditioning example with the lines, you learn you don't need them "wow I can be myself , the movies told me I need the right thing to say".. One day its "wow I don't need rsd, I can be me". Ultimately it's all you and all you need to do is challenge yourself in a way that builds or reveals character. This then falls into everything you do, game won't take you the whole way and there will come a point, hopefully while you're still young, that you can just be you in front of girls, in reality you are not overcoming women or the game, it's you, and there are many ways to do this. You don't have to be an "intermediate" with 6000 posts
and 400 page fr to be yourself
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Actually you need 250 pages...
savant wrote:
You don't have to be an "intermediate" with 6000 posts
and 400 page fr to be yourself
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Tay

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Join Date: 10/08/2013 | Posts: 3

yo good to see the consistancy of going out man, even after taking a break. Its tuff to keep that motivation up. Stoked for more to come. 
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Van wilder

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Go Go dude,You have prove here that you can get what you really want if you are deticated to this! i check your frs very
frequently.
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