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Boomer

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I’ve been going out every weekend since I first made my account on RSD and reading and watching the good material RSD puts out, but I was never consistent in actively picking up chicks. I wasn’t focus. And never really took as much action. I’ve gone out for 5 months and I really don’t feel any change from going out. Today that changes. I will take baby steps to accomplish this.

Goals

Just be more normal and comfortable with approaching

Action Plan

My only focus is these two things:
1)Just approach a lot of sets in the night.
2)Maintain Eye Contact with everyone.

I will go out Thursday, Friday, and Saturday to the bars no matter what. I will write field reports for all nights I go out.
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MiljanZ

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Good luck bro :)
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Boomer

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Thanks Bro!

Thursday
So Thursday night went down like this. Went with my buddies, and I don't think they really know about pick up. But our goal is ultimately have fun and pick up chicks. And they are down to pick up chicks Thursday, Friday, and Saturday every week. We agree that I will be the DD cause all of them love drinking, and they don't want to drive. haha Plus, I want to game sober. Before we enter the bar, I was talking to some people passing by and it was just  felt comfortable. We enter the bar and go up the second floor cause thats were the loud music always plays. We all get like a really weak beer. I agreed for one beer for the night. We sit for 5 minutes drinking and then that YMCA comes on and we are all playing along and singing it and doing the YMCA arm symbols.

Afterwards we decide to go bar hopping to a more hip young bar. We go in the bar and literally its empty but we just go in and we met these girls that complained about one of my buddies last week when he was really drunk and was just hardcore creeping one of them. We talked to them and said sorrry, and just chatted for like a minute. My friends all get a beer except me, and then a girl was trying to read one of the dollar bills at the bar next to me, I opened her with "Hey what cha looking at?" She read me what the grafetti on the dollar bill said. I just introduce my name and she was friendly and reciprocated her name. Then that was the end of that. Since they were doing kareoke in the bar, I decided me and one of my buddies are going to sing my favorite song, "Stacy's Mom"!

The last two singers were good, and I got a little nervous because I suck at singing, but I just told my mind that its not a big deal. Me and friends rocked it out cause we knew the lyrics inside and out so we went up to cute chicks and started singing to them and dancing like nothing else mattered. lol At the end of our majestic performance. We bar hopped to the most popular bar in town. Since the bouncers knew us cause we are regulars we came in like a boss. haha!

When we came in, my mind was just open the first person you see when you walk in. I walked in and the first person was a guy, and just said whassup, how's your night going. He retorted with how drunk are you? I guess its my high energy after the stacy's mom performance that got me pumped out and looked like I was drunk. After that we went to the bar area, and saw this salt next to this girl, and just took it and started playing with it while I said hey this is my salt. She started laughing and we started joking around. Next to her was her boyfriend, but he seemed cooled cause it was just funny I'm guessing. We said our names and hi. I introduce these couples to buddies. My bros get their drinks and we put them on a table, and one of them is like I bet you 10 bucks I can approach that ugly fat chick dancing and she will dance with me, so I put that bet up. And he approached her and started grinding. lol My friends were laughing hardcore. He came back and pointed another ugly fat chick and said 15 bucks and I took that bet. And he did it again. haha! 

We see one of our buddies in the bar and he introduced us to the girls he was with. I told them I was very socially awkward, so I was pretended to awkwardly shake their hands. They all laughed. Afterwards, me and one of buddies spot two girls. Both white and hot. One of them is wearing a bachelorette crown so I know they came out to party. We go up to them and they kinda just talked to us for 2 seconds and just walked away. So we go back to our table where theres heavy traffic and we just put our hands up for high fives. All the girls that passed gave us, however some dudes thinks its gay. One of buddies go up to one table with two decent chicks and this old women. I came up to the table to go wing him and we are just chatting up and the old women is actually the mom of one the girls. Honestly lately I've been going out girls are brining their moms to the bars for some reason. We talked for two minutes and the girls said they were leaving for drinks. We are scanning for more cute chicks and then the bachelorette and the her hot friend is passing by and we just reopened the set, and it was actually decent. I don't know why they were bitches the first time. I really don't like reopening the set cause it feels like they are going to tell us the same thing. But I guess I was just wrong. Well more of the friends come in and my buddies are just chatting up the entire group. I leave the group cause I saw this hottie that I made out last month and went up and approached. She screamed " OMG!" She said she hated me cause I didn't text her or anything. I honestly erased her number, after I tried getting a day 2 going. I reach down and grab her ass, and tried pulling her to the dance floor, but she needs to get her drink. All of a sudden this guy comes up like to her and said you know this douchebag. And she is all into him. So I just left. I really dont know if I could have done anything different. My friend came up to me and introduced me to girls he approached, they are okay like 6.5 each. I started talking, and this girl showed me her bracelet with the candy on it and I just said cool and bit and ate one of her wrist. lol she was giggly but I didnt know how to continue the conversation. So I broke out of the group.

I chill with one of the friends and I just approached 3 different times but all no go. I start going back and forth on the bar to see if theres any girl I can approach. I was going up and down like when a chicken's head gets cut off. All my buddies were chatting with a girl, and I didn't have anyone. Soon afterward one of them pulled and we never saw him again. For about 45 minutes I was in my head and didn't do anymore approaches. We went and ate after the bar closed at 2 and went home.

Lessons/Notes

I need to start approaching more.
I need to keep on talking once I'm in set, i always get out of set cause I don't know what to say next.
I need to concentrate more eye contact.
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Boomer

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I re-read my field report. And it seems that I barely cold approached 10 sets in the night. If my goal is to be comfortable with approaching, I need to step up. So tonight my goal is 15 sets. If I feel good I will approach more. I need a sustainable goal so I won't chode around. Ozzie's article brought me to light on this: pickupmadesimple.com/then-what-happens.


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Friday
Today I just found out one of my close buddies who I mentioned that pulled on Thursday got a DUI. It really put me in a low state cause his Army career is pretty much fucked and can't afford school without the army.  I went out to the bars because I made that commitment to go out three nights a week. I felt like friday night was a total waste of time cause I was just out of state. And my buddies was approaching girls and  I was in my head the entire night. Eventually towards the end of the night I just nut up and put on the big boy pants and went up to at least 1 cute chick that was by herself and said hi. I asked who she was with and she said her friends and she pointed to her boyfriend.  I was being such an effing chode tonight. I hate that feeling where you are just afriad to approach. Hopefully saturday night will be better. My criteria for success is really just fucking approach 15 chicks for the night dammit.

Lessons/Notes
I think if you arrive with an out of state mind you just need to approach once you enter the venue.
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Saturday
Saturday was so much better than Friday. I went out being tired and just coming off from watching two and a half men (Charlie Sheen version). Went with one of cool budies. Saturday I was really determine to get those 15 sets tonight. We entered the bar area and after 10 seconds I went and approached the first cute chick that I saw. She was in my path. And I just held my hand said,
"Hi I'm Boomer. What's your name?"
"I'm iforgot. 
"
Your cute.
"Thanks" ...She is walking away to the bar
"Where you going"
"Going to the bar"
"Um no you are going with me" used a very weak claw.
She goes to the bar. Sigh....

Me and buddy got a beer and saw some friends in the bar and we just start chatted it up for 5 minutes until in the corner of my eye I spot a cute short latina chick like 5'2 talking to her friends right beside our group. I tapped her shoulder so she can turn around and face me. I said, "
Hi, Whassup I"m Boomer" I asked her if she wanted to dance and I grabbed both her hands and tried to pull her into the dance floor and she started to giggle. She ran off to her friends. 

FYI: By no means that I know how to dance. I really have 1/10 dancing skills. So when I dance with a girl its really all self amusement cause I have no clue what the hell I'm doing. lol The only thing I know is grinding on a chick. But any dumbass can do that.

After that second approach I just got into state. My buddy wanted to go to the another bar because he doesn't like the music the one we are in. We bar hop to one with a lot of house and dance music. We go up to the bar and sit and order our beer. While we are sitting, I turn around and behind me is a cute latina waiting to buy her drink. I said whassup, she looks at me and says whassup and concentrates on getting her drink. I told her that she is being socially awkward and that people go in the bars chillax and meet people. Lets try this again,
"I'm Boomer"

"I'm iForgot"
"Not bad for a first timer, who are you with"
"Blah, Blah, Blah, its actually her birthday"
I go up to the birthday girl and said, "Birthday Hug!" lol

I go back to bar and I'm flirting with the bartender. I order another drink and its crowded and behind me is an ugly fat chick. I literally had no reaction time I said hi and we talked for like a minute and then I got my beer. I turned around and the line to get alcohol is just packed. I saw this waiting and I pointed at her. And smiled and I gave her a hi five. It was impossible for me to go talk to her, there were about 5 people between us. In this bar I literally knew 80% of the people. And talked to everyone in the bar. You really feel like the boss when you take action. My friend wanted to get out since we literally just went to evey set. So we bounced to the hottest bar in town. This place was literally pack shoulder to shoulder once you walk in. 3 seconds when I got in I immediately approached a hot white tall chick. However, its a no go because we literally in the high traffic area and its the only path to walk through. We meet up with my two other friends that want to pick up girls, but they just watch me and my buddy do our thing. Got three blowouts. Then I approached set with three girls sitting down. A good song was playing and I took her hands said we are dancing now! She keeps saying no and giggling at the same time, I got her to go to the dance floor with me and then song ended after 3 seconds. haha! 

Went and approached two other girls, but no go.
I went back to the last bar I went to. And this bar has literally gone dead. I went behind the bar where the bartender works and grabed her hand like Hand of god tyler style. Then i grabbed her waist and bring them to me. The entire time the bartender was laughing. Then a drunk guy wanted to buy a drink. I went and got a napkin and a pen on the bar and told her to write her number.

She wrote" 250 416 Hike     LOL"  lol I got out since the place was dead. Went back to the packed bar and pretty much got blowouts all night. But my state still maintained well the entire night. The bars closed at 2 and then we were waiting for our friend to pick us up, Me and and buddy bought pizza before we left the bar and were giving it out to people. Then we approached these two MILFs. I felt like kinda didn't control the conversation because I let her talk way too much. One of friends came up to me and said she didn't have a ride so I pretty much walked away from the set to try to help her. After I helped her out my buddy is making out with both these MILFs julian style. Motherfucker! lol

He almost pulled both, but one of her friends literally appeared out of nowhere and took them away.

Lessons/Notes 
One thing I noticed is that I easily got blowouts in a very very loud venue if I just hi, I'm Boomer. I think I need to start implementing the claw during loud venues.
If you have zero reaction time in approaching you don't think at all and the sets just open better. 
I also noticed everytime I pulled a girl to dance they always say no and giggling when I take both their hands and start pulling them they suddenly agree to do it.
I beat my 15 set goal for the night! FTW!                        





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I'm going to Vegas this weekend bitches!! More because of EDC. I've been to Avicii concert and its was a decent rave scene, but EDC its going EPIC. Any suggestions on rave game? lol
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Thursday

I'm so fucking tired, but I need to write this field report before I forget, and or get to lazy.
Before I went out to the bars, my friends and I ate at Bufallo Wild Wings. Our waitress is like a 7, so I was like I guess I'm try to hit this up. haha!

She ask us what drinks we wanted and I said I wanted stella. She ask for my ID. She has to write my information down on this paper form saying the ID is not a fake. I tease her  that she wants my ID cause it has my address on it and thats shes copying it.  
She sarcastically says, "Sure". Then she hands over the form I need to sign and says, Can you ...(I cut her off) and I said "give me your phone number" She giggles and say please sign the form, so I said "alright where do you want my autograph."

She just gives me this weird face, and says, "Your too young for me." She leaves the table. My entire friends I went to BWW are all chodes and started laughing at me cause I obviously failed. One of my natural buddies arrives, I tell him the story and he says at least you tried.
Throughout the night, she is fucking up everyone's order and is very very slow. 30 minutes later she is crying cause she got yelled from her supervisor and I said you need a hug. I gave her one. And she said thanks. We talked for a bit and then she leaves.
All I know is I should get her phone number, or give her mine. I have never gave a waitress or someone that is working my phone number, nor did I ever ask. My natural buddy was like so are you going to give her your phone number. He expected me to give it
since he knows I step the fuck up when it comes to girls. I suddenly felt this anxiety and nervousness and at the same time knew I needed to take action. I wrote my name and number on the receipt and when she came over, I said if you are ever feeling down and
want hot sex (lol) give me ring. Her face lit up. We chat a little bit and then I leave with my buddies. I still felt little shell shock that I actually gaver her my number even though I was nervous as fuck.

At the bar, I just had one beer and  it was a completely waste of time.  There was maybe 4 hot chicks and I was still a little shell shock from that. I didn't approach any girls.  I think the reason why I didn't feel the need to approach cause I'm going to Vegas and EDC tomorrow (friday), Saturday, and Sunday! So I know for a fact there is going to be a lot of hot chicks there and I just do my approaches there.  Well I'm off to the rave world. I only have two hours of sleep before I hit the road with my buddies. 

Lessons/Notes
Do things outside your comfort zone because thats the only way to grow.
When you enter the fucking venue approach the first girl you see because it allows you to be comfortable doing approaches all night.
Stop rationalizing why you shouldn't approach.
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My experience at EDC was so dissapointing on Friday and Saturday. 3 hour shuttle rides for 12 miles is effing ridicolous. I still acted like a friday and saturday and didn't approach anyone because I was just out of state due to those shuttle rides.
On Sunday, I was in state and I grabbed flowers and started going around chasing girls giving them the flower and saying I love you. 100% of the time they giggle, and then I tried going for the makeout everytime.
I got rejected almost everytime I tried for it, but it wasn't a harsh rejection. They just giggled and said they can't kiss me. However, I did manage to get at least one. It was fun nevertheless.
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Thursday
After choding around for 15 minutes, I went and approached this hot ass blonde sitting down. A lot of my interation starts with Hi, I'm Boomer with the extended handshake. We talk for 5 minutes, and I run out of things to say. The entire interation she was giggling and fiddling with her hair, I tried getting her to the dance floor, but she's too shy. That fails, there is not that many people in the bar so we leave to go sing kareoke in the bar. I wanted to sing, "I want it that way by Backstreet Boys" but the guy said theres something wrong and he doesn't know why the machine doesn't want to play backstreet boys, so I just opted for Stacy's Mom. 
I've been kinda stalling and letting my friend just approach girls in the bar, but its literally dead in this small town.

Friday
Went out to the bars, but went full chode and just watch people have fun.

Saturday
Literally my best nights is on Saturday because there is a lot of girls that come out and I can easily go into approach machine. In the beginning of the night we go in and its just packed. I get a drink with my buddies, and one of my friends approach this tall as chick. I go wing him the other chick. Go in with Hi, I'm Boomer, extended handshake. And I look down and they are wearing heels. I tell them that they are too tall to be wearing heels. I wasn't loud enough. And the interaction lasted for 30 seconds. haha Chatted for my buddies a bit, and I see this girl coming through the traffic, so I stop her by putting my hand out high. I say some random funny shit like I asked if she had a boyfriend, and she said no she has a gf, so I told her we can be gay together. She leaves. Another buddy joined us for the adventure. We than go bar hopping. Throughout the entire time walking to the next bar. I'm just saying hi to all the ladies that past by us, and just building that social momentum I guess. We enter the next bar, its playing some house music and I get into it a little bit. I'm really enjoying the music and I go get a drink with my buddies. I went up to this mixed set sitting down on a table and there is one more seat open so I take that. And I start introducing myself with hi fives. One of the guys physically grabbed one of the girls arm so that she won't give me one. I say all shit to myself and leave the set before this guy gets emotional and starts a fight. I see this cute brunette chicks and I tell my friend to go approach this chick, he tells me that he already did and got rejected. haha my bad.
We leave the bar because there is no one in there. We bar hopped to this country bar and there is hotties left to right. We go in there VIP style just because we are regulars. We find a table and I approach this mixed set right beside us. There is two girls and three guys. I was talking to both of them and one of them is getting married. And when she pointed the fiance, he was right behind me so I gave him a little claw in the shoulder and said congrats buddy. The finance was a zombie and had no emotion. Well I really don't care for that chick getting married because the other one is hotter. I tell the group that me and her are best friends and I hug her. She looks away to the group. One of the guys was like motioning me for a kiss. So I kissed  that hot blonde in the cheek without any hesitation. She didn't look at me or anything and continued talking to the group. I don't know what that means, but I leave the set and go back to my buddies. A song comes on and its one of the those songs like you dance by yourself and you take two steps to the left and then you go backwards, or something like that. lol Well the entire dance I just did my own thing and started bumping into people and it was the funniest thing because everyone was in sync except for me. At the end of that song, I went up to this mixed set on the dance floor and just hip bump of the hottest girls in the bar. And we started dancing with our asses on each other. After a while I turned around and kinda did the splits. Then I told her it was her turn, so she half ass attempted it and grabbed her leg and made her do it fully. And she was laughing the entire time. I think the boyfriend or a friend that is a boy came over and took her away from me. DAMMIT. After that set I was just messing around with people and having a good time.

I wish it was busy on Thursday and Friday so I can just be approach machine.

Lesson/Notes
I recently saw Alex's article about making your nights count. I honestly think even though I'm going out three nights a week. I'm not putting enough effort on Thursday and Friday. And on Saturday its like the off nights where I just have fun, but its the only time I can actually work on my skills.
I might have to drive about an hour and a half to go to a city that has pack bars or clubs during Thursday and Friday so I can practice. I need to maintain my focus and start being more proactive about my approaches.
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Recently become really lazy and inactive because I just graduated from college. I really want to improve myself, but for three weeks I have just been sleeping really late like at 7am and watching tv, and just surfing the internet. Yes, I've been going out and approaching, but other aspects like working out. Granted I'm working out, but its only because my friend is very adament about doing p90x  with him. I'm not really motivated to workout, the only reason why I do it is because I know I should be doing it, and that as an Army Reserve Officer, I should be in good shape all the time. Currently I'm unemployed so I just sit on my lazy ass.

The point of this post is that when you been constantly lazy, you really want to continually want to feel like this. And its really addicting. Tomorrow I will become more active in my life and start creating workout, financial, and career goals. 
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