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IDK if this helps, but she has only been with 2 other guys and both we're longterm relationships that ended in her being cheated on.
And in the beginning when we had sex LESS than even twice a week, I finally gave in a asked why.
She admitted that she had a past relationship that became purely physical and she was afraid it would happen again. (Which is rediculous because me and this chick have been good friends way longer than anything else and still are great friends)
And in the beginning when we had sex LESS than even twice a week, I finally gave in a asked why.
She admitted that she had a past relationship that became purely physical and she was afraid it would happen again. (Which is rediculous because me and this chick have been good friends way longer than anything else and still are great friends)
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Is she on antidepressants? I have to take that shit or I get major anxiety and I freak out several times a day. With it I can live normally but I have an extremely low sex drive. Like once or twice a week is all I really need.
Nope.
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I didn't really read the thread, but man, one of the BIGGEST qualifiers the girl needs to be my girl friend is a HIGHER sex drive than me.
YOu learn what you like, and this one is right up there with ANYTHING... So I don't have to deal with bullshit
YOu learn what you like, and this one is right up there with ANYTHING... So I don't have to deal with bullshit
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Yea. That was my bad. We just got so close from working together I let it get this far.
But now I really want to try and make it work but is there any real hope for improving this?
I'm reading the SEXGOD METHOD as many users recommend. It claims to help in this area...
What do you think?
But now I really want to try and make it work but is there any real hope for improving this?
I'm reading the SEXGOD METHOD as many users recommend. It claims to help in this area...
What do you think?
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Great book
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So yes you think this could be improved?
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she has what's called "sexual hangups" probaly from alot of social conditining....a.k.a. being ashamed of her sexuality or thinking that sex is dirty
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Yea. No doubt that's the cause....BUT is there hope?
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Is she vegetarian or anaemic by any chance?
peter_parker
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Join Date: 11/18/2008 | Posts: 62
We met as coworkers in the same restaurant and were friends for about 3 months before we actually started dating. On the friend side of our relationship, everything is GREAT! We get along great and always have fun wth each other. BUT...sexually we are just on 2 different levels. We may have sex twice a week. I would estimate my personal prefrence to 2-4.
Furthermore, I am very comfortable with basically anything sex related, but she on the otherhand is very shy about sex. I thought this would go away with time as she got more comfortable and closer to me but it mostly hasn't.
EXAMPLES:
We dated for 2 months before we had sex.
She has NEVER watched a porn. ---She says, "the thought of other people having sex makes her nauseated."
She NEVER sleeps nude or just in underwear when she stays over. (she even puts on her bra under her shirt rather than take the shirt off)
She MIGHT initiate sex once a month. (And we MIGHT have sex twice a week)
She turns away when changing clothes.
The actual site of cum grosses her out. (But she'll swallow--go figure?)
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The worst part is when we actually do have sex, it's actually really good sex!! She orgasms once, if not multiple times and everything is great...and she has told me how amazing it was etc. So I just don't get it. She's only denied me from sex (too tired, not in the mood, etc) 2 or 3 times, but I usually don't push the issue because I am used to girls that I'm in a relationship with escalating mutually with me. It basically feels like it is only me escalating pretty much ALL the time and that is very unarousing for the whole situation. It kills it.
I really do like this girl in every other way but this SEX thing is a BIG thing!! I can't stay with someone who can't meet ALL my needs but that being said, I am willing to stay wih her and work on this issue....BUT WHAT SHOULD I DO TO IMPROVE IT????!!
--- I basically just want her to be more overall sexual towards me and sex frequency increase!!
I have read sections out of the SEXGOD METHOD by Daniel Rose and I'm going to read it completely but will these methods actually help as they claim?? Is there anything that will help or is she just set in her PRUDE ways?? This problem is going to ruin a perfectly healthy and fun relationship if I don't fix it.