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FoodBuddha~

FoodBuddha~

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Join Date: 07/11/2007 | Posts: 3978

Man, I hate titles like that.  I am posting this thread because guys come on here and are totally clueless how to maximize their progress.  Most guys rely on 1 form of game to get laid.  It's fine to concentrate, but most guys turn up their nose at one or more forms of getting girls into bed.  It's sad, really, when I hear a guy say, "Online is shit, what a bunch of skanks."  Because I know, for a fact, that just as many hot girls are online as are out at bars, and who are friends with your friends.

Here it is, as densely packed as I can make it:

1. go out and approach at bars and clubs on Friday and Saturday nights and take girls home or get laid at the party.  Always fill your pockets with condoms.
2. when you see a girl you like during the day, go talk to her, see if you can insta-date for coffee right then, and escalate, or at least be getting her number
3. call your numbers.  Make hay while the sun shines.  Convert these numbers into meetings and then lays.
4. maintain a healthy online presence and use the progression from email/text -> phone -> in person.  You can be emailing chicks at work from your phone.  This is so easy, it's like DUH
5. BE the party... be throwing parties, going to parties, taking girls and groups on "after parties," etc.

If you are doing all 5 things religiously, you will be at a point where there are TOO MANY GIRLS and you will have to be chosing carefully how to spend your time...  Sounds like a good problem to have.
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The only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved, desirous of everything
at the same time, the ones who never yawn
or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
like spiders ac r o s s the stars.

-Kerouac
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bangarang4570

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Join Date: 03/01/2012 | Posts: 227

Hey Foodbuddah where can I look at your Field-reports? The link I found did not work.
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ambiguity

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FoodBuddha~ wrote:
Man, I hate titles like that.  I am posting this thread because guys come on here and are totally clueless how to maximize their progress.  Most guys rely on 1 form of game to get laid.  It's fine to concentrate, but most guys turn up their nose at one or more forms of getting girls into bed.  It's sad, really, when I hear a guy say, "Online is shit, what a bunch of skanks."  Because I know, for a fact, that just as many hot girls are online as are out at bars, and who are friends with your friends.

Here it is, as densely packed as I can make it:

1. go out and approach at bars and clubs on Friday and Saturday nights and take girls home or get laid at the party.  Always fill your pockets with condoms.
2. when you see a girl you like during the day, go talk to her, see if you can insta-date for coffee right then, and escalate, or at least be getting her number
3. call your numbers.  Make hay while the sun shines.  Convert these numbers into meetings and then lays.
4. maintain a healthy online presence and use the progression from email/text -> phone -> in person.  You can be emailing chicks at work from your phone.  This is so easy, it's like DUH
5. BE the party... be throwing parties, going to parties, taking girls and groups on "after parties," etc.

If you are doing all 5 things religiously, you will be at a point where there are TOO MANY GIRLS and you will have to be chosing carefully how to spend your time...  Sounds like a good problem to have.
I agree with all this. I just caution the part on being the party. I agree adopting the persona of life of the party.

There is a but. There is also the possibility that males assume that means being their temporary entertainment for the night.

They got out the clown costume and are juggling or doing all sorts of absurd things in attempt to impress.

This brings out the "hahaha but no" type of women. Its all about finding that balance but, as always, more brilliancy from Foodbudddddddddha
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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FoodBuddha~

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"Being the party" is kinda misleading...  It's a quote from Alex.  What it does NOT mean is to "BE THE ENTERTAINMENT."    NO NO NO.  It means, "BE THE SOCIAL HUB."

You can be quiet as a mouse, but if you are the guy throwing the party then you have the street cred.  As the host, you should be capitalizing on that street cred and banging one of your partygoers!

All my FRs for RSD should be in the archive in the field reports threads section... use the search tool....  if not... I have no idea where they went.  If you look at 'em all, you should see my progression from not knowing what to do, to fully knowing what to do...
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The only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved, desirous of everything
at the same time, the ones who never yawn
or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
like spiders ac r o s s the stars.

-Kerouac
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ambiguity

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Right on mate. As we spoke about roughly in a pm about anonymity, I do not see the value or time worth spent on logs about pulling.

I drop gems in main forum of a pick up or pull and experiences here and there where applicable (cheeky) but, I find they are bait, and of little accord without pics or videos.

Even then, unless you got a professional team watching, taping, and getting everything, it amounts to little. Even then, its still tricky and not everything, even the most subtle of things is missed.

I know what you mean totally about being the party or persona of the party, knowing where the hottest places in the city are on any given night or even when you travel, just being resourceful, and resilient in a foreign environment event.

I only mentioned it since, the newer fellas (many new users) are circulating and may mistake this only to wonder later on, why do they struggle to pull?
FoodBuddha~ wrote:
"Being the party" is kinda misleading...  It's a quote from Alex.  What it does NOT mean is to "BE THE ENTERTAINMENT."    NO NO NO.  It means, "BE THE SOCIAL HUB."

You can be quiet as a mouse, but if you are the guy throwing the party then you have the street cred.  As the host, you should be capitalizing on that street cred and banging one of your partygoers!

All my FRs for RSD should be in the archive in the field reports threads section... use the search tool....  if not... I have no idea where they went.  If you look at 'em all, you should see my progression from not knowing what to do, to fully knowing what to do...
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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bigjew629

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Most guys rely on 1 form of game to get laid.  It's fine to concentrate, but most guys turn up their nose at one or more forms of getting girls into bed.

The truth is there are so many forms of game and meeting women nowadays that if you just commit to one form, its pretty much guaranteed that you won't get any or at best, you will be pulling really low quality hood rat chicks who have a million red flags IMO. For example I am good at approaching chicks of pretty much all backgrounds, and doing the whole push pull thing but its really hard to escalate. If I don't start escalating I won't get any even from the high quality chicks I am talking to, I'll be stuck being that cool gay friend forever. So to make myself that much better I will have to add "escalating" to my repitoire.

On the flipside, lets say all I do is just grab chicks, straight up ask if they want to have sex, and pull the first one who doesn't think I'm a creep or is too under the influence to care. Yeah I would be pulling, but would they be quality chicks? Highly unlikely. In order to have real, legit game IMO, you have to be a quality person who says and does quality stuff to get quality PEOPLE (not just chicks) in your life. And since high value is in the eye of the beholder just like beauty is, you have to go even further to discern what is universally bad. IMO, approval seeking and neediness are probably the best examples of things that 100% cannot be tied to good quality EVER. I've met cool awkward ppl who were just quirky in their ways, but I've never met a cool guy who was desperate for ppl/approval/attention.

So what does this mean? Pretty much do what you gotta do as long as it isn't needy or approval seeking. And if you feel like you are needy and approval seeking for god's sake do not hide it cuz that is even worse IMO.

1. go out and approach at bars and clubs on Friday and Saturday nights and take girls home or get laid at the party.  Always fill your pockets with condoms.
2. when you see a girl you like during the day, go talk to her, see if you can insta-date for coffee right then, and escalate, or at least be getting her number
3. call your numbers.  Make hay while the sun shines.  Convert these numbers into meetings and then lays.
4. maintain a healthy online presence and use the progression from email/text -> phone -> in person.  You can be emailing chicks at work from your phone.  This is so easy, it's like DUH
5. BE the party... be throwing parties, going to parties, taking girls and groups on "after parties," etc.

 
I agree with all of these except that last one, cuz if the only thing you are good at is "being the party," it can lead to a very approval seeking lifestyle. I mean seriously all you do is party? Unless you are a promoter or club manager, what goals to you have? As outdated as it probably is right now I still agree with the good old "buyer not seller" frame, where you are screening chicks to make you one ounce happier than you already are while having 2-3 things in your life that already make you happy anyways be it your job, hobbies or friends/family.
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Tyler

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Some good stuff in this thread!

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blinapua

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i'm loving every bit of the RSD Game On!! be the party means you be the one who demonstrates the Alpha Male Value in the room
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ambiguity

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blinapua wrote:
i'm loving every bit of the RSD Game On!! be the party means you be the one who demonstrates the Alpha Male Value in the room
Right on mate. there is no site out there that offers this stuff regularly, video, good blogs, and regular updates of this sort of quality that I am aware of besides rsdnation.

The foundation being about natural game and self amusing so, everything is no pressure or as it was quoted in my signature by Tyler eluding to everything being funny.



Speaking of funny, I remember when I first started, my first "blow out" was on a school residence.

I came up behind this Asian SMOKE SHOW and scared the shit out of her (how is that for calibration?).

It was a lightning storm, she literally jumped out of her skin as I teased her while, her umbrella went inside out, broke, and blew down the steet.

The whole thing was a right laugh and I couldn't be more self amused when to my surprise, she couldn't speak English.




Pick up is funny.
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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FoodBuddha~

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I want to hear other guy's distillations of how to develop solid game.  I can't be the only one thinking about this in an organized way.  RockNRoll, what do you say man?
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The only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved, desirous of everything
at the same time, the ones who never yawn
or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
like spiders ac r o s s the stars.

-Kerouac
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ambiguity

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FoodBuddha~ wrote:
I want to hear other guy's distillations of how to develop solid game.  I can't be the only one thinking about this in an organized way.  RockNRoll, what do you say man?
I was going to share till i heard a newbie mentioned. People want game which is simple. Log off and pull. Simple.

She is not down, someone else is. There is not a zombie or woman apocolypse going on.
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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