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sooners123

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Friday (9/21)
Boot camp started tonight.  I went along with Todd to assist and also learn.  He gave us the standard lecture before going out.  I approached a lot initially.  But, as the day went on, I was asked to approach less so that the students would have sets coming towards us or around us during non-peak hours.  So, I spectated and approached.  Todd winged me a lot and vice versa, so that was sweet.

What I learned
-How interactions look when the girl is into you
-How to hold sets with multiple people
-How to stop chasing
-How fleeting a girls attention will be when she's not fully into you
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Saturday (9/22)
Dave and roadrally came to hang out with me and Todd before lunch.  We just shot the shit.  Todd's a really cool guy and very easy to hang out with.
We went day gaming on 6th street.  Did a few approaches solo.  Went night gaming.  Was pretty good.  Was able to bounce a few sets at the end of the night.  But, not solid enough to pull.

What I learned
-How to pump the interaction
-How to get girl to invest
-How to wing and pump value for both you and your wing
-Persistence
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 Thurs-Sat got aorund 6 numbers.  Around 3 responding. 
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 Sunday, (9/23)
Took day off.  Todd taught us about Day 2s and LMR.  It was a very useful lecture.  At end of the day just chilled with Todd and talked normal stuff.  

What I learned
-Fun phone interactions
-How crazy insecure a hot girl can be
-Setting boundaries and staying strong when dealing with a woman
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Monday (9/24)
Went out for 1.5 hours.  Had around 7 sets.  It was getting easier to hold everyone in set.  Around 4 of them lasted 5-30 minutes.  Got two numbers, sexy blonde accountant and cute brunette.  Felt really good about my interactions.  Got sexual and showed a lot of intent.  The girls looked very mesmerized when I spoke to them
Sexy blonde HB7 is very responsive to both text and escalation.  Will day 2 her for sure
Tomorrow I have a day 2 with a girl I opened a few weeks ago.  Travel, other day 2s, and her schedule have prevented us from meeting up until now

What I learned
-Showing a lot of intent has awesome benefits.  It seems to polarize the girl to love me
-Girls respond very well to sexual escalation.  When I was being physically dominant, they loved me

How I can improve
-Show massive intent and get very physical
-Go for long interactions
-Always be closing or bouncing
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Tuesday (9/25)
Today was sweet.  I day gamed solo and did around 5 approaches.  They were half assed, but I felt proud that I did it.
Tonight was sweet too.  I was very physical and sexual.  I probably only approached 10 sets, but many of my sets lasted a decent amount of time (5-15 min).  
Went to Tuesgayz and 6th street.  There was a two set in the bar that I got very physical with and she was loving it.  Vibed a lot, then asked for her number.  She initially gave resistance because her boyfriend was there, but I disarmed and got her to give it to me.
Another set was 4 girls and 1 guy.  I went direct on one and she liked it.  Couldn't take it too far with it, but I was proud to approach her in front of the dude
Met up with roadrally then.  We opened a two set sitting at table.  My girl was responsive, and I was able to hold the group even when their guy friend came in.  I pretty much ignored him and he was trying to buy me a drink.  The other girl that roadrally stopped winging was trying to blow me out, but my girl was like "no, he's really cool and funny.  I could've stayed, but I decided it wasn't worth it logistically (they were leaving town in an hour)
Opened this asian girl on street.  We walked and talked.  She was meeting her friends at a bar.  I asked for the number, but no go.
I opened this solo girl that was really into me.  She was massaging my cock with her knee and I was really physical.  I was getting ready for the kiss, but she said "no, my friends will judge me".  I relaxed a bit, but then decided to get her number.  Tried to get her to bounce but she wouldn't.  I realize that I should've done mini bounces to her, like move a couple of steps.  I also didn't figure out her logistics.  I left her for tuesgayz.  I also could've stayed, but I didn't want to leave roadrally.  Which in hindsight is a stupid reason.  I find myself worrying about wings a lot, but I realize that they can take care of themselves, and me using them as an excuse is most likely a success barrier that I currently have.  
Around 1am, she texts me asking where I'm at.  Per roadrally's advice, he tol dme to text her to come meet me.  She ended up not.  After thinking about this, I was asking for too much compliance even if she asked me where I was.

roadrally and I went to grab pho afterwards.  The asian girl on the street that wouldn't give me her number recognized me from behind.  roadrally told her to come sit, and she did.  I vaguely recognized her, but for the most part I was confused because I thought maybe roadrally knew her.  Once I recognized who she was I was a little discouraged since I had already talked to her and she wasn't compliant.  So, roadrally basically hit on her and got her number.  She said she was working when I talked to her and she just got back from the gym.  So, I guess when she talked to us it was in "normal" mode.
Afterward she left, we talked about it.  He said that it doesn't really matter if it didn't work out before, change the girls mood, not her mind.  Things are very fleeting and most likely a reason that she wasn't as compliant was because she had work to do.  I realize that I didn't put any effort into it when I should've.  She reopened me to give me another chance.  roadrally jumped at the chance and I *thought* it was already over for me because of what happened previously.

What I learned/realized
-Be aware of the girl's anti-slut defense.  Even though it was on with the girl, she didn't want me to over escalate around her friends (even though she was not around them).  Either isolate or bounce
-Be aware of compliance.  If she has to comply too much, she may perceive it as slutty
-I'm getting really good at holding my own sets. 
-Even if a girl says no at first, it doesn't mean that she'll say no again
-I'm starting to get over my plateau...I'm getting longer sets that turn sexual, and most girls are stopping or receptive to my approach
-I'm pulling too much, need to push more

How I can improve
-Keep on physically escalating.  I need to get comfortable with this
-Keep in mind that I can mini-bounce rather than a full blown bounce
-Be persistent
-Push more
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Wednesday (9/26)
Tonight was cool.  I went out solo-ing for an hour and did a handful of approaches.  I was really proud of myself approaching while solo.  I'm starting to get over some sticking points that have prevented me from maximizing my potential, such as approaching multi-sets alone.  It's actually a lot easier than I had portrayed in my mind.  A combination of hanging out with Todd, and also opening sets while my wing decides not to actually wing has shown me the way.

In the interest of Todd's new video, since he basically produced it for me, dave7, and roadrally, I've decided to do the following for a whole week

-Physically escalate to the point where I'm uncomfortable
-Always try to mini bounce every set
-Push the girls excessively rather than pulling all the time
-Being persistent.  Stay in set until the girl tells me to fuck off
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Good shit Sir
sooners123 wrote:
Wednesday (9/26)
Tonight was cool.  I went out solo-ing for an hour and did a handful of approaches.  I was really proud of myself approaching while solo.  I'm starting to get over some sticking points that have prevented me from maximizing my potential, such as approaching multi-sets alone.  It's actually a lot easier than I had portrayed in my mind.  A combination of hanging out with Todd, and also opening sets while my wing decides not to actually wing has shown me the way.

In the interest of Todd's new video, since he basically produced it for me, dave7, and roadrally, I've decided to do the following for a whole week

-Physically escalate to the point where I'm uncomfortable
-Always try to mini bounce every set
-Push the girls excessively rather than pulling all the time
-Being persistent.  Stay in set until the girl tells me to fuck off

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@roadrally thanks man

Thursday (9/27) day game
I did a little day game today with dave7.  Things started a little slow, and first few sets were pretty awkward.  Our goal was to try to instadate every set, lol. Got three numbers.  Two were fucking sexy.  I'll see where these numbers go
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Friday (9/28)
Met up with Dave and roadrally. Tonight was sweet because all of us were debating whether to go out or not because of the rain. We got out around 12:30 and stayed for an hour. I'll be honest, the girls were pretty mean tonight lol. I had 2 solid set out of maybe 9. Relatively solid, where it wasnt instant blowout. I was proud of myself for still going out and approaching. It took more willpower since the girls were bitchy
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