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sooners123's Adventures in Austin, TX
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sooners123

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Friday, July 21st

Tonight was a really sweet night despite me getting completely destroyed.  I approached in front of some of my non-community friends.  Did a shit load of approaches, but very few hooked

-I got slapped (gentle) by the same girl twice while trying to wing for dave7.  My calibration knew that she wanted to be left alone, but I wanted to see how far I could take it and if it was possible to turn around.  Her fat fingers didn't do much damage (more cushin for the slappin)
-I got physical and grinded this sexy girl with an exposed belly.  She was very receptive until one of her guy friends dragged her away
-20 approaches - destroyed
-This two set indian with eugene.  It was sweet since I opened and they weren't very responsive.  I just stuck in and my girl became responsive and talkative.  Friend pulled a random guy in to cock block
-Opened a hot mexican girl in mixed set.  Her brother was there too.  She was very dismissive, but I was persistent, walked with her and shot the shit.  She opened up and became very friendly on/off
-I opened another hot mexican set.  She was pretty indifferent, but I stuck in set.  She started responding towards the end "you're funny, I like you".  I got white knighted by a group of chodes who just stood around.  I just chilled for a bit, but then decided that I didn't want to wait for another chance
-I opened this hottie and  this guy was like "get the fuck away".  I was feeling pretty confident in myself, and I was like "I'm just talking to her, calm the fuck down" and gave him a stare down before he walked away

How I can improve/realizations
-Persistence is KEY.  There's a different between ejecting early and not being persistent.  To me, being persistent is where you calibrate that she hasn't completely dismissed you, and you keep going.  I was able to turn around many sets tonight by being persistent
-Think about bouncing the girl
-Continue to be centered.  I felt really good even though I got destroyed most of the night.  By being centered, I was equipped at the end of hte night to go for genuine pulls
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sooners123

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@roadrally the video doesn't seem to work.  What's it about and who was it from??

Saturday was a destruction night until near the end.  I pushed myself a lot and felt proud at the end of the night
Sunday Dave7 and I did 80ish day game approaches
Monday took a break
Tuesday did solo day gaming and essentially solo night gaming.  Solo night was pretty scary at first, but I was able to get 5 approaches in before I had to leave.  It felt really good because I was able to motivate myself.  Additionally, all of my sets, I felt very abundant and self entertained
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 Alex's ideas on how to bang girls

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sooners123

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@roadrally thanks, I'll add that to my list

Wednesday, July 25th
Today was pretty sweet.  Went day gaming with Eugene at the park.  Gamed for around two hours and did around 5 or 6 approaches.  Focus today (with Eugene's advice) was to stay in set.  So, had a couple of long sets.  Got one girls number (she has bf).  Another hottie that I spent around 30 min talking to asked for my number.  Normally I don't follow up very hard on numbers (or just forget to or procrastinate the shit out of them), but I'm going to try to convert both of these to day 2s.  I realize that I've been focusing too much on "the skill" and not trying to get laid.  

Anyways, most of the sets I did my best to stay in.  A couple were 15min+.  Others were around 2-5min.

Quote of the day:
I opened this lady cause she had a huge weiner dog (it was actually a different breed).  I commented on how well she feeds the dog, and Eugene goes (self-amusingly), "how'd you grow your weiner so big?"


What I learned
-It's good to stay in set for as long as possible
-Think about, and take action accordingly, to get myself in a position to better get laid
-I've been having a lot of self amusement in my interactions lately.  I feel centered and good enough
-I've seen Eugene and Dave persist where the initial open doesn't catch, but a little persistence gets the girl to open up.  I'll persist more

How I can improve
-Follow up on numbers.  There's a girl that's been down but I keep procrastinating trying to meet up with her since my ego is at stake.  She's only like a 6, but my ego still likes the fact that I haven't been rejected
-Stay centered and self amused
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Thursday, July 26th, pulled girl but no sex

Tonight was sweet.  Met up with roadrally, dave7, eugene around 11:45pm.  Had a couple of warm up sets where either I was going in solo or helping wing dave.  As we decide to go into a bar, I see this smoking hot brunette with big fake tits hanging out.  I go and approach her and it hooks like no other.  We vibe for around 5 minutes, then she drags me to an alley and keeps trying to get inside bars through the back doors.  We go into several bars trying to find an empty bathroom.  She tells me that she wants to fuck me in the bathroom.  Then she also speaks about wanting to smoke before we leave.  I'm unsure of if she means that she wants to suck my dick.  But, at every bar we're at, we get into the employee only sections trying to make shit happen.  Almost got kicked out of a bar when a staff member came.  It was obvious that bathroom pull wasn't going to happen because of logistics.  Throughout the night, a lot of girls wanted to (and some successfully) grab her tits.  I try to kiss the girl, but she's reluctant at the first two bars. 

I decide to lead her around, get her outside.  We sit on a wall and vibe.  Make out, and just get to know each other better.  She tells me that I'm romantic.  My experience has been primarily in LTR so I don't know if I was giving off the relationship vibe based on my physicals (make out, passionate kissing, etc).  She tells me that her past was brought up to believe that women should do whatever it takes to please men.  She's been trained to seduce a man and essentially blow his world. Along with that, she is into yoga and other woo woo shit.  She was really cool.  But, at one point, her crazy side came out.  She started talking about some pretty negative aspects of her childhood.  I was able to redirect that energy to other areas, but I didn't want to hear all of that since it was bad for the mood.  She told me how much she liked me.  We vibe for 45 minutes then I tell her I'm gonna grab food (per Dave's suggestion).  She told me that she couldn't and had to go home.  I told her that I'd give her a ride.  We walk to my place (around 20 min away), and she's singing (she has a nice voice).  Along the way, chode guys are like "oh shit, look at her".  We ended up stopping to dance for around another 15 min on the street.  These guys came up and approached and tried to take her, but I just kept cool and she came back to me.  This happened many times during the night.  So, she stops being ADD and walks with me.  We hold hands kiss along the way. 

But, once we get to my place and I open the garage, I could see her mood change.  A little background is that I live in a nice area with a nice car.  I *think* I got put into provider mode because of my success.  I don't know if this is the case or not, but she seemed pretty DTF beforehand.  I tried to get her to come inside by just saying "I'm gonna grab some water, come with me".  She wouldn't come inside and just insisted at staying in my car.  I drove her back and got her number.  I got a shitty kiss goodnight.  I told her to call me and she said she definitely will many times.  No sex.  Lame

Thinking about the whole interaction, I remained pretty nonneedy.  I was attracted to her, but I just felt that things would work out.  So, I was cool about it and she really liked me.  I didn't lead as much as I could, or as strongly as I could

What I learned/realizations
-I MUST lead more
-Keeping the interactions long seems to be more consistent.  I was already pretty good at friendly and cool before getting into the game.  It seems like it works really well.
-Hot women want to have sex with me
-again, lead lead lead
-Being chill and relaxed is a good way to handle ADD girls.  It lets them know that I'm not needy and that they still have a choice

How I can improve
-lead lead lead
-keep going for longer interactions
-bounce
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roadrally

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 Wtffff
this girl was trying to bathroom pull your ass and you didnt make it happen!!?!?!!
Anyway sounds like a sweet night.
I think its sweet that you lead her around.
Its sweet that you stayed chill and let the girl come back to you.
I hope you played with her tits.
I hope you took a picture of them.

I think when you got to your house then she had back at the house LMR. This girl wanted bathroom pull, alley sex, shes crazy. Didnt want boring at home in the bed sex. Thats super slutty. Going home with a guy you just met. If you bang them in the alley, oh well it just happened.
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 Sweet man, nice job with her. 
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sooners123

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@roadrally yeah I panicked because I didn't have a condom.  You make a good point about "it just happened" versus being a slut.  I played with her tits and you saw the pictures today :-)
@dave thanks man.  your advice is really helpful whenever I run into these sexy situations
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Friday, July 27th

Tonight was sweet.  Many of my sets hooked early on.  Met up wiith Eugene at West 6th.  I feel that when I'm more focused on abundance and being comfortable, the interaction goes well.  Meet up with Dave7 and roadrally.  On way out, I open a girl.  She loves it, and introduces me to her sexy mexican hawaiian friend with big (fake again) tits.  We hit it off immediately.  I bounce hawaiin chica to the Ranch.  I stay with her and her friends for around 20 min.  She tells me she's leaving and to come with her.  For some reason, I tell myself to show value and let her know that I don't want to ditch my friends so I'm staying with them.  At the end of the night, I text her to meet up and she agrees.  When I get to the bar, she tells me that they're leaving and finding a cab.  I text her to get food, no response.

I solo'd street which was pretty sweet.  It's reassuring to know that I can handle myself solo, and at times it goes even better since I don't think about or compare myself to anyone.  At end of the night, meet up with crew again.

What I learned/realized
-This longer interaction thing is working really well.  I can still give myself permission to be physical too
-The girl was bouncing me around.  I should've stayed with her for best chance of getting laid
-Girl's buying temperature can vary from night to night, so make it happen the same night

How I can improve
-Continue having a good atitude and push my comfort zone
-Go for longer interactions
-Bounce.  The simple bounce made an interaction really sweet. 
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