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sooners123

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Hey guys.  On February 1st, 2012, I decided to master the game because I was unhappy with my results with women.  I've been going out around at least 4-5 times a week since then.
I took a boot camp this past weekend (May 17-19) with Julien and Tyler.  Prior to bootcamp, I was able to approach around 10-20 each night, but had problems during the day.  During the boot camp, I approached around 130 sets in 3 days.  After the bootcamp, I've learned to take action during the day too.  Julien helped identify many of my sticking points.  Each night I go out, I try to push myself to address the sticking points that I have.  My current focus is to get more physical/be less friendly, commit to staying in set.

Come join me on my adventure!
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 5-20-2012 with roadrally, dave7

approach 1: two girls. awesome hair on one. walked with them and talked
approach 2: two girls. lesbians? the black girl seemed really into me and was mad at her friend for dragging away. i got very physical and comfortable, held her in my arms
approach 3: 6 girls. asked cute girl her ethnicity. spun and danced with her. got physical she got distracted by her friends. tried to kiss, friends pulled her away after
approach 4: 5 set, mixed. went for cute girl. she was fucking crazy
approach 5: solo girl in barcelona. went very physical on her. hugged. danced. her gay friend interrupted
approach 6: approached really tall red head. she was responsive.
approach 7-10: hand of god. sometimes it worked. but i should have followed
approach 11: went into a bar where 4 hot girls were dancing. approached. they weren't into me
approach 12: hot girl in orange dress. she gave me a lot of shit, i wasn't phased. she ended up loving me. then she got distracted by a dog. i should've waited, but i didn't. i could have tried for a makeout
approach 13: approached street. they were leaving, so i went with them and started going in at all angles (why do you hate me? is it cause i'm asian? that's racist). they stopped! but, then moved again. i didn't turn it around in time.

what i learned
-approaching is pretty easy now. i still have some resistance sometimes, but i can approach mixed sets easily
-hand of god is fun!
-i need to commit to being adaptable to game. there were many sets that i should've walked with set and be adaptable
-i'm getting much more phyiscal. the woman just accept it. they really like being led
-i need to do a full wrap around when i get physical. they want to be drawn into my reality
-my approach and tonality is much stronger. i'm more entitled and i barge in

how i can improve
-stick in sets longer. if they don't stop, go and walk with them. then come in from different angles and attack
-get more physical. although i am, i am not fully committing the wrap around.
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 I was like oh, I wonder who this guy from austin is.
Hi buddy
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 5-21-2012
-called brunette model from thursday night.  no response.  i thought it was on since the night we met we were stomach to stomach for around 10 minutes.  her friends were also on my side.
-had 9 numbers from the weekend.  around 6 are responsive.  i'm super attracted to 3 of them.  will call them tomorrow to try to get them on a date

day solo
approach 1: went direct on girl at whole foods.  talked a bit but wasn't feeling vibe

night solo
approach 1: 5 set mixed.  went direct on hot mexican girl that was 3 inches taller than me.  she loved it.  her friends stopped, i twirled her and danced.  friends pulled her away and she told me to come with her.  i declined because I was waiting for roadrally.  thinking back, this was retarded...i should've just went with her
approach 2-3: simple opens on ok looking girls.  just for fun
approach 4-6: direct.  all sets stopped and vibed for a bit.  got physical.  grabbed and danced.  when they get dragged away, i follow briefly, but i can tell that i'm not fully committed

night with roadrally
approach 7: two girls sitting inside bar.  went up and vibed.  it was a little awkward for me, but they were getting invested.  i stayed in set longer for sake of getting comfortable, but was not interested in them.
approach 8: two occupied girls standing next to car.  cut in.  wanted brunette.  but blonde was really into me.  held blonde cheerleader close because i was horny
approach 9: two set in bar.  went hard direct on sexy brunette.  i did address the friend/cockblock.  got physical and vibed.  friend mentioned they both had boyfriends.  i ejected, which i shouldn't have since the sexy brunette seemed down.
approach 10-12: direct.  all sets stopped.  i ran into the issue where i didn't go with the flow again.

what i learned
-i'm getting much more physical now.  i've been told by many that i'm too friendly.  now i go for physical and stop trying to make them laugh all the time.  i also really love grabbing them
-i can still approach during the day.  it gets easier the more i do it
-i'm getting more consistent at approaching on the streets.  i can get many sets to stop and stick now.  however, i still need to be flexible if they don't
-i'm drawing state from within now.  previously, i would compare myself to wings and get in my head.  or i wouldn't approach if my wings weren't.

how i can improve
-fucking TRY TO MAKE IT WORK.  i didn't really put much effort into continuing the interactions even if i liked the girl (especially the hot mexican that wanted me to follow).  i will commit to do what it takes to get the girl
-continue to be physical, but COMMIT.  i'm still getting more physical, but i'm not asserting myself as much i want to
-continue to have fun :-)  i love women
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roadrally wrote:
 I was like oh, I wonder who this guy from austin is.
Hi buddy
For reals

Welcome to RSDNation sooners123. I think your biggest sticking point by far is that you're a Sooners fan.
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 Don't forget the claw! LoL. 
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Being a Sooners fan is sweet in Austin.  If I mention it early, girls will either use that as an excuse to leave.  If they stay, I can role play it 
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 5-22-2012 
day solo
approach 1: I was walking on the street when I noticed one of the bars was really packed.  There were two very attractive women (8 and 9) that were going into the venue.  I went in specifically to approach the 9, and went direct on her.  We vibed for around 15 minutes, but it was more of a chill, relaxed interaction.  I wasn't able to get too physical with her.
approach 2: Woman walking down the street, just a quick teasing comment.  No intent to stop
approach 3: situational opener.  talked for around 5 minutes but it was pretty low energy

night with roadrally
approach 1: direct on a two set on street walking.  She seemed to like it, we stopped briefly.  her friend wasn't willing to wait so she got pulled away verbally.  i didn't follow.  i should have but i feel like my reaction to follow was too late and it would've degraded my 'value'.  however, now that i think about it, i still should have gone since it would've increased my chances a lot
approach 2: direct on two set on street walking.  it was pretty awkward.  the one i liked was stone cold.  the one i didn't was just standing there.  i just let a mouth diarrhea come out and the more attractive one got frustrated and left.  i'm glad that i stayed in set the whole time
approach 3: solo girl at bar.  just a warm up
@tuesgayz
approach 4: cute mexican girl solo.  her friends came in and became a mixed set.  introduced roadrally to get help get him in zone.  talked for a couple of minutes and they left.  i stayed in the whole time
approach 5: two average looking girls.  i opened them and the one with nerd glasses seemed into me.  i got bored and talked to my wing.  she'd come back barging wanting attention a couple of times.  got physical.  left.  later on that night, reopen and got hip to hip.  when i wanted to leave venue, she wanted to go with me.  but, after a bit of talking to her and escalating, she was pretty fucking annoying so i left her
approach 6-9: nothing notable.  just sets i opened to and introduced my wing to to get him out of his head
approach 10: direct solo weak on hottie.  she left

what i learned
-more heistant with approaching during the day.  it's a combination of it just being day and not having a little more time to get into state
-staying in sets is necessary for me to learn how to get better.  it lets me have a relaxed mindset and it let's me try more things to get the girl

how i can improve
-fuck an average annoying girl if necessary just to get experience in pulling

committments
-GET PHYSICAL.  with my eyes, I'm giving off a seductive vibe.  but i want to get physical
-stay in sets until they leave
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On another note. I gave a call to the three women I really liked
-call 1: Some dude answered. Not her number. This sucks cause we were pretty physical. Maybe I didn't read situation right
-call 2-3: left voicemail. 'hey it's sooners123. Wanted to talk to you. Call me back"

No response from 2 and 3. Previously they were responsive to text and its them for sure. But, I don't know what my next steps are. Any advice?

Also, tips for first phone call??


I'm proud that I actually called them. Typically I get numbers and let them stagnate. I was scared to call but I still did!
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 5/23/2012 Wednesday

Felt very tired today.  I decided to take it easy today.  I did notice that I didn't go out with full intent...debating whether or not it's because I was tired or just not letting enough time to gain momentum.

I went out for around 45 minutes and did around 7 approaches.  Nothing stuck and I didn't really pursue.

Day (9pm-9:20 Supermarket) 3 approaches.  Nothing notable
Night (10:30-10:50pm) walked around the street and did 4 approaches.  Most notable ones were the two I was nervous about.  I saw some dude approach where he just barked at the girls.  It was an easy open for me, and they said something that stood out "it's a way to start a conversation, so I guess it worked".  

Realizations
-I'm still not quite sure what to do to get the girls to stay on the street.  Tyler says to try to "land the plane", but I haven't quite thought of how to implement this well.  Once I can get that, I'll have more meaningful sets early in the evening

How I can improve
-try to make it work.  Go out with intent.  I was tired today and wasn't very focused
-Stay in set to get comfortable with pressure
-Get physical
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 Landing the plane.

Theres the whole slinging the mud at the wall until something sticks method that tyler mentioned. Just try diffferent things like 5 in a row and just see if one works on the girl.

HEY (commanding tone)
whats up girl
1 minute 1 minute
I have a quick question for you
hey I thought you were cute
hey blue shirt
etc etc
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I just want to enjoy amazing girls. Crazy what sort of journey ive embarked on pursuing this quest.
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
 My adventures in Austin - 2012  
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com 
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