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I like it. No expectations of the night, but do shit you feel like doing. Basically a slight rephrasing of the biggest gamechanger I ever got from pickup back in 2010, Tyler's "You pat yourself on the back just for doing the approach." Glad I took that literally, wanna pat myself on the back again and that's what makes my night lol.
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RSD Misinterpreted: A Series of Posts on Popular RSD Ideas and How I Used to Misunderstand Them
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
Imo this is closely related to the new alex/tyler video on relaxing vs. hit hit hit.
I like it. No expectations of the night, but do shit you feel like doing. Basically a slight rephrasing of the biggest gamechanger I ever got from pickup back in 2010, Tyler's "You pat yourself on the back just for doing the approach." Glad I took that literally, wanna pat myself on the back again and that's what makes my night lol.
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Babysitting:
How to get a girl to invest in you a lot:
I treat girls about as seriously as i treat my baby cousins....anything they say to me...be it a compliment or an insult...doesn't really stick
them 'you are a fucking dick head leave us alone' me 'ha' them 'you are really hot' me 'duhhh' (i only say arogant stuff like that because i think saying incredibly arrogant things to girls is fucking hilarious) or 'oh stop it you're making me blush'
Girls especially in clubs are just like little children and should be treated as such.
If you want to spark intrest in girl in the club without even opening what do you do? Well you have fun...which comes down to not pinging of the environment and being expressive.
I was thinking about it today and girls open me a lot...or i'll look up and there will be girls looking in my direction all the time and it comes down to the two things i just mentioned.
Think about it apply it and then ask me a question
Note* Don't do it because you want to a girls intrest they smell that vibe from a mile away....do it because you want to.
This is already the start of her investing into you....she has noticed you before you notice her, she is already reacting to you.
When i go out and execute this it is not unusal for girls to say to me 'ohh hi i saw you by the bar earlier' or something to that effect.... To achive this think of back you were a kid and you had a something simlpe that amused you....a ball, a spoon, a piece of paper....anything you were having fun time with even it was the most dumb shit...what happened? other kids want to come play.
While you are talking to the girl you should play with how much attention you give her....its been stressed by Brad in his investment article (which i recommend everyone should read) and alex in his new (2hr video which everyone should watch).
The best way to do this is to have YOUR own fun, do and say shit for YOUR positive emotions and before you know it you are the warm end of the pool and she will try get in with you.
FR example: I'm just some kid but some nights i met this chick thats a 9 older than me and a pretty big DJ.
Hand of god opener pull her in 'you look like love' vibe vibe have my own fun while she stands there in amazement while we are vibing i end up asking what she does 'oh i'm dj....i'm playing a night at (this really big club where famous dj's play)' me 'oh really thats pretty cute' her 'yh do you know skrillex (big uk DJ)? he is one of my friends' me 'oh cool i like skrillex' her ' do you know (insert loots of famous dj's hear)'.
She just sits there qualifying her self for a pretty long time sometimes she says something i like, i give attention or praise sometimes she doesn't and i just amuse myself.
The girl is freaked and wants to keep me around most of the night....
(side tangent)
i try get with her slightly less attractive friend because i was rampaging around....she gets pissed (oh shit i only just remembered hahahaha)....i go say hi to her later and she pretends to not know me..i tell her she is acting fucking weird and she walks off im like wtf did i do? Its hilarious for me to think back to where my mind was at....i wanted NOTHING from her absolutely nothing so i was not empathetic at all and didn't even realise she wanted my dick because i was having such a good time. Anyway go up to her again 'she tells me i'm trying to get with her' me 'no im fucking not' (it was true) she then tells me 'you tried to get with my friend' and looks very very pissed (hahaha just realised hahaha) im like 'yhh i'm single'......she is still being fully weird (i didn't realise she was sooo into me so i thought she was being a bitch for no reason and end up calling her out)
I ended up turning around talking to some hot blonde girl and making out with her infront of this chick (fuck only realised i was being a fucking dick woops)
Anyway you can see how investment works from this little example... (extra tip a well place 'oh yh?' or 'really' will get girl to invest a lot more ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE COOL GUY HAVING YOUR OWN FUN AND SHE MANAGES TO PEAK YOU R INTREST....WHICH SHOULD BE YOUR FRAME WHEN IN A CLUB ANYWAY)
Also you can see how i lost the babysitting (or adoption frame as alex call it in his new vid) when i thought she was being weird....she would go try talk to my friends through the night and i kept pulling them away and being like 'don't talk to her she was being a bitch earlier' (oh fuck i feel bad now she was a nice girl who liked me woops)
Anyway lesson learned....try the investment thing let me know how it works for you....read brads old articl and watch alexs vid they are both GOLD
How to get a girl to invest in you a lot:
I treat girls about as seriously as i treat my baby cousins....anything they say to me...be it a compliment or an insult...doesn't really stick
them 'you are a fucking dick head leave us alone' me 'ha' them 'you are really hot' me 'duhhh' (i only say arogant stuff like that because i think saying incredibly arrogant things to girls is fucking hilarious) or 'oh stop it you're making me blush'
Girls especially in clubs are just like little children and should be treated as such.
If you want to spark intrest in girl in the club without even opening what do you do? Well you have fun...which comes down to not pinging of the environment and being expressive.
I was thinking about it today and girls open me a lot...or i'll look up and there will be girls looking in my direction all the time and it comes down to the two things i just mentioned.
Think about it apply it and then ask me a question
Note* Don't do it because you want to a girls intrest they smell that vibe from a mile away....do it because you want to.
This is already the start of her investing into you....she has noticed you before you notice her, she is already reacting to you.
When i go out and execute this it is not unusal for girls to say to me 'ohh hi i saw you by the bar earlier' or something to that effect.... To achive this think of back you were a kid and you had a something simlpe that amused you....a ball, a spoon, a piece of paper....anything you were having fun time with even it was the most dumb shit...what happened? other kids want to come play.
While you are talking to the girl you should play with how much attention you give her....its been stressed by Brad in his investment article (which i recommend everyone should read) and alex in his new (2hr video which everyone should watch).
The best way to do this is to have YOUR own fun, do and say shit for YOUR positive emotions and before you know it you are the warm end of the pool and she will try get in with you.
FR example: I'm just some kid but some nights i met this chick thats a 9 older than me and a pretty big DJ.
Hand of god opener pull her in 'you look like love' vibe vibe have my own fun while she stands there in amazement while we are vibing i end up asking what she does 'oh i'm dj....i'm playing a night at (this really big club where famous dj's play)' me 'oh really thats pretty cute' her 'yh do you know skrillex (big uk DJ)? he is one of my friends' me 'oh cool i like skrillex' her ' do you know (insert loots of famous dj's hear)'.
She just sits there qualifying her self for a pretty long time sometimes she says something i like, i give attention or praise sometimes she doesn't and i just amuse myself.
The girl is freaked and wants to keep me around most of the night....
(side tangent)
i try get with her slightly less attractive friend because i was rampaging around....she gets pissed (oh shit i only just remembered hahahaha)....i go say hi to her later and she pretends to not know me..i tell her she is acting fucking weird and she walks off im like wtf did i do? Its hilarious for me to think back to where my mind was at....i wanted NOTHING from her absolutely nothing so i was not empathetic at all and didn't even realise she wanted my dick because i was having such a good time. Anyway go up to her again 'she tells me i'm trying to get with her' me 'no im fucking not' (it was true) she then tells me 'you tried to get with my friend' and looks very very pissed (hahaha just realised hahaha) im like 'yhh i'm single'......she is still being fully weird (i didn't realise she was sooo into me so i thought she was being a bitch for no reason and end up calling her out)
I ended up turning around talking to some hot blonde girl and making out with her infront of this chick (fuck only realised i was being a fucking dick woops)
Anyway you can see how investment works from this little example... (extra tip a well place 'oh yh?' or 'really' will get girl to invest a lot more ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE COOL GUY HAVING YOUR OWN FUN AND SHE MANAGES TO PEAK YOU R INTREST....WHICH SHOULD BE YOUR FRAME WHEN IN A CLUB ANYWAY)
Also you can see how i lost the babysitting (or adoption frame as alex call it in his new vid) when i thought she was being weird....she would go try talk to my friends through the night and i kept pulling them away and being like 'don't talk to her she was being a bitch earlier' (oh fuck i feel bad now she was a nice girl who liked me woops)
Anyway lesson learned....try the investment thing let me know how it works for you....read brads old articl and watch alexs vid they are both GOLD
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RSD Misinterpreted: A Series of Posts on Popular RSD Ideas and How I Used to Misunderstand Them
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
little trick brad told me for investment was anytime you have her talking just repeat the last 1-3 words with a questioning intonation at the end, its autistic as fuck and works way easier than this "having fun" bunk sheesh, jk, but yeah thats another simple tip for investment
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RSD Misinterpreted: A Series of Posts on Popular RSD Ideas and How I Used to Misunderstand Them
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
OMG! Ive been waiting for this so long!
Ive modeled myself on Pringles for the past 3 years, I even did the famous "leave a condom on the ice machine and run away from the bitch while she is washing her hands with the ice" except next time I just gotta bang the girl aswell and Ill be exactly like Pringles! So close!
But seriously, nice sizzle dude!
Ive modeled myself on Pringles for the past 3 years, I even did the famous "leave a condom on the ice machine and run away from the bitch while she is washing her hands with the ice" except next time I just gotta bang the girl aswell and Ill be exactly like Pringles! So close!
But seriously, nice sizzle dude!
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"As our awesomeness grows, I find it difficult to acknowledge things that arent awesome"
Matt.
"Im so hot"
Goran~
"Oh my god, you look like something out of a magazine"
Moderately attractive chick stroking my ego.
"As our awesomeness grows, I find it difficult to acknowledge things that arent awesome"
Matt.
"Im so hot"
Goran~
"Oh my god, you look like something out of a magazine"
Moderately attractive chick stroking my ego.
Pimp talk:
How to spike BT to pull, turn around a shitty interaction, beat a shit test, plow through resistance for the makeout, have girls try rape you in the club and say shit like 'oh wow you are so sexy' 'you are amazing' etc blah.
Now this is grerat and has been something ive been doing for a few years now and its pretty fucking funny ....first time i did it was after reading some post tyler made about 'pimp talk' back in the day. i didnt have any real i dea what it was as the post said something like 'talk like a pimp' or whatever but the thing is and this is key and something you should carry with you through your journey in the game....I INTERPRETED IT IN MY OWN WAY.....i took how far my understanding of the thing owen desrcibed and i tried it. Too many guys want to know EXACTLY how to do things....dude best way to figure it out is try it in different ways until you find a way that pumps YOUR state or that YOU enjoy.
Anyway basically what i do is i pull the girl in by putting my arm around her shoulder and just spout a shit ton of gibberish into her ear. If i want to express a fun/ funny vibe i'l say shit that amuses me and it transfers fully onto the girl because getting so close makes you her main source of stimulus and when you hit her with a barrage of good emotions she becomes fucking happy.
So an example from two nights ago....hit the club first group of girls is the hottest in the club im talking to them i pull the one i like in after a while of vibing because i want to put myself in a more fun mood, pull her in with my arm around her shoulders, get right in her ear and i'm all like. 'heyy girl im the mother fucking emperor in this bitch, oh wait girl wait, can you feel it? can you feel it? its the emperor's new mother fucking groove etc'
I'm basically pissing myself after saying all this dumb shit to such an attractive girl and her face afterwards looks like this
Sooo you might be asking how does this help when trying to pull a girl....well i'll give another example.
I'm trying to pull this girl on thursday 'no my fwends huur duuur'.....me pulls her in arm around the shoulder makes voice sexual* 'you know.... that's a shame cus i was reeeallly looking forward bending you over and sliding really fuuuucking deep into your pussy' (insert more unnecessarily graphic sex talk in here) and after about 5 mins she basically running and pulling me into the cab.
More examples:
I did this to some girl in a club and we are stood in some busyish hallway. she gets a bit too turned on and starts reaching down my pants and tries to pull my dick out! i'm like wooah wooah slow the fuck down and she like just there playing with my dick making orgasm noises and her friends are just like 5 feet away (not looking so it didn't fuck up the pull)
How can it turn around a set that should have gone to shit?
Example:
Went out by myself pulled this australian tourist second hottest girl in the club (her friend was hotter but i'd already been making out with her so i let it go for the sake of logistics.
Anyway me and my girl are getting on well, they want to bounce to a different club, they ask me to come....i chat to the hot friend (in my mind me ' oh jeez i want a threesome i wanna thressome!!!!) anyway chat this girl up and she invites me to stay at their place cha ching....i can notice my girl is acting up a bit but i just think 'any emotions be good emotions' and continue doing my thing....ig o back to my girl and she has gone cold as fuck
her 'don't touch me....don't fucking touch me'
then she heats up a bit... and starts making a scene screaming at me in the middle of the street crazy as fuck.
her 'GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE....I HATE YOU....YOU ARE A FUCKING SCUMBAG....WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE....LEAVE US ALONE.....DON'T FUCKING COME NEAR ME....GO THE FUCK AWAY, YOU ARE A FUCKING CREEP'etc
lol this went on for a pretty long time actually and people were like stopping in the road and starring.
Anyway im chill as fuck as i know its one more bump in the road to banging her and apart from that its late i want to stay at hers and not pay for cab.
I let her shout herself out and tell how she is being fucking ridiculous....she tells me 'how can you spend all night with me then try fuck my friend?'
i pull her in get in her ear 'hey listen thats fucking silly im a nice guy, those were your friends, so obviously im going to talk to them, im not some douche thats just ignores people like that, seriously they are your friends so i'm treating them as mine as well' etc blah
(funny side tangent...i think i should finish the story even though it has no more educational value) before you konw it we are in a cab back...she giving all this 'you can come back put you come inside.....ok fine we'll play rock paper scissors for it....(i lose)....best out three (i lose again...everyone goes silent in the cab and all the girls just ignore the fact i lost so should be sleeping outside....on the inside i'm wetting myself)
Get back to the house the hotter one is pissed she doesn't get to fuck me and my girls is all like 'heeey why are you angry you always clean when you angry' her feriend ignores her ....my girl 'hey can we have the bed' hot friend 'fuck no!' or something like that then she storms upstairs pissed off lol.
Bang my girl after that and it turns out i see the house i did on cribs a couple months later?! wtf can't remember which celeb but they were house sitting for a friend while travelling.
Anyway there you have it the art of pimp talk
How to spike BT to pull, turn around a shitty interaction, beat a shit test, plow through resistance for the makeout, have girls try rape you in the club and say shit like 'oh wow you are so sexy' 'you are amazing' etc blah.
Now this is grerat and has been something ive been doing for a few years now and its pretty fucking funny ....first time i did it was after reading some post tyler made about 'pimp talk' back in the day. i didnt have any real i dea what it was as the post said something like 'talk like a pimp' or whatever but the thing is and this is key and something you should carry with you through your journey in the game....I INTERPRETED IT IN MY OWN WAY.....i took how far my understanding of the thing owen desrcibed and i tried it. Too many guys want to know EXACTLY how to do things....dude best way to figure it out is try it in different ways until you find a way that pumps YOUR state or that YOU enjoy.
Anyway basically what i do is i pull the girl in by putting my arm around her shoulder and just spout a shit ton of gibberish into her ear. If i want to express a fun/ funny vibe i'l say shit that amuses me and it transfers fully onto the girl because getting so close makes you her main source of stimulus and when you hit her with a barrage of good emotions she becomes fucking happy.
So an example from two nights ago....hit the club first group of girls is the hottest in the club im talking to them i pull the one i like in after a while of vibing because i want to put myself in a more fun mood, pull her in with my arm around her shoulders, get right in her ear and i'm all like. 'heyy girl im the mother fucking emperor in this bitch, oh wait girl wait, can you feel it? can you feel it? its the emperor's new mother fucking groove etc'
I'm basically pissing myself after saying all this dumb shit to such an attractive girl and her face afterwards looks like this
Sooo you might be asking how does this help when trying to pull a girl....well i'll give another example.
I'm trying to pull this girl on thursday 'no my fwends huur duuur'.....me pulls her in arm around the shoulder makes voice sexual* 'you know.... that's a shame cus i was reeeallly looking forward bending you over and sliding really fuuuucking deep into your pussy' (insert more unnecessarily graphic sex talk in here) and after about 5 mins she basically running and pulling me into the cab.
More examples:
I did this to some girl in a club and we are stood in some busyish hallway. she gets a bit too turned on and starts reaching down my pants and tries to pull my dick out! i'm like wooah wooah slow the fuck down and she like just there playing with my dick making orgasm noises and her friends are just like 5 feet away (not looking so it didn't fuck up the pull)
How can it turn around a set that should have gone to shit?
Example:
Went out by myself pulled this australian tourist second hottest girl in the club (her friend was hotter but i'd already been making out with her so i let it go for the sake of logistics.
Anyway me and my girl are getting on well, they want to bounce to a different club, they ask me to come....i chat to the hot friend (in my mind me ' oh jeez i want a threesome i wanna thressome!!!!) anyway chat this girl up and she invites me to stay at their place cha ching....i can notice my girl is acting up a bit but i just think 'any emotions be good emotions' and continue doing my thing....ig o back to my girl and she has gone cold as fuck
her 'don't touch me....don't fucking touch me'
then she heats up a bit... and starts making a scene screaming at me in the middle of the street crazy as fuck.
her 'GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE....I HATE YOU....YOU ARE A FUCKING SCUMBAG....WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE....LEAVE US ALONE.....DON'T FUCKING COME NEAR ME....GO THE FUCK AWAY, YOU ARE A FUCKING CREEP'etc
lol this went on for a pretty long time actually and people were like stopping in the road and starring.
Anyway im chill as fuck as i know its one more bump in the road to banging her and apart from that its late i want to stay at hers and not pay for cab.
I let her shout herself out and tell how she is being fucking ridiculous....she tells me 'how can you spend all night with me then try fuck my friend?'
i pull her in get in her ear 'hey listen thats fucking silly im a nice guy, those were your friends, so obviously im going to talk to them, im not some douche thats just ignores people like that, seriously they are your friends so i'm treating them as mine as well' etc blah
(funny side tangent...i think i should finish the story even though it has no more educational value) before you konw it we are in a cab back...she giving all this 'you can come back put you come inside.....ok fine we'll play rock paper scissors for it....(i lose)....best out three (i lose again...everyone goes silent in the cab and all the girls just ignore the fact i lost so should be sleeping outside....on the inside i'm wetting myself)
Get back to the house the hotter one is pissed she doesn't get to fuck me and my girls is all like 'heeey why are you angry you always clean when you angry' her feriend ignores her ....my girl 'hey can we have the bed' hot friend 'fuck no!' or something like that then she storms upstairs pissed off lol.
Bang my girl after that and it turns out i see the house i did on cribs a couple months later?! wtf can't remember which celeb but they were house sitting for a friend while travelling.
Anyway there you have it the art of pimp talk
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I don't have dreams i have goals
little trick brad told me for investment was anytime you have her talking just repeat the last 1-3 words with a questioning intonation at the end, its autistic as fuck and works way easier than this "having fun" bunk sheesh, jk, but yeah thats another simple tip for investment
ha i actually do that sometimes when i stop listening to girls speak and im trying to remember the conversation....maybe im fucking autistic __________________
I don't have dreams i have goals
OMG! Ive been waiting for this so long!
Ive modeled myself on Pringles for the past 3 years, I even did the famous "leave a condom on the ice machine and run away from the bitch while she is washing her hands with the ice" except next time I just gotta bang the girl aswell and Ill be exactly like Pringles! So close!
But seriously, nice sizzle dude!
haha wil see you soon buddy Ive modeled myself on Pringles for the past 3 years, I even did the famous "leave a condom on the ice machine and run away from the bitch while she is washing her hands with the ice" except next time I just gotta bang the girl aswell and Ill be exactly like Pringles! So close!
But seriously, nice sizzle dude!
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good shit mate!
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First topic... How to remove all pressure on yourself and get into a mood that will help you be attractive (warning this is for dudes that have got the fundamentals down but are inconsisstent, if you have crippling social anxiety this is not for you)
The goal:
Your main focus should be to relax and be emotionally independant from you surroundings (i.e a stable mood)
How to get there:
From the start you want to have 0 expectations on your night (especially useful for small cities and slow nights): this goes for the amount of girls you approach, your emotional state, the music, the people in the club, the reactions you get from people etc.
Why? Because it forces you to rely on your own intiative to have a good time. You are free from the need to be interacting with girls. Now anyone who has been in this for a little can figure out why this of huge importance but for anyone who hasn't, when you enter the club and see a group of guys all standing around and two fat ugly chicks by the bar if you had expectations of an epic night your first thought will be 'fuck this is going to be a shitty night' immediately your emotions are going in the wrong direction and there is high potential for you to rationalize yourself into a bad or uncharismatic state, from here if a hot girl happens to enter into the club you will be in no mood to approach her and even if you do you will probably suck shit. Apart from this, reling on yourself for how much you have on a night is POACTIVE socialising strategy...relying on anything but yourself for how much you have on a night is ultimately reactive and makes you dependant on something...wether that is alcohol, girls or the friends you are with. If you rely on yourself to have fun and carry no expectations, when you say that funny comment to a girl you say it because you thought it was funny and no reaction she has to your comment changes that. The result is she begins to react to you.
From here all you need to do is act on impulse consistently
You lock into this proactive zone and this is all you need to pull. If you get 'bored' by girls you talk to this is definately the post for you.
Think of it this way...if you can't take full responsibilty for you mood how can you take responsibilty for giving the girl fun awesome night? Or even more extreme how can you take responsibility for her life and the potential family that could be made if you ended up in a relationship?
It is not fair to the girls if you go up like a little emotionally scattered bitch and then get mad when they don't respond well to you....but at the same time if you have this down you can reapproach a gril as many fucking times as you like
mini fr- last night i walk up to this girl take her glasses of her head and put them on after she tries to 'blow me out' i dodge her so she can't take it back for a while and when she finally does she gets her friend and drags her away....i followed her around tapping her on the shoulder for about 15 mins FULL STALKER MODE and she kept blowing me off every single time. I couldn't open. Through out the night i bump into her and each time i do i try again for the lols...she rejects me but each time i tell her 'hey you are being fucking weird' or stop being fucking retarded' then one time i mangage to grab her and i just spout nonsense 'hey your a normal person i'm normal person....what you doing her is on the verge of social retardation...stop it be cool' she runs away again....i bump into her again and we end up in a normal conversation....I DIDN'T EVEN WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HER
Now most of you will be like wtf? waht was the point of that....the point is it was funny to ME.
Later on that night there is the girl who is second hottest in the club....pushing the 9's blonde hair big boos pretty fucking hawt....she is with 7 dudes all pretty big, lairy drunk aand had been trying to start a fight with some people earlier the night....she is going back with them and they are about to get a cab. me 'heey don't get in the cab! i know those guys they work with al qaeda!' everyone turns and looks at me....i continue on shouting random gibberirsh and cross the rd to them ....one of the dudes gets in my face....i walk around him and continue on.....i end up taking the girl away from them getting her number and then ditching her because i know fucking her will mean i'll do no work the next day (i go all night im stud)
Now see how my attitude and the actions i'd taken before this (the self amused light heartedness of the first part of this fr was the attitude i carried with me through the night) put me in a zone where 7 aggresive drunk dudes don't do shit while i take a girl of them