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May 18th, 2013
Anyone give me some help with texting a girl? This chick has GAME
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#11
Sweet Toof

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Join Date: 04/10/2012 | Posts: 265

Full_intent~ wrote:
do yourself a favor and stop gaming over text. Just say lets have a drink then and then. And use it only for logistics. And most importantly after you sent the text dont think about it ever again, you dont want to think about girls when they are not in front of you.
I think this might be true.

One problem I kept running into was overgaming in text. If she was replying with cold messages and short boring answers then you would need to game her a bit.

This girl is replying back with full-on banter, that's a major sign she is cool with you already. Hint at a meet up, if she takes the bait then arrange it. "Your jokes, I think I might let you meet me in the future..." or something like that. If she acknowledges it, then arrange to meet up in the follow up text.
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#12

Shit-

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Join Date: 05/06/2011 | Posts: 63

 you dont need to respond to every text dude, its ok if you take time between replies, take all the time you want, why are you acting like such a girl about this? shit dude just ignore her for a bit then invite her to party or w/e, don't overthink this, you got other chicks right?
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#13
JonDayGame

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Join Date: 12/05/2011 | Posts: 114

Dont worry about responding quickly, feel free to take your time. Also dont fall into her frame. Respond as if she gave you the answer you wanted. Or totally ignore what she just said and start a new thread of conversation. Most importantly dont get to caught up on this one specific interaction. There'll be more girls and more chances to practice text game.
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#14
ThePostalDude

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Join Date: 05/07/2012 | Posts: 120

Sweet Toof wrote:

Full_intent~ wrote:
do yourself a favor and stop gaming over text. Just say lets have a drink then and then. And use it only for logistics. And most importantly after you sent the text dont think about it ever again, you dont want to think about girls when they are not in front of you.
I think this might be true.

One problem I kept running into was overgaming in text. If she was replying with cold messages and short boring answers then you would need to game her a bit.

This girl is replying back with full-on banter, that's a major sign she is cool with you already. Hint at a meet up, if she takes the bait then arrange it. "Your jokes, I think I might let you meet me in the future..." or something like that. If she acknowledges it, then arrange to meet up in the follow up text.


She is definitely cool with me, but interested? I'm not sure. Seems like the last thing she said was a reminder that I've already tried it on with her and she rejected me... It was said in a jokey kinda way, granted, but is she pre-emptively shooting me down again? I can't tell.

I've already met up with her and will again because of mutual friends so I can't really say that. I'm guessing she's completely check-mated me and there's no way to respond to what she said haha... Also @ the other guys I will be having drinks with her whether she's into me or not, and I will try something. But I'm trying to get some attraction/sexual tension going now so I don't get shot down.

Btw we're on the second page so I'll re-post the last thing she said so nobody has to go back a page to find it:
Quote:
Her: Lmao! You've decided to give me a shot...... Other way round mateeeeee;)Hahaa. Sooo this is just friendly talk right... Felt the need to say that.. after last time you had a go;) Xx
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#15

Montusei

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Join Date: 05/04/2012 | Posts: 82

Dude if she is giving you texts that long it should be easy to respond accordingly.

needs more sexual innuendo
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#16
Sweet Toof

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ThePostalDude wrote:
Quote:
Her: Lmao! You've decided to give me a shot...... Other way round mateeeeee;)Hahaa. Sooo this is just friendly talk right... Felt the need to say that.. after last time you had a go;) Xx

She's giving you long warm replys. She winking. Flirting. Kisses. Introducing new threads of banter. Using call back humor related to the time you tried to hit on her. Get on it.
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#17
ThePostalDude

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Sweet Toof wrote:

ThePostalDude wrote:
Quote:
Her: Lmao! You've decided to give me a shot...... Other way round mateeeeee;)Hahaa. Sooo this is just friendly talk right... Felt the need to say that.. after last time you had a go;) Xx

She's giving you long warm replys. She winking. Flirting. Kisses. Introducing new threads of banter. Using call back humor related to the time you tried to hit on her. Get on it.
Okay thanks dude, it's a bit late to give her any sort of response now so I think I'll just have to leave it and talk to her in a week or so. Hopefully that doesn't mean she's "won" or something haha! Seems to be a mix of responses from guys thinking she's "using me to boost her ego"/"playing me" etc (mainly IRL friends who I asked, they don't know her but meh always ask my bros for help lol) and guys who think she's into me.
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#18
broccoli

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Join Date: 04/29/2012 | Posts: 107

OP you're acting like a girl who doesn't know what to say to an alpha male...No disrespect, but back to the drawing board.
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#19
ThePostalDude

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broccoli wrote:

OP you're acting like a girl who doesn't know what to say to an alpha male...No disrespect, but back to the drawing board.
True... I've got some skill to develop in this area. Well actually to be honest, the main issue is that I'm not so great at bantering... Usually I can talk to girls okay but when it comes down to these little "exchanges" I'm pretty bad and typically get destroyed. By guys too, so it's not just a "talking to girls" thing...

Quote:
Me: Haha! I was young and foolish back then :p It could never work between us *name*, you're far too innocent x

Her: Ohh yeah like three weeks ago! Haha.. Ohh shut up, you're making it out as if I wanted it to work!!! You mean I'm not cringe like you! X


Fuck knows where I go from here... But do you see what I mean? My comebacks are just poor.
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