Posted May 13th, 2012 at 1:16 AM
I think this might be true. do yourself a favor and stop gaming over text. Just say lets have a drink then and then. And use it only for logistics. And most importantly after you sent the text dont think about it ever again, you dont want to think about girls when they are not in front of you.
One problem I kept running into was overgaming in text. If she was replying with cold messages and short boring answers then you would need to game her a bit.
This girl is replying back with full-on banter, that's a major sign she is cool with you already. Hint at a meet up, if she takes the bait then arrange it. "Your jokes, I think I might let you meet me in the future..." or something like that. If she acknowledges it, then arrange to meet up in the follow up text.
Posted May 13th, 2012 at 2:22 AM
you dont need to respond to every text dude, its ok if you take time between replies, take all the time you want, why are you acting like such a girl about this? shit dude just ignore her for a bit then invite her to party or w/e, don't overthink this, you got other chicks right?
Posted May 13th, 2012 at 5:05 AM
Dont worry about responding quickly, feel free to take your time. Also dont fall into her frame. Respond as if she gave you the answer you wanted. Or totally ignore what she just said and start a new thread of conversation. Most importantly dont get to caught up on this one specific interaction. There'll be more girls and more chances to practice text game.
Posted May 13th, 2012 at 12:13 PM
Posted May 13th, 2012 at 12:49 PM
She's giving you long warm replys. She winking. Flirting. Kisses. Introducing new threads of banter. Using call back humor related to the time you tried to hit on her. Get on it.
Her: Lmao! You've decided to give me a shot...... Other way round mateeeeee;)Hahaa. Sooo this is just friendly talk right... Felt the need to say that.. after last time you had a go;) Xx
Posted May 13th, 2012 at 6:23 PM