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Persistence and Re-approaching the same girl many times
shit that kid pushes too much!! I dont have the guts to do this. If I dont pull at 2-3 tries I am done. My ego rebels and says dont give any more value to that girl.
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shit that kid pushes too much!! I dont have the guts to do this. If I dont pull at 2-3 tries I am done. My ego rebels and says dont give any more value to that girl.
Considering shes probably the only girl in the vicinity I dont blame him for being so persistant, giving that much value to one girl has no repercussions either, you either get her or you dont, if you dont then giving away your value doesnt matter you just keep going for fun!Im sure if he had a couple other hotties around like in a club he could just walk away to one of the other ones, as in fuck this lame chick she doesnt see how awesome I am a nother one surely will (and then you can come back to the first one later if you want), but in day game other hot girls are sometimes hard to find, lol
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"As our awesomeness grows, I find it difficult to acknowledge things that arent awesome"
Matt.
"Im so hot"
Goran~
"Oh my god, you look like something out of a magazine"
Moderately attractive chick stroking my ego.
"As our awesomeness grows, I find it difficult to acknowledge things that arent awesome"
Matt.
"Im so hot"
Goran~
"Oh my god, you look like something out of a magazine"
Moderately attractive chick stroking my ego.
Agreed 100% Apart from that...the mere act of approaching a chick gives her an emotional spike (provided ure a cool dude) anyone who has been in this knows that girls looove a full range of emotions.
Grils chase arousal...so reopening a girl provided your a cool dude is only adding to her night.
Apart from that girls in the club have the attention span of an ant, the only thing real to them is whats effecting them emotionally at that moment in time
This is where alex's 'adoption frame' really comes into play....its like you are the one in charge ultimately AND you have good intentions for the chick.....remember some of your parents decisions you didnt like and as a result acted up about it? Well they believed that they were doing those things for YOUR benefit. They had good intentions...it's almost a 'you'll thank me later type approach'
So when you hit up the hot girl and she acts up and blows you out hard in your mind you know that ultimately you are in charge, you are the best guy around annnnd you have good intentions for the girl so you can't fucking lose.
I.E last night pretty hot girl walking past i attempt to grab her but get her wrist by mistake and she freaks out ripping her hand away....2 mintues later i see her again...walk straight up to her and pull her in and she wraps her arm around me and starts qualifying herself to me
So its basically being patient with the little girl acting up...its easy to do when you know you have good intentions (those being you having a sick time and involving her in that, or wanting to have sex with her as girls like to fuck more than guys etc)
Grils chase arousal...so reopening a girl provided your a cool dude is only adding to her night.
Apart from that girls in the club have the attention span of an ant, the only thing real to them is whats effecting them emotionally at that moment in time
This is where alex's 'adoption frame' really comes into play....its like you are the one in charge ultimately AND you have good intentions for the chick.....remember some of your parents decisions you didnt like and as a result acted up about it? Well they believed that they were doing those things for YOUR benefit. They had good intentions...it's almost a 'you'll thank me later type approach'
So when you hit up the hot girl and she acts up and blows you out hard in your mind you know that ultimately you are in charge, you are the best guy around annnnd you have good intentions for the girl so you can't fucking lose.
I.E last night pretty hot girl walking past i attempt to grab her but get her wrist by mistake and she freaks out ripping her hand away....2 mintues later i see her again...walk straight up to her and pull her in and she wraps her arm around me and starts qualifying herself to me
So its basically being patient with the little girl acting up...its easy to do when you know you have good intentions (those being you having a sick time and involving her in that, or wanting to have sex with her as girls like to fuck more than guys etc)
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dieapers, babies at a club...hehe
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
A lot of guys on here ask about re-approaching the same girl that has blown them out already, or worying about chicks not making out with you and if you should persist with talking to her.
The answer is yes to both.
You should also be constantly persistant, anoy the fuck out of the girl if you have to.
Infield footage (A little dude being persistant with a girl after she rejects him hardcore, he doesnt give up, and hes physical!)
This is egoless pickup, you should model yourslf on this little dude, Just like every child he doesnt care what other people think, he knows there are no reprocusions to what he is doing, nothing bad will come of it, hes probably wearing a diaper too so the bumps that he gets from falling dont even hurt, lucky for you no girl is gonna reject you this bad, so you dont even need to wear a diaper!
When you let go of caring, or reacting you can function like this, be optimistic, go for what you want!
Kid is macking girls with shit in his pants. Wonder what he'll be like when he grows up The answer is yes to both.
You should also be constantly persistant, anoy the fuck out of the girl if you have to.
Infield footage (A little dude being persistant with a girl after she rejects him hardcore, he doesnt give up, and hes physical!)
This is egoless pickup, you should model yourslf on this little dude, Just like every child he doesnt care what other people think, he knows there are no reprocusions to what he is doing, nothing bad will come of it, hes probably wearing a diaper too so the bumps that he gets from falling dont even hurt, lucky for you no girl is gonna reject you this bad, so you dont even need to wear a diaper!
When you let go of caring, or reacting you can function like this, be optimistic, go for what you want!
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too cool! I reopen constantly, but that kid is a champ!
Very funny, good article
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The answer is yes to both.
You should also be constantly persistant, anoy the fuck out of the girl if you have to.
Infield footage (A little dude being persistant with a girl after she rejects him hardcore, he doesnt give up, and hes physical!)
This is egoless pickup, you should model yourslf on this little dude, Just like every child he doesnt care what other people think, he knows there are no reprocusions to what he is doing, nothing bad will come of it, hes probably wearing a diaper too so the bumps that he gets from falling dont even hurt, lucky for you no girl is gonna reject you this bad, so you dont even need to wear a diaper!
When you let go of caring, or reacting you can function like this, be optimistic, go for what you want!
"As our awesomeness grows, I find it difficult to acknowledge things that arent awesome"
Matt.
"Im so hot"
Goran~
"Oh my god, you look like something out of a magazine"
Moderately attractive chick stroking my ego.