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December 9th, 2016
Cold Approach Fundamentals Part 3 - Physical Dominance
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Congradulations if you clicked on this thread, that means that you are one of the 10 guys on the forums that actually want to pickup women instead of mentally jerk off with fellow nerds all day.  Today's post is about the absolutely essential component for getting in the girl's pants quickly.  This is the fucking meat and potatoes, so fucking pay attention.

First off before I get into my take on physical dominance I want to give props to the best resources available on physical game:
1. Ozzie's Book
2. This post by Drama:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/175456
3. Hotseat

Physical Dominance


If you are not comfortable physically escalating, you will not get laid, EVER!  Sometimes girls will escalate on you, but you cannot rely on that.  You are the man and it is your job to move things forward.  Many attractive girls are shy and are afraid to look like a slut.  You must take the responsability off of her shoulders.  You must initiate physical contact within the first few seconds of the approach and you must use calibration to escalate smoothly.

How do I calibrate my physical escalation?

It's pretty simple to calibrate physical escalation if you are not a fucking retard.  If you initiate a claw/hug/kiss/try to remove clothes/etc and she physically resists in any way, then she is not turned on enough or comfortable enough to move forward.  All you have to do is back off and hang in there for a minute or two and try the same fucking thing again and again untill she leaves or she submits.  The object is just to get the girl so horny that she has to use up all of her willpower and self control, or just simply make her comfortable, and after that she is all yours lol.  Some girls won't want to control themselves and they will just let you do whatever you want.  Some girls are a pain in the ass, but either way you must persist all the way to sex if you have to.  Watch her eyes and facial expressions to see if she is uncomfortable or not, if you can't read facial expressions then you have Aspergers and should probably get medicated.  You never want to scare the girl off or give unwanted physical contact, it just makes you creepy.  Girls ALWAYS like to get touched as soon as you open and enjoy getting the claw right on the open.  

Tehniques

1. The fucking Claw. 
I dunno why dudes think the claw is so underrated.  Its like, dude all you fucking need is the claw really.  When I claw a girl my whole internal circutry changes into feeling like a pimp.  The girls instantly becomes submissive and falls in love with me.  Simply walk up, stand next to the chick, and pull her in with your dominant hand.  If it's two chicks, claw both of them.  Very quickly you want to pull the claw in so that the girl is chest to chest with you and you are almost hugging her neck.  You stare down (or up if you are short) into her fucking eyes from a few inches away and spit your bullshit.  If she is smiling and holding eye contact, you can definatelly makeout with her right now.

2.  Lazer Eye contact.
  Now I know this seems like it isn't some kind of physical escalation move, but It is crucial to escalating and creates just as much attraction as the physical contact itself.  You need to be looking into the girl's eyes, and never look where you are touching.  You need to be looking into her eyes like you are some kind of seductive vampire who is putting her in a trance.  Watch her pupils, watch where her eyes move.  If she is locked on shit is going well, if she is wandering around you reed to refocus her attention on you immediatelly.  When her eyes are rapidly scanning back and forth she is looking for help and you are probably creeping her the fuck out.  If her eye lock on in one direction for a few seconds, she has probably spotted somebody she knows.  If you are having a normal conversation, her eyes will look like somebody who is engaged and interested.  By learning to read the eyes you can preempt  her every move a second before she does it.  When the drag away friend comes, that second is all you need to prepare yourself to handle shit instead of being caught totally off guard.  The creeped out look will allow you to back off and show her you aren't a creep.  The locked on puppy eyes will tell you when to move forward.

3. Fluff Kino. Basically any physical contact that is non sexual in nature.  You should use this kind of physical contact on her friends to make them more comfortable.  Handshakes, high fives, hugs, etc.  Don't do this shit on your target too much early on, you are going direct to the good shit on her to set the tone early.  If I walk up to a group I will shake everyone's hand and when I get to the target I will either claw her in or pull her in for a hug that says "I like you and I am here to pick you up".

4.  Interlocking Fingers.  Very early on you want to make hand to hand contact with a girl you are appoaching where you interlock fingers.  This is very intimate and sexual, almost as much as a kiss, but isn't viewed as slutty.  This is a good pretext for a kiss as it will usually be the first sexual physical contact where she has to reciprocate.  It is very easy to grab both of her hands, stand face to face staring into her eyes, and then go for a sensual kiss.  It is also easy to stand there having normal conversation but still keep the attraction undertones when you are interlocking fingers.

5.  Hip Control. One thing I like to do is when facing a girl to just pull her in pelvis to pelvis by either grabbing her by the small of her back and gently pulling her towards me as I move towards her a little.  Some times girls will lean back because it is too intense but they will keep her hips pressed to yours.  Just grab her with both hands like you are embraced and keep her from falling backwards.  Another smoother trick you can do when she is wearing Jeans is to simply grab her by the belt loops and pull her in.  Then she is fucked, she can't reallt get away at that point lol.  When I am standing with, I want it to look like she is my girlfriend to everyone else.  I want to be learning back against the wall, pulling her close to me, and doing the whole interaction like that.  That is what looks smooth.  I don't want to be just standing around looking like a bunch of dudes would standing around

6. The Gay Dude Rule.  The way to figure out what good kino is to ask yourself, "Would I be touching a gay dude in this way?"  If the answer is no, then the kino you are doing is probably leading things in the direction you want to go...unless you are a faggot.

7. Don't be appologetic about being physical.  You are a man, it is ok for you to touch girls and you should never be ashamed or feel like a pervert for doing so.  Infact every guy who doesn't want to touch girls is a faggot or a pussy.  You don't want to categorize yourself as either.

8. *Advanced Move* Fingering the girl in the club.
  If you want to know what the easy mode is for getting laid, it's being able to finger the girl in the club either standing or sitting.  This should definatelly be done during a makeout and it can be calibrated just like anything else.  It helps if she is wearing a skirt or yoga pants / leggings, if she is wearing tight jeans, just forget it.  Put your hand down there and slowly like a ninja creep up and start rubbing her inner thigh, if she pushes your hands away, just chill and try again.  Once she lets your hand get to the panties, try to reach under and look for the wet spot.  She should be getting pretty turned on by now so just slide your middle finger in and go nice and easy.  She should be really fucking turned on and primed for the pull to either your car, or the nearest bathroom.
 
9. Smell, Pull, Bite.  When you are dancing face to face with a cute girl and it's getting a little heavy, pull her in and smell her neck then stare into her eyes as you pull her hair away from her neck.  Next grab her hair on the back of her neck by the roots and pull her head back and gently bite her neck like dracula.  It you want just whisper the word "Twilight" into her ear right before you go in lol.  After that pull her in for a hot dancefloor makeout.

10. Learn to fucking dance
. I have no ideas why there are so many faggots at the club who don't like to dance.  In Cleveland all you see are a bunch of chumps standing around with their Cleveland Browns hats drinking beer and watching the girls dance like a bunch of jerk offs.  The dance floor is literally the only place on the planet where you can be surrounded by beautiful women and have basically a free for all to molest them without getting in trouble.  I just love rubbing my boner on some super hot girls ass in a tight little dress.  Even if you don't pull from the dancefloor, you should be able to get horny on the dancefloor and use that intent to power your other approaches.  If you are uncomfortable dancing make it a focus for the next 3 months to both learn how to dance, and learn how to work the dancefloor for seducing women.  it's as simple as grinding, and making out.   It's so easy that every chump in the world who tries it for a while can figure it out as easy as picking up a new video game.

Off Limits in Public

1. Never grab a girls tits in public.
2. Feel free to grab her ass after you think you can get away with it.  I'd wait until after you made out or started dancing to be safe.
3. Don't finger her where it can be easily seen by other people.  Do it seated, in a dark corner, or in a really crowded dancefloor.
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I almost always read that post by Drama before I go out each night. Now I'm adding this post to the collection!
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Awesome post bro! whats funny is that ur describing everything iv done "naturally" (Even before finding about them in rsd) such as clawing, the hip thing, eye contact, and the slightly pulling the hair back. I also tried fingering a girl wearing jeans (LOL) ended up just rubbing my hand against it (she was surprisingly into it though). Im one of those "jerk-offs who hates dancing ( cuz it makes me feel like a fag) donno if its affecting my game though. Anyway great value in ur posts lately. thanks man
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I knew eventually a great post would appear on the main forum.

I can't recommend Ozzie's book enough. Personally, it has been one the most useful books I've read.
Flawless Natural and Physical Game are pretty much the only things I feel that I need. The rest is just experience.
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cool, thx
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It's great that this thread has 1/20 the views of the "How many people in the club are chodes" thread lol...Nice to see some posts that give a newbie the only things you really need when starting out...Looking forward to the rest of the series.
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guitarsavior wrote:
It's great that this thread has 1/20 the views of the "How many people in the club are chodes" thread lol...Nice to see some posts that give a newbie the only things you really need when starting out...Looking forward to the rest of the series.
That's because most guys that are into pickup are fucking dorks who want to sit around and complain on the internet instead of taking action.  The only reason I even bother posting on these forums anymore is to kill time at work, and I love to make fun of pussies who whine about their worthless lives.  In return for this enjoyment, I like to actually help people who want to actually do something besides complain and be weak.
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A good reminder on the fundamentals.

I forget when some of this is needed at times, thanks mate
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Well that's the most comprehensive post that I know of. I love your stuff man. 

There are a few ways to touch tits in public, and some girls like it:

-you put your head in, if she has big tits (otherwise there's no point lol). Works well if you are in a fun mood. If she's small you put her head in your chest before or after to make it "normal".

-you touch the tits with the back of your had when you're in an intense conversation. I used to do that a lot before, and it's funny rubbing them while talking about super serious stuff - it's the back of the hand, it doesn't count

-you put your hands below her armpits, then you put them 1-2cm back so that you have some of the tits if your hands - some girls get turned on when you press the tits against each other like this and press her chest against your chest.

-when you're in super irreverent mode you can get away with anything. Yesterday it was "where are your tits girl go buy yourself some tits, are you kidding me is that really your tits " while grabbing them in the middle of the crowd. 

-in general you start it fun then you push it if she complies

-the only interest for me to touch tits is because it makes me fucking horny, otherwise no use

Keep it up, quintessenced. 
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Paris Boum Boum wrote:
Well that's the most comprehensive post that I know of. I love your stuff man. 

There are a few ways to touch tits in public, and some girls like it:

-you put your head in, if she has big tits (otherwise there's no point lol). Works well if you are in a fun mood. If she's small you put her head in your chest before or after to make it "normal".

-you touch the tits with the back of your had when you're in an intense conversation. I used to do that a lot before, and it's funny rubbing them while talking about super serious stuff - it's the back of the hand, it doesn't count

-you put your hands below her armpits, then you put them 1-2cm back so that you have some of the tits if your hands - some girls get turned on when you press the tits against each other like this and press her chest against your chest.

-when you're in super irreverent mode you can get away with anything. Yesterday it was "where are your tits girl go buy yourself some tits, are you kidding me is that really your tits " while grabbing them in the middle of the crowd. 

-in general you start it fun then you push it if she complies

-the only interest for me to touch tits is because it makes me fucking horny, otherwise no use

Keep it up, quintessenced. 
Shit man that's pretty smooth.  I'd have to try some of that.  The only reason I put that warning there is cuz I have seen guys cop a feel and get a face full of pepper spray. or a black eye.  Allot of American girls are psychotic lol.  Infact I believe my mom punched my dad in the face when they first met due to him being overly touchey lol.
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