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How to get over this? ( Loving people, accepting them, accepting zombies )
Yeah, you should reframe it like, "I'm being a douchebag who's high on himself, thinks he knows more than he does, and is judgmental as fuck towards people he doesn't even know". Then learn to develop empathy for others. Be the one to bring out awesomeness in others.
.... might work on people who want to hear it. But really, if you're talking about approaching girls, then these are retarded thoughts in your head. If you're judging the girl and thinking of her as boring, or whatever.... that's retarded. You'd probably be better off thinking about what you're attracted to, or what value your state and personality has to give.
Should I reframe it like ' Oh, they haven't yet been told about self development, they just don't know about this, poor beings, it's ok, they are probably happy in their own way, etc. '?
.... might work on people who want to hear it. But really, if you're talking about approaching girls, then these are retarded thoughts in your head. If you're judging the girl and thinking of her as boring, or whatever.... that's retarded. You'd probably be better off thinking about what you're attracted to, or what value your state and personality has to give.
Whenever I'm feeling superior or inferior, I think about perspective.
For my perspective, what's up is up and what is down is down. And you have NO IDEA the perspective of another person. You have no clue what weakness you have that the stranger next to you could school you on -- or use to take advantage of you.
Remember that you are not a God. You're a human being. As infallible as the next guy.
P.S. You don't know if someone is happy or sad. Just because they are not skipping down the street doesn't mean they're zombies. How do you know someone you cross is not thinking the same thing you are?
You don't know anything, really.
The value you put on "pushing yourself" is something YOU made up. Its valuable because YOU say so. You didn't get some kind of enlightened wisdom from an alien. You made it up. Who says you're right (other than yourself)? After all, we don't really know anything.
For my perspective, what's up is up and what is down is down. And you have NO IDEA the perspective of another person. You have no clue what weakness you have that the stranger next to you could school you on -- or use to take advantage of you.
Remember that you are not a God. You're a human being. As infallible as the next guy.
P.S. You don't know if someone is happy or sad. Just because they are not skipping down the street doesn't mean they're zombies. How do you know someone you cross is not thinking the same thing you are?
You don't know anything, really.
The value you put on "pushing yourself" is something YOU made up. Its valuable because YOU say so. You didn't get some kind of enlightened wisdom from an alien. You made it up. Who says you're right (other than yourself)? After all, we don't really know anything.
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This is it.
Didnt read the post, so dont even know if this is relevent lol, but its an awesome video:
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dont approach sad girls they will make you sad too. Except you have stronger frame.
My "happy frame" most of the time is very fragile and every sad person can get me down to their level.
My "happy frame" most of the time is very fragile and every sad person can get me down to their level.
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In western society having a booming voice is misinterpreted as a sign of efficiency. In PUA studies we learn how to utilize these misinterpetations to our advantage. While politicians focus on building trust and admiration pick up artists focus on builiding trust and arousal.
being dominant, doesnt mean you are superior? off course dont be pushy. Nobody changes by pushes.
interesting topic though
interesting topic though
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In western society having a booming voice is misinterpreted as a sign of efficiency. In PUA studies we learn how to utilize these misinterpetations to our advantage. While politicians focus on building trust and admiration pick up artists focus on builiding trust and arousal.
Discover the good parts of them. This will humble and enlighten you.
"The more people I meet, the less I know."
"The more people I meet, the less I know."
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Great responses so far.
Yesterday I approached many many sets and while 90% of the people were not very cool and nice and happy, 10% were really respectful and pleasant.
There were a couple of sets where I expected a boring, assholish person by just the look of them but surprisingly they turned out to be nice and cool and friendly people. It opened my eyes a bit.
Brad's new article is quite cool, in it he says: People act weird to you sometimes cause they are envious of your unstifledness. Another good one that Alex says is that people act weird a lot of times when you approach them is because they are uncomfortable for a while. My job is to make them feel comfortable by just radiating my presence more and staying in sets longer.
Yesterday I approached many many sets and while 90% of the people were not very cool and nice and happy, 10% were really respectful and pleasant.
There were a couple of sets where I expected a boring, assholish person by just the look of them but surprisingly they turned out to be nice and cool and friendly people. It opened my eyes a bit.
Brad's new article is quite cool, in it he says: People act weird to you sometimes cause they are envious of your unstifledness. Another good one that Alex says is that people act weird a lot of times when you approach them is because they are uncomfortable for a while. My job is to make them feel comfortable by just radiating my presence more and staying in sets longer.
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P.S. You don't know if someone is happy or sad. Just because they are not skipping down the street doesn't mean they're zombies. How do you know someone you cross is not thinking the same thing you are?
lol! Yeah, I get brought back to reality when I go to clubs. During the day I'm walking around the grocery store, and thinking to myself, "yeah, I'm such a pimp, I'm way cooler than all these chodes. I could totally do that chick. I'm the king of Walmart". Then I go out to a club and I'm like "uhhhhh..... what the fuck am I doing here?. This vibe is beyond me" and then I can't even approach. Makes me realize that I still suck. I got laid a few weeks ago and for about a week I was on top of the world and thought I could have any woman. I was in the zone. I feel like I've gone to zero and forgetten everything now. Gotta get back. So anyway, it makes me wonder what these people in the grocery store might think of me. I'm walking around like I'm the shit, but others are probably seeing weaknesses that I don't even know are there. I'm probably walking around like Napolean Dynamite or something, thinking I'm awesome at everything, and coming off as comically overconfident.
Well there is no seperation between you and them. So it is impossible to be superior or inferior. You are them.
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no you should reframe it in terms of how blessed you are you found self actualization and had the strenght to change who you and consequently how the world reacts to you. Have you ever considered how lucky you were? Those people probably weren't. Probably they've been screwed over by the world more than you. You should realize how lucky you are and be sympathetic.
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- I'm here just to share who I am. And if there's only one person on this forum who benefits from my rants, it's worth the time put in it.
- Value your struggle. You don't know what you have. Once you're able to go to the most exclusive venue in town, on your own, dressed like shit, tired from work, exhausted from the gym, on Tue night... and still pull a dime piece... the game gets little boring.
- Stop asking questions here, aim to go out 7 nights a week, workout, meditate, live life on the edge and read Ozzie's book. Then come back and share what you learnt.
- Nobody here talks about heartbroken stalker girls, threatening pissed off boy friends, chlamidia... What universe are you guys living in???
- Jeffy has 9 balls... and a book that's pretty damn good.
- Used to be a product of human society for way too long. It's time for human society to be the product of me.
- Consumerism turns people into soulless asexual robots. I, on the other hand, like to fuck (with) real human beings.
- HOW TO BECOME THE MAN: www.rsdnation.com/node/202332
- haha you read it? you suck!
- Value your struggle. You don't know what you have. Once you're able to go to the most exclusive venue in town, on your own, dressed like shit, tired from work, exhausted from the gym, on Tue night... and still pull a dime piece... the game gets little boring.
- Stop asking questions here, aim to go out 7 nights a week, workout, meditate, live life on the edge and read Ozzie's book. Then come back and share what you learnt.
- Nobody here talks about heartbroken stalker girls, threatening pissed off boy friends, chlamidia... What universe are you guys living in???
- Jeffy has 9 balls... and a book that's pretty damn good.
- Used to be a product of human society for way too long. It's time for human society to be the product of me.
- Consumerism turns people into soulless asexual robots. I, on the other hand, like to fuck (with) real human beings.
- HOW TO BECOME THE MAN: www.rsdnation.com/node/202332
- haha you read it? you suck!
Manmachine
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Join Date: 05/08/2012 | Posts: 17
I know so much more than the average people and I push myself sooooo much further out of my comfort zone DAILY than most people that when I look at the sad, zombie faces on the street and before I approach people
I feel a bit about them like 'Pfff...Who are you? Why are you wasting your time you zombie? Why are you average? Why don't you push yourself? Why are you sad when you could be happy? Why are you suffering when you could be happy?'
These thougts in my head make me feel superior, it gives me a bit of an ego, it lowers my love towards people, etc.
I know I have to get over this because this altough helps me a little bit ( makes me feel higher value ) but at the same time they might get the vibe that I'm looking down on them.
Should I reframe it like ' Oh, they haven't yet been told about self development, they just don't know about this, poor beings, it's ok, they are probably happy in their own way, etc. '?
What's the solution?