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May 22nd, 2013
What makes a natural a natural?
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briancl

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Is a natural just an extroverted person who thrives off socializing? Is it something in your genetics that make a person behave this way? Do most naturals have a tendency to be positive and people who aren't naturals negative? I'm just really curious because I am not a natural. When I was young through jr high, I was friends with everyone and would chat with just about anybody I was a natural. When I started high school I became a completely different person, I was very introverted and would just have a very small social circle.

At times, I feel I have this switch if I can trigger this social trigger I feel very relaxed, at ease. But in my natural state I am just so nervous, negative, full of anxiety. As I grew older, I became aware of everything going on, but when I was young I didn't focus on anything but enjoying life. Can you guys shed some light on this? Thanks!
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He just had for luck of the destiny more experiences than you that he succeeded.
First year of high school I was bullied, 3rd year I was the bully.
But normally are limited for few enviroments. Say a natural surfer probably will not have success pick up girl on a opera house, and vice versa.
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This is because when you are born, you are born natural.

But with the passage of years you will be conditioned.

You have to do the role opposite.

YOU ARE IN THE STATE CONDITIONED AND NOW YOU GO TO THE NATURAL
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Ish

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There are no naturals, Everyone has to go through shit in order to get their mind right everyone, Sooner or later your gonna have to work through it
mays well be sooner, For me i just got to the stage where i just said fuck all this shit....I'm good to go just the way i am and all the world can go to hell
soon as i did that it was like BOOOM!!! started knocking them down one after the other
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Ryan2

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Comes down to very arbitrary things that happen early in their childhood.  Like Tyler says in the BP, maybe the kid steps up in class, or in the playground at recess, and it works out; he gets a positive reference experience out of it.  This creates a positive feedback-loop and by the time he's 17 he's getting laid.

Most naturals I know have very alpha fathers or older bothers they learn from which gets the ball rolling.  However this isn't always the case.
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combination of genetics and upbringing

but you can trump both by putting in the hard yards
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the fact he doesn't read internet forums
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I don't know. My little brother is pretty damn good...

He's not extroverted AT. ALL! Not at all. Growing up, I wondered if he would be able to make friends because he and I were kinda exactly the same. I'm the girl version, he's the boy version, lol. In the end (up to this point), being that quiet guy has worked out very well. There's something about him that all his little girlfriends can't get enough of.

I think definitely a sense of "I trust this guy"  -- whether he's fun and extroverted or quiet and mysterious. During the interaction, a sense of trust is triggered somehow.
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super congruency. he has the bravery to express himself.
dottywine wrote:
I don't know. My little brother is pretty damn good...

He's not extroverted AT. ALL! Not at all. Growing up, I wondered if he would be able to make friends because he and I were kinda exactly the same. I'm the girl version, he's the boy version, lol. In the end (up to this point), being that quiet guy has worked out very well. There's something about him that all his little girlfriends can't get enough of.

I think definitely a sense of "I trust this guy"  -- whether he's fun and extroverted or quiet and mysterious. During the interaction, a sense of trust is triggered somehow.
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experience with chicks when they were young enough for whatever reason.
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Roids!
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