Actually all game is inner game. You either force yourself into a state or you have a belief structure that allows you to get into it, but at the end of the day, it's all inner game. Gaming works or doesn't work depending on your inner gears. You can't micromanage anything that matters in real time anyway.
It's true that some outer game factors can affect your inner game, sometimes greatly, but that doesn't change the fact that the inner game is the deciding factor. How you feel, at the end of the day, is what has the greatest impact on how people respond to you in any social situation.
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Authenticity /Congruencyis attraction.
Value does not exist. There is no such thing as high or low status behavior.
There is no difference between the structure as you call it and the actual reality. There is no point in first changing your inner game and then going after waht you want. You go for what you want and then your inner game will naturally change as a result because you are forced to adapt. You dont force yourself into state. Forget about state.
"There is no world apart from what you wish, and herein lies your ultimate release.
Change but your mind on what you want to see, and all the world must change accordingly." - A Course in Miracles
Thorzen
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It's true that some outer game factors can affect your inner game, sometimes greatly, but that doesn't change the fact that the inner game is the deciding factor. How you feel, at the end of the day, is what has the greatest impact on how people respond to you in any social situation.
Value does not exist. There is no such thing as high or low status behavior.