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December 7th, 2016
Boston Hot Seat (Tyler/Julien)
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dave7

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Boston May 2012

Went to Boston this past weekend for the HS. I didn't make it in time for the FT. Julien was in town with Tyler, and also Nick (Papa) was there too. This was my third HS lol. For those wondering, you can still learn a lot from going to HS more than once. Each time I go I see things differently and I notice things that I didn't before. This time I took it seriously when Tyler talked about anime eyes, before I thought that was no big deal and that I already was good at distinguising eye contact.

But it is really important to notice how a girl's eyes are, to see if she is interested in you or if you have no chance. When the girl does have the anime eyes, or "happy eyes" as I like to to call them, then you can go for the makeout or the physical escalation and she won't freak out. She might not let you m/o all the time, but she will giggle and laugh and smile.

Anyway, HS on saturday was sweet. I've seen most of the videos before. Still Tyler told a few different stories and he emphasized different aspects. Going to HS a lot just reiniforces everything you're trying to learn, over and over and over. It really helps you see your blind spots. And once you see HS again, you aren't as "amazed" as the first time, so you can pay attention to smaller details in the videos. It's kinda cool actually. If you want to learn more stuff, it's kind of necessary to do stuff like this, like going to HS multiple times, it's putting in the work, keep progressing. HS is a long day for a anyone, but that's just life. The more you hammer it in the better.

And I always do approaches during the dinner break. Watching so many videos makes you want to actually go do it yourself instead of being a spectator. I highly recommend others do this during dinner break. Bring a snack so you don't have to go out to eat. You'll feel like you're in the HS video, and you feel better b/c you are taking action, and then you go back for the last hour of HS and you can relate to it more. Don't be a pussy, it will probably be good for your body to fast a little bit too, you don't actually need to eat food all the time. And then go out after HS of course.

If you're going to just go to HS and then just go home afterwards (on a saturday night!!!) then don't even bother going at all. What's the point of spending 8 hours watching in field videos and then not even going out?! At every HS I've been to, there have been a few guys that I meet that just go home afterwards. If you learn anything from these events, it is to actually go out and try this stuff out. IMO it's a huge dis to Tyler to go to his HS and listen to him analyze the vids and answer questions and for him to do this over and over in every city, and then you don't even go out.

So plan on putting in the time and effort to have a real adventure. No excuses.


Sunday bonus day was amazing this time because Julien presented, he basically just did his HS that he does in Europe and other countries. It was really exlcusive to have him in the U.S. We were so lucky and he's only going to do one more in the near future in 2 weeks in Austin. He showed a ton of his videos.

I had not seen most of them before. This was because Tyler did not show all of them (he showed some) at the previous HS events. So I would hope that Tyler would show more Julien videos on sunday at future HS events when Julien is not there. 

That's one advantage of going to mulitple HS is that there is something new every time, and there are different instructors in addition to Tyler that come a long. For example, last weekend in DC Alex was there, so awesome. 

But seriously Julien's videos were so sweet, it was crazy. You just have to see them for yourself. Combining the just as amazing Tyler videos on saturday and Julien videos on sunday is ridiciulous! A lot of them are hiliarious. I don't know what else to say you will love them if you go. In one video Julien picks up a super hot porn star, she is so hot blonde, he makes it look easy, but that would be so not easy for anyone without experience. Tyler and Julien pick up the hottest girls, it's inspiring. And it's easy to take if for granted when watching the videos, you might think "oh I can do that, just say funny shit". But then you go out and you realize the big difference between your game and Tyler/Julien. But this is all good! Because it really shows your weaknesses that you NEED to work on. HS helps you to stay on track, it's really cool.

The big new thing that I learned this weekend was the anime eyes that girls have. This was emphasized just as strongly at the previous events, but this time I actually took it more seriously b/c I realized that I didn't REALLY know what they were talking about, and I didn't really notice girls' eyes that much. So when you watch the HS videos really pay attention to how the girls' eyes look when they are so happy to be talking to Tyler/Julien. Their eyes are "happy eyes". So notice this when you talk to girls yourself, and then you can know whether you should try to escalate or kiss the girl, or just leave basically. It's makes things easier it really does. Then you don't waste your time trying to plow through some girl who does not like you. It's a good screening method.

So fuck it, I'm gonna go to HS in Austin in 2 weeks, and learn more stuff, have an adventure. It's easy to make the small decisions to just go to HS, and you do that, take it in stride, meet some dudes there, go out, do some approaches, have an adventure, and learn. But you might be disappointed with Austin b/c me and Julien will be there and we will pull all the super hot girls that are there so there won't be any hot girls for anyone else.  
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OMAR

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 I am in awe that u are able to go to all these hotseats financially speaking. BUt I agree I went to the DC one wiht u which was my second time and had a less shcok factor so i was able to pick up the small details. 
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Be in awe.
OMAR wrote:
 I am in awe that u are able to go to all these hotseats financially speaking. BUt I agree I went to the DC one wiht u which was my second time and had a less shcok factor so i was able to pick up the small details. 
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Yeah basically. Not sure about the white dot? Unless you're talking about real anime eyes.
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Nice review. I was at the Jeffy Hot Seat and it was great. Are the anime eyes when a girl's eyes get really huge and round and the pupils get really big. And in the pupil they have this big bright white dot?
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dave7 wrote:
Yeah basically. Not sure about the white dot? Unless you're talking about real anime eyes.


champ wrote:
Nice review. I was at the Jeffy Hot Seat and it was great. Are the anime eyes when a girl's eyes get really huge and round and the pupils get really big. And in the pupil they have this big bright white dot?

LOL
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 Oh yeah lol, no worries. Prob. lots of names for the same thing we're talking about. That's why I call it "happy eyes" but that's not the best name b/c they're more like "sexy happy" eyes. 
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