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probably because youre not playing solid game

do you take your time, chill and really want to get to know the girl?
or are you pushing for the makeout and take her number on an emotional high?
when you do that and she wakes up the next morning she doesnt feel that same emotion anymore and she flakes on you.
its the same when you are drunk and do something that you at that moment think is funny, but the next morning you feel akward that you did that.

and please change your signature........ nerve-wrecking

maybe you feel like she wont stay when you slow down and chill.
Get the mindset that girls like you just for you. that you dont need to do something in order to make her like you.
Try walking up to girls chill and open them by saying: "hi, how are you?" and then take it from there, EXPRESSING whatever you feel, allow pauses, but still have your intent going.
Whenever you feel like you are doing something to get any kind of reaction from here: STOP, chill out again, free your mind and interact natural with her, trust the man to woman natural attraction.
You can still be high energy though if it naturally arises out of you, express yourself freely.

your game will become much more solid because she realizes that she is interactin with an authentic guy. what she sees is what she gets.
and lastly TAKE YOUR TIME. you have to feel 100% comfortable with a girl, then she does too. stay with her and tell her what you want from her.

Try this and you should be getting solid numbers and dates soon. But dont forget that there might be a learning process you have to get through before results start coming in.

btw: i started out high energy, too, and got lots of makeouts. I realized that this is not solid game and swang it back to a more chill foundation, but stll can get high energy, especially in partyclubs.

You say you are in high school, so I guess you should keep on doing what you are doing, with your main focus on becoming comfortable with the girls you talk to. That does not mean that you have to be low energy. It just means that you learn to express your 100% congruent personality and suck girls into that reality. One night you might chill with a girl on a couch, the other night you romp it on the dancefloor. WHATEVER you feel like. Thats the process of becoming a cool person, and girls want to be around cool persons. They feel the congruence. Your flakes will go down rapidly.
And never forget to still move things forward. Play to win - and it will go great for you.

Dude, you are totally overanlyzing this situation.  I have to agree with gogl~ here.  Just because you chill out to try and get to know the girl a little bit doesn't mean your going to marry this chick.  It could also be pride that you don't want to seem interested when you say things like " But if I don't feel like slowing down" .  What you could be doing is just hyping up the girl but then she doesnt realize that you have that much value to her.  Apparently the only value your giving is that your a cool guy to hook up with and have fun with during a night out.  Some chicks just like this validation.  Maybe your not spiking her interest to get to really know you enough to actually go out with you. I dont give a fuck myself when I go out and pick up chicks its just a part of the game it doesn't mean your actually interested.  Sometimes it does help to do so, like I can be really interested in someone in the moment and it comes out genuine but when I leave 15 minutes later I dont really give a fuck anymore.  You have to be genuinely interested in the girl because that is how interaction and attraction builds.  This does not mean that you cannot start going balls out once your realize the girl is yours or escalate the situation to a much funner level.  My advice is to just try it out for a while until it becomes natural to you then you can just turn it on and off as you like during the situation.  Gaming is learning about calibrating and while stuff does correct itself over time it is because you are constantly trying new things and pushing yourself. 
Hope this helps.

BTW I came to this thread to see more on text gaming.  Hey gogl~ you got anything for just getting the chicks to come out quicker after you text them.