THE FORUMS
THURSDAY
Man, I´m so much more comfortable with being direct/dominant/leading from the get go, shit´s way easier than when I started doing it. Even though I build momentum/relax at the beginning of the night by taking a low energy/chill/friendly approach, when it comes to approaching hot girls I´d like to meet full force is the way to go =). It still feels weird from time to time especially when I´m not warmed up, but hey =).
So I was out yesterday night, me 3 friends 1 without any knowledge of rsd etc. Was kind of funny even though he kept commenting on what he would have done differently, how girls like him etc.
1st real interaction was 2 set with wing, 2 hot blondes in the outisde area. Started pretty chill, I amped up the flirty stuff and touching as the interaction went on, after about 45 girl 2 wanted to go dance so they left. Should´ve pushed for isolation.
Later that night I approached with more dominance/leading/sexuality, since I felt more congruent with it. It´s funny how polarizing you can be once you express your intentions right from the beginning instead of drifting of to conversation land. So I definetly want to keep going being dominant/sexually/leading even though my self image gets challenged by it.
Man, I´m so much more comfortable with being direct/dominant/leading from the get go, shit´s way easier than when I started doing it. Even though I build momentum/relax at the beginning of the night by taking a low energy/chill/friendly approach, when it comes to approaching hot girls I´d like to meet full force is the way to go =). It still feels weird from time to time especially when I´m not warmed up, but hey =).
So I was out yesterday night, me 3 friends 1 without any knowledge of rsd etc. Was kind of funny even though he kept commenting on what he would have done differently, how girls like him etc.
1st real interaction was 2 set with wing, 2 hot blondes in the outisde area. Started pretty chill, I amped up the flirty stuff and touching as the interaction went on, after about 45 girl 2 wanted to go dance so they left. Should´ve pushed for isolation.
Later that night I approached with more dominance/leading/sexuality, since I felt more congruent with it. It´s funny how polarizing you can be once you express your intentions right from the beginning instead of drifting of to conversation land. So I definetly want to keep going being dominant/sexually/leading even though my self image gets challenged by it.
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Omg can´t believe i choded out on a saturday. I was out the whole night maybe talking to 2 chicks that weren´t hot at all. It´s funny that that used to be my standard night out 3 months ago and now I hate it asking how I could ever do something like that without feeling shitty...
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Monday
Finally a night where something happened that´s actually worth reporting. Well not that I pulled but still I think there´s a lot of lessons that I can learn from writing it down so here it goes.
Go to the club at ~12.30, wing and 1 friend (drinks and creeps). Chode, dance and talk to my friends for a bit, club seems cool. Not too crowded but still ok, not that many hot girls around though. One habit I should get rid of: Screening in the club for possible "value givers" = hot chicks.
So there´s a tall chick standing outside smoking, about 6´2", no heels, hot pants cute face. I open with the most stupid thing ever: You´re tall. She´s giving me shit about how boring I am so I go with the flow. Since it´s my first set of the night I´m not really talkative but still push through. I like her, she challenges me a lot and tests if I really don´t care about her height...actually I do but I manage to keep it under control. After ~15mins I eject since it´s way too early to try anything and there´s a few hotties left.
On the dancefloor, I feel in the zone. I banter with some chicks here and there, telling them I love them, nothing serious and no real interactions for a bit. I don´t know if I should stop doing that at least on the nights where I try to improve my actual "game" , but it keeps me in a good mood so I probably stick with it. I still notice it´s way easier for me to open with something funny and self amusing with almost no sexual tension, but when I´m in it´s hard to bring in the intent part. Almost like Julien said "hi, I have a dick!".
Cute chick walks by, barefoot slightly drunk. I claw her in and start singing. She smiles. She´s super into me I can tell. Here´s the problem: Once I see a girl really into me after like 5 seconds, I tend to get into "superman mode" where my state becomes so pumped by the validation that I just do what I want without noticing the girls emotions. In that case she got intimidated by it and I pretty much lost her. She kept dancing around me and shit but always left after like 10 seconds of interaction with me. I guess I should have led her outside and started a normal conversation.
Hot call chick comes back from time to time, my drunk friend tries to make out with her all the time which clearly isn´t helpful. She´s really drunk by now. I tell her I have to leave in a bit, she drags me to the bathroom. She tries to kiss me and falls down because she´s really drunk. I let go of her it turns me off. Still liked her though.
I remember 2 times when I walked up to really hot girls and introduced myself, then went on with normal conversation. I remember both times there was man/woman dynamics at play, but I was too quiet and waiting for her to do the work, seeing if my "manliness" gets rewarded. Instead I should have assumed attraction. It happens to me a lot, when I walk up to a girl and honestly tell her she´s hot, I wait for the "honesty to have it´s effect" before I go further. Bad bad habit.
Also I should be leading more. Lead her from the dancefloor, to the bar, direct the interaction, it´s the things I do from time to time but not regularly and not when talking to a hot girl.I know the execution when a girl is hooked / likes me, I´m simply afraid to lose the girl by making the "wrong move". Shit fucking sucks.
Lessons:
- Lead lead lead
- Be willing to lose the girl, even if she really likes you it doesn´t mean it´s done. I´m still the man and need to direct her through the motions.
- Jump through the window as long as it´s open.
- Assume attraction, don´t just show intent and wait for it to work. Assume it´s gonna work because I´m awesome.
- Don´t spend too much time with "warming up" when I´m already warmed up. There´s a time and place for everything
Finally a night where something happened that´s actually worth reporting. Well not that I pulled but still I think there´s a lot of lessons that I can learn from writing it down so here it goes.
Go to the club at ~12.30, wing and 1 friend (drinks and creeps). Chode, dance and talk to my friends for a bit, club seems cool. Not too crowded but still ok, not that many hot girls around though. One habit I should get rid of: Screening in the club for possible "value givers" = hot chicks.
So there´s a tall chick standing outside smoking, about 6´2", no heels, hot pants cute face. I open with the most stupid thing ever: You´re tall. She´s giving me shit about how boring I am so I go with the flow. Since it´s my first set of the night I´m not really talkative but still push through. I like her, she challenges me a lot and tests if I really don´t care about her height...actually I do but I manage to keep it under control. After ~15mins I eject since it´s way too early to try anything and there´s a few hotties left.
On the dancefloor, I feel in the zone. I banter with some chicks here and there, telling them I love them, nothing serious and no real interactions for a bit. I don´t know if I should stop doing that at least on the nights where I try to improve my actual "game" , but it keeps me in a good mood so I probably stick with it. I still notice it´s way easier for me to open with something funny and self amusing with almost no sexual tension, but when I´m in it´s hard to bring in the intent part. Almost like Julien said "hi, I have a dick!".
Cute chick walks by, barefoot slightly drunk. I claw her in and start singing. She smiles. She´s super into me I can tell. Here´s the problem: Once I see a girl really into me after like 5 seconds, I tend to get into "superman mode" where my state becomes so pumped by the validation that I just do what I want without noticing the girls emotions. In that case she got intimidated by it and I pretty much lost her. She kept dancing around me and shit but always left after like 10 seconds of interaction with me. I guess I should have led her outside and started a normal conversation.
Hot call chick comes back from time to time, my drunk friend tries to make out with her all the time which clearly isn´t helpful. She´s really drunk by now. I tell her I have to leave in a bit, she drags me to the bathroom. She tries to kiss me and falls down because she´s really drunk. I let go of her it turns me off. Still liked her though.
I remember 2 times when I walked up to really hot girls and introduced myself, then went on with normal conversation. I remember both times there was man/woman dynamics at play, but I was too quiet and waiting for her to do the work, seeing if my "manliness" gets rewarded. Instead I should have assumed attraction. It happens to me a lot, when I walk up to a girl and honestly tell her she´s hot, I wait for the "honesty to have it´s effect" before I go further. Bad bad habit.
Also I should be leading more. Lead her from the dancefloor, to the bar, direct the interaction, it´s the things I do from time to time but not regularly and not when talking to a hot girl.I know the execution when a girl is hooked / likes me, I´m simply afraid to lose the girl by making the "wrong move". Shit fucking sucks.
Lessons:
- Lead lead lead
- Be willing to lose the girl, even if she really likes you it doesn´t mean it´s done. I´m still the man and need to direct her through the motions.
- Jump through the window as long as it´s open.
- Assume attraction, don´t just show intent and wait for it to work. Assume it´s gonna work because I´m awesome.
- Don´t spend too much time with "warming up" when I´m already warmed up. There´s a time and place for everything
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Wednesday
Me and friend arrive at the club at ~12:30. We chode for 30 minutes, dance and have fun. I´m not sure if this is benefitial to the "results" of the night, maybe we should get straight to work. Will try in the next weeks.
However, wing sees girl he pulled yesterday and decides to do it again, so I´m on my own. Not used to be alone in the club so I chode for like 20 minutes, reminding myself how much I suck. I tell myself to stick to the process which I know works, so I start talking to random people which helps elevating my mood. I feel better and start approaching girls. Nothing quite hooks, nothing´s bad either.
I remember the things I need to work on which is leading, dominance and shit. It´s funny how hard it is to do something which you KNOW lowers your success, but I need to get this down in order to create initiative and have consistency in my cold approaches. So I work on it, some girls are repelled some are quite interested. I use Julien´s breaking through walls of politeness quite often, especially on the dancefloor where girls decide within a split second if they want to talk to you. It works surprisingly well.
I talk to a few chicks, mostly hot ones that I´d like to sleep with. I escalate right from the beginning and start touching, hugging, kissing etc. Again, it feels slightly incongruent but it´s a lot of fun. I´ll definetly keep doing it. Talk to a girl I met a week ago, she´s super into me and kinda hot, I decide to look for better options. Maybe the wrong move, who knows. Could´ve gotten at least makeout/number easily. Damnit.
Wing comes back and we hit it hart. I´m not really well calibrated so most of the interactions don´t last very long, I even ejected too early in like 80% just to get the feeling of being in control. I was suprirsed of how little the girls contributed to the interaction, I guess that´s normal when you come in strong since they wanna see what you´re made of.
Lessons:
-Stick to the process, especially if I´m on my own
- Leading and dominance are key, if I do it I need to continue doing it until the very end. It´s my movie, not hers
- Plow through initial resistance with self amusing and strong statements, continue leading the interaction even if she´s not giving anything back
- Escalate when you want, take a step back if she´s uncomfortable with it.
- Lead lead lead
Me and friend arrive at the club at ~12:30. We chode for 30 minutes, dance and have fun. I´m not sure if this is benefitial to the "results" of the night, maybe we should get straight to work. Will try in the next weeks.
However, wing sees girl he pulled yesterday and decides to do it again, so I´m on my own. Not used to be alone in the club so I chode for like 20 minutes, reminding myself how much I suck. I tell myself to stick to the process which I know works, so I start talking to random people which helps elevating my mood. I feel better and start approaching girls. Nothing quite hooks, nothing´s bad either.
I remember the things I need to work on which is leading, dominance and shit. It´s funny how hard it is to do something which you KNOW lowers your success, but I need to get this down in order to create initiative and have consistency in my cold approaches. So I work on it, some girls are repelled some are quite interested. I use Julien´s breaking through walls of politeness quite often, especially on the dancefloor where girls decide within a split second if they want to talk to you. It works surprisingly well.
I talk to a few chicks, mostly hot ones that I´d like to sleep with. I escalate right from the beginning and start touching, hugging, kissing etc. Again, it feels slightly incongruent but it´s a lot of fun. I´ll definetly keep doing it. Talk to a girl I met a week ago, she´s super into me and kinda hot, I decide to look for better options. Maybe the wrong move, who knows. Could´ve gotten at least makeout/number easily. Damnit.
Wing comes back and we hit it hart. I´m not really well calibrated so most of the interactions don´t last very long, I even ejected too early in like 80% just to get the feeling of being in control. I was suprirsed of how little the girls contributed to the interaction, I guess that´s normal when you come in strong since they wanna see what you´re made of.
Lessons:
-Stick to the process, especially if I´m on my own
- Leading and dominance are key, if I do it I need to continue doing it until the very end. It´s my movie, not hers
- Plow through initial resistance with self amusing and strong statements, continue leading the interaction even if she´s not giving anything back
- Escalate when you want, take a step back if she´s uncomfortable with it.
- Lead lead lead
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the closer mindset
holy shit, this is so huge. I´ve gotten into that weird "pickup practice mode" recently. No further explanation needed. I´m in this for experiencing female presence/sex, so I better go for it. No pickup practice time anymore, it´s time for the closer mindset. Going for what I want. That doesn´t mean that I should neglect every insight I´ve gathered about meeting girls so far, or should stop focusing on certain aspects of my game, but I need to implement the habit of closing/going for girls I like. Yep. Good night.
holy shit, this is so huge. I´ve gotten into that weird "pickup practice mode" recently. No further explanation needed. I´m in this for experiencing female presence/sex, so I better go for it. No pickup practice time anymore, it´s time for the closer mindset. Going for what I want. That doesn´t mean that I should neglect every insight I´ve gathered about meeting girls so far, or should stop focusing on certain aspects of my game, but I need to implement the habit of closing/going for girls I like. Yep. Good night.
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Tuesday
It´s been a while since my last FR. I have developed my game since i´ve started my 6nights/week challenge. I can open strong, express intent, be self amusing, and escalate. How well I can do these things depends on state and how entitled I feel.
So it´s tuesday night, me and wing roll in and decide to stick to our commitment and talk to girls for the first 30 mins to get warmed up. After 2 sets the 30 minutes run out and we feel good. Club´s packed with hot chicks so off we go.
Right after we eject from set 2 I see a girl from weeks ago. Tall, blonde mid 20´s, really hot, my type. She recognizes me and we hit it off. Last time we met we were just chatting and I lost her in the crowd. This time she´s super receptive and I push things a bit more, set the man to woman frame right from the start.
After a while her sister comes in which was talking to my wing the last time we met in the club, so it´s a 2:2 situation now, almost perfect. After a while they run off to the dancefloor and we decide to let them go and pursue further later.
I open left and right, some sets go well, some don´t. It´s still hard for me to open the hotties with intent and strong masculinity instead of just self amuse my way through the 6´s and fatties. No validation for me = better practice = better results. I need to keep talking in order to maintain my state, it´s a whole night not just set by set work. Building momentum´s kinda easy, maintaining it is difficult.
So nothing´s really down at closing time, it´s 4am and we see the 2 blondes from before on the dancefloor. Wing is off to bathroom while I approach my girl. She´s been drinking with the bartender the whole night so she´s really in party mood and drunk. I like it. I grab her and we dance. I go for the makeout several times, no go. She says "you´re too sober for me". I guess it´s her way of saying "I need you to be awesome". I stay unreactive and tell her to walk away since I´m too sober. She stays, test passed. Makeout and heavy grinding ensues. I get a boner, she loves it. We pretty much fuck on the dancefloor with our clothes on while a big circle of chodes is watching. Wing doesn´t come in to take care of the sister which pisses her off, she leaves.
My girl becomes worried so we look for her after I almost jizzed my pants on the dancefloor. Sister is waiting outside wanting to leave. I offer to drive them home so its 2:2 again, my girl and me walking to the car, wing and sister right behind us. I can sense there´s nothing going down between them so I pretty much give up the set.
We arrive at their place. sister gets out of the car, my girl hesitates. She asks me to come inside, I refuse since wing has to go to work 4 hours later and there´s no way for him to get home if not in my car. She walks off, horny as hell. Opportunity missed. I gave up the set too early, I simply could´ve told her to stay in the car and then take her home to me, it just didn´t cross my mind at that time. Huge lesson, it´s never over until it´s O V E R. Will never make that mistake again.
Lessons:
-Girls are horny
- It´s not about doing everything 100% perfectly. Girls want sex as much as guys, you are enough. Just make moves.
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It´s been a while since my last FR. I have developed my game since i´ve started my 6nights/week challenge. I can open strong, express intent, be self amusing, and escalate. How well I can do these things depends on state and how entitled I feel.
So it´s tuesday night, me and wing roll in and decide to stick to our commitment and talk to girls for the first 30 mins to get warmed up. After 2 sets the 30 minutes run out and we feel good. Club´s packed with hot chicks so off we go.
Right after we eject from set 2 I see a girl from weeks ago. Tall, blonde mid 20´s, really hot, my type. She recognizes me and we hit it off. Last time we met we were just chatting and I lost her in the crowd. This time she´s super receptive and I push things a bit more, set the man to woman frame right from the start.
After a while her sister comes in which was talking to my wing the last time we met in the club, so it´s a 2:2 situation now, almost perfect. After a while they run off to the dancefloor and we decide to let them go and pursue further later.
I open left and right, some sets go well, some don´t. It´s still hard for me to open the hotties with intent and strong masculinity instead of just self amuse my way through the 6´s and fatties. No validation for me = better practice = better results. I need to keep talking in order to maintain my state, it´s a whole night not just set by set work. Building momentum´s kinda easy, maintaining it is difficult.
So nothing´s really down at closing time, it´s 4am and we see the 2 blondes from before on the dancefloor. Wing is off to bathroom while I approach my girl. She´s been drinking with the bartender the whole night so she´s really in party mood and drunk. I like it. I grab her and we dance. I go for the makeout several times, no go. She says "you´re too sober for me". I guess it´s her way of saying "I need you to be awesome". I stay unreactive and tell her to walk away since I´m too sober. She stays, test passed. Makeout and heavy grinding ensues. I get a boner, she loves it. We pretty much fuck on the dancefloor with our clothes on while a big circle of chodes is watching. Wing doesn´t come in to take care of the sister which pisses her off, she leaves.
My girl becomes worried so we look for her after I almost jizzed my pants on the dancefloor. Sister is waiting outside wanting to leave. I offer to drive them home so its 2:2 again, my girl and me walking to the car, wing and sister right behind us. I can sense there´s nothing going down between them so I pretty much give up the set.
We arrive at their place. sister gets out of the car, my girl hesitates. She asks me to come inside, I refuse since wing has to go to work 4 hours later and there´s no way for him to get home if not in my car. She walks off, horny as hell. Opportunity missed. I gave up the set too early, I simply could´ve told her to stay in the car and then take her home to me, it just didn´t cross my mind at that time. Huge lesson, it´s never over until it´s O V E R. Will never make that mistake again.
Lessons:
-Girls are horny
- It´s not about doing everything 100% perfectly. Girls want sex as much as guys, you are enough. Just make moves.
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Thursday
Club´s the same as usual, we roll in at around midnight. Few warmups, I can get in a good mood pretty easily by now. I remind myself constantly not to "chase state" but enjoy the beginning of the night and its interactions even though I´m not as charismatic as I could be.
One thing I noticed though: I often let my friends open convos with groups and then join in, my laziness results in not being able (at least not 100% of the time) to open myself or when I´m walking around alone. From now on momentum building by approaching on my own, even scary sets.
So during the night a few good interactions, one time with cute short girl with hairband I fell into the "I actually like her" trap and was afraid to do the things I would have liked to do (i.e. touch her, isolate her etc.) I need to step in and tell her I like her from the get go, even risk to lose her.
Last set of the night: Stunning latina type on the dancefloor. The type that intimidates me. Looks older than me, waaay older. I´m 22.
I walk up say hi. My eye contact is rock solid. She immediately stops dancing. I pull her close and start talk to her about how I want to take her on vacation. Our eyes lock for the whole time. She loves it. I lift her up and carry her away from her friend. She likes it. I go for the makeout. No go.
Friend comes in, tries to drag her away. I pull her in one more time ("one minute one minute") She really likes me. I´ve gotta go but I feel I need more time. For fun´s sake I go for makeout and almost get it before I need to leave.
This is the kind of approach I need to get down consistently. Strong eye contact, man to woman communication, dictate the rhythm of the interaction, and have fun with all of it. It´s still surprising to me how normal the stunners in the club really are. She was 28 drop dead gorgeous and super chill to talk to. Man I need more reference to get this down.
Club´s the same as usual, we roll in at around midnight. Few warmups, I can get in a good mood pretty easily by now. I remind myself constantly not to "chase state" but enjoy the beginning of the night and its interactions even though I´m not as charismatic as I could be.
One thing I noticed though: I often let my friends open convos with groups and then join in, my laziness results in not being able (at least not 100% of the time) to open myself or when I´m walking around alone. From now on momentum building by approaching on my own, even scary sets.
So during the night a few good interactions, one time with cute short girl with hairband I fell into the "I actually like her" trap and was afraid to do the things I would have liked to do (i.e. touch her, isolate her etc.) I need to step in and tell her I like her from the get go, even risk to lose her.
Last set of the night: Stunning latina type on the dancefloor. The type that intimidates me. Looks older than me, waaay older. I´m 22.
I walk up say hi. My eye contact is rock solid. She immediately stops dancing. I pull her close and start talk to her about how I want to take her on vacation. Our eyes lock for the whole time. She loves it. I lift her up and carry her away from her friend. She likes it. I go for the makeout. No go.
Friend comes in, tries to drag her away. I pull her in one more time ("one minute one minute") She really likes me. I´ve gotta go but I feel I need more time. For fun´s sake I go for makeout and almost get it before I need to leave.
This is the kind of approach I need to get down consistently. Strong eye contact, man to woman communication, dictate the rhythm of the interaction, and have fun with all of it. It´s still surprising to me how normal the stunners in the club really are. She was 28 drop dead gorgeous and super chill to talk to. Man I need more reference to get this down.
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Friday / Saturday
Same club, thought I´d post my insights for the last 2 nights in one post. There´s not much I can remember in its details, so I´ll just throw out whatever comes to my mind.
I don´t get rejections. That means I don´t go in hard enough / do the stuff that actually frightens me. I might fail to get a girl interested, but I really don´t get simple, cold rejections. So I need to step up.
I´m way more physical than I used to be and I love it. Right off the bat I grab the girls, hug them, pull them in. They like it. I escalate pretty fast and unapologetic. I´m trying to converse emotionally, not logically. It´s something that´s not 100% engrained but I´m working on it. Also using a full spectrum of emotions is something I can do and use from time to time, it´s fun and I enjoy it but still it feels slightly unusual. Noticed that it works like a charm though.
Maintaining my positivity. I get it. I mostly keep my good mood, even if makeout fails / she doesn´t comply. I´m trying to ride the wave of emotions and calibrate myself to what´s still acceptable to say. It´s huge fun to play with girls emotions and I´ll keep doing it.
Pushing for the close/isolating/going through the motions. Still not consistently enough. I open, girls like me, I move them a bit, lead, but somewhere throughout the interaction I sometimes stop and let it go down. Working on it.
The more action I take the better I am. "In state" I sometimes feel like I´m irresistible. I get makeouts and really solid attraction, time to step up and do it consistently, and convert to pulls.
Same club, thought I´d post my insights for the last 2 nights in one post. There´s not much I can remember in its details, so I´ll just throw out whatever comes to my mind.
I don´t get rejections. That means I don´t go in hard enough / do the stuff that actually frightens me. I might fail to get a girl interested, but I really don´t get simple, cold rejections. So I need to step up.
I´m way more physical than I used to be and I love it. Right off the bat I grab the girls, hug them, pull them in. They like it. I escalate pretty fast and unapologetic. I´m trying to converse emotionally, not logically. It´s something that´s not 100% engrained but I´m working on it. Also using a full spectrum of emotions is something I can do and use from time to time, it´s fun and I enjoy it but still it feels slightly unusual. Noticed that it works like a charm though.
Maintaining my positivity. I get it. I mostly keep my good mood, even if makeout fails / she doesn´t comply. I´m trying to ride the wave of emotions and calibrate myself to what´s still acceptable to say. It´s huge fun to play with girls emotions and I´ll keep doing it.
Pushing for the close/isolating/going through the motions. Still not consistently enough. I open, girls like me, I move them a bit, lead, but somewhere throughout the interaction I sometimes stop and let it go down. Working on it.
The more action I take the better I am. "In state" I sometimes feel like I´m irresistible. I get makeouts and really solid attraction, time to step up and do it consistently, and convert to pulls.
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Monday
Tonight I learned a lot. special event at high class venue, lots of hot chicks, pretty intimidating. I mostly choded out. It´s not that I didn´t do anything, I talked to some girls here and there, but being totally honest with myself my performance was poor. I didn´t live up to my own standards which means approaching girls I find attractive and talk to them as a man to a woman. I was hiding myself behind excuses like "they´re here with their boyfriends", "it´s too loud/packed" etc. Normally I can get into a good mood even when I relax for 1 hour or 2, today it didn´t work as well as Im used to. Probably because the girls were hotter than usual and the club was intimidating. So in a case like that I need to take action in the beginning and remind my chode-brain that I actually attract beautiful girls, and that I won´t be killed for being a cool guy.
Tonight I learned a lot. special event at high class venue, lots of hot chicks, pretty intimidating. I mostly choded out. It´s not that I didn´t do anything, I talked to some girls here and there, but being totally honest with myself my performance was poor. I didn´t live up to my own standards which means approaching girls I find attractive and talk to them as a man to a woman. I was hiding myself behind excuses like "they´re here with their boyfriends", "it´s too loud/packed" etc. Normally I can get into a good mood even when I relax for 1 hour or 2, today it didn´t work as well as Im used to. Probably because the girls were hotter than usual and the club was intimidating. So in a case like that I need to take action in the beginning and remind my chode-brain that I actually attract beautiful girls, and that I won´t be killed for being a cool guy.
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