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Infield Footage Of Myself - Critiques Welcome
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"No one can be told what the matrix is you have to see it for yourself.....There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path."
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ; "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting
." I think this is true
"A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women' " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number" ; "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ; "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience"
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ; "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting
." I think this is true "A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women' " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number" ; "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ; "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience"
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX
I work in a warehouse where sales rep come in and try to sell shit to us that we don't need all the time. the nonverbals really resembled that. also the whole touching a girl on the shoulder standing 3 feet away while she's attracted to you...i saw a gay dude do that to let her know he wasn't into chicks. just goin by my limited experience.
i'm more interested to read your critique
i'm more interested to read your critique
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@Epishred: Cool mein. I see.
Personally I don't have a grip of experience on cold aproach either but the one thing I didn't like was the look in his eyes. No Offense knivek.
He looked like he was having a hard time. Also he looked like he was more "reactive" than her. But that was it. He also probably cared too much about the outcome. I would like to see more manly strength which I believe gets the hottest girls. With more experience I think hell be more relaxed or maybe it was an off day. Also the girl had a boyfriend so cant beat yourself up over one approach.
The best of the best be getting blown out alot so don't care too much homey. There's a million beautiful cool girls that you'll like out there. I don't know how long you've been approachin and what your results have been but keep approaching and learnin from the playas on the forum and RSD vids and articles and you'll improve. Just my opinion thats all. But I think you have alot of promise though fosho. It was cool that you went for the phone number and didn't pussyfoot. Also Tyler says meditation will make you more present,relax, and explode your "results". Also check out Tyler's RSD Foundations.
Overall good shit though. I also think its cool you got a friend that's into picking up.
But I think the effort was great. Probably with more experience he'll get better. I suggest clubs and bars. But clubs more as alot more sets are there. Also attend Free Tour and/or Hotseat and/or saveup for a bootcamp and with that effort hell be well on his way. Good Luck knivek.
Personally I don't have a grip of experience on cold aproach either but the one thing I didn't like was the look in his eyes. No Offense knivek.
He looked like he was having a hard time. Also he looked like he was more "reactive" than her. But that was it. He also probably cared too much about the outcome. I would like to see more manly strength which I believe gets the hottest girls. With more experience I think hell be more relaxed or maybe it was an off day. Also the girl had a boyfriend so cant beat yourself up over one approach.
The best of the best be getting blown out alot so don't care too much homey. There's a million beautiful cool girls that you'll like out there. I don't know how long you've been approachin and what your results have been but keep approaching and learnin from the playas on the forum and RSD vids and articles and you'll improve. Just my opinion thats all. But I think you have alot of promise though fosho. It was cool that you went for the phone number and didn't pussyfoot. Also Tyler says meditation will make you more present,relax, and explode your "results". Also check out Tyler's RSD Foundations.
Overall good shit though. I also think its cool you got a friend that's into picking up.
But I think the effort was great. Probably with more experience he'll get better. I suggest clubs and bars. But clubs more as alot more sets are there. Also attend Free Tour and/or Hotseat and/or saveup for a bootcamp and with that effort hell be well on his way. Good Luck knivek.
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"No one can be told what the matrix is you have to see it for yourself.....There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path."
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ; "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting." I think this is true
"A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women' " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number" ; "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ; "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience"
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ; "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting
." I think this is true "A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women' " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number" ; "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ; "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience"
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX
i be concurrin'...kudos to op for posting video of himself.
But I think his effort was good. Probably with more experience he'll get better. I suggest clubs and bars. But clubs more as alot more sets are there. also attend Free Tour and/or Hotseat and/or saveup for a bootcamp and with that effort hell be well on his way. Good Luck knivek.
But I think his effort was good. Probably with more experience he'll get better. I suggest clubs and bars. But clubs more as alot more sets are there. also attend Free Tour and/or Hotseat and/or saveup for a bootcamp and with that effort hell be well on his way. Good Luck knivek.
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Thanks for the responses. Yea I agree I look more reactive than her just watching my video again and I can see what you say about being outcome dependent. However I don't feel like I was really like having a hard time. I actually felt relaxed in that set, but def a lot of other things to work on. I've been going out actively for the past 1-2 months. I try to go out almost every single day unless I have a midterm or paper coming up. And yea I try to daygame, then at night we'll go out and hit the bars and clubs as well. It's easier to film during daygame though I feel and especially with the audio. Next time I'm going to be voice recording with my phone while my wing uses his phone to film the video and we'll sync it together. Were out here in field very often so def a lot more videos/audios to come and I would love your guys's critques. Hopefully going to have a constant stream.
Honestly I don't know asian game. Everytime I throw down on an asian girl she gets confused and overwhelmed and scared. I think asian chicks like a bit more shyness in their guys. So I have no idea.
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I now live in BKLN.
i always thought going out with a wing was a bitch move. the whole point of this is to get over your fears right? how are you supposed to do that when someone always has your back? chicks need someone else to go out with.
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Seems like a good vibe bro, But you didn't lead, if you lead her around the warehouse like showing her dresses and shit, i think she would've been down for a day2 or instant date. I felt like she was leading a bit. but i could be wrong.
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To dong, or not to dong.
-'Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat. ' Theodore Roosevelt
-'Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat. ' Theodore Roosevelt
You look like you have the same problem I had a few months back. Just being too nice, not enough intent. Also check yourself: are you making eye contact with her the whole time? Is your tonality breaking or nuetral at all times? Are you speaking loudly? Are you closing the distance gap between you and her as much as possible? Just keep things in mind, you don't have to correct them all at once, but rather adopt them as new habits one at a time over a long period of time.
Honestly though man, you're doing fine. Just keep doing your approaches and your problems will inevitably auto correct. Don't take any of this too seriously
Honestly though man, you're doing fine. Just keep doing your approaches and your problems will inevitably auto correct. Don't take any of this too seriously
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kNIVEK
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Join Date: 02/03/2008 | Posts: 28
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Ss1ErLeE0M&feature=youtu.be
The video starts midway through the set. I don't remember everything I said but I will try to break some of it down. I approached this cute worker at Forever 21 worker commenting on her hair cause it was dyed at the bottom. I then tell her she seems like someone who isn't afraid to stand out, and seems outgoing based on her hair and the way she dresses. She agrees, and we talk for a bit. I tell her I wanted to meet her cause she was cute and if I didn't then I probably wouldn't ever see her again. She smiles and says thank you. I kino by grabbing both her arms and checking out her tattoos. She feels comfortable with me doing it and has no resistance. Forgot what else, but I would sometimes try to kino more with the hand on the shoulder. We fluff some more about whatever and I can feel there is attraction. The conversation seemed to be going pretty well so later I try to number close. She tells me she has a boyfriend of 4 years and their anniversary is coming up. I can tell she isn't lying so I go for the Facebook add, say we can still just be friends and she gives me her last name. We talk a bit longer then I say I need to get back to my friends and give her a hug. That was the jist of it, but if you guys could give me some critique by just watching the nonverbals it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!