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What should I tell a girl in case she asks why I havent had a girlfriend in a while?
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champ

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2 of the last couple of girls that have been interested in me have asked me why I don't have a girlfriend. What do you guys especially the playas out there that are getting laid tell girls why you don't have a girlfriend?
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"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"  
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number"  ;   "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
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Jay-

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Because I don't want one ... Fuck girlfriends, You're the Shit !!! 
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That is my honest answer to that question
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champ

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Jay- wrote:
Because I don't want one ... Fuck girlfriends, You're the Shit !!! 
'
That is my honest answer to that question
And the girls don't care? Some do  and some don't? Do you mean to be honest and see what happens?  
Would like to know other responses to a girl who wants to get to know you.  I could just say I have been too busy for a gielfriend lately? 
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"No one can be told what the matrix is you have to see it for yourself.....There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path."
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ;    "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting teeth." I think this is true 
"A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women'  " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"  
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number"  ;   "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ;  "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience" 
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX 

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Jay-

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Well I'm not going to be a boyfriend and they should know that... so I never get this question, they always just assume I'm a player. But i guess you can just say whatever you want. ^^^ 
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alienantfarm

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I assume if a girl is asking you this it means they are pretty fucking into you in which case you should:

Have sex with them.

If these girls are asking (and I'm assuming this is the case) because they are really into you and wonder how you aren't hitched - then just get them to cream themselves by saying something like:

"I'm really picky about the girls I get into relationships with, I'm waiting for the right girl to come along" you can qualify that by saying "You seem like that type of girl"
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champ

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alienantfarm wrote:
I assume if a girl is asking you this it means they are pretty fucking into you in which case you should:

Have sex with them.

If these girls are asking (and I'm assuming this is the case) because they are really into you and wonder how you aren't hitched - then just get them to cream themselves by saying something like:

"I'm really picky about the girls I get into relationships with, I'm waiting for the right girl to come along" you can qualify that by saying "You seem like that type of girl"


Thanks so much fo the words of wisdom AAF I learned so much from ur post!!! Ur right one of the girls ended up tellin me she wanted to have my baby and the other one I ended up having sex with.  The thing is that happened like a  year ago. It's interesting because other girls that have liked me didn't ask me that question though.

When those girls asked me "Why don't you have a girlfriend?"  I said what the MPUA's from an interview series said to say. Which was to talk about your ex GF.  These well known MPUA's said to say somethin like "The other day my exGF....." or "just talk about your GF".     So I just told the girls how it didn't work out with my last GF and how we met,etc.  It's so funny and interesting because these girls got really emotional when I was tellin them about my EXGF.  They looked at me like if I was playing the movie Twilight on my face. I hope that makes sense. What I mean is that they weren't intensely judging me when I was tellin them about my GF like I THOUGHT WOULD BE THE CASE instead they were lookin at me very sweetly the way a girl looks when she's really into a romantic movie she is watching. Hope that makes sense. Maybe that's what Alex means when he says quiet and attentive?? I'm gonna ask because I'm not 100% sure what he means. 

I know guys are wonderin "why don't I just say the same thing again?". The thing is that I felt that not having a girlfriend for like a year was no big deal to them so I told them about my exGF but as of today I haven't had girlfriend for over 2 years and I thought if I tell girls about that they aren't gonna like it.

THANKS SO MUCH EVERYONE FO THE GREAT FEEDBACK!! Any other opinions and advice is welcomed as well. Take care everyone!! RSDnation#1 !!!!!! 
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"No one can be told what the matrix is you have to see it for yourself.....There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path."
"It is not enough to know YOU MUST DO" -Bruce Lee ;    "I do and I understand"- Confuscious (Got that from Jeffy show hehe)
"Every sentence written or spoken,action, everything in the universe can be a rabbit hole to master" Me
"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting teeth." I think this is true 
"A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women'  " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
"Never put any girl on a pedestal no matter what anyone else thinks. Don't 'be' , 'think' and 'feel' like ' they ' ( 'chodes' ) do. Be 'comfortable' with them around you because you 'know why they are like that.' Never be in that ' 'chode' headspace' "
"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"  
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number"  ;   "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.After enlightenment,chop wood and carry water." Ancient Eastern Adage
PROCESS!PROCESS! "Build it as well" ;  "You're already living the "dreamlife". Some of you just don't realize it" I think this is true.
"Everything is a learning experience" 
"The guys that get humor. Learned it from books" Jeffty AKA JLAIX 

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tyler0351

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I always just say "I'm too busy doing my own shit. I don't really have the time to give a girl that much attention. I'm not opposed to having a girlfriend, but none have sparked my interest that much."
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Haze~

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Not interested right now. Also they're attracted.
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I tell em I haven't found a girl who is worthy of being my girlfriend in a while. I say it cuz its true. Just be genuine.
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edin

edin

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I tell her I do have a girlfriend, 4 of them. She can be number 5, and when she works hard maybe she can be number 3 *smile*
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 "Because I'm enjoying being single" "Because I like fucking lots of girls and don't want to become exclusive with anyone" "Because I'm a chode that doesn't get laid".......
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