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You're litteraly asking how to get laid on a forum full of information already there about how to get laid.
Have you seen foundations/Transformation/Blueprint/Jeffyshow 1 or 2/ any material at all?
Have you seen foundations/Transformation/Blueprint/Jeffyshow 1 or 2/ any material at all?
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I often find most girls don't get my sense of humor. But when they do, damn is the banter good.
Either talk to more girls until you find ones that do.
Find places where girls who get your humor are more likely to be.
Develop different directions to your sense of humor.
Or don't rely on verbal game so much.
I personally find alternative, indie, emo, hipster, rocker girls understand my humor a lot more (they seem generally more intelligent, observant, and culturually developed) than 'normal' generic girls, so I spend my solo time at bars and clubs which cater for these sorts of people.
Either talk to more girls until you find ones that do.
Find places where girls who get your humor are more likely to be.
Develop different directions to your sense of humor.
Or don't rely on verbal game so much.
I personally find alternative, indie, emo, hipster, rocker girls understand my humor a lot more (they seem generally more intelligent, observant, and culturually developed) than 'normal' generic girls, so I spend my solo time at bars and clubs which cater for these sorts of people.
Hey dude, I can really hear you and know exactly where you're coming from.
The best thing is to start small and slowly build up. Don't try to take the shortcuts immediately. That's a huge mistake everybody makes.
I suggest you start chatting up your mom just to get a feel for talking to girls. Next, try to do baby steps and take it a step further like try hugging your grandmother in an affectionate way, etc.
Next, move on to your cousin or sister and gently amp up the physicality. Once you've got a feel for these normal yet socvially calibrated interactions, take that feeling with you to the club and try dancing with girls.
The best thing is to start small and slowly build up. Don't try to take the shortcuts immediately. That's a huge mistake everybody makes.
I suggest you start chatting up your mom just to get a feel for talking to girls. Next, try to do baby steps and take it a step further like try hugging your grandmother in an affectionate way, etc.
Next, move on to your cousin or sister and gently amp up the physicality. Once you've got a feel for these normal yet socvially calibrated interactions, take that feeling with you to the club and try dancing with girls.
Yo I can't fucking deal with some of the things girls say. ESPECIALLY the superphical hot chick which seems to always be the package...
I was rasied in a catholic enviorment with ideals like "make sure she's smart and pretty" rammed down my throught like it was the difference between life and death. (Thanks dad) I donno man. Most of my jokes and wit tend to fly right over there little heads too.
I donno if the way i'm looking to change my think will hinder or help. Maybe it's just me. I don't know.
Anyway, give me some schools of thoght here on how to not be so judgemental or negative towards these kinds of girls or a way to have fun with it
I'm just looking for a starting point so I can work on it.
Thanks for reading,
-Sickly
I was rasied in a catholic enviorment with ideals like "make sure she's smart and pretty" rammed down my throught like it was the difference between life and death. (Thanks dad) I donno man. Most of my jokes and wit tend to fly right over there little heads too.
I donno if the way i'm looking to change my think will hinder or help. Maybe it's just me. I don't know.
Anyway, give me some schools of thoght here on how to not be so judgemental or negative towards these kinds of girls or a way to have fun with it
I'm just looking for a starting point so I can work on it.
Thanks for reading,
-Sickly
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I am repulsed by dumb bitches, it has nothing to do with my up bringing, but the fact that I value knowledge above all else.
Now obviously you or I are not the smartest guys in the world.
But for fuck sake , why not use this as a sense of entitlement and superiority?
She doesn't have the intelligence to work out how fucken awesome I am.
She is like a play toy.
As for fucking, I would settle for shy or normal girls. But dumb girls? Either fuck, or disregard.
Personally I suggest raising your standards there is SO MANY women you WILL have a connection with, that you realise dumbness and move on, it just doesn't matter.
Now obviously you or I are not the smartest guys in the world.
But for fuck sake , why not use this as a sense of entitlement and superiority?
She doesn't have the intelligence to work out how fucken awesome I am.
She is like a play toy.
As for fucking, I would settle for shy or normal girls. But dumb girls? Either fuck, or disregard.
Personally I suggest raising your standards there is SO MANY women you WILL have a connection with, that you realise dumbness and move on, it just doesn't matter.
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What do the best guys have on their mind when approaching a hottie? ANSWER: Absolutely Nothing
~ Tyler
"There is nothing more rewarding than working hard and accomplishing your goals, and there is almost no better reward than having a healthy awesome relationship with a super cool girl."
~Brad
What do the best guys have on their mind when approaching a hottie? ANSWER: Absolutely Nothing
~ Tyler
"There is nothing more rewarding than working hard and accomplishing your goals, and there is almost no better reward than having a healthy awesome relationship with a super cool girl."
~Brad
When you judge others you are actually lowering yourself to that level. If you are aware, you will notice that you feel slightly worse when you do it. We dislike in others what we dislike in ourselves.
"Judgement is invalidating that which you do not prefer. Whenever you judge anything, by focusing your attention on it, you exchange energies with it, and so you "become" that vibration. So you automatically become the very thing you disapprove of. You become that which you invalidate. Preference, on the other hand, is not judgement. Preference is exercising your ability to discern what is really "you", what excites you, and then making choices aligned with the real "you". To prefer one thing does not necessitate invalidating those other things you do not prefer."
When I learned this I stopped judging because when you realise what it is, there really is no benefit to it.
"Judgement is invalidating that which you do not prefer. Whenever you judge anything, by focusing your attention on it, you exchange energies with it, and so you "become" that vibration. So you automatically become the very thing you disapprove of. You become that which you invalidate. Preference, on the other hand, is not judgement. Preference is exercising your ability to discern what is really "you", what excites you, and then making choices aligned with the real "you". To prefer one thing does not necessitate invalidating those other things you do not prefer."
When I learned this I stopped judging because when you realise what it is, there really is no benefit to it.
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Serpicoo that's all very nice in theory, but it's the eqivolent of "being in the world but not of the world".
While you are living here on planet earth temporarily you are going to need an ego/self image, maybe you will have 5. But ultimately Zen is not useful for the Club. Unless you are shifting through your ego's and using each to your own advantage. However you establish presence or feeling good will be just fine aslong as it works.
While you are living here on planet earth temporarily you are going to need an ego/self image, maybe you will have 5. But ultimately Zen is not useful for the Club. Unless you are shifting through your ego's and using each to your own advantage. However you establish presence or feeling good will be just fine aslong as it works.
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www.AnsweringAbraham.com
What do the best guys have on their mind when approaching a hottie? ANSWER: Absolutely Nothing
~ Tyler
"There is nothing more rewarding than working hard and accomplishing your goals, and there is almost no better reward than having a healthy awesome relationship with a super cool girl."
~Brad
What do the best guys have on their mind when approaching a hottie? ANSWER: Absolutely Nothing
~ Tyler
"There is nothing more rewarding than working hard and accomplishing your goals, and there is almost no better reward than having a healthy awesome relationship with a super cool girl."
~Brad
They're much less annoying with your dick in their mouth haha. That said, I've only hooked up with a couple dumb girls because they usually end up hating me pretty quickly. They only happened because I escalated quickly and well.
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FR's detailing my progression
critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the
best day in the year. No man has learned anything rightly, until he
knows that every day is Doomsday"
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
FR's detailing my progression

Sicklyminded
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Join Date: 03/14/2011 | Posts: 127
But YOU'RE RIGHT! Who the fuck am I to judge these chicks if I can't even spell "throat."
It's part of the problem.. But if you got any useful advice or a way to get my head in the right place please let me know.
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