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October 22nd, 2014
The Greatest Paradox in Pickup and Why Guys Are too big of Pussies to Internalize it
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Marko

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The Greatest Paradox in Pickup is : You have to be willing to lose the girl in order to get her. Period.  You have to care more about conquering your dreams, slashing your inner demons, and developing into the legend that you fanatsize in your mind.  You have to care more about that shit, then getting any girl. Ever.  You can never compromise from that. 

Never act in a certain way that deviates from your destiny in life.  You must never allow people to dictate reality to you.  You must only play the role of the hero in society.  The legend.  The badass.  People will fight you. people will test you.  But you will continue to push through all of the social conditioning until YOU BECOME THE LEGEND in your mind. You push until you have reached your destiny. You push unil you have fulfilled your dreams. You may never get there.  But you fucking keep pushing and dont stop until you die.    

 Its an easy concept to understand, but clearly most guys don't have it internalized judging by all their post asking "What do girls want in this situation?" "What do you think of my text?" "Should I escelate more?"

It's all a bunch of blah, blah, blah, bullshit noise that should be completely irrelevant to you.  Just thinking and philosophizing about it is the little boy inside of you acting like a bitch and raising the girls up on a pedestal. A pedestal that they dont deserve. A pedestal that's not for them.  it's for you.  Most girls that you meet in pickup are not worth one second of your time. Yet, I see guys on here continually mentally masturbating about how to make good impressions with women.  

Unless a girl proves herself of having a worthwhile personality that matches up with what I am looking for, she is nothing more to me than a piece of ass for me to bang.  Her opinion, and what she thinks of me is worthless.  I cringe thinking of times when I thought of clever texts I should send her or day 2's, or trying to dress a certain way to fit in at a party, or lying to a girl to make myself look better.  Hell, I'm at the point now, where if I even hesitate at all I am pissed, because hesitation and being stuck in your head is really just  a sympton of trying to make a good impression.   

Girls realities are inherently so much weaker than men, it's not even funny.  These girls have never had to go through any challenge or struggle in their life.  They shy from conflict, never push their comfort zone, cave into their fears.  Even the biggest pussy, nerd, cave dweller guy on the planet has probably pushed himself morethan the average girl.

It feels like girls have a strong reality, only cus your willing to sacrifice your true nature to try and "hook up with them"  Hot chicks pick up on any single little sign where you are not being true with your own intentions.  Once they see you do it once, they unconscioussly know that you're a bitch.  Why?  Cus they know how fucking weak and pathetic they are.  They know that if any guy is willing to sacrifice his core maculine intent as a man for her, then he must live a shit life.  She knows that she brings NOTHING to the table in life, other than her body for sex.  

Our caveman brains are wired this way.  What value have females had in the millions of years of evolution?  Nothing. Other than providing offspring.  They do absolutely nothing when it comes to a tribe's immediate survival or advancement.  They do nothing to help men acquire thier biggest need..... power.

True power and dominance is what men really want.  Women simply react to power, biologically, like clockwork.  They react to power the way men react biologically to breasts and ass. We find it irresistible and we want a piece of it.   If you are looking to acquire power through women, then you will be perceived as a bitch to the girl, because she knows she has no power.  She is completely dependent on the environment for valiidation, protection, and security.      

This is not where most guys get tripped up though.  They understand this and start approaching much more dominantly, cocky, self-amused, etc.  All this is great.  But they immediately fuck it up as soon as the girl pulls back a little or tries to be a challenge.  Thats when we start doubting ourselves as guys.  We think to ourselves, "why is this girl not giving me as much attention anymore?" "How do I get her back?"  "Should I start joking with her more now, or should play it cool." 

What we should be doing is getting in the girls face and demanding she shove our dicks down her throat.  No, its not a metaphor.  You should really say that, verbatim, if you really believe that in your core.  More examples to follow. 

Why Guys act like Pussies   

Humans are socially wired to HATE rejection.  Social rejection is probably the biggest fear we have as a species, other than death.  Most guys, even guys with good results, are using strategies and tactics that they beleive will prevent rejection.  If a guy is acting cocky/funny or being physical, he's really only doing it cus he thinks thats the best strategy to not get rejected.  If he saw some guy using low energy, normal conversation, and hooking sets with it, he would switch his strategy to that, just because it seems it keep the girls around longer.  The point is, the guy isnt approaching women and doing whatever the fuck he WANTS to do, he is approaching doing whatveer he think he NEEDS TO DO IN ORDER TO GET HER.  There's a big difference in the appraoch.  One appraoch is hyper-mascluine, ultra dominant, unbreakable frame.  The other is scared little highschool boy putting on a  multi-layerd persona to try and impress the girl he likes. 

So back to why guys are pussies.  What you'll find is when you appraoch the girls saying and doing whatever the fuck you really want to say, down to your very bottom core, you will shock and offend people and many girls will reject you!!!!! 

ex: Last night I yelled at a girl "Hey bitch, you know you're only good for sex!!!  Im gunna use your hole to cum in and then after that...I'm gunna Get the fuck out!!!!  You'll get nothing. No cuddling!....no text messaging!...no calling!....nothing but my big hairy dick!!!!" 

The girl walked off disgusted.

So what do you little pussies think when you read this. I know what you're thinking.  "Uhhhh, dude this is stupid, you're clearly saying innapropriate things that will offend the girl and make her think you're a creep."

What you don't realize is, by saying this, I felt fucking AWESOME AS SHIT! I felt like a wild beast and it pumped me up.  Im pumped up right now thinking about all the hilarious, outrageous shit Im gunna say to girls tongiht.  Once I felt awesome, I started opening in a more positive way lol....but as soon as a girl would walk off I would grab her and say shit like, "Fuck you bitch! Im hotter than you and I didnt even want to get you! Im using you for PRACTICE!"  

I didnt do this to get the girls back...  I just said it cus I was compelled to tell them.  It got the sets back some of the time and it was a Major IOI spike.  Other times it didnt get the set back. The  Point is........ I DONT FUCKING CARE!  I'm not gunna sit around and let stupid cunts dictate my reality.  

I didnt get laid last night.  Lots of nights I dont get laid.  I turn down sex every night cus theres 6's and 7's that I have no interest in banging or I am not willing to put in the time of following up with cunts that play games.  

Its not a technique.  Its a way of life. 

Acting through your true intentions. Approaching anywhere.  Saying things to people that you really want to say.  Not going along to get along. Not conforming.  Not trying to impress girls. 

It can be high energy or it can be low energy. It can be mean or it can incredibly nice and charming.  It can be aggressive and hostile. Or, It can be warm and caring.  

Its a powerful mindset to be in.  Oh.....and it will get you laid by hotass chicks. 

But even if it didnt.  Even if I wasnt going to get laid for the rest of my life because I didn't fit into the mold of society.  Then so be it.  Im not letting anyone take away my power.  My life is my adventure.  its my journey.  And I will reach the destination or I'll die trying to get there. 

Because I wont conform..... I will succeed.   
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Hotdog

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awesome words fella, I'm just heading out for the evening and this is really inspirational.

An evening of lemonade and pussy here we come!!
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Ryan

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Quality post.
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UtopiaFive

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Hmm...generally I find that calling girls bitches (for myself) is low-class behavior unless I'm in a good mood and its making shit funner.  Otherwise its coming from a place of me reacting.  Like your "when she walks away I tell her bitch you're for practice"...I guess I could see that as being funny but somehow it sounds more annoyed/angry in your post.  

And BTW this is coming from a guy who spat on a random ho a few months ago.  

PS can't stop thinking about your hairy dick

PPS But yeah at the same time yeah I obviously sometimes just have "fuckin full asshole/dick/negative energy" and if I don't express authentically, e.g. when girls really ARE being fucken full on hos like its a bar full of negative fat whiny asian cows, and I need to inform them, I just need to inform them... but this seems to be more of an ENVIRONMENTAL thing like its just a bad vibe in the place in general, as opposed to a ME thing, if that makes sense.  
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iRyan

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 Fuck that was Awesome!! 
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dorf41

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Nice post and it makes sense too. If you want to compliment a chick, do it because you want to or call her a bitch if shes acting like one. As the hodgetwins from youtube would say "DO WHAT DA FUCK U WANNA DO"
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SchizoTheory

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Top 5 best posts I've read on this cespool of a forum in the four years I've been lurking.

This doesn't just apply to women fellas, this applies to every other person outside of yourself.  All of it is just noise that you choose to listen to if you want - show them this is your world and they are just living in it.

Use everyday to become that fucking legend.
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synergist'12

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Holy shit.

This may be the best post I've read on RSDNation by a non-instructor EVER.

Bookmarked and saved to my desktop. 
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Falc

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Generally I liked the post, especially the first point which is basically how I live this shit, ie. it's more about your journey to becomin the fucking shit than it is about any particular girl, and they can basically all fuck themselves if they don't like you. The difficulty I have is that if we never talk about outer-game shit we can use to help us get laid, wtf is the point of a pick-up forum? It may as well just be a general self-development forum, where the health and psychological well-being results leak into success with women, and that's EXACTLY what RSD has become. Act through your own intent, the journey not the results, freedom from outcome, entitlement, we've heard all this shit 1000 times (which is why I find alot of the Julien video blogs a little redundant).

I agree entirely that you have to be uncompromisng in your intent and your freedom from outcome, but I can say forsure that I can think about something clever to text a girl and if she doesnt like it, I dont give a flying fuck. The outer game stuff can be fun, even interesting, to "speculate" about too...trying different shit that works, seeing the results, coming up with cool ideas on your own, laughing about them with your boys. I just find you have to keep it in milder doses (ie. not a full blown reversion to routines), but you use fun openers, LMR techniques, etc. I think ultimately what's gonna build freedom from outcome is a focus on teh journey and female abundance, if you have those 2 things you can philosophize about outer game all day but you still won't get emotionally attached to whether or not you bang any particular girl. 

The thing I wonder too, and I've heard Tyler reference this, is (like you said) if RSD instructors found out that core development was no longer the best way to get laid would they just scrap the whole self-deveopment model? Or is RSD now just as committed to general happiness as getting laid, and would they be willing to teach you shit that makes you happy even if it doesn't get you laid and vice-versa?
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 And every once in a blue moon, the main forum shines. One golden post rises up amongst the vast sea of shit. And this here is such named post.
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roadrally wrote:
 And every once in a blue moon, the main forum shines. One golden post rises up amongst the vast sea of shit. And this here is such named post.
No kidding man.  Marko doesn't post nearly enough.
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