THE FORUMS

December 6th, 2016
Sex feel like SHIT. Why?
Your rating: None Average: 3 (1 vote)
Bookmark and Share
Dantaeos

Dantaeos

Senior Member

Join Date: 02/13/2012 | Posts: 102

 Backstory: had sex around 10 times now with 6 girls. It has never felt that good. Just a warm hole. When I lost virignity it took hour and half to jizz. So I decided to stop jerking and watching porn a few months ago and to date its been 10 weeks of no fapping so I figured it must feel good now.

Then this past friday, I get bootycalled by a redhead with a nice ass i met at a bar and I went to her apartment. Her blonde friend was there too who called a black dude over. Ploughed the redhead and jizzed in around 5 minutes (lack of jerk). But it still didn't feel that good. Had to figner and lick that vag for half hour just to make her cum and then when i went to bone again.. I hard time getting it up. It makes no sense...Afterwards I got drunk on the roof with black guy and we drunkenly gamed the streets of Toronto.

We came back to the apartment  and I decided to do a switchup! Went to blondies bed, woke her up and announced it was time for fucking! She'd down so fingered her, made her give bj and played with big ole titties, but I was so drunk I went in her raw and came inside (shit..) while black buddy ploughed redhead. But still..just aint that good.

All it does is jsut reaffirm the fact that  I love game for game. I love cold approaching and learning social dynamics and gaining that inner confidence and telling hilarious stories of sex romps.. But it`s jsut so disapointing when you want sex so fucking badly and then when you do it, it feels like shit.

Any suggestions on why it feels bad and how to fix it?
__________________
Login or register to post.
#1
mikevick07

mikevick07

Trusted Member

Join Date: 01/08/2012 | Posts: 2286

dammmm, I felt like this when I first started fucking....the problem is that your viewing her as an object (just a pussy)...this might sound crazy or new-agey or something but youre not really feeling her FEMININE ENERGY and all that type of shit, seriously lmao....once you really start loving the way they move, talk, moan, the touching, feeling, etc. youll LOVE sex, youll become ADDICTED....next time RELAX and really look into the girl's eyes, look at her body, how she moves, how she looks at you back, etc.
Dantaeos wrote:
 Backstory: had sex around 10 times now with 6 girls. It has never felt that good. Just a warm hole. When I lost virignity it took hour and half to jizz. So I decided to stop jerking and watching porn a few months ago and to date its been 10 weeks of no fapping so I figured it must feel good now.

Then this past friday, I get bootycalled by a redhead with a nice ass i met at a bar and I went to her apartment. Her blonde friend was there too who called a black dude over. Ploughed the redhead and jizzed in around 5 minutes (lack of jerk). But it still didn't feel that good. Had to figner and lick that vag for half hour just to make her cum and then when i went to bone again.. I hard time getting it up. It makes no sense...Afterwards I got drunk on the roof with black guy and we drunkenly gamed the streets of Toronto.

We came back to the apartment  and I decided to do a switchup! Went to blondies bed, woke her up and announced it was time for fucking! She'd down so fingered her, made her give bj and played with big ole titties, but I was so drunk I went in her raw and came inside (shit..) while black buddy ploughed redhead. But still..just aint that good.

All it does is jsut reaffirm the fact that  I love game for game. I love cold approaching and learning social dynamics and gaining that inner confidence and telling hilarious stories of sex romps.. But it`s jsut so disapointing when you want sex so fucking badly and then when you do it, it feels like shit.

Any suggestions on why it feels bad and how to fix it?
__________________
Burp
Login or register to post.
#2

Jersey Hammer

Member

Join Date: 04/23/2012 | Posts: 46

Maybe your gay?  Lol feels amazing to me man since day 1.
Login or register to post.
#3

rogerhelms

Respected Member

Join Date: 06/13/2009 | Posts: 637

 YOU NEED BLACK THEY ARE DA BEST
Login or register to post.
#4
Dantaeos

Dantaeos

Senior Member

Join Date: 02/13/2012 | Posts: 102

Ya maybe. I haven't had any feelings for the girls I've banged. They were just friends or quick pickups. But you can't have feelings for every girl you bang...maybe you're speaking of something I know nothing of.
mikevick07 wrote:
dammmm, I felt like this when I first started fucking....the problem is that your viewing her as an object (just a pussy)...this might sound crazy or new-agey or something but youre not really feeling her FEMININE ENERGY and all that type of shit, seriously lmao....once you really start loving the way they move, talk, moan, the touching, feeling, etc. youll LOVE sex, youll become ADDICTED....next time RELAX and really look into the girl's eyes, look at her body, how she moves, how she looks at you back, etc.
__________________
Login or register to post.
#5
mikevick07

mikevick07

Trusted Member

Join Date: 01/08/2012 | Posts: 2286

its not having feelings for the ONE girl, its more like being extremely turned on by feminity in general, I can feel turned on seeing a girl walk down the street who I dont know, just because of the way she walks...during sex I have ALL five senses engaged even if I don't really know the girl...after sex, I dont care tho lol
Dantaeos wrote:
Ya maybe. I haven't had any feelings for the girls I've banged. They were just friends or quick pickups. But you can't have feelings for every girl you bang...maybe you're speaking of something I know nothing of.
mikevick07 wrote:
dammmm, I felt like this when I first started fucking....the problem is that your viewing her as an object (just a pussy)...this might sound crazy or new-agey or something but youre not really feeling her FEMININE ENERGY and all that type of shit, seriously lmao....once you really start loving the way they move, talk, moan, the touching, feeling, etc. youll LOVE sex, youll become ADDICTED....next time RELAX and really look into the girl's eyes, look at her body, how she moves, how she looks at you back, etc.
__________________
Burp
Login or register to post.
#6
Dantaeos

Dantaeos

Senior Member

Join Date: 02/13/2012 | Posts: 102

Well thats the crazy thing. I can see a girl in a club, grind up on her, makeout and have a massive boner. And then as soon as it's time to put it in...feels awful.
mikevick07 wrote:
its not having feelings for the ONE girl, its more like being extremely turned on by feminity in general, I can feel turned on seeing a girl walk down the street who I dont know, just because of the way she walks
Dantaeos wrote:
Ya maybe. I haven't had any feelings for the girls I've banged. They were just friends or quick pickups. But you can't have feelings for every girl you bang...maybe you're speaking of something I know nothing of.
mikevick07 wrote:
dammmm, I felt like this when I first started fucking....the problem is that your viewing her as an object (just a pussy)...this might sound crazy or new-agey or something but youre not really feeling her FEMININE ENERGY and all that type of shit, seriously lmao....once you really start loving the way they move, talk, moan, the touching, feeling, etc. youll LOVE sex, youll become ADDICTED....next time RELAX and really look into the girl's eyes, look at her body, how she moves, how she looks at you back, etc.

__________________
Login or register to post.
#7

NewDude

Respected Member

Join Date: 05/12/2011 | Posts: 860

 Whaaaa?!?!?! Don't think I've EVER heard someone describe a as feeling awful. Your probably gay dude, because there seriously isn't another explanation.
Login or register to post.
#8

Jake454

Trusted Member

Join Date: 01/05/2011 | Posts: 1117

mikevick07 wrote:
dammmm, I felt like this when I first started fucking....the problem is that your viewing her as an object (just a pussy)...this might sound crazy or new-agey or something but youre not really feeling her FEMININE ENERGY and all that type of shit, seriously lmao....once you really start loving the way they move, talk, moan, the touching, feeling, etc. youll LOVE sex, youll become ADDICTED....next time RELAX and really look into the girl's eyes, look at her body, how she moves, how she looks at you back, etc.
Dantaeos wrote:
 Backstory: had sex around 10 times now with 6 girls. It has never felt that good. Just a warm hole. When I lost virignity it took hour and half to jizz. So I decided to stop jerking and watching porn a few months ago and to date its been 10 weeks of no fapping so I figured it must feel good now.

Then this past friday, I get bootycalled by a redhead with a nice ass i met at a bar and I went to her apartment. Her blonde friend was there too who called a black dude over. Ploughed the redhead and jizzed in around 5 minutes (lack of jerk). But it still didn't feel that good. Had to figner and lick that vag for half hour just to make her cum and then when i went to bone again.. I hard time getting it up. It makes no sense...Afterwards I got drunk on the roof with black guy and we drunkenly gamed the streets of Toronto.

We came back to the apartment  and I decided to do a switchup! Went to blondies bed, woke her up and announced it was time for fucking! She'd down so fingered her, made her give bj and played with big ole titties, but I was so drunk I went in her raw and came inside (shit..) while black buddy ploughed redhead. But still..just aint that good.

All it does is jsut reaffirm the fact that  I love game for game. I love cold approaching and learning social dynamics and gaining that inner confidence and telling hilarious stories of sex romps.. But it`s jsut so disapointing when you want sex so fucking badly and then when you do it, it feels like shit.

Any suggestions on why it feels bad and how to fix it?

I think that was a good answer, I think that stems from the tension that creats though. also some girls just have weird pussys :P
Login or register to post.
#9
Zeta

Zeta

Senior Member

Join Date: 01/28/2012 | Posts: 163

 Didnt jerk off for 10 weeks?? , you obviuosly dont know the benefits of jerking off man , do ur research , plus you came quickly because your body needed to get rid of that old semen quickly
Login or register to post.
#10
Dantaeos

Dantaeos

Senior Member

Join Date: 02/13/2012 | Posts: 102

Aha it's not that feels awful. I like  being inside it. I just mean's its not extraordinary and usually aint enough to keep me hard. 

And to Zeta, go to http://yourbrainonporn.com/  Really shows how porn can fuck you up and it was definitely messing with me.
NewDude wrote:
 Whaaaa?!?!?! Don't think I've EVER heard someone describe a as feeling awful. Your probably gay dude, because there seriously isn't another explanation.
__________________
Login or register to post.