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October 21st, 2017
Cheated on my wife??? FUUUUUU
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#11
Vincent M

Vincent M

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Join Date: 11/24/2011 | Posts: 50

 Emotionally fucked up situation. I think coming here was a way to get some sort of validation for your actions. I mean a pick up website, with tons of group thinking fuckers telling you not to group think and read their books. That is a fundamental life philosophy. Your fucked. No one can answer that for you. I'm in a loving committed relationship and I constantly want to fuck other chicks. I get strong emotional feelings for other girls that would piss my girl off. I know that its my nature as a man to provide comfort and want to watch over and protect girls. That's what I get out of it. I care about other people genuinely, and I sense ur the same with the fucked situation you got trapped in lol.

Point is dude, I'm 24 and have NO CLUE WHAT THE FUCK I'M TALKING ABOUT. You want real actual advice, go talk to an old dude whose been in a 40 year marriage. That fucker has advice. You want to forgive yourself and find other people who identify with you, come here cuz we are all fucking retarded too.

Now just my opinion, fuck the girl, lie to your wife about it, feel horrible. Or tell her about it Idk. Your fucked anyway. Nothing you do now is gonna be perfect. I'm saying this because I'm in a push it to the limit stage in my life and I'm biased as fuck towards that. 

Ok correction, truly honestly follow your heart. Make your decision from love. If you go to church you know what I mean. A good father doesn't punish his children by aggravating them, he loves them and celebrates them regardless of their faults. A man always shows mercy and kindness to his enemies. Love your neighbor as you do yourself, not to be treated as like in return, but because you truly see your neighbor as an extension of yourself. Live with love and follow God. Pray for wisdom. I'll say a prayer for you.
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#12
archergirl2012

archergirl2012

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Join Date: 10/14/2012 | Posts: 4

move on
your wife is going to hate you - sorry but she will- get a pilow for that- shes gonna make you feel like crap

the new girl sure- sounds great

i am in a long distance relationship and its all about visas.. if he did that to me- id loose it
cos ive worked so hard to get  to be with him
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#13
Jhuddy

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Join Date: 02/14/2013 | Posts: 400

Are you asking if you should end your marriage cause you made one mistake?  Fuck no dude.  I bet if you told her that she wouldn't even leave you.  Don't tell her unless you think that you'll do it again.  It was one moment of weakness.  You are human.  If it happens again then you should not be with her.  Good luck
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#14
SugarShane

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Join Date: 07/01/2014 | Posts: 171

LOL of course she is down with it. She's getting out of Mexico LOLOL
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4Sexpert

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Join Date: 07/14/2014 | Posts: 19

Cheating goes without saying… the real commitment is to work through the differences. While both are willing, love will find a way.   t

The true/ultimate commitment in a relationship is to always work through the differences… Cheating is disloyal; however, it is not the ultimate commitment. This is why people sometimes try to stay together after cheating happens. Because they have not given up on the ultimate commitment (being: to work thru the differences/issues). 
That being said: if the cheater cannot work through it, it is done… 
People make mistakes… for me, the betrayal would be too much (at least it is now, at this point in my life)… 
It takes a lot of healing to get back from cheating…  Unfortunately there is no chance to fix things if he has given up on trying to work things out…
The cheating (as horrible at it is), was not necessarily the end… the end is when there is no will to work through it. Not willing to do the work needed to have a relationship. 
Making a bad decision like cheating is once thing… Not willing to work out the betrayal & other issues is breaking the commitment & the end of the relationship… or the beginning of a downward spiral of heartache  the ends with breaking up...
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#16

HateFace

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Join Date: 11/20/2012 | Posts: 44

Double-post.
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#17

HateFace

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Join Date: 11/20/2012 | Posts: 44

Just to add, I personally get angry about the comments to "accept true love".

Humans LIVE OFF of each other. We are SOCIAL. And the opposite sex is a HUGE FACTOR in that social experience we have in our lives.

If you settle down at early 20's, please answer to yourself:

Once I'm old and my body is too worn out and my focus has shifted onto other values in life and having AMAZING experiences with women is no longer possible, will I regret not having multiple girls / lot of sex / choosing the right girl for ME?

Not just for the sake of getting and banging girls, but for the sake of actually finding that person that is perfect for you and you're perfect for her. Because I truly believe if one doesn't follow their drive when they feel the urge to do so, that will haunt you later on and eat you alive. No wonder marriages don't last. My own mother has divorced 3 times and is still not happy.

To quote Elliot Hulse:

"When you're in a loving relationship with someone, you don't OWN that person and that person doesn't own you. What you've decided to do is support each other in becoming the strongest version of each other."

Because the LUST will fade, whether you settle down at 20 or 30. The love will continue as long as you genuinely made the CHOICE to be with that person.
 
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#18

fool77

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Join Date: 04/28/2017 | Posts: 110

What does "alarm signal" mean? This is my alarm at 46 years old. Previously, every day anyone wanted to cram, and now every other day and two. This is an alarm signal. And the author has an alarm. Yes, such that the bell cracked. And look, the bell tower will collapse!
Here in one of the topics he wrote that he was missing a couple of times a month. This is an alarm signal in 32 years. Well, okay, say, the body is like that. It happens. Someone three times a day, and someone once every two weeks. Neither of them will envy. But just as God gave. But fall asleep in the process! It's only after seven hundred grams of vodka can be.
Really I recommend to the author to hand over analyzes and to talk to the doctor.
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#19

sollyV

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Join Date: 05/21/2017 | Posts: 6

If you are concious of your actions then you can change
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#20

1stworldview23

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Join Date: 04/25/2017 | Posts: 37

Breakups and Revenge


Revenge Your Ex

Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a
variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on.
Revenge comes in many ways. It typically starts by using social media to
vent, and then escalates from there. Now sites like "Get Revenge On Your Ex"
for a fee will help you get pay back or revenge.

So what is the best way to get revenge besides slashing her tires, posting
nude photos of her and so on.

The best way according to the web site Right Choices 101 is to live your
life well. This is true no matter who you are seeking revenge on. Coworkers,
past bosses, bad friends or ex-lovers. Put your energy into succeeding and
enjoying your life, not wasting your time, energy and resources on revenge
that can end up costing you much more. Plus, when you seek revenge, you send
them a massage that you have not gotten over the relationship. It's much
better to show you are indifferent and don't care.

According to Kenneth Agee of A Foreign Affair, a service that specializes in
helping men find young beautiful foreign women, "The best revenge is to date
or marry a women 10 years younger than your ex. This will piss her off to no
end. No woman ever wants to be replaced with a younger, more attractive
woman. Just like a man never likes to get replaced by a guy who is wealthier
or more successful.

I will never forget one of my first clients we took to Saint Petersburg,
Russia." says Agee, "The client told me that two days on our tour was better
than two years of therapy. Having hundreds of attractive women fighting over
you gets your ex out of your mind pretty quick.

I personally went through break up when my ex ran off with another man. But
a short time later, I met a new lady who was ten times better. I ran into
that man who stole my ex and I gave him a big thanks. In fact, I could not
thank him enough. He was stuck with an older nagging women, while I was now
with a young, beautiful, caring women. Plus, my ex had gained about 100
pounds. I don't look at that fellow as any kind of enemy but as the person
who saved me from my ex and years of suffering." This is the best a revenge
when you win without lowering yourself.

Other sites like "Get Over Her Now" give practical advice and tips for
getting over a past relationship.

Top Tips from Get Over Her Now:

Start making platonic relationships with as many women as possible, old,
young, skinny, fat, cute or ugly. This greatly helps you get back in the
game of socializing with the opposite sex. And it opens up lots
opportunities to meet their cute attractive friends in a more relaxed
environment. This also helps you build your game and confidence.

Improve yourself, start working out, get up early every day and exercise.

Buy new clothes. Dressing better makes you feel better and improves your
confidence.

Focus on work and getting a promotion or raise. Don't let a break up effect
your work negatively. Put that extra effort into work and it will pay off
with a better position and more money. This will also build your confidence
and help attract better quality women.

Any time you are depressed, improving yourself helps greatly. When you feel
depressed, don't sit and watch TV and then sleep-in late. Get out and do
something that will make you feel like you've accomplished something. Take a
class, go hiking, fix something you've been putting off.

Don't start drinking. Drinking will always have a negative impact on your
life. Don't drink while depressed or when you are trying to get over some
one. After all, drinking is for celebrating. So if you are not celebrating
something, don't drink. A quality women is not going to be attracted to
someone who drinks a lot or has a drinking problem.

Don't sleep in; sleeping late increases depression. Get up as early as you
can and go for a walk, take a hike, or go to the Gym. Research shows getting
up early and exercising can eliminate depression. You will have no game be
depressed.

Don't binge eat. If you start gaining weight, you will feel less self-worth
and lose your confidence. Confidence is a quality that women are extremely
attracted to.

Conclusion, the best revenge is when you improve your life so well that she
realizes she made a big mistake. And satisfaction comes when you meet
someone so much better, you are glad the ex is gone. After all, if you are
seeking revenge, how great could she really have been in the first place!

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