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It's got fuck all to do with your age dumbass but it's got 100% to do with YOU.
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How is this thread possible when Tyler is 32?
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It's been said many times before. It's not your age that is the problem.
Yes a few girls might have a problem with it but so what find some that don't.
Ozzie is like 42 or something and doesn't have any problems hooking up with younger girls. Jeffy is about 35 and from the footage I've seen it certainly doesn't cause him any problems.
I'm 30 and I go for girls that are in their early 20s all the way up to 30. If they ask my age I say something like I'm 58 I just have really good genes.
Yes a few girls might have a problem with it but so what find some that don't.
Ozzie is like 42 or something and doesn't have any problems hooking up with younger girls. Jeffy is about 35 and from the footage I've seen it certainly doesn't cause him any problems.
I'm 30 and I go for girls that are in their early 20s all the way up to 30. If they ask my age I say something like I'm 58 I just have really good genes.
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"If you want to learn to swim jump into the water. On dry land no frame of mind is ever going to help you"
-Bruce Lee
"If you want to learn to swim jump into the water. On dry land no frame of mind is ever going to help you"
-Bruce Lee
Yea I've been struggling with this too, but I have found that if you believe its irrelevant, she won't think it is relevant either. Remember whatever you feel she feels, so if you think it is cool that you are pushing 30 and still look like you just turned 21 and bought your first legal yesterday she's gonna believe it too. I mean I'm pushing 30 and still trying to finish college and there are several good reasons for why that is. So once a chick brings that kind of stuff up I can explain that it has never been easy for me and I had to do pretty much everything the hard way. Then again I am way healthier now than I was 10 years ago, so I actually kinda look younger now than I did then lol.
It all goes back to that good ol' law of state transfer.
It all goes back to that good ol' law of state transfer.
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I got mad knowledge of self. -Us3
Even though they all say that they're real I know that most aren't. -Eminem
Lament not your vanquished fantasy; its only destiny. -Bad Religion
People are either objects, tolerable objects, or subjects depending on how they treat you.
Stop trying to impress chicks. Stop trying to impress guys. Impress yourself for a change.
Be Greedy, not Needy.
Make it a win for both you and her.
I, Hardcase: Advice and analysis for anyone who considers themself a Hardcase Newbie:
Part 1 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/291325/forum
Part 2 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/292242/forum
Part 3 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/293113/forum
Even though they all say that they're real I know that most aren't. -Eminem
Lament not your vanquished fantasy; its only destiny. -Bad Religion
People are either objects, tolerable objects, or subjects depending on how they treat you.
Stop trying to impress chicks. Stop trying to impress guys. Impress yourself for a change.
Be Greedy, not Needy.
Make it a win for both you and her.
I, Hardcase: Advice and analysis for anyone who considers themself a Hardcase Newbie:
Part 1 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/291325/forum
Part 2 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/292242/forum
Part 3 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/293113/forum
This guy gets it.
The fact that you've made it an issue isn't going to help either lol - now you have the whole self-fulfilling prophecy thing going on. If you say it normally (not thinking ANYTHING about it in your head) and the girl still leaves, it's because you're shit and you fucked it up beforehand :p
No girl is going to leave the interaction because your 27; pretending like that's really the reason is a refusal to look facts in the face. Either you're saying it like you care or there's something else screwy in your game. Either way, both could be fixed by just not giving a fuck.
The fact that you've made it an issue isn't going to help either lol - now you have the whole self-fulfilling prophecy thing going on. If you say it normally (not thinking ANYTHING about it in your head) and the girl still leaves, it's because you're shit and you fucked it up beforehand :p
No girl is going to leave the interaction because your 27; pretending like that's really the reason is a refusal to look facts in the face. Either you're saying it like you care or there's something else screwy in your game. Either way, both could be fixed by just not giving a fuck.
You may feel like you said the second one, and maybe you did. Your probably not self aware enough to know that the way you say it projected insecurity to the girl. Even something as subtle as TRYING to act all confident as you say "Im 27" is enough to make a chick walk because the reality is that your self conscious of it. The fact you even made this post shows you have issues with your age bro, and now your mind is seeking out excuses to reinforce your belief. If you were not self conscious of your age, then you would have just been like. Wow, whats with the weird ass chicks tonight? Bad night. Aw well. Fuck it. NEXT.
lol. when they ask your age are you saying:
"Uh....um...er..well im... um... 27 :("
or
"i'm 27."
The second one."Uh....um...er..well im... um... 27 :("
or
"i'm 27."
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Dude, just lie. Everything about a girl is a lie (her makeup, pushup bra, weave, high heels). I have the opposite problem where I'm too young when talking to girls 1-2-3 years older than me.
Seriously though, LIE. Just ask them first, and be a few years older than them...
Seriously though, LIE. Just ask them first, and be a few years older than them...
Dude, my physical game is tight. I don't know if it's just my town (I'm from the same town as Owen) but once I tell my age to girls they walk away. I don't want to lie to girls because I believe that's starting shit off bad but it's looking like that's the only way I'll get girls. Just tonight I was making out with 4 girls, I was pinning them against the wall. As soon as I told them my age (they asked) they walked away back to their friends. I don't feel old, I've had more life experience than any of these girls (military officer, done 2 programs in school, being one of the more important people in my start up), and yet these girls walk away as if I'm shit.
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My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
It's probably relative to a number of different things..
First of all, if you're hitting up bars where the majority is 18-20 then consider finding new venues. Remember these girls live in fluff land, its all about having fun. If a younger girl asks your age, instead of giving a direct answer kiss her cheek, spin her around, tell her you love her/hate her then answer. It's all about evoking that fun vibe. A direct answer OF ANY SORT could be all it take to kill the set.
First of all, if you're hitting up bars where the majority is 18-20 then consider finding new venues. Remember these girls live in fluff land, its all about having fun. If a younger girl asks your age, instead of giving a direct answer kiss her cheek, spin her around, tell her you love her/hate her then answer. It's all about evoking that fun vibe. A direct answer OF ANY SORT could be all it take to kill the set.
Seriously though, LIE. Just ask them first, and be a few years older than them...
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Lets stop the bullshit saying age doesn't matter. Yes it does matter, but only to a degree. As long as your secure in your age that's all that you can do. Supplement with tight game and you will have fewer girls walking away. No matter what, some girls are going to have a problem with it no matter what. Its a numbers game so keep plowing.
Rattlebone
Senior Member
Join Date: 04/08/2012 | Posts: 136
Fuck it, if this keeps happening I'll just tell them I'm 22, see if shit changes in the interaction.