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thespice

thespice

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Join Date: 03/28/2012 | Posts: 439

HEY!!!!

Sorry if I mislead anyone thinking I was going to give them eye contact advice.  Acutally, I'm asking for it.  First the pre-approach eye contact in day game.... if I see a girl walking down the street, or in the grocery store, or at the gym, how much eye contact is a good idea, without risking creeping her?   If we're walking towards each other, should I just stare the down and not look away?  

And what about when talking to her?  Stare the down?  lol?  Maybe it would be a better question to ask when it is a good idea to break eye contact?
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Sweet Toof

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Join Date: 04/10/2012 | Posts: 265

 Eye contact until she looks away, then look away yourself soon after so you don't seem like a psycho.

If you break the eye contact first, look UP towards the sky or sideways, NOT down.
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Twolife

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Always have this kind of eye contact:

 
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Sweet Toof

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Twolife wrote:
Always have this kind of eye contact:

 
Haha.

It's interesting that the girl's seemed to react differently than the guys. It was like they felt a need to talk and qualify themselves.
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thespice

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hmmmm, that staring guy actually git better reactions than I get. That nerdy chick totally looked dtf.  Turned me on.
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rogerhelms

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 YOU LOOK THROUGH THEM, NOT AT THEM. HOW WOULD UR EYE BEHAVE NOW?!

WORKS FOR ME
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yannieB

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Join Date: 04/19/2012 | Posts: 4

Thanks for sharing. Eye contact is important and helpful. It can help you determine if the person is telling a lie or not.
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Hank Thoreau

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Maintain eye contact 90% of the time when you are talking (Only looking away purposefully, not reactively)

And maintain eye contact 70% of the time when she is talking (looking away when she's is not 100% invested in what she is saying or when she is being boring).
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Rattlebone

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Join Date: 04/08/2012 | Posts: 136

thespice wrote:
hmmmm, that staring guy actually git better reactions than I get. That nerdy chick totally looked dtf.  Turned me on.
I know what you mean! Made me want to take her roughly from behind while stomping on her favourite childhood toy with my Doc Martens and screaming epithets at her.

The women's reaction rattled my preconceptions. I thought they'd become aggressive and hostile, maybe even curse the guy out and walk off. That's what I'd expect to happen to me if I stared at a chick. Instead, the little ug is attracted. WTF? The second one too got sucked into the vacuum he created ("Aren't you gonna say anything...?"). When he continued staring in silence, I thought she'd get freaked out. But when she says, "That's good...." there's no trace of discomfort in her voice, she sounds facetious!

This is the kind of stuff I read about but do not believe. Goddamn, I fucking hate being clueless this way. I need to be a lot bolder next time I go in field.
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thespice

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uhhh, yeah.  When I saw the video, I thought the person who posted it was joking.  Now I'm not sure.

Thanks for the other advices people.  It is helpful.
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LucidDic

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Join Date: 02/14/2008 | Posts: 1350

 OP, good rule about eye contact is that it's a direct representation of your headspace. 

While there are certain things to keep in mind like not being a starey-eyed rapist...there is no right or wrong.

Your self is always coming through...the way you give eye contact is always coming as a representation of your current mood or headspace or whatever u want to call it. Lead, she'll follow
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