THE FORUMS
It's funny though, cause ever since that night at Underground one thing I've come to realise is that relaxation and self amusement destroys chodiness...it's like once I unwind and get rid of all intensity and urgency (which are some of my biggest inner game problems) I have no problem going up to girls and making out with them, doing harder sets, being ultra assertive, etc...it's cause I dont feel like as much of a creeper.
When I start to enjpy the venue, unwind with whoever Im in the company of, fuck around with random ppl, etc. I really get this amazing self amused state where I feel like I can get every girl becuase of the emotions I'm extending to them.
When I fuck up is when I get the venue with this "time to score cunt" mentality, and I try to beast on sets from that frame, which leads to alot of blowouts and an inability to relax in sets. WHen I dont have that frame I can go full on beast and have it be relatively successful, but otherwise I get intense and creepy.
So ya, moving towards easy goingness and relaxation, while still pushing comfort zones so I don't get locked into excuses is gonna be my priority. I do spend too much time thinking about PUA, have gotten outcome dependent with lays, and have just become more urgent/anxious about doing it "this way or that way", whereas my best results come when I let go and ease into the night, then when that self amused state kicks in I can do whatever I want from there.
That's why getting to venues late is so difficult for me, cause I know I can get laid so its hard to let go of htat outcome, so I carry this urgency into sets thats like "is she down? should I makeout now? should i move on?" instead of just being like "fuck it, Im here, enjoy the time youve got" and then I do whatever I feel like doing from there becaue I let my self slide into the mud of self amusement
When I start to enjpy the venue, unwind with whoever Im in the company of, fuck around with random ppl, etc. I really get this amazing self amused state where I feel like I can get every girl becuase of the emotions I'm extending to them.
When I fuck up is when I get the venue with this "time to score cunt" mentality, and I try to beast on sets from that frame, which leads to alot of blowouts and an inability to relax in sets. WHen I dont have that frame I can go full on beast and have it be relatively successful, but otherwise I get intense and creepy.
So ya, moving towards easy goingness and relaxation, while still pushing comfort zones so I don't get locked into excuses is gonna be my priority. I do spend too much time thinking about PUA, have gotten outcome dependent with lays, and have just become more urgent/anxious about doing it "this way or that way", whereas my best results come when I let go and ease into the night, then when that self amused state kicks in I can do whatever I want from there.
That's why getting to venues late is so difficult for me, cause I know I can get laid so its hard to let go of htat outcome, so I carry this urgency into sets thats like "is she down? should I makeout now? should i move on?" instead of just being like "fuck it, Im here, enjoy the time youve got" and then I do whatever I feel like doing from there becaue I let my self slide into the mud of self amusement
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Ya I just watched what I think is Owen's best video again...the one on how epiphany's become gimmicks. It really just hammered the point back across that you do this thing from a baseline of normalcy, and the other shit comes ontop of that baseline, but none of it works without the baseline.
I've really been nitpicking my game more, I'm not too sure exactly the reason...I think just being in such a garbage headspace the past few months made me really uncomfortable gaming and the stress hormones mobilized the congitive compulsion to analyze the fuck out of stuff. Either way, I'm meditating alot, spending time doing relaxing stuff but also gaming through this motehrfucker and trying to figure out where I stand so I can take action the way I want.
Sometimes I wonder if I'm overanalyzing my game and not giving myself the opportunity ot settle into a style and work from there. I felt like I had a style a couple months ago but I've been questioning my shit alot and have also developed a little bit of that brad branson syndrome where you wanna avoid the icky feelings that come from creeping out girls (this has caused me to want to avoid certain types of game, and Ive had to force myself back into them again and again...like subway approaches, streetgame, direct physical on groups, etc.).
Anyways, I'm not gonna pretend to knwo exactly where I'm at or what I need to do next, or try to analyze and strategize my game to death, alot of this is just me getting my thoughts down cause Im on vacation and its a cool opportunity to just write how I think and feel at the moment.
I remember when I started out I thought beastmode was the way to go, flashmakeouts, hard escalation, cocky funny and shock humour, all the stuff youd wanna put in a highlight reel like Julien's. It was more a matter of "omg this stuff is possible, that's insane" then "what is the most reliable way to get laid for where I'm at right now", or even "where should I start, given where I'm at right now?". What I noticed is that I had alt of trouble maintaining normal conversations with girls (as in socially vibing, not boring them to death like alot of faggot chodes who dont know how to have fun with people normally). The only times I didnt is if I was coming off a night with alot of makeouts, numbers, etc and felt very entitled, but I didnt walk around with that baseline so my results were sparse.
Well in the past few months my results improved drastically. Ive banged the most and the hottest girls in any period since Ive gotten into this. Im not gonna act like this is for any sort of causal reason because in reality alot of the correlation we assume is for some coherent reason is actually total chance (check the book Thinking Fast and Slow). However, I learnt a valuable lesson on a date with a reallllly hot girl in may that I blew.
I was coming form the frame of "score cunt" and so I went on the date, was not having fun vibing, tried to incongruently be all cocky/funny/charismatic, then pulled and tried to escalate incongruently and freaked her out. In my mind its like "beast, if shes not down move on" and "dont be a pussy, if youre thinking about doing it you should do it"...well that frame is cool and all, but in reality all that happened was I lost the opportunity to date and fuck a really hot girl. I learned a lesson, but its not like I want to learn this lesson agian. This girl was a model, pretty cool, had a shaved vagina (I love that), and got my dick raging hard. And I blew it because of this gimmicky frame I had bought into. I was so focussed on myself that I had no sense of the girl's relative comfort level, and was so into this hardcore pickup frame that I didnt take what the obvious right step was.
Fast forward and now my dating life is pretty damn good. I pull SNLs here and there, am dating/banging a really hot blonde who is an absolute freak and who I have great chemistry with, and have 2 other fuck buddies who will drop their plans to come suck my dick (one of who is a pro model that does alot of high end shit). What did I do differently? I DIDNT DO ANY STUPID FUCKING SHIT. I didn't try to "push into fears", I didn't try to bust a technique, I didn't try to assert my frame, I didn't do any of that shit. I made sure they were comfortable, paid for the bill, related as a man to a woman (strong eye contact, self amusement, BEING MYSELF, taking little bits of leadership, physical rapport, etc.), madeout when it felt right and just generally did a bunch of normal shit. One I didnt makeout with until right before I fucked her. THe one I escalated on the hardest made me wait the longest to fuck, the ones where I escalated the least I got it the earliest. Derp, I wonder why, cause I didnt show her what I was thinking about.
Oh ya, and my last SNL the girl already wanted to fuck me off a 0 intent conversation. I was waiting for my friends and she was serving me at a restaurant, she wanted to fuck me, not vice versa, and so when I selected her I gave HER the opportunity and as a result there was 0 lmr.
Compare that to one of my LMR cases a little over a month ago, I pulled a pretty hot girl back to her condo after heavy making out and escalation and she would barely touch my dick caue in her head she fucking some guy that beasted on her at the bar and thats a bad image for girls with any inkling of conservativeness to deal with (and most girls have some of that). Sure there are "techniques" you can bust out to deal with that, but Im taking this from Brad and Manwhore, LMR starts before the pull, if youve got it youve already done something correctible.
Another thing thats been working for me is the fact that because PUA has become stressful for me I give myself license to take it easy when Im gaming. This allows me to take time in sets, enjoy the venue, etc, and not terrorize myself on an approach mission. Again, I can feel the difference in vibe in sets.
What is hurting me now is not my game. MY game has gotten super solid. Better than it has ever been for sure and with a couple of tweeks and a little more inner game Ill be fucking stunners (not just 1 or 2 in the dating rotation, like full on 9s on SNLs and shit). Whats fucking me is the fact that I feel like there is somethign wrong with my game. Like I feel that theres always something crucial Im not doing, and this hones me in to negatives and makes me feel like Im always going out to push fears and do what I dont feel comfortable doing, instead of going out to have fun picking up girls (what will get you laid).
Moreoever, this internal conflict I get between doing what will get me into a confident comfort zone (which you then push after you develop it) and trying to push every comfort zone. What I feel like works for me is relaxed arousal, not approaching everything, warming up to sets then once you get in state things start getting more direct sexual. What i feel like I should be doing: Hitting up everything, learning how to relax, basically doing everything I could be doing.
Gonna finish this thought later, really liking the introspective time Im getting
I've really been nitpicking my game more, I'm not too sure exactly the reason...I think just being in such a garbage headspace the past few months made me really uncomfortable gaming and the stress hormones mobilized the congitive compulsion to analyze the fuck out of stuff. Either way, I'm meditating alot, spending time doing relaxing stuff but also gaming through this motehrfucker and trying to figure out where I stand so I can take action the way I want.
Sometimes I wonder if I'm overanalyzing my game and not giving myself the opportunity ot settle into a style and work from there. I felt like I had a style a couple months ago but I've been questioning my shit alot and have also developed a little bit of that brad branson syndrome where you wanna avoid the icky feelings that come from creeping out girls (this has caused me to want to avoid certain types of game, and Ive had to force myself back into them again and again...like subway approaches, streetgame, direct physical on groups, etc.).
Anyways, I'm not gonna pretend to knwo exactly where I'm at or what I need to do next, or try to analyze and strategize my game to death, alot of this is just me getting my thoughts down cause Im on vacation and its a cool opportunity to just write how I think and feel at the moment.
I remember when I started out I thought beastmode was the way to go, flashmakeouts, hard escalation, cocky funny and shock humour, all the stuff youd wanna put in a highlight reel like Julien's. It was more a matter of "omg this stuff is possible, that's insane" then "what is the most reliable way to get laid for where I'm at right now", or even "where should I start, given where I'm at right now?". What I noticed is that I had alt of trouble maintaining normal conversations with girls (as in socially vibing, not boring them to death like alot of faggot chodes who dont know how to have fun with people normally). The only times I didnt is if I was coming off a night with alot of makeouts, numbers, etc and felt very entitled, but I didnt walk around with that baseline so my results were sparse.
Well in the past few months my results improved drastically. Ive banged the most and the hottest girls in any period since Ive gotten into this. Im not gonna act like this is for any sort of causal reason because in reality alot of the correlation we assume is for some coherent reason is actually total chance (check the book Thinking Fast and Slow). However, I learnt a valuable lesson on a date with a reallllly hot girl in may that I blew.
I was coming form the frame of "score cunt" and so I went on the date, was not having fun vibing, tried to incongruently be all cocky/funny/charismatic, then pulled and tried to escalate incongruently and freaked her out. In my mind its like "beast, if shes not down move on" and "dont be a pussy, if youre thinking about doing it you should do it"...well that frame is cool and all, but in reality all that happened was I lost the opportunity to date and fuck a really hot girl. I learned a lesson, but its not like I want to learn this lesson agian. This girl was a model, pretty cool, had a shaved vagina (I love that), and got my dick raging hard. And I blew it because of this gimmicky frame I had bought into. I was so focussed on myself that I had no sense of the girl's relative comfort level, and was so into this hardcore pickup frame that I didnt take what the obvious right step was.
Fast forward and now my dating life is pretty damn good. I pull SNLs here and there, am dating/banging a really hot blonde who is an absolute freak and who I have great chemistry with, and have 2 other fuck buddies who will drop their plans to come suck my dick (one of who is a pro model that does alot of high end shit). What did I do differently? I DIDNT DO ANY STUPID FUCKING SHIT. I didn't try to "push into fears", I didn't try to bust a technique, I didn't try to assert my frame, I didn't do any of that shit. I made sure they were comfortable, paid for the bill, related as a man to a woman (strong eye contact, self amusement, BEING MYSELF, taking little bits of leadership, physical rapport, etc.), madeout when it felt right and just generally did a bunch of normal shit. One I didnt makeout with until right before I fucked her. THe one I escalated on the hardest made me wait the longest to fuck, the ones where I escalated the least I got it the earliest. Derp, I wonder why, cause I didnt show her what I was thinking about.
Oh ya, and my last SNL the girl already wanted to fuck me off a 0 intent conversation. I was waiting for my friends and she was serving me at a restaurant, she wanted to fuck me, not vice versa, and so when I selected her I gave HER the opportunity and as a result there was 0 lmr.
Compare that to one of my LMR cases a little over a month ago, I pulled a pretty hot girl back to her condo after heavy making out and escalation and she would barely touch my dick caue in her head she fucking some guy that beasted on her at the bar and thats a bad image for girls with any inkling of conservativeness to deal with (and most girls have some of that). Sure there are "techniques" you can bust out to deal with that, but Im taking this from Brad and Manwhore, LMR starts before the pull, if youve got it youve already done something correctible.
Another thing thats been working for me is the fact that because PUA has become stressful for me I give myself license to take it easy when Im gaming. This allows me to take time in sets, enjoy the venue, etc, and not terrorize myself on an approach mission. Again, I can feel the difference in vibe in sets.
What is hurting me now is not my game. MY game has gotten super solid. Better than it has ever been for sure and with a couple of tweeks and a little more inner game Ill be fucking stunners (not just 1 or 2 in the dating rotation, like full on 9s on SNLs and shit). Whats fucking me is the fact that I feel like there is somethign wrong with my game. Like I feel that theres always something crucial Im not doing, and this hones me in to negatives and makes me feel like Im always going out to push fears and do what I dont feel comfortable doing, instead of going out to have fun picking up girls (what will get you laid).
Moreoever, this internal conflict I get between doing what will get me into a confident comfort zone (which you then push after you develop it) and trying to push every comfort zone. What I feel like works for me is relaxed arousal, not approaching everything, warming up to sets then once you get in state things start getting more direct sexual. What i feel like I should be doing: Hitting up everything, learning how to relax, basically doing everything I could be doing.
Gonna finish this thought later, really liking the introspective time Im getting
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July 29th
WHAT A FUCKING NIGHT. K so to start, Im suuuper nervous before I head out. Like literally edgy and out of it the entire night with my parents cause Im terrified of going out and approaching, how my AA has gotten this bad again I cannot briefly explain, Id have to analyze the fuck out of myself and its simply a waste of time. What I can do: A combination of taking action and things that will relax me and get me in a good mood.
What did I do tonight? All of the above.
Get to the bar. Open the first blonde I see, show intent, she giggles, set fizzles out and I do a shot with my bro. Leave her for repproach and head out to the balcony.
See a mixed set, bam CHARACTER BUILDING. See the guy's girlfriend, go in and show hard intent on her. The whole set, including this wannabe alpha faggot from italy, are grilling me. Stay in set, stay in, stay in, she goes and sits on her boyfriends lap. Make convo with her friends, the girl is staring me down like Im a scumbag, I hold the eye contact wit her and continue to make poltie convo with the rest of the group. Whatever, Im not tryna be some piece of shit douche, the reality was I went in, the girl wasnt down, but Im a nice guy and if she thinks otherwise she can fuck herself. The other dude opened up to me and we had a good chat.
Meet some Columbian fellow beasts. Chat with them, they start opening everything in sight. Bleed the dragon then proceed to start opening. Hand of god on some nervous greek girl, pull her in to dance, her hands are trembling...not attracted to this at that moment so dance with her abit and let it fizzle out.
See another mixed set, more character building. Open with intent, girl wont dance, plough a little, fizzles out, she smiles and moves on.
Get to the bar, Spanish 6 (cute face, a little chubby but not bad). Open friendly and cool, step up the eye contact, rapport, get some shots for the boys and move on.
Dance with the boys and some girls. Laugh, have fun, relax, have a smoke. See the Spanish girl again, go in. Rapport, rapport, add in physical rapport.
Go back to the boys, then back to the Spanish girl. This time I ramp up intent.
The next 2 hours consisted of her saying "Go away, go back to your friends" or "youre too young" and me saying "Shh", "stop thinking too much" or just putting my hand over her mouth and STARING HER THE FUCK DOWN. After a while I stopped talking, Id let her finish saying her shit then just stare her down. Started going for the makeout, rejected a few times.
Held the frame, did a little bit of slight push but almost 100% pull (more like force lmao). Kept moving my face into hers and holding my forehead against hers with my mouth like a cm away, my usual beastmode shit.
She kept rejecting me verbally, blah blah blah. TEll her to introduce me to her friends, she does, I introduce her to my brother.
More polarizing, same shit test and me passing by being the most unreactive Ive possibly ever been. After an hour get the makeout. Gets very heavy in the bar.
AFter making out heavily, like almost dry fucking in the bar, I go for the fingerbang. She rejects me. Keep making out. Deal with the friends a little, they try to take her home but I isolate and keep frame controlling. They leave without her LMAO, they left her to the scary man!
Tell her to invite me over. She says she cant. Repeat her saying some shit test and me saying "invite me over" again and again for 20 mins. She says shes staying in a room with her friends, theres no room to fuck. Im staying with my parents, cannot fuck in my room. ITS ALLEY TIME.
Pull outside, try to find an alley hahahah. Start walking, she asks me where shes going "2 minute, 2 minutes, just for a walk, lets go 2 minutes". Start walking, shove her againt a wall, makeout, start playing with her pussy. She says "where can we fuck", I pont to the alley hahahaha. Shes like "nooooo not there" I say "we need to be creative". REpeat her saying no and me repeating "get creative" and staring her down for 5 minis.
Tkae her up the alley. She keeps shittesting me, frankly Im sick of it at this point, shes a 6 like really Ive had enough. Ive gotta be up in a few hours to fly up so I said "fine go home" and bounced back to have cigarettes with my brother and lauhg. He made out with the greek girl who I danced with in the first place. My bro also has the beast in his genetics.
K, so breakdown of innergame shit. Im nervous as FUCK going into the venue. Before I get there my heart is racing, feel light headed, yadda yadd. Seriously underslept too, as usual lol. After doing some approaches I realise Im WAY too urgent and emotionally intense in set, like a rapist but out of my control. Even direct beast game requires relaxation in the pocket. So I trust the NATURAL INSTINCTS METHOD and go for relaxation in teh venue instead of forcing out approaches like a psychopath. Chat it up with other dudes, have fun doing meaningless bullshit, drink a little, have a smoke, enjoy the venue without pressure to do anything. This gets me in state, and my direct game flows naturally from there.
My freedom from otucome once I get rolling with this natural instincts method is something on a whole new level for me. Like really, I get into this state where I feel like Im offering pure value and couldnt give a FUCK if the girl wants to ride along. I persist for the fuck of it and to build character, not cause Im desperate, I also enjoy getting shit tested. But I can hold eye contact with complete freedom from outcome and just communicate that pure presence to the girl, Im NOT staring her down as a technique but because I Feel that level of connection with her. Jesus its scary, I never thought Id be able to game like that back in January, eye contact was really hard for me.
So ya, Im gonna stop breaking down my outer game so much. Im gonna stick with what gets me in state and stop worrying about this style or that style, this tactic or that tactic. Im gonna go with my own flow and my own instincts, and that doesnt mean never do anything scary but trust my internal sensor for when its time to make the right move regardless of emotions (sometimes its best not to do the scary thing, lol like jump off a bridge?). Natural instincst method, in terms of outer game, is working for me now and actually helps my direct polarizing style But agian, I Dont wanna anaylze my outer game too much its hurting my head and wasting my time. Its hurting my inner game, which is what matters.
Really feel good after tonight. Hydra tomorrow, which if you look up is a greek island with alot more high class venues where celebrities go to party. CAN YOU SAY "FALC RUBBING HIS BONER ON ACTRESSES?"
WHAT A FUCKING NIGHT. K so to start, Im suuuper nervous before I head out. Like literally edgy and out of it the entire night with my parents cause Im terrified of going out and approaching, how my AA has gotten this bad again I cannot briefly explain, Id have to analyze the fuck out of myself and its simply a waste of time. What I can do: A combination of taking action and things that will relax me and get me in a good mood.
What did I do tonight? All of the above.
Get to the bar. Open the first blonde I see, show intent, she giggles, set fizzles out and I do a shot with my bro. Leave her for repproach and head out to the balcony.
See a mixed set, bam CHARACTER BUILDING. See the guy's girlfriend, go in and show hard intent on her. The whole set, including this wannabe alpha faggot from italy, are grilling me. Stay in set, stay in, stay in, she goes and sits on her boyfriends lap. Make convo with her friends, the girl is staring me down like Im a scumbag, I hold the eye contact wit her and continue to make poltie convo with the rest of the group. Whatever, Im not tryna be some piece of shit douche, the reality was I went in, the girl wasnt down, but Im a nice guy and if she thinks otherwise she can fuck herself. The other dude opened up to me and we had a good chat.
Meet some Columbian fellow beasts. Chat with them, they start opening everything in sight. Bleed the dragon then proceed to start opening. Hand of god on some nervous greek girl, pull her in to dance, her hands are trembling...not attracted to this at that moment so dance with her abit and let it fizzle out.
See another mixed set, more character building. Open with intent, girl wont dance, plough a little, fizzles out, she smiles and moves on.
Get to the bar, Spanish 6 (cute face, a little chubby but not bad). Open friendly and cool, step up the eye contact, rapport, get some shots for the boys and move on.
Dance with the boys and some girls. Laugh, have fun, relax, have a smoke. See the Spanish girl again, go in. Rapport, rapport, add in physical rapport.
Go back to the boys, then back to the Spanish girl. This time I ramp up intent.
The next 2 hours consisted of her saying "Go away, go back to your friends" or "youre too young" and me saying "Shh", "stop thinking too much" or just putting my hand over her mouth and STARING HER THE FUCK DOWN. After a while I stopped talking, Id let her finish saying her shit then just stare her down. Started going for the makeout, rejected a few times.
Held the frame, did a little bit of slight push but almost 100% pull (more like force lmao). Kept moving my face into hers and holding my forehead against hers with my mouth like a cm away, my usual beastmode shit.
She kept rejecting me verbally, blah blah blah. TEll her to introduce me to her friends, she does, I introduce her to my brother.
More polarizing, same shit test and me passing by being the most unreactive Ive possibly ever been. After an hour get the makeout. Gets very heavy in the bar.
AFter making out heavily, like almost dry fucking in the bar, I go for the fingerbang. She rejects me. Keep making out. Deal with the friends a little, they try to take her home but I isolate and keep frame controlling. They leave without her LMAO, they left her to the scary man!
Tell her to invite me over. She says she cant. Repeat her saying some shit test and me saying "invite me over" again and again for 20 mins. She says shes staying in a room with her friends, theres no room to fuck. Im staying with my parents, cannot fuck in my room. ITS ALLEY TIME.
Pull outside, try to find an alley hahahah. Start walking, she asks me where shes going "2 minute, 2 minutes, just for a walk, lets go 2 minutes". Start walking, shove her againt a wall, makeout, start playing with her pussy. She says "where can we fuck", I pont to the alley hahahaha. Shes like "nooooo not there" I say "we need to be creative". REpeat her saying no and me repeating "get creative" and staring her down for 5 minis.
Tkae her up the alley. She keeps shittesting me, frankly Im sick of it at this point, shes a 6 like really Ive had enough. Ive gotta be up in a few hours to fly up so I said "fine go home" and bounced back to have cigarettes with my brother and lauhg. He made out with the greek girl who I danced with in the first place. My bro also has the beast in his genetics.
K, so breakdown of innergame shit. Im nervous as FUCK going into the venue. Before I get there my heart is racing, feel light headed, yadda yadd. Seriously underslept too, as usual lol. After doing some approaches I realise Im WAY too urgent and emotionally intense in set, like a rapist but out of my control. Even direct beast game requires relaxation in the pocket. So I trust the NATURAL INSTINCTS METHOD and go for relaxation in teh venue instead of forcing out approaches like a psychopath. Chat it up with other dudes, have fun doing meaningless bullshit, drink a little, have a smoke, enjoy the venue without pressure to do anything. This gets me in state, and my direct game flows naturally from there.
My freedom from otucome once I get rolling with this natural instincts method is something on a whole new level for me. Like really, I get into this state where I feel like Im offering pure value and couldnt give a FUCK if the girl wants to ride along. I persist for the fuck of it and to build character, not cause Im desperate, I also enjoy getting shit tested. But I can hold eye contact with complete freedom from outcome and just communicate that pure presence to the girl, Im NOT staring her down as a technique but because I Feel that level of connection with her. Jesus its scary, I never thought Id be able to game like that back in January, eye contact was really hard for me.
So ya, Im gonna stop breaking down my outer game so much. Im gonna stick with what gets me in state and stop worrying about this style or that style, this tactic or that tactic. Im gonna go with my own flow and my own instincts, and that doesnt mean never do anything scary but trust my internal sensor for when its time to make the right move regardless of emotions (sometimes its best not to do the scary thing, lol like jump off a bridge?). Natural instincst method, in terms of outer game, is working for me now and actually helps my direct polarizing style But agian, I Dont wanna anaylze my outer game too much its hurting my head and wasting my time. Its hurting my inner game, which is what matters.
Really feel good after tonight. Hydra tomorrow, which if you look up is a greek island with alot more high class venues where celebrities go to party. CAN YOU SAY "FALC RUBBING HIS BONER ON ACTRESSES?"
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July 30th
2 hours sleep, travel all day in the greek sun, get to Hydra barely able to stand up or speak, fuck it im going out. Eat dinner with the fam then head to the bar thats supposed to be the best local spot.
Unfortunately the online reviews were highly misleading, the nightlife scene here is nonexistent. Full of prude greek girls and the odd tourst, the 2 or 3 bars here are just a late night hangout for locals. No crazy partying, they just chill and move to music a little, then head home after a couple of hours, its like what they do after getting ice cream. Not knocking it at all, its an AMAZING lifestyle to live day in and out, Im actualy jelly, but for a beast this is not prime territory. Also, in terms of sets the bar had like 4 different sets in the whole thing and was basically all 5s-7s with maybe a couple of 8s, maybe. Nothing like Santorini, where the club had stunners everywhere.
Regardless I think of the blue bear and dont ping off the environemtn. Im not stupid, I dont get in the 10 square foot bar and start ping ponging off sets with hardcore physicality. I open a set, chill, drink, express intent through subcomms, open another set, yadda yadda. THe focus is unwinding and pumping my emotional state with fun shit.
First set was just a conversational warm up, get the mouth going and get into social vibing space. Got a drink and left for repproach after a little. Next one the intent went up. Worked push/pull a little, Id move back and wait for her to look back in my direction, then when I held te eye contact shed get this big smile, blush and look away. Was on with that one forsure.
Saw a cuter looking 2 set so went in on them. Introduced myself to both girls, express intent on one. Physical rapport, strong as fuck eye contact, face right up against hers. Not too crazy "I wanna fuck you" behaviour, just behaving as if Im a sexual person. Doing what amuses me in set.
Set goes on like this for atleast another hour. Get into great conversations, but the vibe holds alot of polarity and I must say i did a GREAT job of comfort building and not freaking her out. I felt how nervous this girl was, she did half the talking and I could feel her hands were a little shaky and stuff (which Ive noticed in EVERY greek set Ive been in) and related man to woman but it was through taht adoption frame. She kept apoligizing for her english, I kept reassuring her and making her comfortable, giving her time, maybe Id back away and give her a big smile and chuckle at her getting so expressive and trying so hard.
The difficulty is that alot of these greek girls are very disposed towards not having one night stands, it seems pointless to them to exchange numbers if its not for a LTR. She kept talking to me about love and all this stuff, I had a realllllly good connection with this girl, but she wouldnt give me the number evne to meet up to go to the beach tomorrow. Says she likes me but she says "Youre leaving for Canada in 2 days, theres no point, Im going back to Athens". Oh well, I wouldve totally been willing to forego the lay tn to have sex with her in a day or 2...and she wasnt that hot, like a 6.5 looks and the personality boosted her to a 7 (maybe a litlte more, she was actually pretty cute) but the whole bar was basically in that range anyways so whatever.
At the end I tried to pull, not too aggressively but I felt like the comfortable way was the best for this set, anythign else would have spooked them. Werent down, meh, may see them tomorrow but wont persist. Derp I wish I could get a girl with those personality features, better looks and without the conditioned mindset that sex only happens with love and some significant other. I really like greek girls, I actually like them ALOT. Their nervous shyness is so cute its ridiculous, I dont like beasting up on them but the ones that have sexual energy you get this really cool vibe going with. Greek girls are also very flirtatious through subcomms, its very attractive. But every greek guy will tell you that theyre prude as fuck, the greek homies at the bar were telling us to stop wasting our time with greek chicks, my pops was telling me too that when greek guys go beast they only look for tourists, its like tourst target hunting for them.
I feel like I should make a rule to only warm up with greek chicks but fuck it, its a judgement call, Im not gonna blow something I think is on or something I think is worth persisting for cause of a lame rule. That being said, if I see a tourist set Im probably more likely to get laid there. The swedish 6.5 I couldve fucked forsure, but I actually felt like I got a better interaction and better skillbuilding out of the greek set. It required SO much patience, and hte ability to flirt with polarity while building massive comfort.
Anyways, more to come tomorrow.
2 hours sleep, travel all day in the greek sun, get to Hydra barely able to stand up or speak, fuck it im going out. Eat dinner with the fam then head to the bar thats supposed to be the best local spot.
Unfortunately the online reviews were highly misleading, the nightlife scene here is nonexistent. Full of prude greek girls and the odd tourst, the 2 or 3 bars here are just a late night hangout for locals. No crazy partying, they just chill and move to music a little, then head home after a couple of hours, its like what they do after getting ice cream. Not knocking it at all, its an AMAZING lifestyle to live day in and out, Im actualy jelly, but for a beast this is not prime territory. Also, in terms of sets the bar had like 4 different sets in the whole thing and was basically all 5s-7s with maybe a couple of 8s, maybe. Nothing like Santorini, where the club had stunners everywhere.
Regardless I think of the blue bear and dont ping off the environemtn. Im not stupid, I dont get in the 10 square foot bar and start ping ponging off sets with hardcore physicality. I open a set, chill, drink, express intent through subcomms, open another set, yadda yadda. THe focus is unwinding and pumping my emotional state with fun shit.
First set was just a conversational warm up, get the mouth going and get into social vibing space. Got a drink and left for repproach after a little. Next one the intent went up. Worked push/pull a little, Id move back and wait for her to look back in my direction, then when I held te eye contact shed get this big smile, blush and look away. Was on with that one forsure.
Saw a cuter looking 2 set so went in on them. Introduced myself to both girls, express intent on one. Physical rapport, strong as fuck eye contact, face right up against hers. Not too crazy "I wanna fuck you" behaviour, just behaving as if Im a sexual person. Doing what amuses me in set.
Set goes on like this for atleast another hour. Get into great conversations, but the vibe holds alot of polarity and I must say i did a GREAT job of comfort building and not freaking her out. I felt how nervous this girl was, she did half the talking and I could feel her hands were a little shaky and stuff (which Ive noticed in EVERY greek set Ive been in) and related man to woman but it was through taht adoption frame. She kept apoligizing for her english, I kept reassuring her and making her comfortable, giving her time, maybe Id back away and give her a big smile and chuckle at her getting so expressive and trying so hard.
The difficulty is that alot of these greek girls are very disposed towards not having one night stands, it seems pointless to them to exchange numbers if its not for a LTR. She kept talking to me about love and all this stuff, I had a realllllly good connection with this girl, but she wouldnt give me the number evne to meet up to go to the beach tomorrow. Says she likes me but she says "Youre leaving for Canada in 2 days, theres no point, Im going back to Athens". Oh well, I wouldve totally been willing to forego the lay tn to have sex with her in a day or 2...and she wasnt that hot, like a 6.5 looks and the personality boosted her to a 7 (maybe a litlte more, she was actually pretty cute) but the whole bar was basically in that range anyways so whatever.
At the end I tried to pull, not too aggressively but I felt like the comfortable way was the best for this set, anythign else would have spooked them. Werent down, meh, may see them tomorrow but wont persist. Derp I wish I could get a girl with those personality features, better looks and without the conditioned mindset that sex only happens with love and some significant other. I really like greek girls, I actually like them ALOT. Their nervous shyness is so cute its ridiculous, I dont like beasting up on them but the ones that have sexual energy you get this really cool vibe going with. Greek girls are also very flirtatious through subcomms, its very attractive. But every greek guy will tell you that theyre prude as fuck, the greek homies at the bar were telling us to stop wasting our time with greek chicks, my pops was telling me too that when greek guys go beast they only look for tourists, its like tourst target hunting for them.
I feel like I should make a rule to only warm up with greek chicks but fuck it, its a judgement call, Im not gonna blow something I think is on or something I think is worth persisting for cause of a lame rule. That being said, if I see a tourist set Im probably more likely to get laid there. The swedish 6.5 I couldve fucked forsure, but I actually felt like I got a better interaction and better skillbuilding out of the greek set. It required SO much patience, and hte ability to flirt with polarity while building massive comfort.
Anyways, more to come tomorrow.
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Yoo I didn't know your parents were going to Europe with you... that's really cool.
Can't wait for your first EUROPULL .. lmao!
Keep killin it bro
Can't wait for your first EUROPULL .. lmao!
Keep killin it bro
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The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
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Ya man just for greece, in a month im doing a long ass euro rampage on my own, greece now is mostly to see fam Im just carving out the time to go out every night. Tomorrow Im gonna be on a 6 night stay in the mountains though, no game there :(
Lmao got a funny story from last night, ill write the FR later
Lmao got a funny story from last night, ill write the FR later
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FUCKKKKKK hahaha
July 29th
After dinner with the parents we grab a drink as a fam and I see a gorgeous british girl behind us with a big mixed group. My parents leave, she disappears, I standup to see where shes at but cant see her. Say fuck it, lets go in the bar and grap a drink with my bro but on the way in I see her in another mixed group. Im going in.
Go direct on her, express intent, greek chodes get upset, fuck them. Vibe with her, bro comes and wings her friend. Vibe for a while, drink with her, my bro pulls her friend for skinny dipping so its just me and her.
A chode group of "naturals" come from a fancy yaught, about 8 of them. They sit behind us and start trying to steal my girl, I destroy them with physicality and assertiveness on my girl while being totally NORMAL and noncreepy, especialyl while addressing myself to them. They are locked into that "be cool" natural frame so I put them in a position where they cant break out of it without busting their gay little faggot personna. They gave up and left. Go for makeout, she says she has a bf, tell her "no you dont" and keep persisting.
My girl gets too drunk and starts puking, have to hike up the whole mountain to get her ass home (shes lierally passed out on some steps). After that I chill with my bro and his girl, have some beers and have fun as the sun comes up. THen go home and crash.
August 1st
My girl calls my bro and tells us to come out. We go meet them and she buys us drinks for getting her home safe. Vibe, friendly and cool, do that shit for a while while drinking. Drink too much, not drunk but enough alcohol to KILL my game.
Bro pulls his girl and gets laid, my game is sloppy garbage at this point. Unable to talk clearly, vibe is off, etc. My girl wants to go smoke a spliff, take her somewhere off near the sea. Go for the makeout by grabbing her face, shes not down. Get her to strip and jumpy in the sea, go for the makeout 2 more times, nope. "I have a bf"
Take her for another drink somwhere else, natural chode follows us, can tell hes got swag but lockedi nto his cool guy personna. Tries to get physicaly with my girl, start getting more gregarious then him, hes done, pull my girl, try to take her to my room but she keeps dropping the bf shit. Persist by telling her "just a drink at my place" "its right there" "AY, COME NOW", all this hsit. Persist for a while, shes not down, hug her and go leave to keep beasting.
See the natural douche, go to havev a drink with him and carry on with a fellow beast but hes already in a mixed set with greek chodes too afraid to vapourize him.
Grab a beer at the bakey and go open a mixed 10 set. Open a guys gf by trying to sit next to her with intent, she says no her bf is there, go to the next girl same shit, grab a chair and move into the centre of the circle. Make friends with the group, they end up liking me, help them blow out some douchey faggots from Netherlands who were getting confrontational, I almost WANTED to fight these guys for being such pricks, they just left cause they could tell me and this greek homie werent having their shit, it was so easy man these guys are SUCH pussies.
Lost intent as I started to vibe the group, should have targeted a girl and gotten more direct but as I made friends I didnt want them to not like me as I gamed one girl. Fuck it, I gotta accept that shit, these girls were SO hot I coudlve easily picked one and gone do or die but I lost intent and they all left ot go home.
I patrolled the harbour for a bit looking for more girls then came home and wrote a field report. A little butthurt over losing my british girl and not gettig laid the WHOLE TRIP in greece but wtv, character building and manwhore coaching starts in TO, psyhced for a month of that. Julien hotseat too. My focus is pushing limits, while not ignoring the social vibing baseline. I really wanna target comfort zones and PUSH THE FUCK out of them. Subway sets, mixed sets, street sets, EVERYTHING. I wanna develop hardcore willpower, even if Im not sleeping, so that when my real euro trip comes around Im a MACHINE.
July 29th
After dinner with the parents we grab a drink as a fam and I see a gorgeous british girl behind us with a big mixed group. My parents leave, she disappears, I standup to see where shes at but cant see her. Say fuck it, lets go in the bar and grap a drink with my bro but on the way in I see her in another mixed group. Im going in.
Go direct on her, express intent, greek chodes get upset, fuck them. Vibe with her, bro comes and wings her friend. Vibe for a while, drink with her, my bro pulls her friend for skinny dipping so its just me and her.
A chode group of "naturals" come from a fancy yaught, about 8 of them. They sit behind us and start trying to steal my girl, I destroy them with physicality and assertiveness on my girl while being totally NORMAL and noncreepy, especialyl while addressing myself to them. They are locked into that "be cool" natural frame so I put them in a position where they cant break out of it without busting their gay little faggot personna. They gave up and left. Go for makeout, she says she has a bf, tell her "no you dont" and keep persisting.
My girl gets too drunk and starts puking, have to hike up the whole mountain to get her ass home (shes lierally passed out on some steps). After that I chill with my bro and his girl, have some beers and have fun as the sun comes up. THen go home and crash.
August 1st
My girl calls my bro and tells us to come out. We go meet them and she buys us drinks for getting her home safe. Vibe, friendly and cool, do that shit for a while while drinking. Drink too much, not drunk but enough alcohol to KILL my game.
Bro pulls his girl and gets laid, my game is sloppy garbage at this point. Unable to talk clearly, vibe is off, etc. My girl wants to go smoke a spliff, take her somewhere off near the sea. Go for the makeout by grabbing her face, shes not down. Get her to strip and jumpy in the sea, go for the makeout 2 more times, nope. "I have a bf"
Take her for another drink somwhere else, natural chode follows us, can tell hes got swag but lockedi nto his cool guy personna. Tries to get physicaly with my girl, start getting more gregarious then him, hes done, pull my girl, try to take her to my room but she keeps dropping the bf shit. Persist by telling her "just a drink at my place" "its right there" "AY, COME NOW", all this hsit. Persist for a while, shes not down, hug her and go leave to keep beasting.
See the natural douche, go to havev a drink with him and carry on with a fellow beast but hes already in a mixed set with greek chodes too afraid to vapourize him.
Grab a beer at the bakey and go open a mixed 10 set. Open a guys gf by trying to sit next to her with intent, she says no her bf is there, go to the next girl same shit, grab a chair and move into the centre of the circle. Make friends with the group, they end up liking me, help them blow out some douchey faggots from Netherlands who were getting confrontational, I almost WANTED to fight these guys for being such pricks, they just left cause they could tell me and this greek homie werent having their shit, it was so easy man these guys are SUCH pussies.
Lost intent as I started to vibe the group, should have targeted a girl and gotten more direct but as I made friends I didnt want them to not like me as I gamed one girl. Fuck it, I gotta accept that shit, these girls were SO hot I coudlve easily picked one and gone do or die but I lost intent and they all left ot go home.
I patrolled the harbour for a bit looking for more girls then came home and wrote a field report. A little butthurt over losing my british girl and not gettig laid the WHOLE TRIP in greece but wtv, character building and manwhore coaching starts in TO, psyhced for a month of that. Julien hotseat too. My focus is pushing limits, while not ignoring the social vibing baseline. I really wanna target comfort zones and PUSH THE FUCK out of them. Subway sets, mixed sets, street sets, EVERYTHING. I wanna develop hardcore willpower, even if Im not sleeping, so that when my real euro trip comes around Im a MACHINE.
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Falc, man, that's a HUGE milestone bro.
First fuckbuddy since getting in the game.... That's a GREAT milestone.
This gonna be your bottom bitch?
The bottom bitch is kinda like the king in a fflipped over feudal heirarchy
Congratz bro. Keep killin it.
+1First fuckbuddy since getting in the game.... That's a GREAT milestone.
This gonna be your bottom bitch?
The bottom bitch is kinda like the king in a fflipped over feudal heirarchy
Congratz bro. Keep killin it.
hahahhahahahah
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