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May 20th, 2013
What was your first approach by yourself like?
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#21

Macavity

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Join Date: 08/25/2009 | Posts: 1538

 I was shit scared and nervous. Girl at the bar. Walk up beside her. 
"Have you been served?
"My friends a bar-tender and recons girls usually ger served first unless the guys better at making eye contact.......
"I bet you I get served first ;)"

She smiled and really liked me. We playfully fought for the bartenders attention. And that, from there on, spurred this whole journey.

I remember going home that night in 08' and writing in my diary how I opened 4 sets and they all gave me IOI's. Haha. Ahh how I'd love to run into her again. 
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#22
besserwisser

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Join Date: 07/28/2008 | Posts: 3080

My first approach AFTER learning about game = Girlfriend for 2 years LOL

Was so messed up, but it worked out and we really fitted together well.
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#23
Mayhem

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Join Date: 03/10/2012 | Posts: 419

I don't remember my first approach ever... I don't even remember my approaches yesterday lol.

I remember a couple of times I used to sabotage myself. Like even if a random girl would come up and hug me, it'd be like, "Oh wow, um thanks but no" because I felt so intimidated and nervous. I always bailed out too early, like "How could she ever like me?" or "I have nothing to say now, better just let it be awkward and look weird lol"

Even when I got my first girlfriend at 16, she pretty much went after me. And it literally took her to the point where she had to say "I like you in that way" for me to just go out with her. My chode mindset back then actually made the first date a kiss on the cheek. And a makeout like 3 weeks later, after she was pretty much begging for it. So I had 0[/u] initiative to do anything with girls.

God damn, looking back I
 was the biggest chode EVER. I was so chode that it would never even get to point were I had the option to buy girls drinks, because I couldn't talk to them in the first place. Pussification and Suplication where the cornerstones of my 'game' ahaha. I came off weird and creepy. And the only reason I did ok in Sixth Form (UK version of upper high school) was that I had a girlfriend so I wasn't choding out or creeping the other girls out, with my indirect, lets be friends bullshit. But I was a little pussy bitch to my gf though, she definitely wore the pants because of my chodosity.

But first approach? Cold Approach? Pre-knowledge of any pickup? I remember one of them went something like this:

HB10 (in my chode eyes back then) walks past.
 (She was probably and 8 or 9 in hindsight)
Me: Excuse me, I
 just want to say you look amazingly beautiful.
She looks up in interest (chodely st. chode doesn't notice that she's being receptive to this advance).
Me: That's all I
 want to say, I just wanted to tell you that you're beautiful. (I'm speaking very quickly so I can just get out of this awkward situation)
She's still there, expecting me to say something else.
Me: Thanks (And I pretty much run away, I look back and she has this confused look on her face)

A true chode masterclass.
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#24

Oceans of Abundance

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Join Date: 01/19/2011 | Posts: 71

Not bad actually i went up to a girl in a bar and she was really nice and fun the second chick told me to fuck off but the first approach was pretty cool.
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#25
Phospher

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Join Date: 08/04/2012 | Posts: 921

Have just finished M.M
approached 2 girls, PHONE CLOSE, I felt like I was the shit, I knew something secret
after that, gone
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#26
therebellion

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Join Date: 09/17/2012 | Posts: 1281

 Dont think about it.. like.. force you feet to walk and your mouth to move.. but think about something else..
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girls in tight dresses, bright lights, loud music, crowds, stangers, never ending stimulation & I can't help but to feel like I've arrived... what is this? where am I? who care's? All I wanna do is find out how far this shit can go.... 
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#27
therebellion

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Join Date: 09/17/2012 | Posts: 1281

 My first approach was on this baddd one i saw in the mall

Hot Spanish girl dressed up in interview attire...

Didn't get blown out but it was def a no-go for her lol
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#28
S|n|ster

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Join Date: 12/04/2008 | Posts: 601

What Kaladyn said is so true

My first approach after The Game was pure MM, was super fucking nervous but excited at the same time
Opened some girl at a bar with the line "Are you Michelle's sister?" (shit even remember the name)
Me and my friend talked to them for a while then bounced her and her friend to the dance floor where we creeped them out massively and they went to "the washroom" and never returned haha
we left the club so happy with ourselves thinking wow this shit really works, got us super morivated to come back again

funny sidenote, I met that same girl 2 years later through some friends and even though I remembered her as my first approach she ofcourse had no idea who I was...now we're good friends.
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#29
Iridescent

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Join Date: 08/07/2011 | Posts: 170

 It was in foregin country, in Luzern Switzerland.

Hey, I like you!

what

I like you

and what

oh nothing bye!

it was weird, half ass, but made me laugh
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#30

Hellion

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Join Date: 02/23/2010 | Posts: 148

edit: posting a new thread on this
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