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May 23rd, 2013
What was your first approach by yourself like?
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mikevick07

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Join Date: 01/08/2012 | Posts: 1239

I FUCKING SUCKED SHIT, the chick ran from me...it was crazy because with friends I was a BEAST, I approached the next chick I saw tho and got a #...thinking about it feels like the good old days (at the moment I felt horrible) when I was baby in this
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#13
Ryan2

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Join Date: 11/13/2011 | Posts: 336

My first approach was BRUUUUUUTAL.  I nervously stammered out the jealous girlfriend opener to these two seated chicks, they gave me the look and asked "...why do you care?" or something like that, and I nervously smiled and was like "Oh just wondering! Haha!" then ejected.  SOMEHOW I gathered the balls to do a SECOND approach 5 minutes later.  I see this tall blonde standing with her friends, ask "Hey could I get a female opinion on something?", she looked me up and down, then turned her back on me.  Then I walked home, alone, thinking "THE GAME SUCKS!!! I HATE THIS!!!!!!!" and pretty much wanting to die.

And I'm still going out, years later.
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roadrally

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Join Date: 10/12/2009 | Posts: 1820

 my first time?

I got nervous getting dressed for the mall. Drove to mall.
Wandered around for hours walking back and forth
Didnt talk to anyone.
Went home sad.
I did that dozens of times. True story.

Theres a julien video where he says he used to catch the train into town, then wander the town for hours too afraid to approach then he went home feeling like his life sucked. 

found the video



I dunno. i know its hard just push it as much as you can.
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LeftHand

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This is how I started approaching 20+ girls a night:
http://www.spring.org.uk/2011/01/how-to-commit-to-a-goal.php
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The Mack

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Join Date: 02/21/2012 | Posts: 725

 dont approach like you want and need to get her
just approach and self amuse
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Count_

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Join Date: 04/14/2012 | Posts: 111

I shook like Muhammad Ali and nearly shit in my pants. And the chick even wanted to be approached. But that was a long time ago...
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AlexV

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Join Date: 11/12/2011 | Posts: 1189

 I was a total newbie and didn't know what the fuck i was doing, following some long forgotten method on what angle to take etc.. Basically what happened was that I entertained the girls for a bit then they kicked me out of the group. I wasn't even aware they kicked me out until i found myself standing outside the group and couldn't push myself back in.... Ah, those were the days...
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Gravity

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Join Date: 07/06/2011 | Posts: 1674

 my first approach was WAY before i read any pickup material, i knew i wanted to talk to a really hot girl ANYWHERE. i printed out a sheet of paper that said 18+ 25+ and 30+ on the columns
and different heights on the rows. then i went to my local starbucks carrying my binder with this sheet, i walked up to these three girls who i thought were 19, turns out they were all 25 LOL.
i went under the alias of a psychology student trying to see a correlation between height and dating potential. so i asked these girls some questions, surprisingly got a conversation going
but i was SO NERVOUS that i ejected from the set. i still remember them asking why i was leaving so early and that i should stay with them :P. later that week i got a girlfriend and didnt
look back on this pickup thing till i was 17 :)
BEST SET EVER :P
funny thing is that now i really AM a psychology student that studies attraction as a hobbie :D
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#20

rogerhelms

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Join Date: 06/13/2009 | Posts: 637

 I BANGED ON THE FIRST APPROACH EVER. FUCK IT, I DONT THINK I EVER FAILED AN APPROACH
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