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[proVIE] Mountaineer From Vienna: From Intermediate Purgatory To Advanced Stealth Awesomeness
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Mountaineer-~

Mountaineer-~

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Join Date: 01/07/2011 | Posts: 360

Hey there, greetings from Vienna!

I’m in this whole thing for about 2 years now, with different intensity levels. I made the decision now to journal my adventures to give you as well as myself the opportunity to keep track of my progress and to give myself enough leverage to stay on track.

About me:
I lived a very introverted and chody life where social gatherings were intimidating me. After my almost 8 year long relationship ended I made the decision to get this area of my life handled. So I studied different books and other content and found RSD.

I did my first BC with Brad (Yeah, pulled there. Props for Vomiting) and HS in the end of 2010. At this time I was very motivated and went out 4 nights a week. After good initial progress and results I started to stagnate because the ego problem of identifying with “I am good with girls” kicked in and I was constantly approval seeking this identity.

A few weeks ago I attended the HS2 and took another BC with Julien (http://www.rsdnation.com/node/216869). This weekend was very eye opening for me because Julien showed me blind spots that I wasn’t aware of. Was kind of struggling in the past few months because i didn't get consistency in my game. During the BC Julien showed me blind spots concerning freedom from outcome, self amusement and the fucking SMILE that I wasn't aware of. Also that you must not wait for IOI's and just do what you want to do. Even though I wasn't able to really execute his hints during the BC I went out the following nights and focussed on them. I hardly could sleep because my brain was processing all the data hard and I guess it was kind of reviewing old situations and visualizing future situations from that new perspective. Anyways, the following nights I went out were pretty intense were I was celebrating myself and crazy stuff happened from makeouts to pulls.

This Journal is starting right after the BC and HS weekend in Munich.

Goals:
Writing summarized field reports on a weekly basis. These FRs will not contain every single interaction but instead the principles I executed (or did not execute), shit I had to deal with and how I managed to push through.

I am not going to set goals concerning how much closes I want to get or anything like that (because this would be outcome dependence and results again in an ego problem). Instead my only criterium for success is that I take right action while expanding my comfort zone every week. This means:

-Approach (be in set almost all the time), also approach while being in the middle of a conversation with a buddy
-Intent (clarity in thoughts, words and actions)
-Freedom From Outcome (this is pretty tough for me)
-Self Amusement (celebrating myself)
-Persistence and Moving Things Forward
-Doing it in Full Perfection Style Of Glory (=SOBER)

I try to go out 4-5 nights a week. Because of different circumstances (FB, business travels, other hobbies in the evenings, etc.) this will not always be possible. The absolute minimum will be 3 nights a week. However, I also plan to add day game in the upcoming weeks. With day game it will be possible to get it up to 5-7 days/nights a week.

Soooooo, I’m psyched to get started! Cheers!



+++ EDIT (April 2013) +++
I enhanced this first post with the following things. 1. key (description of abbreviations), 2. week titles (good to see the progress)

1. key
a. “BANGTOWN VIENNA” in the text means that I fucked a new girl
b. an asterix in front of the week title (eg. ”*Week 56 (08.04. – 14.04.) – First New Lay In My New Flat” means that I fucked a new girl in that week
c. “[proVie]” means that my FR is part of “Project Vienna” – I’m living next to Zonk now and we share a big balcony together – perfect conditions for crazy adventures!
d. FB means Fuck Buddy
e. [AV] means Alex- visits me in Vienna and [AI] means that I visit Alex- in Innsbruck

2. Week Overview:

2012
Week 1 (26.03. – 01.04.)
*Week 2 (02.04. – 08.04.)
Week 3 (09.04. – 15.04.)
Week 4 (16.04. – 22.04.)
+Week 5 (23.04. – 29.04.)
Week 6 (30.04. – 06.05.)
Week 7 (07.05. – 13.05.)
*Week 8 (14.05. - 20.05.)
Week 9 (21.05. - 27.05.)
Week 10 (28.05. – 03.06.)
Week 11 (04.06. – 10.06.)
Week 12 (11.06. – 17.06.)
Week 13 (18.06. – 24.06.) - Barcelona
*Week 14 (25.06. – 01.07.)
Week 15 (02.07. – 08.07.)
Week 16 (09.07. – 15.07.)
Week 17 (16.07. – 22.07.)
*Week 18 (23.07. – 29.07.)
Week 19 (30.07. – 05.08.) – Flatsitting and Mini Vacation
Week 20 (06.08. – 12.08.) – Most Session Week EVER (incl. Mountaineers Standard Day2 Procedure)
Week 21 (13.08. – 19.08.)
Week 22 (20.08. – 26.08.) – First Daygame Day2
Week 23 (27.08. – 02.09.)
Week 24 (03.09. – 09.09.) – Drunken Mastery in IBIZA
Week 25 (10.09. – 16.09.) – Drunken Mastery in Croatia
Week 26 (17.09. – 23.09.) – Reconvalescence from Vacation
*Week 27 (24.09. – 30.09.)
*Week 28 (01.10. – 07.10.) – First Daygame Lay
Week 29 (08.10. – 14.10.)
Week 30 (15.10. – 21.10.)
Week 31 (22.10. – 28.10.)
Week 32 (29.10. – 04.11.)
Week 33 (05.11. – 11.11.)
Week 34 (12.11. – 18.11.) – Visiting Feelgood in Hamburg
Week 35 (19.11. – 25.11.) – Visiting Alex- in Innsbruck
Week 36 (26.11. – 02.12.)
Week 37 (03.12. – 09.12.)
Week 38 (10.12. – 16.12.)
Week 39 (17.12. – 23.12)
*Week 40 (24.12. – 30.12.) – First 2 on 2 Pull To My Flat

2013
Week 41 (31.12. – 06.01.) – Amsterdam Madness (incl. Alexander~ HS and BC)
Week 42 (07.01. – 13.01.) – Yet Another Adventurous Trip To Innsbruck
Week 43 (14.01. – 20.01.) – 4 Lays in One Week
***Week 44 (21.01. – 27.01.) – Get Visited by Alex-, First Time I Pulled Twice a Night, First Week I Fucked 3 New Girls
*Week 45 (28.01. – 03.02.)
Week 46 (04.02. – 10.02.)
Week 47 (11.02. – 17.02.)
***Week 48 (18.02. – 24.02.) – First German Lay in Austria, First 2 Innsbruck Pulls
Week 49 (25.02. – 03.03.)
Week 50 (04.03. – 10.03.) – The Week Of Fools Gold And Destruction Of My Pimp Ego [AV]
Week 51 (11.03. – 17.03.) – Action in Budapest
*Week 52 (18.03. – 24.03.)
Week 53 (25.03. – 31.03.) – First Anniversary Of My Journal!
Week 55 (01.04. – 07.04.) – First Week of “Project Vienna” / Escaped Weird Sex Party
*Week 56 (08.04. – 14.04.) – First New Lay In My New Flat
*Week 57 (15.04. – 21.04.) – Girl Chases Me All The Way To The Bed [AV]
*Week 58 (22.04. – 28.04.) – First “Hamburg-Shaped” Girl
Week 59 (29.04. – 05.05.) – Yet Another Contraction week
*Week 60 (06.05. – 12.05.) – 6 Girls In A Week and Destruction Of My Cot [AV]
*Week 61 (13.05. – 19.05.) – Time To Put On Some Extra Weights
Week 62 (20.05. – 26.05.) – Getting Slapped By Reality
*Week 63 (27.05. – 02.06.) – 3 Girls In A Day And Drunken Mastery in Croatia
Week 64 (03.06. – 09.06.) – Fungal Infection
Week 65 (10.06. – 16.06.) – Recovering from Fungal Infection
Week 66 (17.06. – 23.06.) – Drunken Mastery Chillout In Ibiza
Week 67 (24.06. – 30.06.)
Week 68 (01.07. – 07.07.) – Drunken Mastery In Scandinavia Part I
*Week 69 (08.07. – 14.07.) – Drunken Mastery In Scandinavia Part II
*Week 70 (15.07. – 21.07) – Pull From Sausage Stand
Week 71 (22.07. – 28.07.) – Fuzzy Big New Sticking Point
Week 72 (29.07 – 04.08.) – Drunken Mastery at the Westcoast Part I
Week 73 (05.08. – 11.08.) – Drunken Mastery at the Westcoast Part II
Week 74 (12.08. – 18.08.) – Drunken Mastery at the Westcoast Part III
Week 75 (19.08. – 25.08.) - Drunken Mastery at the Westcoast Part IV
*Week 76 (26.08. – 01.09.) – Embracing Reality and Starting To My Ego Once Again
Week 77 (02.09. – 08.09.)
*Week 78 (09.09. – 15.09.) – First Warm Approach SNL, Gay Guy Tries To Get Me Drunk

… (this list will not be updated every week)
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Mountaineer-~

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Join Date: 01/07/2011 | Posts: 360

Week 1 (26.03. – 01.04.)

I only have some notes about that week which is already a while ago. So the text will not be in great detail.
It’s the week after HS and BC and I’m very motivated to apply the new things I’ve learned. Didn’t go out on Mon because Monday is FB day ;-) Tue I’m kind of destroyed cuz I’m sleep deprived.


Wednesday:
Yeah, first day out after Munich in full “perfection” style of glory (props to Julien; means full sober). Do you know the problem of not opening the first possible set, then rationalizing it, and not opening the second etc.? I have developed the habit to do an unstifling exercise and scream “EEEEEEEEEYYYOOOOOOO” (props to Tyler) right after leaving my flat. This reminds me that I’m not going to get killed and kind of triggers an anchor that it’s time to have FUN.

Anyway, I’m fully motivated and open immediately after entering the club. After one “hehe, but no” and one fatty pulling my girl away the third set (2HB7 set) goes very well, so my wing Zonk joins in. After Zonk engages my target instead of really winging me I scream “SWITCH”. The girls could hear it and tried to shit test me about it. It was hilarious because I just said “Yeah, I just said that” and continued talking to my target. Practiced self amusement hardcore. I really was enjoying myself while talking random thoughts that popped into my head, not waiting for her reactions – whole new experience!

Because this was only the third set and I sensed hotter girls there I ejected to check out the dancefloor area. I already was in state at this point so I went in hard core (like Tylers “Hey, you – come here!”) – felt the initial attraction but didn’t go for instant makeouts – STUPID! This is an old sticking point of mine that I often wait at least for a little IOI – like open hard, get right into her face and stop an inch in front of her mouth waiting for a little IOI. After me pulling back I’m kind of confused what to do next: PUFF, gone.

DAMNIT, I have to get this handled!

Anyways, next thing I know is that I reopened the 2set from before. It was going smooth but then they had to leave. So I went for the number. This is no big deal for me anymore and normally I simply get the number. So when a girl every now and then says No its kind of outside my reality and I say stuff like “what do you mean with no? so you have xxx prefix or what? Don’t be ashamed to have this shitty provider. Vomit, Vomit, Vomit”. Finally got the Nr.

Conclusion:
-was in set almost all the time – good
-opened hard, self amused myself and didn’t care about the reactions – good
-was hesitating on instant makeouts – damnit!


Thursday:
Unstifling EEEEYOOO and here we go. Feel great inside my body. Open immediately after entering the club. Every set pushes my state. It really doesn’t matter what the reaction is – I like it!

Then open a TV actor. Haha that’s funny and good practice. He is out with 2 friends. One hot girl and one full chode with long hair and a beer holding at his chest. I really like this dude so I talk to him a little bit. All 3 turn into spectator mode immediately. I lead the whole conversation. Nice!

I’m in state – ha, like it.

Then open a brunette HB9. It is on. Good convo (means me talking stuff that I like to talk about fully amusing myself; she likes it too cuz of the law of state transference), escalation, a little sexual talk. Then try to move her to another floor. Nogo. Why’s that? Cuz her friend has is celebrating her birthday. My only thought is: LEAD. Boom, open the birthday girl hard. She’s a stewardess. Good convo and slight escalation, get another girl into the convo. I can sense that she is down for the makeout. But because I want the other girl I hesitate to do it (meanwhile I think I just have gone for it). After seeing my brunette HB9 kind of bored I go back to her and go again for the move to the other area. Nogo. Damnit! Ok, then let’s build a little bit more rapport. Go for the makeout. Nogo. So, what to do next? I just grab her, lift her up and carry her to the dancefloor. Then go for the makeout like 5 times. Nogo. WTF? Since I’m not reacting to her and cool with it she’s cool too. Then get her number and get her back to her friends.

It’s late. So Zonk and me are leaving. At the wardrobe Zonk reopens a set from before. 2 HB9 girls. We leave the venue together. One girl has a BF. Find out that we have nearly the same way home. Some talking. We say “C’mon, Let’s walk” (to have time to build rapport). But their feet are hurting bad because of the high heels they’re wearing. We “Ok, let’s share a cab”. Invite them for an afterparty at our place. “No, we’re not going to your place. BUT, you can come to our place” (they live together). BINGO. After entering their flat I drink my first drink of the night at their kitchen. Then I say “Show me your flat”. One girl shows her room. While sitting down on her bed I say “I bought mattress a few weeks ago. Vomit, Vomit, Vomit, …”. They join. Zonk joins. I place myself between the 2 of them. Vomiting around. I tried to close the single girl (always with a smile ;-) )with

1. pulling her in (the claw) and go for the kiss – didn’t work
2. pushing her away and go for the kiss – didn’t work
3. “fighting” with her on the bed and go for the kiss – didn’t work
4. Talking BS that was self amusing and go for the kiss – didn’t work
IMO the girl with the BF didn’t give any social pressure on the other one.

GUYS, any input on that?

After that Zonk and I go home. No happy ending for this night ;-)

Conclusion:
-was in set almost all the time – good
-opened hard, self amused myself and didn’t care about the reactions – good
-went for the makeout several times while not being reactive to her response – good
-managed to get back to their place (one further step to glory) – good


Friday:
Unstifling EEEEYOOO and here we go. After warming up at our fav. bar with Zonk and taking some numbers we’re not sure where to go that night. Arrive at the first venue. Almost empty. Hesitate a little bit to open (definitely a sticking point – if a venue is almost empty I struggle to open because almost all people can see it). Then opened a few sets and decided to change venue.

After some warm-ups there open a HB10 blonde (perfect body, perfect face). Again, I’m just vomiting around while amusing myself, slight escalation. Move her to the dancefloor. Some dancing. Get right into her face but wait again for a little IOI (DAMNIT, again. I’m glad that Julien is not here. Otherwise he would have pointed with the finger at me and would have said “Permission Boy” – I hate that word). While I was going to initiate an afterparty thread she says that her drunken friend which is sleeping at her place needs to be taken care of. Damnit, so I get the number.

Conclusion:
-was hesitating to open in an empty venue (cuz everyone could see me) – damnit!
-opened a HB10 without “A game” - First time I was just self amusing myself at a HB10 – good!
-hesitated to go for the makeout on HB10 – damnit!


Saturday:
Unstifling and warming up at our fav. bar with Zonk. Maybe took some numbers (I cannot remember).

Changing venue. Some sets, not really going anywhere (i cannot remember the details).

Then afterparty at Zonks place. Besides Zonk and myself, 2 lesbians and a old friend of mine join the afterparty. Was expecting a good group dynamics hehe. So we arrive at Zonks place. The lesbians make out, then I make out with one of the lesbians. Zonk tries to make out with the other lesbian. After that the 2nd lesbian gets pissed. Shit. Then Zonk makes out with my old friend. Since the 2nd lesbian is a party pooper and I’m not attracted to my old friend I go home while Zonk pulls her into his bedroom to fclose her. Good boy!

Conclusion:
-strong frame control to initiate the afterparty – good
-wasn’t able to positively reframe the 2nd lesbian that she is down for “group dynamics” – damnit!

So guys, that’s it for the first week. Would like to hear any feedback from you concerning
-the pull on Thursday (wasn’t able to close the girl even though we were already lying in bed and I tried it several times).
-the lesbian party pooper on Saturday (how to reframe her not getting pissed cuz I made out with her “GF”)

See you guys!
Mountaineer
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CBAABC

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Who da fuark is Zonk? :D

Thursday night...I had 2 pulls like that. 1st went to their place, tried to kiss, no go. 2nd pull at the end of the night pull 2 girls to mine...

My suggestion is to read Physical rapport article by Alexander on his blog. Beastmode is recommended for screening dtf girls at the end of the night.

Or you can try Alex' trick on pulls: "leave the club with her" then you are not too Physical so the friends dont cockblock.


So either go very physical or try leaving clubs with the girl with not much physicality.

Cheers
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Dr Feelgood

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EEEEEEEE-YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

It was about time to start that journal! Welcome to the world of the FR threads, where every post counts and you ask yourself frequently if it's worthy your time. But get feedback from great guys. Like myself.

I especially love that relentless self-amusement and illogicality you are pulling off.

Good game! 
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Yeah, so you went out again for nightgame on THU - nice! No more numbers but you went for the pull - i like it!

We pulled them "leave the club with her" style. So therefore we did it already this way.
But i will check out Alexanders article!

Cheers Bro!

PS: You already know Zonk from Vienna. I think it was at Volksgarten. He is now fighting to get a password for his RSDN User. But Stu is already entrusted with it.

ChinaBoy~ wrote:
Who da fuark is Zonk? :D

Thursday night...I had 2 pulls like that. 1st went to their place, tried to kiss, no go. 2nd pull at the end of the night pull 2 girls to mine...

My suggestion is to read Physical rapport article by Alexander on his blog. Beastmode is recommended for screening dtf girls at the end of the night.

Or you can try Alex' trick on pulls: "leave the club with her" then you are not too Physical so the friends dont cockblock.


So either go very physical or try leaving clubs with the girl with not much physicality.

Cheers
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Mountaineer-~

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EEEYYOOO Bro!
Yeah, self amusement of GLORY!
Will keep it short and simple - not "wasting" too much time for every detail...
Cheers!

Dr Feelgood wrote:
EEEEEEEE-YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

It was about time to start that journal! Welcome to the world of the FR threads, where every post counts and you ask yourself frequently if it's worthy your time. But get feedback from great guys. Like myself.

I especially love that relentless self-amusement and illogicality you are pulling off.

Good game! 
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Mountaineer-~

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should have isolated her...
Mountaineer- wrote:
Yo!

For the 2 on 2 try to find a way to separate them of you're getting that kind of resistance. Take her to the bathroom or even outside for some fresh air just to get the kiss. The try again inside. Also try "fingering" her to "touching her over her pants" or put her hand on your dick. Lol sounds fucked up :)

And stop of course If there's any real resistance. You can also try verbalizing it "what's wrong" "why do you hate me" etc etc

And sometimes of course there's just nothing that you can do. The major part of LMR is how you structure the interaction beforehand as well. Set the frame where it's assumed that you 2 like eachother (man to woman) and its all just a fun lighthearted vibe.

Day2 her! :)


Julien

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Mountaineer- wrote:
Week 1 (26.03. – 01.04.)


Thursday:
Unstifling EEEEYOOO and here we go. Feel great inside my body. Open immediately after entering the club. Every set pushes my state. It really doesn’t matter what the reaction is – I like it!

Then open a TV actor. Haha that’s funny and good practice. He is out with 2 friends. One hot girl and one full chode with long hair and a beer holding at his chest. I really like this dude so I talk to him a little bit. All 3 turn into spectator mode immediately. I lead the whole conversation. Nice!

I’m in state – ha, like it.

Then open a brunette HB9. It is on. Good convo (means me talking stuff that I like to talk about fully amusing myself; she likes it too cuz of the law of state transference), escalation, a little sexual talk. Then try to move her to another floor. Nogo. Why’s that? Cuz her friend has is celebrating her birthday. My only thought is: LEAD. Boom, open the birthday girl hard. She’s a stewardess. Good convo and slight escalation, get another girl into the convo. I can sense that she is down for the makeout. But because I want the other girl I hesitate to do it (meanwhile I think I just have gone for it). After seeing my brunette HB9 kind of bored I go back to her and go again for the move to the other area. Nogo. Damnit! Ok, then let’s build a little bit more rapport. Go for the makeout. Nogo. So, what to do next? I just grab her, lift her up and carry her to the dancefloor. Then go for the makeout like 5 times. Nogo. WTF? Since I’m not reacting to her and cool with it she’s cool too. Then get her number and get her back to her friends.

It’s late. So Zonk and me are leaving. At the wardrobe Zonk reopens a set from before. 2 HB9 girls. We leave the venue together. One girl has a BF. Find out that we have nearly the same way home. Some talking. We say “C’mon, Let’s walk” (to have time to build rapport). But their feet are hurting bad because of the high heels they’re wearing. We “Ok, let’s share a cab”. Invite them for an afterparty at our place. “No, we’re not going to your place. BUT, you can come to our place” (they live together). BINGO. After entering their flat I drink my first drink of the night at their kitchen. Then I say “Show me your flat”. One girl shows her room. While sitting down on her bed I say “I bought mattress a few weeks ago. Vomit, Vomit, Vomit, …”. They join. Zonk joins. I place myself between the 2 of them. Vomiting around. I tried to close the single girl (always with a smile ;-) )with

1. pulling her in (the claw) and go for the kiss – didn’t work
2. pushing her away and go for the kiss – didn’t work
3. “fighting” with her on the bed and go for the kiss – didn’t work
4. Talking BS that was self amusing and go for the kiss – didn’t work
IMO the girl with the BF didn’t give any social pressure on the other one.

GUYS, any input on that?

After that Zonk and I go home. No happy ending for this night ;-)

Conclusion:
-was in set almost all the time – good
-opened hard, self amused myself and didn’t care about the reactions – good
-went for the makeout several times while not being reactive to her response – good
-managed to get back to their place (one further step to glory) – good

Yes i have input...the girl has to MAKE THE DECISION to fuck you....the best way to get them to make the decision is by putting no pressure on them....i.e alex's whole time is your ally thing....the way i enjoy doing is by expressing sexual intent that turns me on....i.e verbally escalating, giving more sexual looks....anything that will get me a boner. From there i escalate (not for sex but just for the escalation) but know that if she is not feeling it right then and there she will be in a bit. Its this kind of paradox of intent + freedom of outcome. If you do a good enough job self amusing in the club you will get situations where you don't really even want to leave but a girl will pull you out....or you will just be having so much fun chatting shit to her that even if you are in bed together and she doesn't want to do anything you amuse the shit out of yourself anyway and end up banging her or you dont and you go to sleep but you wake up in the middle of the nigth with a boner and end up doing her then or in the morning. The sex is inevitable so relax it will happen when it happens. 

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ChinaBoy~ wrote:
Who da fuark is Zonk? :D

Hey! That's me! 
You know me from Vienna and Munich, I'm the guy with the strong accent. ;)
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thx for the input pringles!
pringles wrote:

Mountaineer- wrote:

Yes i have input...the girl has to MAKE THE DECISION to fuck you....the best way to get them to make the decision is by putting no pressure on them....i.e alex's whole time is your ally thing....the way i enjoy doing is by expressing sexual intent that turns me on....i.e verbally escalating, giving more sexual looks....anything that will get me a boner. From there i escalate (not for sex but just for the escalation) but know that if she is not feeling it right then and there she will be in a bit. Its this kind of paradox of intent + freedom of outcome. If you do a good enough job self amusing in the club you will get situations where you don't really even want to leave but a girl will pull you out....or you will just be having so much fun chatting shit to her that even if you are in bed together and she doesn't want to do anything you amuse the shit out of yourself anyway and end up banging her or you dont and you go to sleep but you wake up in the middle of the nigth with a boner and end up doing her then or in the morning. The sex is inevitable so relax it will happen when it happens. 

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Dude, finally you made it into the forum! after one week of struggling with your RSDN pwd.
I had the same slogan back in my chode days. funny, that although I had this slogan I NEVER really DID IT...

Zonk wrote:

ChinaBoy~ wrote:
Who da fuark is Zonk? :D

Hey! That's me! 
You know me from Vienna and Munich, I'm the guy with the strong accent. ;)
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